1/5/2010 11:52:30 AM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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Ok so everybody knows that when you start dateing somebody theres certain questions you shouldnt ask them rite away. The queston I want to ask a guy is something I want to know BEFORE I start dating him .If I find out later that he isnt,,then its goin to turn me off and then I would dump him
I have a prefrence about any guy Im with.I like him to be cut. If he isnt,,then I think it looks gross and I dont want to be near it never mind letting it go inside me or putting my mouth on it . Becuase if a girl asks a guy that rite away then he thinks she wants to f**k him already and that mite not be true .So whats a UNshallow way to ask a guy if hes cut or not
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1/5/2010 11:54:56 AM |
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jammil180

Valdosta, GA
34, joined Oct. 2009
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After a few dates I'd guess. 
I'm cut BTW. (Thank god that was really early in my life!)
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1/5/2010 11:54:57 AM |
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badger_of_death

Houston, TX
50, joined Nov. 2009
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"Hey, Do you have a Bishop's Mitre or an Anteaters nose?"
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1/5/2010 11:55:11 AM |
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spicyhaggis

Scotland, IN
54, joined Dec. 2009
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i'm the opposite i find cut gross(and unnatural) but i just ask them straight out or ask them to get it out.
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1/5/2010 11:56:28 AM |
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looking4_prince

Twin Falls, ID
64, joined Mar. 2009
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why don't you wait and see if you do want to ??Isn't this putting the cart before the horse ??
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1/5/2010 11:56:44 AM |
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badger_of_death

Houston, TX
50, joined Nov. 2009
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The direct approach is always best.
The most refreshing one was a chick I was talking to for 3-4mins and she said...'Do you eat P*ssy'.
...Saved a lot of time.
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1/5/2010 11:57:07 AM |
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shoohornoplenty

Houston, TX
33, joined Oct. 2009
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You should just ask.
You can make it fun by trading nudes. Isn't that part of most initial courtships anyways?
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1/5/2010 11:58:22 AM |
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tootsweet13

Woodbridge, VA
46, joined Oct. 2009
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i'm the opposite i find cut gross(and unnatural)  but i just ask them straight out or ask them to get it out. 
HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! 
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1/5/2010 11:58:48 AM |
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yourfriendbob

Fayette, OH
63, joined Oct. 2008
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Just ask him.
Considering the potential payoff, most guys are not going to be concerned with your shallowness.
As far as a man automatically believing you want to have sex with him, pretty much every man believes that about every women, whether they have ever met or not.
So, no problem there...
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1/5/2010 12:06:13 PM |
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arkansasnman

Fayetteville, AR
55, joined Sep. 2008
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The real question might be, why are you worried about offending the guy?
If circumcision is (for you) an adequate reason to end any potential relationship, then he’s not too terribly important to you, is he?
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1/5/2010 12:08:25 PM |
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kinkycapitalist

Atlanta, GA
63, joined Nov. 2007
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i'm the opposite i find cut gross(and unnatural)  but i just ask them straight out or ask them to get it out. 
Then you suck the ones you find attractive a the OP will stick to the cut one's she finds attractive

BTW, OP, I'm Jewish and cut correctly.
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1/5/2010 12:14:31 PM |
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spicyhaggis

Scotland, IN
54, joined Dec. 2009
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 Then you suck the ones you find attractive a the OP will stick to the cut one's she finds attractive
BTW, OP, I'm Jewish and cut correctly. 
i do and she does
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1/5/2010 12:22:58 PM |
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settee_for_2

Flower Mound, TX
64, joined Sep. 2008
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Honestly, Akasha, I don't know that there is a correct or incorrect way to ask a man if he's been circumcised. I would'nt ask a guy you just met..but if you insist it is that important to you, then at least wait until he's asked you out...
I suppose my question to you would be are you going to be honest with him if he tells you he hasn't been? I mean are you going to say to the guy, "I don't want to date you because you haven't been circumcised and I don't like that"? And if he has been and you were honest with him about why you asked, do you think he would still be interested in dating you? (Don't answer that, Badger.)
It could also lead to him thinking it's okay for him to ask you personal questions. Would you answer?
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1/5/2010 12:29:17 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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The real question might be, why are you worried about offending the guy?
If circumcision is (for you) an adequate reason to end any potential relationship, then he’s not too terribly important to you, is he?
Look its a f**kin prefrence ok? Its part of atraction and it is what it is. If you read my post all the way you would notise that it said that I want to ask a guy this queston BEFORE I start dating him and gettin serous with him .BEFORE it even gets to t he relationship stage.Is that clear enuf for you ?
Bagder you mean to tell me if after talkin to a guy for only a hour or 2 that its cool for me to ask him if hes cut ? I never done that before and dont know if I could to chickenshit I guess. Bob I see what your sayin but I was meaning that if I asked a guy that qeustion straght up he mite think that way even more
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1/5/2010 12:35:36 PM |
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jammil180

