| 1/28/2008 12:47:32 PM |
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aboomer
Bolívar
Peru
age: 88
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Well seems like the choice is yours. Kids will demand attention. Either positive or negative. Thats where you come in. You can either be a role model and mentor, or teach them that violence is the answer. It would be well for you to remember the old adage, "Sticks and Stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me." The meaning, if you get all pissed off, get yourself a louisville slugger and go find a tree and wail the shit out of it until you get you anger out and done. And let them kids watch, and you explain that sometimes a person gets so full of hostility, and has to find a safe way to get it out. Above all understand that they are learning what the correct behaviors are for people at different ages. Remember the saying. Monkey see, Monkey do. Whatever you say to them, Like, Don`t do this or don`t do that. The only thing they will hear is, DO THIS or DO THAT. they won`t remember the DON`T word. Show them affection and listen to what they have to say, no matter if it`s just a bunch of B.S. . You be ugly to them and I`ll guarantee you that they will make your life a living hell. It`s really your choice.
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| 1/28/2008 1:30:32 PM |
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dannachanna
Des Moines, IA
age: 57 online now!
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There is no greater man or woman than the one who can love and treat another's child as tho he or she were his own...
verbal abuse, screeming in their faces and breaking their favorite toys, as one mentioned, is worse than a swat on a bum, but if a bum gets a swat, let it be the mom's swat choice, a man's strength is to much and dangerous.
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| 1/29/2008 9:46:28 AM |
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fatblack
Tickfaw, LA
age: 27
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thanks dude that was really helpful i dont listen to them much mostly running them off in stuff now we getting some help round here abbomer thats a plus man these women wana kick my ass dude why you think
[Edited 1/29/2008 9:47:10 AM]
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| 1/29/2008 9:48:54 AM |
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tupac78
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 29
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i think you need to leave her because ,if she is using the kids to check up on you then she does not trust you,i would get out while i still could and run as fast as i could!!!   
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| 1/29/2008 9:49:15 AM |
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fatblack
Tickfaw, LA
age: 27
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now dam how you like that you people been through what im going through i am strong as a ox tuffer than a bull courages as a lion sweeter than apple pie and humble as piglet so thats another plus lady i need to watch how i use my strenght towards them
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| 1/29/2008 9:51:17 AM |
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fatblack
Tickfaw, LA
age: 27
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yeah they look in my phone and i notice when im in the store they waych me watch other women asses and stuff the oldest one is a trip but i love them tho its not like they bad kids but like one said they trying to protect their mom i think so maybe i will run a lil later
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| 1/29/2008 10:39:52 AM |
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cjbaker
Decatur, AL
age: 38
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If my kids lived with me, or even when they visit... my girl-friend, new wife, finance'.. whatever you want to call them at the time - WILL NOT WHIP MY KIDS, EVEN AFTER MARRIED. That is a job for the original parents... I even have some family I won't let whip them for certain reasons of my own.
Let their mother whip them.. you just ground them until she gets home. That will work out better... I think.
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| 1/29/2008 11:19:18 AM |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 49 online now!
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Please just don't hit them...they're children and you have to prove yourself to them that you're there for them and their mother
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| 1/29/2008 2:13:11 PM |
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fatblack
Tickfaw, LA
age: 27
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WELL I HAVENT WHIPPED THEM IN A WHILE BUT THANKS CAN YOU GUYS GET ME SOME MORE ADVISE FROM OTHER PEOPLE THANKS I NEED TO LISTEN TO THEM MORE OFTEN
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