| 8/15/2010 9:57:42 PM |
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heartonthemend
Waterville, ME
34, joined Aug. 2010
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Are there any men out there who can refrain from lying and cheating? Or are you all the same? 
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| 8/16/2010 6:49:34 AM |
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shawnee_b
Edmonton, KY
63, joined Apr. 2010
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Are there any men out there who can refrain from lying and cheating? Or are you all the same?
No we are not all the same.
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| 8/16/2010 7:48:05 AM |
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heartonthemend
Waterville, ME
34, joined Aug. 2010
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Well there may be hope then!
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| 8/18/2010 6:45:02 PM |
You cheated again? Really. |
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dougiem
Tucson, AZ
37, joined Aug. 2009
online now!
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Stop hooking up with douchebags.
Problem solved.
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| 8/18/2010 6:46:44 PM |
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mainebigbear76
Bangor, ME
40, joined Feb. 2010
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liars and cheaters belong on there own island.
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| 8/19/2010 8:31:25 PM |
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heartonthemend
Waterville, ME
34, joined Aug. 2010
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Thing is, it wasnt just a random hookup... he was my husband and the father of my little girl.... Pathelogical cheat and liar... Just so happens that I found out a little too late =/
Moving on...
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| 8/19/2010 11:40:48 PM |
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beckles4life
Lincolnville, ME
37, joined Jun. 2010
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Stop hooking up with douchebags.
Problem solved.
 if only it were that easy tho
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| 8/20/2010 2:30:46 PM |
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dougiem
Tucson, AZ
37, joined Aug. 2009
online now!
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It is.
Women, especially in this state, need to learn to wait for a quality guy and not just spread like butter for the first guy who shows an interest.
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| 8/20/2010 5:26:55 PM |
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revoked
Bath, ME
31, joined Jan. 2010
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blahblahblah
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| 8/20/2010 7:25:49 PM |
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heartonthemend
Waterville, ME
34, joined Aug. 2010
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It is.
Women, especially in this state, need to learn to wait for a quality guy and not just spread like butter for the first guy who shows an interest.
Not all women are like that... I sure in hell am not. I kept meeting the same type of guy here in Maine, so I met one from another state. And he ended up to be more effed than ever...
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| 8/21/2010 5:27:52 PM |
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dougiem
Tucson, AZ
37, joined Aug. 2009
online now!
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Well, shit.
That sucks.
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| 8/22/2010 4:32:29 PM |
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heartonthemend
Waterville, ME
34, joined Aug. 2010
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Ya no kidding!
But on another note... Moving on and feeling good about it  haha
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| 8/22/2010 4:47:38 PM |
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dougiem
Tucson, AZ
37, joined Aug. 2009
online now!
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You go, girl.
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| 9/20/2010 7:36:09 PM |
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chubbyguy420
Augusta, ME
37, joined Sep. 2010
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are you realy going to baleave anyone that says thay will?
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| 9/24/2010 8:20:17 PM |
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guitarmanjt
Cape Elizabeth, ME
27, joined Jul. 2009
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guys who cheat needa get out of the street
i hate people who cheat on girls i would never ever do that and i have never had a giorlfriend that has lasted more then 1 week
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| 9/25/2010 5:41:44 PM |
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starrfnly
Norway, ME
40, joined Sep. 2010
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i know how you feel my husband decieded he was in love with my best friend after two weeks and is having a affair. it sucks and here i am on here but i only looking to get to know guys no meeting for me until ive know them for a while. phone calls and chatting thats because i dont need this to happen again 
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| 12/19/2010 4:57:39 PM |
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bbdrums34
Windham, ME
33, joined Nov. 2010
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Are there any men out there who can refrain from lying and cheating? Or are you all the same?
I have NEVER cheated on ANYONE!
But I have been cheated on several times! 
[Edited 12/19/2010 4:58:01 PM ]
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| 12/21/2010 7:40:44 PM |
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eaglewheels1995
Buxton, ME
50, joined Dec. 2010
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Believe it or not, there are men who do not cheat and lie. I have been on the recieving end of infidelity and it sucks!
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| 1/11/2011 10:12:35 PM |
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northernnice
Limestone, ME
50, joined Jan. 2011
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I hate it when women ( or men too ) post stuff like this!
Your statement insinuated that all men are the same. I think it is inappropriate to generalize that way when directed at either sex.
If that is really how you think of men, it is no wonder you choose guys that do this to you.