Valdosta, GA
34, joined Oct. 2009
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Just state I don't have sex with uncut guys. You'll get your answer and you won't lead him on if he doesn't make the "cut"
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1/5/2010 12:36:09 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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Honestly, Akasha, I don't know that there is a correct or incorrect way to ask a man if he's been circumcised. I would'nt ask a guy you just met..but if you insist it is that important to you, then at least wait until he's asked you out...
I suppose my question to you would be are you going to be honest with him if he tells you he hasn't been? I mean are you going to say to the guy, "I don't want to date you because you haven't been circumcised and I don't like that"? And if he has been and you were honest with him about why you asked, do you think he would still be interested in dating you? (Don't answer that, Badger.)
It could also lead to him thinking it's okay for him to ask you personal questions. Would you answer?
Yea I would be honest with him totally. And yea a guy being cut is important to me.I would rather hurt his feelings now then hurt them later if I find out hes not cut .If hes not intrested in dating me just becuase I asked him that personel question then thats cool its his choice
I wuold answer any personel queston a guy asked me if it was realy important to him. I"m a very blunt person but I dont like to hurt ppls feelings so thats what makes it tuff
Kinker I only have 1 word to ask you since you ansered my question,,,,,,,,,girth ?
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1/5/2010 12:37:50 PM |
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garyguitar01

Franklin, NJ
61, joined Sep. 2009
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Why don't you just date Jewish men? They're all circumcised. Then you don't have to worry about offending them or looking like a slut!!  
BTW, is your clitoris hooded or free?
[Edited 1/5/2010 12:38:33 PM ]
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1/5/2010 12:39:36 PM |
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arkansasnman

Fayetteville, AR
55, joined Sep. 2008
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Quote from akasha__:
Look its a f**kin prefrence ok? Its part of atraction and it is what it is. If you read my post all the way you would notise that it said that I want to ask a guy this queston BEFORE I start dating him and gettin serous with him .BEFORE it even gets to t he relationship stage.Is that clear enuf for you ?
Okay, perhaps I wasn't clear enough in what I was inferring.
Either you want a relationship or not.
If you don't, then do whatever your skanky a** desires to his penis and don't worry about it.
If you do, then I'd suggest you reprioritize your preferences. If circumcision (or lack of it) is a deal breaker for you, then it's pretty clear that you aren't focusing on the real aspects that make for a successful relationship.
I'm just sayin'.
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1/5/2010 12:44:04 PM |
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iwuzjustsayin

Tucson, AZ
48, joined Jan. 2010
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Wouldn't it be also appropriate to try to think of a way to not come off like a tramp, while you're at it? The things people put on the internet
And anyone can take all of this that seriously?
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1/5/2010 12:44:45 PM |
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foxy_woman_49

Omaha, NE
59, joined Nov. 2007
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Just tell it right away..No point in wasting anyones time
If that is of such importance about being "cut" then I would make sure to speak up right away
No it doesnt mean you want sex right away or with him either
I would also ask what is he "into" as in his "sexually play" may vary from yours
I mean do you wanna chance hooking up with a guy that thinks having sex with his sister is cool?
Yes this world has gone very strange and you dont know unless you ASK and TELL
I know I want to know certain things right away before even considering meeting up
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1/5/2010 12:45:07 PM |
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leftarian

Hermosa Beach, CA
54, joined Sep. 2009
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Best thing to do is ask him over for a movie night. Throw on some European porn and then say, "Ewwww!" Watch his reaction.
 
