| 1/20/2008 9:06:55 AM |
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tara_tx
Angleton, TX
age: 44
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Okay, one for the guys. You meet a woman. She is not model perfect, but she is attractive and radiates sensuality. She enjoys the company of men. She enjoys intelligent innuendo and fun flirtation in a conversation. She is interested in what you have to say, and she has interesting things to share. She is self-sufficent and not on the hunt for a sugar-daddy. If she feels a very strong attraction on all levels, she may even jump your bones on the first real date. She is not promiscuous, is monogomous in a relationship, but you have no way of knowing this except for her word. How do you decide if the woman in question is slut or someone special? Are you automaticallly turned off if you conquer too quickly? If you sense that sensuality in a woman, does your libido override you ability to see anything else about her? If the relationship does progress, is it doomed to always be centered around sex alone?
Things that make you go hmmmmmm. Come on gentlemen, give it to me straight 
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| 1/20/2008 9:10:07 AM |
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mfpc58
Woodlyn, PA
age: 49
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I would have to talk to her, look into her eyes. It is most important what's on the inside. How she feels, communicates, likes and dislikes. It's how she feels in her heart.
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| 1/20/2008 9:14:30 AM |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46 online now!
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If she jumpped me on the first date i would think she is to easy and probablly does this with every man she may have a passing interest in.Its true she may really connect with me and just be a very affectionate person but i wanna know who she really is and if the connection is more than physical cause it wont last if thats all .
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| 1/20/2008 9:23:16 AM |
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tara_tx
Angleton, TX
age: 44
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Very interesting, guys, keep it coming!
Okay easytouch3, another question for ya. If you feel that sensuality in a woman, you're getting along great, and you're very atttracted, do you put the moves on her? And then if she is overcome by passion for you and gives in, still consider her as too easy and cross her off the possible "relationship material" list?
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| 1/20/2008 9:33:45 AM |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46 online now!
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Thats a tough question tara.I havent had the company of a woman for about a year now so if we did have sex i would hafto step back and find out what kind of person she really is inside .I wouldnt cross her off my list if i was really attracted to her but i would really want to get to know the rest of her befote i passed judgement. ie personality, lifestyle. emotions and is she truly a loving,caring person sorry tara i missed part of the question.Would i put the moves on her? Only if i was really feeling that kinda vibe.
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| 1/20/2008 9:49:27 AM |
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tara_tx
Angleton, TX
age: 44
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Sounds entirely reasonable to me, and what I would expect to be the case. Sadly, I don't believe that it is. It does depend on the intentions of the man as well. Now how would a lady judge that this scenario would work out okay with the man in question? Catch-22, really no way to judge until you get to know him first. And if you've "gotten to know" him online, you can't automatically assume you know what you think you know, you know?  Or that there is any real pre-established intimacy beforehand.
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| 1/20/2008 10:02:47 AM |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46 online now!
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Tara you just blew me away.You went philisphical on me. I do agree it would be easier to get to know her before we had sex cause all id probablly be thinking about is SEX [ sorry your right but im only a man ]
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| 1/20/2008 10:06:47 AM |
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uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 35
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SOLD!... Wrap her up.. I'll take her... 
Seriously though.. Speaking for myself, in that situation I would say no, the relationship would not be centered around sex alone...
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| 1/20/2008 10:24:34 AM |
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tecman
Manassas, VA
age: 48
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Well, If I was really attracted to her, I'd find it really sexy that she was open and honest about her sexuality. If the mood were right. I guess I'd be ok with it.
It's funny how things work. A guy is a stud if he has sex on the first date and a women is a slut if she does it. It makes of alot of unnecessary B/S.
I'd would be worried about the future or the relationship though. My experience has taught me that sex on the first date is really just lust. Then I have to deal with feelings of obligation and that crap.
I really, really like a liberial women. I'm liberal and open. Most people are not. It starts alot of problems in my opinion. I see nothing wrong with two adults having fun as long as no one get's hurt. But every guy is different. Being honest with yourself and the other person is the only way to know.
HTH
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| 1/20/2008 10:33:24 AM |
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midnight2005
Clarksburg, WV
age: 37
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Well this goes back to the old double standard. I can say that you can try not to judge her because she slept with you on the first date, but sooner or later in the relationship it will arise should he ever have any thoughts if you are cheating. (she did jump into bed with me on the first date)
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| 1/20/2008 10:36:47 AM |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46 online now!
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It seems to me [only my opinion] that men and womes on this sight really seem to over analize every situation.If i meet someone and i have an attraction to them and they to me im gonna run with it and see what happens if theres any problems they are gona surface soon enough.To many people are searching for that perfect person that they will probablly never find. So when you get an opportunity for love or companionship run with it .Dont be affraid to get hurt or make a mistake or you will end up alone.Maby that works for you but it aint for me.I was made to be loved. If this offends anyone too bad its the way i feel
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| 1/20/2008 10:40:36 AM |
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tecman
Manassas, VA
age: 48
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Well said eazy! If it's wrong, you'll know it. Then it a matter of choice. Do I ingnore it or do I say "Learned something new"
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| 1/20/2008 10:41:51 AM |
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markmeunier
Timmins, ON
age: 40
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Personally, this scenario would and never has happened to me, because I always wait three months before engaging in any type of physical intimacy. There is too much that needs to be addressed before the entanglements which will inevitably occur with sex. If sex were that much of an issue I would move on, because I would never enter into a relationship that had its basis mainly on the physical. Emotional and spiritual connectivity are more important for the foundation of a relationship, as they are with you even when you must be separated, for work or other environmental issues.
Mark
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| 1/20/2008 10:52:19 AM |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46 online now!
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Mark i never said sex is what i want right off with a woman.Of coarse all these things you mention are very important to me but you cant always control every situation that comes along.All im sayin is im not gona sit back and life pass me by while im looking for mrs right.
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| 1/20/2008 10:55:40 AM |
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markmeunier
Timmins, ON
age: 40
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Easy, I was just responding to the general thread not specifically to you. I would never presume that you were one dimensional, as I could only know a smal portion of whom you are even through years of forum postings here on DH. My words were just expressing my own personal ideals on this subject and I really never intended them as a smear upon any here or elsewhere. I apologize if my words seemed aimed at yourself or any other here.
Mark
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