| 1/18/2008 5:23:00 PM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
53, joined Dec. 2007
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First and most important: I sincerely wish to thank Dustin for developing this site and allowing me to meet and “Hook Up” with my heart’s desire. Having known folks who have tried and failed at the “Chemistry” approach and the “Harmony” approach, I believed that finding a perfect match was next to impossible. This site has clearly proven that wrong. THANK YOU DUSTIN! .....Hope I can repay the favor some day.
Update to profile: For you that don’t know, I have stood at the crossroads of my life and have found a direction down a path which miraculously opened before me, not apparent in the dusty wind clouding the avenues. I met V2 / Donna through simple conversation, thinking she was an old girlfriend by her photo and location. Before long, we were chatting and soon realized we were complexly twinned on multitudes of levels. It still shocks me the uncanny way we connect; the depth of these similarities cannot be explained to me logically…… From the “big picture” view of similar politics, religion, philosophy, etc., to the miniscule details in foods, music, aspirations, etc…….. There are very few things we do not have in common…. We are a perfect fit every sense of the word.
Simple words of conviction and wisdom : Reading 007Shark’s goodbye post the other day made me realize that this site has completed its course in my life; DH has served its purpose in allowing me to meet my cliché “soulmate”. As stated by Shark, this is a dating site and its intention is to allow for introductions in meeting and dating. The use for DH is now completed in my life, therefore, its time for Che to say goodbye. Long distance relationships are difficult enough in not having the luxury of being together when we desire; the added stress of continuous flirting and the possible consequences which arise from being hit upon has proven that my DH life has now passed.
What I’ve learned: You get from this site what you put into it. I have never misrepresented my opinions, my beliefs, my thoughts, or myself. If I could change one thing about Che, it would have been my approach in posting. Rather than goofing around incessantly in “Chat” and “Sex and Dating”, posting one liners and playing a small part of my personality, I would rather I had been a bit more serious and posted in other topics, but I am what I am. Unfortunately, I think the majority folks have seen a small part of Che’s personality as I inhibited the other levels to shine through but hey, I was never phony; I only and always posted what was on my mind. If I ever offended anyone, shocked anyone, or pissed them off, I apologize. I always walked the line, but never got suspended or bounced……….I am kinda proud of that.
My advice: Be yourself, always be real, and be honest if you are looking for a lasting relationship. For those that wish to play, you will attract players, for those that wish combat, the battle is always ready. Love is the most powerful force, universally extent in all relationships, be it for love interests or for community citizenry; STOP ALL THE FIGHTING AND TRY TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER! You don’t have to agree, but try to understand their perspective and how it was formed. A kind, sincere word is more powerful than a shouted insult.
My future: Having met V2 / Donna, I am now focusing on beginning our future together. I need to cherish this flower that DH has brought me, fertilize it with truth, honesty and action, and allow it to bear fruit to nourish a full life together.
To all my friends: I thank you for being there, helping me through some difficulties and lending a shoulder and ear. I will be sending out emails with my regular email address, please stay in touch! For those of you who wish more of Che, you will find me between the notes of a song, drifting with the moisture in the air, illuminated under the prismatic light of a rainbow….. emanating from the radiant brightness of Donna’s smile! If you want more concrete info, (lol), check with PleasurePirate, I’ll stay in touch with him for sure.
Wishing you all Guerilla Love, Guerilla Peace and a Guerilla DateHookup!!
Via con Dios....Viva la Amour!
Rich
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| 1/18/2008 5:26:10 PM |
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bonsaijoe
Vero Beach, FL
50, joined Oct. 2007
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very well put email me for contact info lets stay in touch
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| 1/18/2008 5:28:44 PM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
54, joined Nov. 2007
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Someone never learned how to do this.... asked me to do it for him! 