Anyway it's good to get it out in the open early. Hell, if he likes you enough, maybe he'll even take care of the problem. 
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1/5/2010 12:48:42 PM |
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goodman4sum1

Reading, PA
49, joined Oct. 2009
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Just save time and put it right in your profile.
Nobody will be offended, and F them if they are.
But you may cause someone to get elective surgery just hoping they had a shot.
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1/5/2010 12:51:07 PM |
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foxy_woman_49

Omaha, NE
59, joined Nov. 2007
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being cut or uncut doesnt make either the better lover
Uncut looks a bit different sure but its function is the same
Men who arent cut are more sensitive..that is true
also it is very natural to be Uncut
studies have been done and now medically there is no need to perform a circumcision
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1/5/2010 12:52:49 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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Why don't you just date Jewish men? They're all circumcised. Then you don't have to worry about offending them or looking like a slut!!  
BTW, is your clitoris hooded or free?
Becuase I dont date a guy based on what religon he is . Yea I dont want to offend ppl or hurt there feelings if I can help it.Its just the way I am. So if me askin a guy if hes cut or not makes me look like a slut,,then you must think any girl looks like a slut if she asks about f**kin you or suckin your d*ck right ? Your last question shows what a a**hole you are .Good luck with that grandpa
Jammil I like the way you worded that. It sounds respectful without hurtin somebodys feelings
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1/5/2010 12:54:07 PM |
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leftarian

Hermosa Beach, CA
54, joined Sep. 2009
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being cut or uncut doesnt make either the better lover
Uncut looks a bit different sure but its function is the same
Men who arent cut are more sensitive..that is true
also it is very natural to be Uncut
studies have been done and now medically there is no need to perform a circumcision
More sensitive? Damn! If it were any more sensitive, I'd never get out the door. 
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1/5/2010 12:57:48 PM |
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iwuzjustsayin

Tucson, AZ
48, joined Jan. 2010
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goodman4sum1: Just save time and put it right in your profile.
Nobody will be offended, and F them if they are.
I do think that is probably the most logical solution, at least as far as those you would meet over the internet. Good luck, and, uh happy hunting? 
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1/5/2010 12:59:17 PM |
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beachingirl

Stone Harbor, NJ
59, joined Jan. 2008
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"Hey, Do you have a Bishop's Mitre or an Anteaters nose?"
This seems to be the least shallow way to approach this so far 
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1/5/2010 1:00:06 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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Quote from akasha__:
Look its a f**kin prefrence ok? Its part of atraction and it is what it is. If you read my post all the way you would notise that it said that I want to ask a guy this queston BEFORE I start dating him and gettin serous with him .BEFORE it even gets to t he relationship stage.Is that clear enuf for you ?
Okay, perhaps I wasn't clear enough in what I was inferring.
Either you want a relationship or not.
If you don't, then do whatever your skanky a** desires to his penis and don't worry about it.
If you do, then I'd suggest you reprioritize your preferences. If circumcision (or lack of it) is a deal breaker for you, then it's pretty clear that you aren't focusing on the real aspects that make for a successful relationship.
I'm just sayin'.
So its ok for a guy to only want to date girls with big tits or a tite p*ssy but its not ok for a girl to want to date a guy whose cut ? Its called having prefernces. Dateing and having a relatonship is made up of lots of stuff. Sexual atraction is one of those things. If you think Im a skanky a** for having a prefrence then I guess that makes you a d*ckhead for having a double standard 
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1/5/2010 1:00:54 PM |
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spicyhaggis

Scotland, IN
54, joined Dec. 2009
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being cut or uncut doesnt make either the better lover
Uncut looks a bit different sure but its function is the same
Men who arent cut are more sensitive..that is true
also it is very natural to be Uncut
studies have been done and now medically there is no need to perform a circumcision
   
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1/5/2010 1:06:57 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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Wouldn't it be also appropriate to try to think of a way to not come off like a tramp, while you're at it? The things people put on the internet
And anyone can take all of this that seriously? 
Thats why Im askin this question here you stupid b*tch,,so I can ask it in a way that dont hurt there feelings or make me look like I want to f**k him rite away .So you call me a tramp but you dont even have a pic up ?? Fugly is as fugly does
Foxywoman yea I think askin rite away is the best thing. I just dont know how to go about doin it and so thats why I asked this question. I guess I could just put it in my profile .Whoever said that its a good idea
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1/5/2010 1:10:19 PM |
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arkansasnman

