| 4/24/2010 2:51:30 PM |
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bbsxyflirt
Fair Haven, VT
35, joined Dec. 2009
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Every single man I have made contact with on any site are all stuck on this friends with benefits phase. I think it is bull! I mean if you have just got out of a long term relationship and you just want to play the field for a while I get it but why close it off at that? Can't you play the field and just see what happens? When you say that it usually turns a lady right off! It makes them think "ok this guy wants a one nighter or just a cum dumpster when ever he pleases....ewww" Is there anyone out there my within 10 years of my age who is actually looking to start a relationship? I know everyones defiition is different so this is what I mean:
Ask her out on a date (Dinner, movie, or some common interest like bowling)
Talk and learn about eachother if you hit it off(want the night to last longer) go for a couple drinks and maybe some dancing and see where the night goes. Call sometime the next day or two if you think you hit it off and say how much you enjoyed yourself and ask her out again maybe do something you learned she was interested in one the first date. And it doesn't have to cost anything it could be going on a drive to the country for a picnic. And this type of thing goes on until you decide to take things to the next level.
Any way I could keep going but if you don't get it by now or I have lost you already then there is no use continuing any one who is still reading look me up I am interesting and exciting to know. Give a lady a chance and some of your precious time and amazing things could happen.
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| 5/17/2010 8:53:18 AM |
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zaved_12
South Burlington, VT
49, joined Oct. 2008
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hi
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| 7/4/2010 1:03:45 PM |
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vtdancer
Brattleboro, VT
53, joined Jun. 2010
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sorry you got only one reply and a pretty lame one at that.
I'D like to know the answer to this question, as well. So far, I've gotten the impression that men on this site are only looking for sex.
What's up with that?
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| 7/4/2010 1:05:22 PM |
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vtdancer
Brattleboro, VT
53, joined Jun. 2010
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could it be the name of the sits? hmmmm.
perhaps that is indicative of the quality of men here.
if you're insulted, then chime in! Only the other type have the time to type, apparently.
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| 7/11/2010 7:02:28 PM |
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tigertommy1982
Burlington, VT
35, joined Dec. 2007
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I don't why your luck works the way it does, BBS, but I seem to have a lot of the same problems as you do except for me it inevitably leads to getting the response, when I ask "Can we do this again sometime?" of, "Probably not, I'm just not as into the idea of a relationship as I thought. It's not you, it's me because XYZ." There's only a certain amount of times I can hear something like that before it gets to be very depressing, especially when I go to the trouble to learn about a lady and try to be someone she can like.
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| 11/17/2010 11:44:59 AM |
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bbsxyflirt
Fair Haven, VT
35, joined Dec. 2009
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I am sorry that you have had such i bad experience also. One thing I would like to comment on is you should never take the time to become what someone else would like. You should just be yourself because if by chance someone you were changing for liked you enough to give you a chance based on what she saw then you would be miserable and exhausted trying to be that person all the time and not yourself. Then second you were comfortable with them and started to be yourself they might bolt anyway. You should make sure someone likes the real you before investing all that time and energy. So
"what kind of person are you into and looking for?" is a great question to ask. Not so you can change to be that person, but to see if you are for that person or if you should move on.
So I ask you what type of woman stimulates, excites and really interests you?
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| 11/18/2010 4:12:25 PM |
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vt_snowangel
Burlington, VT
58, joined Aug. 2010
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Wow Tigertommy, I think you should give this lovely, intelligent woman a chance. It is so hard to find a decent person and you will never find her if you give up. There are good people out there it just takes time to find them. Good luck and don't give up.
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| 3/7/2011 9:27:37 PM |
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kevat123
Montpelier, VT
25, joined Mar. 2011
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i am a good man looking for a real deal relationship . nobody likes mee
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| 4/8/2011 8:39:47 PM |
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too_nice_sam
Grand Isle, VT
36, joined Mar. 2011
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Im a real man and realy looking for a relationship. It seems there arent any good women left, its because of the way men have been treated that they dont want relationships. im just one of the stupid ones that still tries. 
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| 5/9/2011 12:42:32 AM |
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puzzle_board
New Haven, CT
31, joined Apr. 2011
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ok ill tell it like it is! we all have bad experices ,but what are you willing to learn from the last to make sure that the next woman dosent suffer from the last womans mistake. like for me loyalty is everything. the foundations of a realtionships are love, trust, and honest with out those theres no such thing called we ya dig
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| 6/4/2011 5:29:49 AM |
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gnarr19
El Dorado, CA
25, joined Mar. 2011
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I don't why your luck works the way it does, BBS, but I seem to have a lot of the same problems as you do except for me it inevitably leads to getting the response, when I ask "Can we do this again sometime?" of, "Probably not, I'm just not as into the idea of a relationship as I thought. It's not you, it's me because XYZ." There's only a certain amount of times I can hear something like that before it gets to be very depressing, especially when I go to the trouble to learn about a lady and try to be someone she can like.
Don't try to become somebody they like. Be who you are and have them like you for you; not somebody you're not
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| 8/17/2011 9:42:14 PM |
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babaganooch1124
Shaftsbury, VT
30, joined Aug. 2011
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Hello, I'm not exactly looking for a real deal relationship at the moment, but i AM looking for a good friend, with a possibility of a relationship down the road. I can't sit here and lie by saying sex isn't tempting, i mean who doesn't want it? But I've found that a meaningful relationship weighs FAR more than a hot night in the sack. So yes, there are a few of us kicking around, looking for something meaningful 
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| 8/18/2011 6:26:52 AM |
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3333macs
Montpelier, VT
52, joined Apr. 2011
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sorry you got only one reply and a pretty lame one at that.
I'D like to know the answer to this question, as well. So far, I've gotten the impression that men on this site are only looking for sex.
What's up with that?
mmmm..... good question and one back to you what is it you are looking for....beside sex
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| 8/19/2011 9:05:55 PM |
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vt_wildflower
Burlington, VT
58, joined Jan. 2011
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I'm looking for someone willing to take the time to know and understand me. Someone who is honest, open, caring and a bit playful. Money and looks aren't very important. If a man has a good heart he would be handsome in my eyes. 
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| 10/14/2011 2:31:00 PM |
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vt_wildflower
Burlington, VT
58, joined Jan. 2011
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| 12/8/2011 8:51:12 PM |
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sweetgypsygurl
Wichita, KS
35, joined Apr. 2011
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