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| 1/18/2008 5:30:36 PM |
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hot007
Bryant, AL
58, joined Jul. 2007
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Damn che say it ain't so! I really hate to see you go but hey my man I am glad you found the love of your life and I wish the very best for the both of you, take care you will be miss by all and if you do leave check in from time to time and let us know whats going on with you.
Your Friend Jerry
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| 1/18/2008 5:32:39 PM |
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busymanfour
Harrisonburg, VA
59, joined Oct. 2007
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well well....congrats to you both....v_2 Donna...it was nice bantering with you! I wish you both the best life has to offer...
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| 1/18/2008 5:35:04 PM |
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stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
59, joined Dec. 2007
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SOUL!!!!!!!!!
Couldn't happen to a nicer guy.
v2...got your number. Tx away!
Big hugz for both...
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| 1/18/2008 5:35:11 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
60, joined Oct. 2007
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Isn't it great that inspite of the crap...good things do happen on DH... 
Wish ya both all the luck and love in the world... Donna stay in touch girl....
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| 1/18/2008 5:36:15 PM |
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goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
57, joined Jul. 2007
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there just simply are no words....godspeed....   to you both......kathy
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| 1/18/2008 5:37:35 PM |
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comes2please
Tyler, TX
38, joined Nov. 2007
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dont know ya personaly bro...But good luckto you both and glad that youve found what ur looking for in life...
wish i could write like that damn...lol..good one rich
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| 1/18/2008 5:37:58 PM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
53, joined Dec. 2007
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STELLA!!!!!!..................I could have been a contender, LOL
Heather Gold Busy.....Thanks!!!!......means alot to me
Hot007, YGM
Thanks come2please
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| 1/18/2008 5:38:32 PM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
54, joined Nov. 2007
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Thanks everyone.... photobucket is causing me problems.... I'll say more in a bit!
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| 1/18/2008 5:47:52 PM |
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jay0013
Saginaw, MI
40, joined Jan. 2008
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chesoul,i've only been on this site 4 about 3 or 4 day's,but u seem like a really cool guy,goodluck 2 u both, HERES 2 YA
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| 1/18/2008 5:52:02 PM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
54, joined Nov. 2007
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Whew.... didn't think I was gonna get that to work with the pics! LOL!
Wow, am I lucky or what?! This man has stolen my heart and I’m happy to ensure its safety to him.
I too was touched by what Shark wrote. After Cajun and Soul’s decision to leave, I knew it was only a matter of time for us too. The forums are fun and addicting, but they take time and energy away from other aspects of life that need my attention.
I’ve made some great friendships here. I will miss the chance to catch up with everyone in Klassy’s or just jumping into a thread to say hi to someone I haven’t seen in a while. I hope we can stay in touch. Just know that there are so many of you who have made me laugh when I needed it, lent a shoulder to cry on, or an ear to vent into that I will always be willing to do the same for you.
Busy.... my toes will always be yours! It's been a blast getting to know such a fine freak as yourself! 
Stella.... Hun, you can't get rid of me this easily!
Heather....  YOU really can't get rid of me this easily!
Gold... Your screen name says it all. Thank you my friend.
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| 1/18/2008 5:56:00 PM |
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stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
59, joined Dec. 2007
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SOUL!!!!!!!!
You are a contender and you won.
Donna, a dear...keep those shoes, darlin.
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| 1/18/2008 5:56:50 PM |
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castertroy
Belmar, NJ
47, joined May. 2007
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OMFG DUDE!
So much for light reading , but i am so glad you are hooking up with that "Nutcase"!
She is an amazing , smart and fascinating character!
I hope you have lots of fun and airmiles!
And try not to drink from "Ugly Cups"
May the Goddess bless the two of you!
Peace , my brother!
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| 1/18/2008 6:12:59 PM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
53, joined Dec. 2007
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Hey Jay, thanks brother........