Fayetteville, AR
55, joined Sep. 2008
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Quote from akasha__:
So its ok for a guy to only want to date girls with big tits or a tite p*ssy but its not ok for a girl to want to date a guy whose cut ? Its called having prefernces. Dateing and having a relatonship is made up of lots of stuff. Sexual atraction is one of those things. If you think Im a skanky a** for having a prefrence then I guess that makes you a d*ckhead for having a double standard 
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Where did you see me type "its ok for a guy to only want to date girls with big tits or a tite p*ssy"?
Obviously I didn't; but if I did read a guy post that, I'd say the exact same thing to him that I said to you........ you need to reprioritize your preferences. If a “tite” p*ssy (or lack thereof) is a deal breaker for you, then it's pretty clear that you aren't focusing on the real aspects that make for a successful relationship.
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1/5/2010 1:11:19 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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being cut or uncut doesnt make either the better lover
Uncut looks a bit different sure but its function is the same
Men who arent cut are more sensitive..that is true
also it is very natural to be Uncut
studies have been done and now medically there is no need to perform a circumcision
I didnt say that uncut guys are better lovers. Its just the kind of look I like and that turns me on . Some guys dont like flat chested girls and some girls dont like guys who are uncut
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1/5/2010 1:14:07 PM |
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spicyhaggis

Scotland, IN
54, joined Dec. 2009
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I didnt say that uncut guys are better lovers. Its just the kind of look I like and that turns me on . Some guys dont like flat chested girls and some girls dont like guys who are uncut
erm.....and some guys don't like guys who are cut 
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1/5/2010 1:22:37 PM |
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brother_pablo
Chicago, IL
47, joined Dec. 2009
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Just f**ken ask.
For the record, your being so adamant about this makes it a "prerequisite," not a "preference."
Edit:
And don't worry about sounding shallow. Say it loud and proud.
[Edited 1/5/2010 1:24:07 PM ]
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1/5/2010 1:26:08 PM |
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iwuzjustsayin

Tucson, AZ
48, joined Jan. 2010
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akasha: Thats why Im askin this question here ..."
(as a new member they won't even let me post the rest of her remark due to all the rules she broke LOL)
And as I said, the suggestion quoted seems to be the most logical solution. My previous post, as YOU had already mentioned that such a question on a first meeting COULD give the wrong impression, you might want to figure out how to avoid that, as well as not wanting to hurt someone's feelings. Care to explain just what in the hell about that set you off to the extent of that lovely little show? An irrational attack like that makes you look very defensive.
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1/5/2010 1:28:25 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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Just f**ken ask.
And for the record, your being so adamant about this makes it a "prerequisite," not a "preference."
What makes it seem that Im being so >adamant< about my prefrence? Becuase I posted a thread about it ?Because Im askin ppl about it? You can post a lameass topic about mcribs thats got nothin to do with dating but I cant ask a question thats got somethng to do with dating?? Everybodys >adamant< about what they like about a person,,its called having prefernces mr taco.The only >prerequisite< I have about a guy I date is that he NOT be an a**hole
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1/5/2010 1:34:53 PM |
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goodman4sum1

Reading, PA
49, joined Oct. 2009
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The only >prerequisite< I have about a guy I date is that he NOT be an a**hole 
That narrows the field quite a bit, don't you think?
Might be a larger pool if you require a PhD in Astrophysics.
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1/5/2010 1:34:55 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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akasha: Thats why Im askin this question here ..."
(as a new member they won't even let me post the rest of her remark due to all the rules she broke LOL)
And as I said, the suggestion quoted seems to be the most logical solution. My previous post, as YOU had already mentioned that such a question on a first meeting COULD give the wrong impression, you might want to figure out how to avoid that, as well as not wanting to hurt someone's feelings. Care to explain just what in the hell about that set you off to the extent of that lovely little show? An irrational attack like that makes you look very defensive.
Because you said i came off lookin like a tramp for wanting to ask that question duh.So I called you a stupid b*tch .Bein a new member has got nothin to do with posting a pic or not. So before you start callin ppl names and accusing ppl of bein defensve,,,put a pic up and lets see what you look like hypocrit
Keep on callin me names and accusin me of shit and I"ll give you an even better >lovely little show<
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1/5/2010 1:34:55 PM |
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brother_pablo
Chicago, IL
47, joined Dec. 2009
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What makes it seem that Im being so >adamant< about my prefrence? Becuase I posted a thread about it ?Because Im askin ppl about it? You can post a lameass topic about mcribs thats got nothin to do with dating but I cant ask a question thats got somethng to do with dating?? Everybodys >adamant< about what they like about a person,,its called having prefernces mr taco.The only >prerequisite< I have about a guy I date is that he NOT be an a**hole 
Read your own words, little girl. I just answered your stupid question, gave you some good advice and pointed out the obvious. Don't get mad at me because you're proving your own stupidity in a public forum.
Go kill some more brain cells and come back to ask a bunch of strangers their opinions in an effort to guide you through your clouded, shallow existence.
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1/5/2010 1:36:29 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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That narrows the field quite a bit, don't you think?
Might be a larger pool if you require a PhD in Astrophysics.
Yea no shit !
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1/5/2010 1:36:30 PM |
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msbevzie

