You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with? 31

2/6/2008 5:33:13 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
gonesailingbabe Des Moines, IA age: 44	Humbly - my thanks to all who posted and WROTE me personally... My intent was not to walk out the door but question why it is we all keep walking back in??? This place is like Cheers! Where everybody knows your name.... But for the REAL woman who sits here in Iowa and ponders the size of this median and our U.S.A. - (wow has anyone looked at it lately? You can put five Massachuesetts in Iowa!) I sit and ask myself - "did I shave my legs for this?!" No, really...I ask why? What is it about myself that brings me here and why do I stay... In a world where time is so poorly wasted why am I sitting in a very uncomfortable desk chair looking at a monitor and making friends across states that I may never meet or know in my REAL life. But the truth is... the reason is because there are good REAL people here. Listen - y'all pick up the February copy of O magazine. If you're a dude - check it out online Martha Beck talks about the rings and layers of love and making your love list... And looking for love in the "shallows" Anyone fish??? You aren't going to find depth in the shallows. I realize that in some ways this place the DH site is a river...and you've got your shallows...those who really are looking for cars, boats, income, big boobs, wild monkey sex, ANY sex with ANY one. And then there are the people who have peace in their core. People who have made their love lists and put aside "thrown away" the shallow list - nice hair, big boobs, large bank account...and they want someone who loves them unconditionally, laughs with them, crys for them, hold them - may be bald, "thick", purple and three eyed... And those people have been through their own "rings of fire" and have left them to go where ever life takes them...or to even simply sit and wait. I am not much of a "joiner" I haven't read "The Secret" - yes, I know it's amazing but no thank you. I do however believe in Quantum Physics - Raised consciousness brings matter into being where there was once only energy. So I wait, with my good friends here at DH, and we laugh, and we support each other, and we share - the good and the bad and the hard and the sad....and one day we will all meet at the Summer Bash - and wrap arms around each other, and toast a marshmallow or two, pitch out tents, look in each other's eyes... and not one FAKER will be there... But I will be. "the ability to delude yourself may be an important survival tool" - Jane Wagner
2/6/2008 5:44:39 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
sea_wench1 Chandler, AZ age: 55	Shoot..Ive learned more about sex here then I have in my whole entire life...lol ( wink )I learned what c*ck rings, french tinklers, and oral sex, relationships, blow jobs , anal sex, rim jobs.....should I go on???? anything I leave with I learned here....lol...( wink ) WELL you asked......lol [Edited 2/6/2008 6:01:35 PM]
2/6/2008 5:46:06 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
thepirate1969 Greenville, NC age: 37	So far I can't complain either. I found some interesting people that I was not hoping to find... good, enjoyable, decent, intriguing, challenging. Again, I didn't have any expectations... Distance is always a killer though. Sometimes I think that it would be great to be able to take the car and meet and have a drink to chat some more in person. Bummer... nothing is ever less than a couple of hundred miles away, which means natural improvisation or a sudden decision are out of the question!!! This is my only complain. I really enjoyed your posts. Surly you'll be missed if you leave.
2/6/2008 6:05:22 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
againstthewind Bluefield, WV age: 41	Hey SailingBabe - don't you think of leaving- You have great insite on these problems. Maybe just change your name to - "Dear Abby'' I enjoy reading what's on your mind.
2/6/2008 6:06:50 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
katiescarlett72 Dallas, TX age: 35	No, really...I ask why? What is it about myself that brings me here and why do I stay... In a world where time is so poorly wasted why am I sitting in a very uncomfortable desk chair looking at a monitor and making friends across states that I may never meet or know in my REAL life. Because I need you to keep me honest :o) You're my DH conscience.
2/6/2008 6:21:09 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
newinil Carlock, IL age: 36	Katie, If I am any part of your DH conscience then for that I am happier than anything you can imagine. Should I schedule an appointment with your local mental ward now, or wait until I have fully corrupted your mind?
2/6/2008 6:28:33 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
italianlady05 Omaha, NE age: 53	...not leaving...yet...have made too many friends on here! And it's like someone else posted, it's like CHEERS..where everyone knows your name.. alot , just alot, of good fun people on here!
