| 8/23/2010 8:05:56 PM |
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selstad
Hemet, CA
63, joined Apr. 2007
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Okay, I'm really wondering. There are some women who post profile pictures that show more than the normal amount of cleavage in their choice of clothing. That raises a number of questions. First of all, is this an indication of the kind of guy she's looking for? Like, a guy who's looking for more of a physical relationship? I certainly don't want to assume that if it's not the case.
I am not looking for a sexual encounter. Not that there isn't a place for sex in a committed relationship. And in such a relationship, I certainly would appreciate my partner having a sexy body. And of course it is easy for a profile with a sexy pic to catch my eye. So the next thing I wonder is, if I should write to someone with such a pic, will she assume I am the superficial type?
I hope some of you gals can help clarify this, especially those of you with the sexy pics. Do you want to hear from a wholesome, clean-cut guy? And if so, what is the best way to respond to be sure my intentions are not misunderstood, while still appreciating your good looks?
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| 8/23/2010 8:11:49 PM |
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
49, joined Oct. 2009
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WARNING!! "Nice guy" thread in disguise!
However, to answer the question, I've always been of the opinion that whatever is showcased in the window, that's the kind of clientele that will be attracted to the store.
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| 8/23/2010 8:13:09 PM |
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donajaii
Lansing, MI
48, joined Apr. 2010
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I agree. But, I hear there is a lot of bait and switch going on around here.
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| 8/23/2010 8:19:52 PM |
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sweperman
Opdyke, IL
51, joined May. 2010
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 unlike inperson on here they cant see us checking out the girls!!!!!!!
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| 8/23/2010 8:20:43 PM |
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carbonv
Faqus
Egypt
58, joined Jul. 2008
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Gotta agree with Horace on this one..
Advertisements are geared to the audience they want to attract.
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| 8/23/2010 8:20:54 PM |
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icuddle
Salem, OR
63, joined Dec. 2009
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It lets her play the bad girl, and attract the bad boy, and then b*tch at him when he notices what she is displaying. It is a mind game/control tactic.
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| 8/23/2010 8:21:57 PM |
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manifesting
West Islip, NY
57, joined Oct. 2009
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I think your over intellectualizing this, just ask them, have some fun with it.
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| 8/23/2010 8:22:33 PM |
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ldroftrollops
Goshen, IN
36, joined Mar. 2010
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Maybe that person doesn't know how to acquire interest any other way.
Maybe they are really proud of them and think everyone else should compliment them as well.
Maybe they are just top heavy and couldn't hide the damn things if they tried.
maybe, maybe, maybe....infiniti.
Here's my thoughts for the op, if your interested then email them regarding your particular interests and ask about theirs. See if you both have some common ground
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| 8/23/2010 8:23:58 PM |
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donajaii
Lansing, MI
48, joined Apr. 2010
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No it is not icuddle. It is her trying to attract men. Plain and simple. Not a big, thought out conspiracy theory. The younger or more immature they are the more you will see the boobie shots.
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| 8/23/2010 8:24:10 PM |
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keepalowprofile
Moose Lake, MN
54, joined Jul. 2010
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Just post up some cleavage of your own and see what kind of responses you get.
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| 8/23/2010 8:26:59 PM |
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
49, joined Oct. 2009
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Please....spare me the big tits. 
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| 8/23/2010 8:28:46 PM |
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ldroftrollops
Goshen, IN
36, joined Mar. 2010
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....And here we go again.
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| 8/23/2010 8:31:26 PM |
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wttychrm
Carrollton, TX
30, joined Aug. 2010
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Well I don't show ANY cleavage and I get plenty of emails...it's all in the smile, ladies..all in the smile 
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| 8/23/2010 8:31:53 PM |
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lhooks62
Moline, IL
53, joined Sep. 2009
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In my opinion it seems as though he is the superficail type..if that is the only women he is looking at. I may be wrong IDK...but is he reading the profile along with the pic..or just going with the pic?
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| 8/23/2010 8:32:13 PM |
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thebestman
Atlanta, GA
42, joined Dec. 2006
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Okay, I'm really wondering. There are some women who post profile pictures that show more than the normal amount of cleavage in their choice of clothing. That raises a number of questions. First of all, is this an indication of the kind of guy she's looking for? Like, a guy who's looking for more of a physical relationship? I certainly don't want to assume that if it's not the case.