Oregon, OH
54, joined Aug. 2008
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Be Blunt and just tell them!
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1/5/2010 1:42:31 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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Read your own words, little girl. I just answered your stupid question, gave you some good advice and pointed out the obvious. Don't get mad at me because you're proving your own stupidity in a public forum.
Go kill some more brain cells and come back to ask a bunch of strangers their opinions in an effort to guide you through your clouded, shallow existence.
Yea but your answer had a condesending vibe to it and you f**kin well know it.You tell me to kill more brain cells and that I live a >shallow existence< ?? This from a guy who posts an offtopic thread about mcribs on a DATING forum ?? TFF
If you think my question was so >stupid< then why the f**k did you answer it?? Did you run out of mcribs or tacos to eat and you got nothin better to do with your time
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1/5/2010 1:43:00 PM |
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ripkin

Crownsville, MD
48, joined Feb. 2009
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<-------circumcised 
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1/5/2010 1:43:59 PM |
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brother_pablo
Chicago, IL
47, joined Dec. 2009
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How about you asking them if they know the English language and how to spell and if they know how to create a sentence.
Once that's established, perhaps you can then move on to adult activity.
I concur 
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1/5/2010 1:45:32 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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How about you asking them if they know the English language and how to spell and if they know how to create a sentence.
Once that's established, perhaps you can then move on to adult activity.
Because them knowing how to spell or make a sentence isnt important to me. My spellings not so good so I woudlnt expect that from anybody else I wanted to date .By the way why did you delete your other lame profile and come back ? 
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1/5/2010 1:47:58 PM |
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msbevzie

Oregon, OH
54, joined Aug. 2008
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I have NEVER as of yet seen a guy uncircumsized so I have no clue what it looks like probably looks like a guy thats circumsized with the skin pulled over the head?
Who wants to show me their uncircumsized penis?
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1/5/2010 1:48:02 PM |
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chucky_t

Akron, IN
69, joined May. 2006
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Just tell him up front that you have a little quirk, you do not like uncut men. He will take it from there.
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1/5/2010 1:48:52 PM |
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nunbttr

Middletown, OH
70, joined Apr. 2008
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Hell, just mention it in your profile. Admittedly, some don't actually read the profile first, but you could refer them to it before an actual date. Everyone has preferences that other's could feel are shallow. If a particular trait, or feature bothers you, then that is not being shallow, that is 'having a preference'.
Unless you can find a way to bring it into the conversation casually, during a date probably is not a good time to ask a question like that.
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1/5/2010 1:49:08 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
31, joined Oct. 2009
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Be Blunt and just tell them!
See thats the thing tho. Im a blunt person but I cant just come out and ask that qustion rite away. I think I'm goin to just put it in my profile the way another poster sugested
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1/5/2010 1:49:33 PM |
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foxy_woman_49

Omaha, NE
59, joined Nov. 2007
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I have NEVER as of yet seen a guy uncircumsized so I have no clue what it looks like probably looks like a guy thats circumsized with the skin pulled over the head?
Who wants to show me their uncircumsized penis? 
I have and it looks the same when it rises to the occasion
aka DONT put that in your profile ..No dont
lets see...bring up issues about circumcisions..that means you gotta learn a few things about it all the cut and uncut.
You could talk about how you feel if you had a baby boy that you feel ..Pro's and Con's
Casual talk is all you need and trust me you'll get the answer right away without having to come right out and ask him if he is
Tell him you have been reading on this topic and you wanna discuss it with him
dont offer up your dislikes with it as in being with a man until you know how he feels about it all
be cool with it..you first discuss it as in you have been reading about it...Thats how you'll gracefully get the answer you seek
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badger_of_death