Troy, YGM.......stay in touch
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| 1/18/2008 6:13:57 PM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
53, joined Dec. 2007
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STELLA!!!!!!!!!!!!..........Yes I did
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| 1/18/2008 6:14:59 PM |
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castertroy
Belmar, NJ
47, joined May. 2007
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No doubt!
We have friends in common!
Maybe one of these days we can all have coffee!
On nice looking cups!
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| 1/18/2008 6:16:32 PM |
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snowangel2
Charmco, WV
48, joined Dec. 2007
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CHESOUL AND V-2 I WISH YOU TO ALL THE BEST IN THE WORLD I HAVEN'T GOT TO KNOW YOU V-2 THAT GOOD BUT I KNOW THROUGH CHESOUL YOUR AN EXCELLENT WOMAN THAT REALLY LOVES HIM,AND CHESOUL WE'LL ALWAYS BE FRIENDS AND I'LL ALWAYS KEEP IN TOUCH,HELL YOUR MY BEST FRIEND MAN,BUT LIKE YOU I HAD MET SOMEONE HERE AND IM LEAVING TO JUST LIKE YOU TO GO AFTER THE HAPPINESS I HAVE FOUND,SO KEEP IN TOUCH DUDE YOU KNOW HOW TO REACH ME DAY OR NIGHT GOOD LUCK YOU 2.
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| 1/18/2008 6:19:49 PM |
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kgearly1021
Reidsville, GA
57, joined Dec. 2007
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Good Luck to the both of you. Karen
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| 1/18/2008 6:26:08 PM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
53, joined Dec. 2007
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Thanks Karen
Mountain, you know it
Troy, definatly........we'll plan it when V2 is out here.........
Still, someone has to plan a party boat trip.........I tryin to get Joe to do it
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| 1/18/2008 6:29:21 PM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
54, joined Nov. 2007
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Jay- Thanks!
Troy- Thanks? LOL! Nutcase? Who you calling a nutcase you teddy bear loving, puppy petting, panda sniffing, FAKE FRUIT?! And yes, I know the glasses are ugly, but it's hard not to smile when I drink just about anything out of them! We'll have that coffee someday soon!
Snow/Mountain- I wish you and Shadow all the best too!
Karen- Thank you! I'll miss your sense of humor in your posts!
STELLA!!! (I did it first!  ) I got special shoes, just for him. They don't leave the house! 
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| 1/18/2008 6:30:22 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
60, joined Oct. 2007
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I'm losing my stalker...   
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| 1/18/2008 6:30:30 PM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
53, joined Dec. 2007
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| 1/18/2008 6:32:27 PM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
54, joined Nov. 2007
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Heather, I promise to fill your regular email with my love!
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| 1/18/2008 6:42:15 PM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
60, joined Oct. 2007
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I am so sure you will Donna...
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| 1/18/2008 6:42:36 PM |
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sunshinewm
Cleveland, TN
53, joined Oct. 2007
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Che, V2, best of luck to both of you!!!!!
Nothing is better than seeing two people happy
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| 1/18/2008 6:43:00 PM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
54, joined Nov. 2007
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Heather- What? 
Thanks Sunshine! It's kinda scary how happy I am.... 
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| 1/18/2008 6:57:19 PM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
53, joined Dec. 2007
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Thanks sunshine........
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| 1/18/2008 7:13:26 PM |
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viktoriya75
Brooklyn, NY
42, joined Jun. 2007
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FINALLY!!!!! Finally you come out of the closet... This secret has been REALLY difficult for me to keep...
I am SOO happy for you two...and I feel so privileged to have seen your interaction in real life, outside of the DH. The way you two were looking at each was simply priceless...
Donna, girl...Remember, I will be in your neck of the woods in a few weeks again
Oh, and Rich....You still owe me that beer... ::signlol:
All my love,
Vika...
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| 1/18/2008 7:19:50 PM |
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cdqlive
Birmingham, AL
55, joined Dec. 2007
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Che and v2 yeah !!! Congrats folks. I wish you both the very best of luck. Wow still got a lump in my throat from readin yalls posts. Way to go Bama Bud..............