I am not looking for a sexual encounter. Not that there isn't a place for sex in a committed relationship. And in such a relationship, I certainly would appreciate my partner having a sexy body. And of course it is easy for a profile with a sexy pic to catch my eye. So the next thing I wonder is, if I should write to someone with such a pic, will she assume I am the superficial type?
I hope some of you gals can help clarify this, especially those of you with the sexy pics. Do you want to hear from a wholesome, clean-cut guy?  And if so, what is the best way to respond to be sure my intentions are not misunderstood, while still appreciating your good looks?
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| 8/23/2010 8:34:25 PM |
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
49, joined Oct. 2009
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In my opinion it seems as though he is the superficail type..if that is the only women he is looking at. I may be wrong IDK...but is he reading the profile along with the pic..or just going with the pic?
For many guys (myself not included),
Big tits = WHAT profile??
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| 8/23/2010 8:35:29 PM |
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lhooks62
Moline, IL
53, joined Sep. 2009
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at thebestmans reply
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| 8/23/2010 8:36:50 PM |
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lhooks62
Moline, IL
53, joined Sep. 2009
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For many guys (myself not included),
Big tits = WHAT profile??
So very true...so very true!
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| 8/23/2010 8:37:05 PM |
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
70, joined Jan. 2008
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When ya realize what cleavage is a substitute for, it kinda loses much of it's allure.
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| 8/23/2010 8:39:08 PM |
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ird2u
Harrisonburg, VA
45, joined Aug. 2010
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I would suggest not mentioning them at all in your first email. If it's an attention-getter, she'll mention them first.
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| 8/23/2010 8:47:15 PM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
65, joined Dec. 2008
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WARNING!! "Nice guy" thread in disguise!
However, to answer the question, I've always been of the opinion that whatever is showcased in the window, that's the kind of clientele that will be attracted to the store.
Thats a good one Horace
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| 8/23/2010 8:49:37 PM |
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really_dude
Mesquite, TX
60, joined Mar. 2010
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Cleavage is a good thing...why complain?
Of course I am in the camp that thinks everyone should have a shirtless picture as a main picture...That would be so cool
It would certainly make for more interesting thread discussions.
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| 8/23/2010 8:54:59 PM |
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redneckhippy1
Sitka, AK
38, joined Dec. 2009
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I  boobies
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| 8/23/2010 8:58:04 PM |
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tommytomtomtom
Salt Lake City, UT
43, joined Aug. 2010
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Cleavage....... Helping men avoid eye contact since...... The begining of men and women!!!
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| 8/23/2010 9:14:35 PM |
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cowboyupphx
Prescott, AZ
50, joined Jul. 2009
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Well I refuse to show my cleavage...just the type of Cowboy I am 
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| 8/23/2010 9:18:26 PM |
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bzyberd
Pensacola, FL
62, joined Aug. 2010
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Good on you cowboy. Frankly, that "plumber butt" thing doesn't work for me no matter how nice an a** someone has.
As far at the cleavage pictures go, it's probably an attention getter or the sign of someone with a low self esteem issue. T hat is the only way they feel they'll get attention!
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| 8/23/2010 9:18:39 PM |
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wttychrm
Carrollton, TX
30, joined Aug. 2010
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Hmmm I'm feeling a little bad...I think I might pull out a pic of the girls at their best 
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| 8/23/2010 9:18:52 PM |
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keepalowprofile
Moose Lake, MN
54, joined Jul. 2010
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I don't know about the female profiles on here but in real life GAWD !!
I don't know what the rest of the world is doing but I hate to go to town in the summer.
The Gals around here are wearing low rise pants that are many sizes to small and skimpy tops so all you see is nasty butt cleavage.
I just can't wait for winter.
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| 8/23/2010 9:25:28 PM |
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cranky_geezer
Coram, NY
57, joined Mar. 2010
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Did someone say something about boobs? I like boobs and turtles.
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| 8/23/2010 9:28:22 PM |
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sweperman
Opdyke, IL
51, joined May. 2010
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 mabe the more cleavage==mor e-mails..........j/s
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| 8/23/2010 9:41:14 PM |
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josh_p
Los Angeles, CA
30, joined May. 2008
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Well I don't show ANY cleavage and I get plenty of emails...it's all in the smile, ladies..all in the smile
That's the point. Most women get plenty of emails as it is and women who show cleavage in their pictures get so many emails their inboxes would probably reach it's limit.
