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1/24/2008 4:07:07 PM |
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bouquet
Temecula, CA
age: 62
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Bassman . . . would the outcome be different if you had conquerred her ? Truth ?
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1/24/2008 8:42:46 PM |
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nyerindallas
Frisco, TX
age: 49
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Hey Tara,
It doesn't matter whether it a first meeting or first date. A woman coming on too soon is a red flag. So unless I'm going after sex only, I'm pulling away from her.
I've never had a long relationship with any women that I've slept with in the first or second date.
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1/24/2008 9:36:05 PM |
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lee1951
Bellingham, WA
age: 56
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Nyer:
It is OK for you to go after sex but not OK for the woman?
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1/24/2008 9:39:51 PM |
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incredulous
Greenville, SC
age: 58
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Tara, if the question were addressed to you, how would you answer?
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1/25/2008 7:38:42 AM |
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tara_tx
Angleton, TX
age: 44
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Incredulous, good question. If the situation were reversed, I would take into consideration the situation. Had there been a lot of communication beforehand? Is the chemistry very strong on both sides? Was it a mutual wow that just progressed quickly, or did she push herself on you? Does she flirt indiscriminately with every man in the room? I'd be paying close attention to the woman's personality, is she self-sufficient, generous, kind, intelligent, seems well-balanced? Do her actions mirror her words? Actually, this is what I look for anyway before and after I have had intimate relations with someone. Unfortunately, I haven't been very good at picking up on warning signs that they might not be what they profess. Hopefully I'm beyond that now!
If you only have sex in relationships, and you're without sex up to a year between relationships (exception is, I'm now at SIX years, yikes, by choice, not by lack of opportunity) AND you have a high libido, then it's pretty dang difficult to take that "wait and see" attitude when you finally meet someone and feel that strong connection.
I've been extremely cautious since my son was born, which is why I haven't dated at all. I'd rather be single than chose someone that will not be a good thing for both my son and me. I don't think I'll be jumping in with eyes closed again anytime soon. Everyone's input has been great! You've affirmed a few things, challenged me with different points of view, and it's wonderful to feel the connection of minds and human experience.
Have a great day, everyone.
Tara
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1/26/2008 6:50:42 AM |
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michaelamortgag
London, ON
age: 48
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Lets get real here both men and women have sex drives ,they just mature in women as they get older and diminish with men as they age.some relationships are purely sexual and some are purely platonic,the best is when they meet inbetween.If you jumped my bones the first time out I would come back and see if we met on other levels as I would not let you "jump my bones" if there was not something else to begin with,get real there has to be some chemistry to begin with or it would never happen in the first place,we are adults you know.
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1/26/2008 6:56:11 AM |
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tara_tx
Angleton, TX
age: 44
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I like that attitude, Michael, thanks for the input!
Tara
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1/26/2008 7:36:45 AM |
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tndvdsgirl
Chattanooga, TN
age: 54
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Tara
This is one of the most thought provoking threads I've seen on DH, and I admire how you have handled the various comments. All of the contributors have responded in intelligent, forthright, thoughtfulness and I think it is because you have been respectfully open to all perspectives.
I love a thread with folks who genuinely want to learn and share their experiences. My hat is off to everyone one of you here.
Tara, I'll be watching for new threads from you, you could have a major following of the best people on DH.
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1/26/2008 4:14:17 PM |
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coolphif
Rosharon, TX
age: 36
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Well said easytouch
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1/26/2008 4:15:44 PM |
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coolphif
Rosharon, TX
age: 36
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I really liked this post...especially since I feel that I am the woman you describe...except for the sex on first date part.
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1/26/2008 4:32:47 PM |
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nyerindallas
Frisco, TX
age: 49
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Lee,
Didn't say it wasn't ok, said I wouldn't take her serious for a long term relationship. I had enough of woman clinging to me whether it's on the first date or after a month. But after the first few dates, it's a sign.
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