Houston, TX
50, joined Nov. 2009
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Quote from akasha__:
Bagder you mean to tell me if after talkin to a guy for only a hour or 2 that its cool for me to ask him if hes cut ? I never done that before and dont know if I could to chickenshit I guess.
I can only speak for myself but it wouldn't bother me.
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1/5/2010 1:53:28 PM |
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brother_pablo
Chicago, IL
47, joined Dec. 2009
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Yea but your answer had a condesending vibe to it and you f**kin well know it.You tell me to kill more brain cells and that I live a >shallow existence< ?? This from a guy who posts an offtopic thread about mcribs on a DATING forum ?? TFF
If you think my question was so >stupid< then why the f**k did you answer it?? Did you run out of mcribs or tacos to eat and you got nothin better to do with your time
I answered in an effort to help you. I was keeping it as simple as possible for you. Now, I also react accordingly. If you read my original response you will see I said nothing offensive. So often the written word can be misconstrued. You perceived my response as condescending, possibly because of your clouded perception. If you cleared your head, you might be able to stay on your own topic and not be so easily distracted. It's ok. I forgive you.
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trueblue5ft2

Poplar Bluff, MO
60, joined May. 2009
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 I have and it looks the same when it rises to the occasion
Kinda looks like a hotdog that was cooked in the microwave too long
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ripkin

Crownsville, MD
48, joined Feb. 2009
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 I have and it looks the same when it rises to the occasion
aka DONT put that in your profile ..No dont
lets see...bring up issues about circumcisions..that means you gotta learn a few things about it all the cut and uncut.
You could talk about how you feel if you had a baby boy that you feel ..Pro's and Con's
Casual talk is all you need and trust me you'll get the answer right away without having to come right out and ask him if he is
Tell him you have been reading on this topic and you wanna discuss it with him
Yeah, but when it's soft it looks like an anteater and is unsanitary. J/S
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foxy_woman_49

Omaha, NE
59, joined Nov. 2007
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no its not unsanitary ... research it as I have
Its not necessary anymore to slaughter a man's Hmmm...d*ck
many doctors now wont just preform it either WHY is that?
research and you too will learn as I have
It is slaughter ..watch a video on it!
plz remember we are told many lies..but sooner or later LIES are Revealed
Its very natural and if it wasnt..The fore skin wouldnt be there to begin with
It is meant to be UNCUT
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yourfriendbob

Fayette, OH
63, joined Oct. 2008
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no its not unsanitary ... research it as I have
Its not necessary anymore to slaughter a man's Hmmm...d*ck
many doctors now wont just preform it either WHY is that?
research and you too will learn as I have
It is slaughter ..watch a video on it!
No kidding!
I didn't walk for almost a year after mine....
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msbevzie

Oregon, OH
54, joined Aug. 2008
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 I have and it looks the same when it rises to the occasion
aka DONT put that in your profile ..No dont
lets see...bring up issues about circumcisions..that means you gotta learn a few things about it all the cut and uncut.
You could talk about how you feel if you had a baby boy that you feel ..Pro's and Con's
Casual talk is all you need and trust me you'll get the answer right away without having to come right out and ask him if he is
Tell him you have been reading on this topic and you wanna discuss it with him
dont offer up your dislikes with it as in being with a man until you know how he feels about it all
be cool with it..you first discuss it as in you have been reading about it...Thats how you'll gracefully get the answer you seek
OK Foxy has YOUR answer Akasha...try this...
I haven't ever heard that uncut is unsanitary i've heard ya pull the skin back and clean it like anything else...
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kinkycapitalist

Atlanta, GA
63, joined Nov. 2007
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Bye, OP baby, see you next week with another profile.

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msbevzie

Oregon, OH
54, joined Aug. 2008
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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1/5/2010 2:08:41 PM |
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foxy_woman_49

Omaha, NE
59, joined Nov. 2007
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OH good lord aka..ya better remove that picture or your thread will be pulled
the fore skin adds more pleasure and better ease of entrance ..it helps to keep it lubricated too
If you pull the foreskin all the way back...It looks just the same as cut
The foreskin also protects the head
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