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| 8/23/2010 9:52:44 PM |
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rellynicegagurl
Acworth, GA
45, joined May. 2010
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Just say... excuse me miss...your desperation..oopps I mean boobs are showing
Men will treat you according to the "uniform" you wear.. if your "uniform" looks like something a corner hugger (hoe) is wearing.. don't be surprised when you are treated like one... j/s
save that outfit for the bedroom...
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| 8/23/2010 9:54:32 PM |
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lemuel77
Sicklerville, NJ
39, joined Aug. 2010
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Just send her a note. You never know what could happen.
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| 8/23/2010 9:55:04 PM |
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thebestman
Atlanta, GA
42, joined Dec. 2006
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Just say... excuse me miss...your desperation..oopps I mean boobs are showing
Men will treat you according to the "uniform" you wear.. if your "uniform" looks like something a corner hugger (hoe) is wearing.. don't be surprised when you are treated like one... j/s
save that outfit for the bedroom...
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| 8/23/2010 9:56:02 PM |
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donajaii
Lansing, MI
48, joined Apr. 2010
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Just say... excuse me miss...your desperation..oopps I mean boobs are showing
Men will treat you according to the "uniform" you wear.. if your "uniform" looks like something a corner hugger (hoe) is wearing.. don't be surprised when you are treated like one... j/s
save that outfit for the bedroom...
That is what I am saying.
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| 8/23/2010 9:58:17 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
57, joined Sep. 2008
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Just say... excuse me miss...your desperation..oopps I mean boobs are showing
Men will treat you according to the "uniform" you wear.. if your "uniform" looks like something a corner hugger (hoe) is wearing.. don't be surprised when you are treated like one... j/s
save that outfit for the bedroom...
Not all men,some men have a sense of fashion......
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| 8/23/2010 9:58:42 PM |
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broadcaster1
Dingla
Nepal
97, joined Oct. 2009
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Once upon a time I used to work with a bunch of people one of them let's call her Tanya.
She was a kind of...... I think lets say 36" chest
She went and for some reason had breast augmentation and increased the size to I guess 40"
She came back to work after she recovered etc and used to wear a low cut blouse to work.
Me being British and my boss being from Holland we used to look at her and then exchange glances.
We never said one word to her. So one day she comes to me and asks "why are you looking at my breasts?" So I said "I don't see any sign anywhere prohibiting me from looking at any direction and as I never speak to her I don't think it was against the law!!!"
Point is they display for you guys to look as to say " If you are successful in dating me this is what is on the plate and I just may consider dishing it out" But meanwhile don't dare asking or looking or questioning. Those people I have no time for but I will look as much as I like.
I must add we used to have a big laugh about Tanya and her motives for wanting a breast augmentation. It worked as some idiot at work married her.
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| 8/23/2010 10:00:41 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
57, joined Sep. 2008
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guess when mini skirts where in fashion there was a bunch of ho's running around.....
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| 8/23/2010 10:04:12 PM |
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donajaii
Lansing, MI
48, joined Apr. 2010
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That is a good point, Left, and same thought pattern. Not all women ran around in mini skirts, showing their assets.
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| 8/23/2010 10:07:09 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
57, joined Sep. 2008
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That is a good point, Left, and same thought pattern. Not all women ran around in mini skirts, showing their assets.
what a woman wears does not determine whether or not she is a ho,if it did there would be a lot of mistaken identities.......that would be on both sides of the spectrum...
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| 8/23/2010 10:09:02 PM |
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rellynicegagurl
Acworth, GA
45, joined May. 2010
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If fashion dictates that you go around with butt cleavage left.. will you oblige?
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| 8/23/2010 10:10:14 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
57, joined Sep. 2008
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If fashion dictates that you go around with butt cleavage left.. will you oblige?
only if it catches your eye.....
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| 8/23/2010 10:10:51 PM |
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rellynicegagurl
Acworth, GA
45, joined May. 2010
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what a woman wears does not determine whether or not she is a ho,if it did there would be a lot of mistaken identities.......that would be on both sides of the spectrum...
I agree that not all that show more than they should are hoe's.. just that they are dressed like one and should not be surprised if someone mistakes them for one...
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| 8/23/2010 10:11:22 PM |
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donajaii
Lansing, MI
48, joined Apr. 2010
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what a woman wears does not determine whether or not she is a ho,if it did there would be a lot of mistaken identities.......that would be on both sides of the spectrum...