Later, David
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| 1/18/2008 7:20:45 PM |
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chesoul
Bayou La Batre, AL
53, joined Dec. 2007
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Vika, you are an awesome pal.......we'll do it soon, sending mail to ya
Hey Dave, thanks bud........
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| 1/18/2008 7:35:35 PM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
54, joined Nov. 2007
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Thanks Dave! I'm still more shocked than anyone knows that this wonderful man literally popped into Klassy's one day to ask me if I knew him.... I thought it was the cheesiest pickup line ever! And yet, the chemistry was almost instant. I guess it's true, love can show up in your life with no warning, when you least expect it! LOL
Vik- I'm sorry to have put you thru that, but you are a secret keeper beyond compare. I can't wait until we get together again! Keep these folks in line with your laser wit, woodja?
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| 1/19/2008 5:33:03 AM |
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sebzalive1
Leesburg, AL
89, joined Nov. 2007
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No words to be found... very cool
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| 1/19/2008 7:02:58 AM |
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bocky1019
Newark, DE
59, joined Dec. 2007
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2 of the coolest people here..I didnt get to know each of you very well but always enjoyed your posts.Wish you both the best of luck......Ed
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| 1/19/2008 7:42:57 AM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
54, joined Nov. 2007
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Sebz- I have admired your wisdom (and taste in sunglasses!) since I first saw a post of yours. Thank you, sincerely.
Ed- You are one of the good guys! You won't be here long, I promise....
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| 1/19/2008 8:18:45 AM |
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bocky1019
Newark, DE
59, joined Dec. 2007
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thanks alot V..
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| 1/19/2008 10:15:27 AM |
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sebzalive1
Leesburg, AL
89, joined Nov. 2007
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Thanks V... gonna miss ya both.
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| 1/19/2008 10:22:16 AM |
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italianlady05
Omaha, NE
62, joined Jul. 2007
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Rich and Donna...You know I wish you the very best. It's been a true pleasure to know you both and I am so darm happy for you!!
I just love happy ending!!
Keep me posted in our e-mails!!
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| 1/20/2008 5:34:43 PM |
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iansmom
Sarasota, FL
58, joined Jun. 2007
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Donna , enjoyed getting to know you, and Che, enjoyed your very funny posts, did not get to know you though,,,,Best to both of you...
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| 1/21/2008 1:37:15 AM |
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wildthing1
Saint Clair, MO
62, joined Jun. 2007
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my dear friend che....words can not say how happy i am for you and v2 at this moment, just know that the tears of happiness are streaming down my face for you two!!! che, you and i began a true friendship in discussing our problems with ex's and with life in general and that friendship has grown to be very strong in my soul. i wish you and v2 all the happiness that life can bring you two and i will always be your friend cuz i have you on my phone and in my computer, i will not invade in the happiness but be there as that smiling and caring friend that you have gotten to know. i love ya man!!!
v2 darlin, thank you from the depths of my heart for winning his heart and loving him, i love you as well!!
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| 1/22/2008 6:34:31 AM |
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smileingheart
Bellingham, WA
50, joined Dec. 2007
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v2 and ches i wish you both the best and congrats.luv you both
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| 1/26/2008 9:40:53 PM |
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charming_peach
Conyers, GA
59, joined Jan. 2008
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i don't know either of you but i wanna wish you both the very best life has to offer..i have always been told that love finds you as long as your willing to be patient to let it and i guess this is proof..i love reading about others finding their true love,it gives me hope for me..
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| 2/4/2008 9:11:20 PM |
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doink1962
Mentor, OH
55, joined Oct. 2007
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Wow , I really am out of touch! This is really good news to read! Che dude you were one of my favorites on here, you could make me laugh ,think and go what the f**k in one sentence! I am happy for you both and hope to hear more from you guys! Good luck with your future!
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