| 2/6/2008 11:16:49 AM |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 43
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I came here to mingle and get to know people, collect data, writing a book. Going to the bars to interview was tiresome, someone recomended, I was not looking but I thought ok so if I am going to rwite a proifle I am going to bring it. This is who I am this is what I want and I would love to find "it", Thought I did...or at least I let it in my circle of trust. Now I am hooked it is a great site, Now if I can just let the mean people be mean and mind my own business I will be doing great...LOL
I have made some amazing friends. I love them all and I am thank ful I met each of you.
U Rock
 
[Edited 2/6/2008 11:18:24 AM]
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| 2/6/2008 11:19:22 AM |
You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with? |
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bountyman
Carthage, MO
age: 47
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drummer i was just making a joke about the bonus question referring to--"you are just in the middle of the whole picture with all of us here and you dont need to be leaving yet because you have too much fun here and you would be truly missed"
YOU ARENT SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING LEAVING ARE YOU?
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| 2/6/2008 11:21:34 AM |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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bounty - YUP!!!
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| 2/6/2008 11:23:02 AM |
You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with? |
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bountyman
Carthage, MO
age: 47
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I WISH YOU WOULD PLEASE RECONSIDER--not only for yourself but also for the others that will miss you
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| 2/6/2008 11:25:13 AM |
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bocky1019
Newark, DE
age: 50
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sorry to see your thinking of leaving drummr..I only have one thing to say buddy..WHOOPEE..more women for me!!!!!..less compitition.. 
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| 2/6/2008 11:27:30 AM |
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silkpanties53
Baytown, TX
age: 53
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Drummer the Lady in Red will Miss you
OH no a Drummer Drama
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| 2/6/2008 11:31:46 AM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 60
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Drummer, did you find the lady of your dreams?
Wine
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| 2/6/2008 11:34:49 AM |
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stillcute
Minneapolis, MN
age: 45
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Not Leaving, still conducting study in Love and the Prospects of Finding the Tarzan to my Jane in the Internet Jungle.
Besides, You Guys are FUN! 
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| 2/6/2008 11:50:34 AM |
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newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 43
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My Dad has been on and off dating sites for awhile now and I had always wondered what it was really like.
Then the entire divorce thing came up for me. I too got an email and decided what the heck, doesn't hurt to look.
I made a profile, lurked around in the forums for a few days and said "Self, some of these folk seem REAL and like they have their heads screwed on straight. Some of them have been where you are now, maybe you can learn a few things on what to do and what not to do to get you through this."
So I started posting. I started getting emails and winks. I responded. What I have found, for the most part, are some people, both male and female, who are admirable. They possess morality and codes of conduct that I embrace and even when they don't we can still have mature discussions and debate and agree to disagree. Some have become what I intend to be life long friends. Others have sparked an interest, even if it were temporary and yet others have sparked a crush or more. Given my situation however I am not yet in a place to pursue those crushes. He knows who he is though. Maybe he'll still be around, but in the meantime I wouldn't begrudge him finding happiness, it isn't like I have anything yet really to offer or that there are any guarantees.
So, here I am, no plans of leaving DH quite yet. The journey to my freedom isn't over and I both want and need the support of my friends here and the diversion of the never mundane parade of people/personalities and posts I find here. It does make me sad though when I see the best of the best leaving - a selfish feeling really that I need to get over.
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| 2/6/2008 11:53:20 AM |
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countrydancer32
Chicago, IL
age: 32
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Drummr, there are those of us that hardly speak to ya, but boy would I hate to see you leave.
Gonesailing, like Bocky, I too have contemplated leaving many times, we all go through it.
Then withdrawal kicks in and we come back.
When I came here it was with a mindset to just have fun, but then I let my guard down and discovered I am ready for a little more something long term than a great time. I don't want to casually date or do the one night stands. It hurt. I didn't like it.
So now I am making the full circle in a way. I am back to not looking. I am prepared to be single for the rest of my life and make some excellent friends along the way. Maybe I'll be lucky enough to find love somewhere between now and then, but I am not in a hurry, I want it to be the right guy without me settling for what I am looking for in a man. I guess you could say I'm leaving with no intentions.
Gone, drummr, and any of you other regulars.. please don't go. 
You add to this "place" each in your own unique way. I love you guys!
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| 2/6/2008 12:30:06 PM |
You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with? |
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willowgrace
Roan Mountain, TN
age: 48
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I just started posting a week ago and am finding a lot of great people!! I really enjoy all the different personalities and everyone has so much to share. To GSB and drummr I would miss you both, so hopefully you are not serious about leaving. Maybe just a break is all you need.
I like reading and writing in these forums it is a great way to get to know people and myself. Above all I value friendship. If I should happen to connect with that someone who shares my heart's rhythm then Wow!! Does he exist?
Meanwhile I will be real, true to myself, and hopefully a good friend.
with love and peace,
willowgrace 
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| 2/6/2008 12:38:54 PM |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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thanks everybody. you're all 2 kind to me. thanks again.
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| 2/6/2008 12:40:41 PM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 34
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I love you like a man can love a man in a manly fashion drummer... even though I have no idea how you would make me breakfast.
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| 2/6/2008 1:07:58 PM |
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smileingheart
Bellingham, WA
age: 41
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I didn`t mee my Doug here but with the help of my friends
here i have opened myself to his careing and love.
I have made so many wonderful friends here and learned
many new things ,while i have been here.
I do not plan on leaveing because i would miss my friends
to much .But on the same token we do not know what tomarrow
will bring.
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| 2/6/2008 5:25:31 PM |
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yankeesweet
Aiken, SC
age: 57
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I came here because someone told me about this site..I guess at
first I was looking for someone...but I quickly realized that
was probably not going to happen. Most of the responses are from
people too far for me. I am now looking for friends and feel like
I have found a forum for that now.
There are some really great people on here...some witty, some talented,
helpful, understanding, and some just plain silly. I find it so
much fun and entertaining. If I leave and I don't plan to, I hope to
leave having some great new friendships with people.
Gonesailing, I love your posts and your attitude...
drummer, you always make me laugh...
Please guys, don't leave. I am just getting to know you!!!!
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