You are absouluty right. In the fact that a person can not be raped based on what they are wearing. But, we cant help but judge.
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| 8/23/2010 10:12:07 PM |
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lotusfly0
Longmont, CO
58, joined Aug. 2010
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It plays nicely...
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| 8/23/2010 10:12:46 PM |
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rellynicegagurl
Acworth, GA
45, joined May. 2010
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only if it catches your eye.....
No.. but it could "catch" my stomach..
Not saying you are not an attractive man.. without a pic how would I know.. butt crack cleavage is just not sexy on anyone..
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| 8/23/2010 10:22:24 PM |
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ladyog
Erlanger, KY
60, joined Feb. 2009
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Alright and this is the last time...I'm showin you guys.....Slowly lifts up the bottom of her jeans....
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| 8/23/2010 10:24:49 PM |
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tommytomtomtom
Salt Lake City, UT
43, joined Aug. 2010
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Cleavage works for some ladies and others it doesn't
case in point...
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| 8/23/2010 10:25:39 PM |
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cowboyupphx
Prescott, AZ
50, joined Jul. 2009
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Well sense were all showing a little skin, I might (and only if ask) show my right elbow...if I'm drunk  Hey I'm kinda lose with body parts
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| 8/23/2010 10:30:45 PM |
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rellynicegagurl
Acworth, GA
45, joined May. 2010
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Well cowboy start drinkin cause I want to see some of your Ummm assets...
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| 8/23/2010 10:35:33 PM |
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tommytomtomtom
Salt Lake City, UT
43, joined Aug. 2010
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Since this is a cleavage thread...... I vote that the ladies of DH start posting pics of their cleavage just for the fun of it!! Come on ladies ya'll know that there's a little bit of a "Hoe" in all of ya!!!
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| 8/23/2010 10:37:33 PM |
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rellynicegagurl
Acworth, GA
45, joined May. 2010
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Hmmm me thinks tommy wants a little hoe hoe hoe with his bottle of rum....
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| 8/23/2010 10:38:57 PM |
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jammil
Valdosta, GA
33, joined Apr. 2010
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My barometer revolves around a smile and health. Not much else.  
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| 8/24/2010 9:27:17 AM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
55, joined Nov. 2009
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I figure they are proud of their best asset.
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| 8/24/2010 10:33:10 AM |
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rocket000
Suwanee, GA
58, joined Mar. 2007
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I've seen plenty of middle age women displaying their assets too. I think these "ladies" are setting themselves up for the wrong kind of attention. If they meet someone, hit it off and have a relationship, he'll eventually see her assets. Would she like her daughter showing her stuff for all the world to see?
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| 8/24/2010 10:52:20 AM |
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
70, joined Jan. 2008
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On my to have some Lab work done this morning, I stopped to get a newspaper, the woman in front of me was leaning on the counter, wearing low riders, yakking on her cell, as the cashier rang up her purchases, no tat, just the top 2 inches of one cleavage, took her stuff, turned around displaying the regular cleavage, still no visible tat. The cashier, (a woman my age), the other guys waiting their turn, we all looked at each other and just shook our heads negatively.
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| 8/24/2010 11:11:53 AM |
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turtledove4u
York, PA
52, joined Aug. 2009
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It's simple....
Boys like boobies.
Girls have boobies.
For attention girls show boobies.
Do I agree with the process. NO..but that is the reason. Later, the same girls will want to know why NO ONE takes them seriously. OR Why do all the guys seem to after sex?
Because...that was all that offered? My guess....
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| 8/24/2010 11:15:28 AM |
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pike_co_rfd
Keokuk, IA
60, joined Jan. 2009
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Face it, guys like boobs.. And if a female wants to show them off, then she's bound to get more emails. But some may not be what she's looking for.
Me, I show none on my profile even though my girls are a nice size. I figure if a guy is interested, he'll see them when he meets me. (covered of course)....
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| 8/24/2010 11:21:44 AM |
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cranky_geezer
Coram, NY
57, joined Mar. 2010
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Face it, guys like boobs.. And if a female wants to show them off, then she's bound to get more emails. But some may not be what she's looking for.
Me, I show none on my profile even though my girls are a nice size. I figure if a guy is interested, he'll see them when he meets me. (covered of course)....
How sad. And I was starting to like you....
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| 8/24/2010 11:46:13 AM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009
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OK, what's the consensus? I have pictures at the ready to upload once I find out if I should.
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