2/24/2008 6:14:12 AM |
Does telling a lie hurts more then the truth in a relationship? |
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2smart
Cherry Hill, NJ
age: 32
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This person mean so much to you and you both have been together forever, just to find out they have been telling a whole lot of lies....does it kills your trust and passion for that person?
Will you consider if they tell you the truth about the matter now that you know a part of it...or it is over with?
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2/24/2008 6:16:44 AM |
Does telling a lie hurts more then the truth in a relationship? |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 49
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You Cant build a relationship on lies
lies end up producing no trust
Will you consider if they tell you the truth about the matter now that you know a part of it...or it is over with?
Thats up to "you".
[Edited 2/24/2008 6:18:17 AM]
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2/24/2008 6:17:19 AM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48
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It does kill the love and passion...the relationship is over no matter how hard you might try to get over it. This has been the case with me anyway.
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2/24/2008 6:27:39 AM |
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2smart
Cherry Hill, NJ
age: 32
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garnetlady,
I do serious agree, the trust is dead...but what about the passion you truly felt about this person...what become of it?
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2/24/2008 6:32:42 AM |
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2smart
Cherry Hill, NJ
age: 32
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foxy_woman_49,
yes my dear, a lie is a lie and it hurts. No one should build a relationship on one. But here is the situation, it has happened, you love this person so very much, you know you do...this is your wonderful soul mate...your love is standing looking you in the eyes and seeking your forgivingness, nevertheless the pain of his action is all there with the hurts it brings....what are you going to say amidst of you frustration?
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2/24/2008 6:37:51 AM |
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wisegirl33
Queensland
Australia
age: 43
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Lying to someone isn't showing love or respect for them at all. Lying is their immature and irresponsible way of "avoiding" themselves and their own issues.
Get over them quickly. If you still feel passion for them, it is just lust. A "real relationship" that is genuine and authentic, will never have its basis on lies and deceit.
I wish you well, you are still young enough to move on.
wisegirl33 Sent on the 25th Feb 08 at 12:38am Aest
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2/24/2008 6:42:23 AM |
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2smart
Cherry Hill, NJ
age: 32
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Yes wisegirl33,
it is truth, a lie is meant to change a situation but it has never done so...as the result, one lie lead to the other.
Now you got a million lies in your book, can you forgive?
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2/24/2008 6:42:49 AM |
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reenie4
Milwaukee, WI
age: 50
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Love is a two way street, if it is based on lies then you should know the answer. Seems only one person is this relationship is taking it serious. Why would anyone want to be in such an unhealthy relationship?
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2/24/2008 6:50:56 AM |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 49
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Like I said --- Its up to YOU.
Forgive if you feel so strongly about her
If you can not forgive
walk away
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2/24/2008 6:51:54 AM |
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splendid9
Cherry Hill, NJ
age: 21
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Lies hurts and any relationsip that is build on lies is not going to last.
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2/24/2008 6:53:03 AM |
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bry11ca
Wappingers Falls, NY
age: 43
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Tell the truth or keep the mouth shut and don't be afraid to say that you don't want any part of the conversation if someone is being too nosy.
If they lie as a habit . . . lose 'em.
[Edited 2/24/2008 6:54:09 AM]
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2/24/2008 6:54:38 AM |
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silvereaglebw
Charleroi, PA
age: 56
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Oh yeah,her ass would be toast in my book,don't put up with lies.
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2/24/2008 6:57:22 AM |
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wisegirl33
Queensland
Australia
age: 43
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2smart -
In response to your "can you forgive question". I don't think it is a matter of forgiveness, but of your ability to show to yourself that you can move on from that level of deceit - to something or someone better.
Forgiveness will come with time in my opinion anyway, when you create something better for yourself with someone else. It does not necessarily have to be another relationship.
Take care,
wisegirl33 Sent on the 25th Feb 08 at 12:57am Aest
Edited - 12:59am (to add below)
Bry and Silvereagle said it better than what I just did - move on quickly.....forget quickly.
[Edited 2/24/2008 6:59:44 AM]
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2/24/2008 6:59:53 AM |
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missyrose
Oakwood, GA
age: 36
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for some reason majority of the guys and a small percentage of women lie in the first couple of weeks into a relationship...not thinking the relationship will become of anything significant...then you find out u really like this person and it's going on 3 mos and wth you've been iying about things that are gonna come back to haunt you coz you keep adding to them to keep the story up......then it blows up and u lose your credibility with someone who could've made your life awesome....all because you wanted to impress someone for a meaningless quikie that turned out to be more but you blew it coz u can't b honest...WORD TO THE WISE..U NEVER KNOW WHO WILL BE THE ONE....BE HONEST TO EVERYONE AND GOOD THINGS WILL COME YOUR WAY OH BUT DON'T FORGET ABOUT KARMA---YOU'VE BEEN LYING FOR AWHILE?--YOU GOT TO GO THRU BEING HURT ACOUPLE OF TIMES FIRST---EYE FOR AN EYE
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2/24/2008 7:02:47 AM |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 49
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well none of us even know what this is all about now do we?
I think 2smart needs to explain the lie first before so much jugdment is passed.
*****
btw missy I never lie for I have no need to and I dont believe most do. Your statement"
majority of the guys and a small percentage of women lie" your not being fair here.
[Edited 2/24/2008 7:09:39 AM]
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