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| 1/13/2011 11:37:09 PM |
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lowenbrau9
Windham, ME
37, joined Aug. 2009
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Yeah there's plenty of us. Only problem is we either don't "play the game" or aren't good at playing the game of flirtation and seduction. We're often what's deemed the "nice guys" which to woman translates into a pushover, a wimp, boring, needy, shy, etc. Even when none of those things might be true. All because a lot of us are genuine, sincere people who don't just want a one nighter and aren't skilled at flirting, seducing, and luring people into bed.
We're the ones that want to get to know you first, treat you like an equal, and be respectful. We can actually have an intelligent conversation, and want to do things with you besides have sex and watch the football game on the sofa every night!
We're also the guys that usually get "friended." Meaning the woman get to know us, but decide we're not challenging enough, or smooth enough, or one of many things that they say they don't want, but are unconsciously attracted to. Once you get friended, there's usually very little chance of ever being on her romantic radar again! And you only have a small time frame to spark her interest before you get friended! If you don't make your move in this time period, than you either just don't spark an interest and she never thinks about the possibility, or she considers you to have no balls for not making a move like she thinks a "real man" would.
Basically, seduction and flirting gets her interest. That's partly nature's way of courtship, partly human psychology. If you don't/can't/or feel fake playing the game, then you sit on the sideline, while listening to the woman gripe about how they can't find a nice guy, or they're all cheaters and liars or pigs, when there's an interested, decent, available guy right in front of them.
But getting back to psychology, woman don't really want a nice guy. That's why so many guys are jerks. They've learned this early on, and adapted to play the game and not be the nice guy that they knows will get them nowhere other than friended (It might be worse the younger the woman, but it's still a factor for all ages of woman) And statistics show it works! They take home the woman, screw her, dump her. She cries and says she'll never go for another one of those again. Then a while later, she meets two men. One a genuinely nice, caring, smart, legit man. One that can actually carry a conversation. Remember things about her. The other a player, a bad boy, a flirt, a cheater, etc. Which one does she choose to go right back for a try with? Usually the one that treats her like crap, uses her, and dumps her after a short time. He's more exciting. He does something for her when she thinks of him. He plays the game and is more interesting at first encounters than the other guy. She doesn't even realize he's playign the game. To her, he's just being himself. He couldn't possibly be doing and saying the things he does that's attracting her because he's learned the tricks of what works? That's lame she thinks! She's smart enough to tell if he was putting on an act she tells herself.
Then she goes back to nice guy and wants to vent and complain about how there are no decent guys. If the nice guy is up front and tells her he's interested.... It's too late! She tells him that's sweet, and he's a great guy, but either he's not her type, or he's like a best friend. (Best friends are companions and security. Supposedly the same things women say they want, but more often that not, reject when it comes to first meeting new people that truly could offer that. 
That's just the way it goes. Sometimes it seems unfair, but then you have to realize that's how it works. Even in the animal kingdom and nature. The most dominate, appealing, seductive, and determined male gets the mate. And he fights off and competes with other prospects. The one deemed to be weaker loses and doesn't get to mate.
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| 1/22/2011 5:39:43 PM |
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heeheeitsme
Lewiston, ME
42, joined Jul. 2009
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Wow, kind of sad all the replies to this. If you keep "hooking up" with the same "type" of guy, maybe it is time to look at YOURSELF, because those type of men are just being themselves. Anyone who cheats and lies is not doing this to YOU, it is how they live their lives. When you look at it from this perspective, thank GOODNESS for the lessons presented and learn them. The pickings are slim only when you are not completely who you are. In other words, be who you want to attract, ie: Loving, Honest, Kind, Compassionate, Confident, Hard working, Communicative etc and so on. Hope this helps. I am not giving advice, only trying to explain how I have learned to live the life I want with a genuine knowing that the guy I end up with will be the right person for me, because I am the right person to attract them. He knows who he is ... and I am just being patient, lol.
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| 1/29/2011 6:19:52 PM |
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pattwhack
Sanford, ME
36, joined Jan. 2011
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i have cheated before and when i did it i was trying to get laid i did it so the one i loved would feel what i felt when she cheated on me. BUT i just hurt myself i couldnt sleep eat or even look at my wife i was a wreck i told her what i did and why and i was still a wreck and still am. its been a little over a year and my wife left me and our son for anther guy but i still feel guilty. so just because you cheat doesn't mean your a bad person it just means ur messed up and need help
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