| 12/17/2007 9:28:12 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
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Why does it matter who dates whom.
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| 12/17/2007 9:33:34 PM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
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great answer kg....they always end up with lonesome anyways.....
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| 12/17/2007 9:36:00 PM |
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housecall
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
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this whole thing is crazy, and all of you are crazy for responding. I am who I am. I am comfortable with who I am. I will date who I want. I have dated white, black spanish, and italians there was no difference, and for the racist who posted he hates when white women try to act black I didnt like that commet. What exactly is acting black anyway. I am a very educated proud black man, and was very offended by your comment. to any who has a problem with it come and talk to me.
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| 12/17/2007 9:41:41 PM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
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housecall, you're kewl in my book, and i thank you for your thread...as an educated man, i apolgize i can't speak in an intelligent manner on this subject. but again, thanks...and happy holidays....
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| 12/17/2007 9:48:03 PM |
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daddy_s
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 27
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actually have had gay and black friends (my current crew is balck and have nothin but love fer them)..(though they hate gays lol) so i dont carew one way or the other......i just wonder why i dont see blacks on this or any other sight stand up when black males start some racist bs (such as scw) but yet you always have whites standing up for blacks......except the lastblack guy who said something....(ill put your name in in a min....housecall, my bad, just didnt remember your name.
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| 12/17/2007 9:49:40 PM |
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daddy_s
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 27
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its not about race.....its about the person........pease
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| 12/17/2007 10:39:44 PM |
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sweetgurly
Oak Ridge, TN
age: 34
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 You all have gone to far with all that shit there, saying shit that really is stupid. i hear a lot of shit about white people to just as blacks there some dirty white folk and some dirty black folks. this thread is posted because he wanted to post just like you all post shit, what is the problem with his post. and if you don't want to answer it then ignore it. white people carry germs just like black folks whites are no better than blacks or any other color for that matter. I like white and black people.Every body have a right to say what they want on here and i do too, but i see that some folks just shit!! i figure you just have to not pay attention to. I don't know who have the biggest d*ck or not and don't give a f*ck!! we are all equal rather some of you people on here believe or not. that is why the world is all f*cked up now because of silly folks having negative things to say  i don't give a dame who don't like what i have to say. f*ck you!! and who ever want to have something to say with you some people post has pissed me the f*ck off..
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| 12/18/2007 3:45:47 AM |
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crazygal7
Victoria
Australia
age: 40
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4 me personally I dont think it matters who u date black, white, purple, orange even pink b cos when it comes 2 that connection color or race dont matter I mean 'whitemen fearing blackmen dating white women'? is ludicrous ... if it does exist Im sure its an idividual thing I dont care who dates who so long as they happy 
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| 12/18/2007 4:12:53 AM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
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WTF Gurly? You mean 2 tell me I'm totin' germz? AH HA! Wait, are they white germz or black germz? HA, HA, HA!!! What I really wanna know is why if it'z whitemen n blackmen it's white (space) women? How in the hell did miss white thang rate a space? I can't vouch 4 this old whitey that sent ya the e-mail but, you're 44 yearz of age n I haven't seen any1 roll their eyez @ inter-racial datin' 4 a couple of decadez. After this thread diez out fire on up 'bout The Man.
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| 12/18/2007 9:06:56 AM |
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mochaflower
Indianapolis, IN
age: 67
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I think it is hard for some to really understand this question, or this thread, unless you have been in a black/white relationship. I've been there a few times, and this subject is one that has even been discussed by me and my partner (at whatever given time) as well as some other issues that people have with mixed couples. It's easy to say this is a crazy thread or whatever, but there are issues that come up in black/white relationships that are unique to the situation. And yes, some white men are envious of the so called "black man superiority" in bed.
Some black men make nasty remarks about black women who date white men. Some black women become extremely angry about white women dating black men. These issues will never go away. But I say to those who are thinking this thread is not pertinent, you have probably never walked in the shoes of the OP or any of us who date interracially. You find it to be a sensitive subject, so you dismiss it as irrelevant.
White men have asked me if black men are better in bed than they are. One even told me he wanted to date me, but was afraid that the saying "Once you go black, you never go back" was true, and since I didn't want to get married, he was afraid that once he got back dating someone else, he would want "only black". All of these crazy issues still exist. Believe it or not!!
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| 12/18/2007 10:04:58 AM |
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tecman
Manassas, VA
age: 48
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Pink! Pink is good on any color As for the rest, well "It Don't Matter"
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| 12/18/2007 10:55:30 AM |
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housecall
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36
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No one has said that it doesn't happen, but what I am sauing is who cares. I will be with who I want to be with and don't have a problem with what ever any one has to say about it. Most everyone here will say they don't have a problem with it, but when they see a interracial couple they make comments to their friends or under their breathe. The fact is we all have some sort of prejudice no maker who we are it is just a part of being raised here in the U.S. Like I said earlier I date who I want when I want, and if anyone doesn't like it tell me about it.
People like to say it doesn't exist, but I have shared this before and I will say it again. Once back in the mid 90's my wife at the time and I were traveling thru texas, and we stopped for gas. The lady there had the nerve to ask her who was I to her, and she hope that I was just the driver. Yeah it is still aroud, but like I said I don't care come to me I can handle the pressure. I love to travel, and have been all aroud the states, and once while in the southern part of Virginia I stopped for gas and to spend the night because it was late. When I got the gas I asked the lady where was the closest hotel, and her reply was "for you it is up the road about 2 hours" so yeah it does exist! We all know it the question now is how do we get past it.
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| 12/18/2007 11:06:40 AM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 39
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I dont care to each is own!
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| 12/18/2007 12:32:51 PM |
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mochaflower
Indianapolis, IN
age: 67
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Housecall; I understand exactly what you're saying. We need to let the subject rest. It will never be resolved. I date whomever I want to and don't care what anyone thinks about it. But when new people come to the forums, they don't know how many times this subject has been posted. I think they deserve to get answers when they ask a question.
I started dating interracially a long time ago, but for the young ones just now doing it, or thinking about doing it, they do have questions about why people act the way they do about it, and they have the right to post them here. JMHO   
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| 12/18/2007 1:12:59 PM |
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elfiegirl
Port Charlotte, FL
age: 54
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Okay...since we are on this topic and at the HUGE risk of being attacked...what if a person has never been attracted that way to dating African-American males...does that make them a racist, just because they have never "felt" an attraction? I mean I
really like...say...Reggie and Brwnsugar on here, I think they are smart and funny
too! I guess I just don't know...I have never been approached in person in that
way either.
Now...don't get me wrong...I have friends of many different races...and I love them
all cuz they are all so cool...just never felt it...I don't know why. I ask myself
this all the time. There is NO rationalization or explanation for me.
Yet I am most attracted to dark-haired, dark-eyed men. Go figure! And still...
I am not attracted to me with full beards either...so explain that one as well.
Please, please, please try and be nice because I AM NOT bashing anyone here. I
love most all people, no matter, but I sure would like an explanation, cuz I
sure don't know. 
Thanks for any honest replies.
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