2/6/2008 6:31:32 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
iansmom Sarasota, FL age: 49	yep...really enjoy it,,,,its fun and you get to know fun people
2/6/2008 6:32:48 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
pisceslady30 York, PA age: 30	Gone sailing I really enjoy reading your posts and you seem to be wise in the ways of the world. I've only been here a few weeks and I enjoy it really. When I am ready to leave it will be worthwhile. I've met many interesting people here from all walks of life. I don't have any expectations here so it shouldn't be a letdown for me. I am here to meet people and that's exactly what I'm doing.
2/6/2008 6:40:05 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
uh_huh West Palm Beach, FL age: 35	I came here (in june/july? 07')looking for someone decent... I actually met someone fun, honest, and decent, but unfortunately she just is'nt my cup of tea.... I think I'll be here for a loooong time going through endless pages of profiles (they all read about the same anymore), and will probably end up with my profile stating, "only looking for a no strings attached, hookup".. Honestly, I'm not far from that now, and it's disappointing...
2/6/2008 6:51:24 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
chopperbabe Selah, WA age: 47	Yes, I FOUND who I was looking for and I didn't deviate from that since I've been here ... a year ago
2/6/2008 6:52:38 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
wnd_dragon Morristown, TN age: 29 online now!	I've been here since... ummm.. july or august I think... I have met sooo many good people on here. Met one in person, we are good friends. I came here because I have small kids, work full time, and don't really go anywhere. I thought, Maybe.. I could meet someone online. So far, I have made TONS of friends, found a support system unlike any other, but no man! sigh It's okay, tho. Every time I take a break, I always come back. Some people leave, new people join, fights break out, people get together, people split up... but, the fellowship that you have in the core of the forums stays... THAT is why I keep coming back. It's addictive! and that fabulous feeling you get when someone says something nice to you and let you know they care, it's not something you find "out there" much!
2/6/2008 7:21:31 PM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
katiescarlett72 Dallas, TX age: 35	Katie, If I am any part of your DH conscience then for that I am happier than anything you can imagine. Nope, you're my partner in crime.
2/7/2008 12:09:09 AM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
thepirate1969 Greenville, NC age: 37	He he he, quantum physics is very much metaphysics!!! It crosses the border of rules set by traditional physics, to enter the realm of speculation. It's the ultimate limitation of the rational mind dressed with models yet to be tested for the most... It's the realm of ex-physicists, now "philosophysicists"!!! (philosophysicist is a neologism, I just invented it: i love it) (actually it is also the realm of number crunchers or "human calculators"... but they are so busy with the huge amount of number that they have to process that they do not count much!!!) [Edited 2/7/2008 12:22:44 AM]
2/7/2008 2:44:25 AM	You came with good intentions but what are you leaving with?
bryhykr Calgary, AB age: 42	well I came with expectations: a free dating site? heard THAT B4.... well after two months here, I am SOOOOO glad I never fell for the pay-dating sites.. all those emails I never paid $24.95 a month to read, really WERE sent by some employee of the dating site.. probably some hairy guy... so there is THAT.. I am leaving with a renewed satisfaction that I was right... and that being alone and choosing to be alone is the right choice. I have learned by reading my own posts that I am bitter, and am not going to stop being bitter for some time yet if ever..... I like, my bitterness...... keeps me sharp. I like my bitterness more than I like the reasons for my being bitter.. .. .. I do not like materialistic women, -and women who are materialistic but think they aren't, even less........ which, prettymuch excludes all women my age or older, as I can see.. Evidence otherwise has not presented itself.. Forums are always like this... - The elitists, and everyone else.... this forum, this site, exactly resembles the dating environment I remember..: - a single alpha male who probably isn't , being persued by all the women in the place ... out of sheer competition with each other.... The internet doesn't make anything better,,, people are still shit.. People are still full, of shit... The internet just helps people shit on each other faster and with greater efficiency.. and with smilies.... and with'uh that, AH BEEEEELLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVE, ah is ah'gone, from a'heah..

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