Personally, I consider myself a kind and considerate girl but I do NOT reply to every message. Sure they may have taken time to send me a message but it really doesn't take a whole lot of effort to simply say hi. My opinion on the matter is if they're really looking to get a response then they should put some effort into it. I would never just say hi to a guy that I was interested in. If I'm interested I'm going to ask questions so that's what I expect in return. I don't think it's rude at all to not respond if they give me nothing to respond to.

Oh, please. I'm better with words than 99% of the people on this lame site but I'm not going to waste my time replying to somebody who sends me "hay wut up" or somebody who clearly didn't bother reading my profile. If somebody's an idiot they don't deserve a reply. That simple.

Personally, I consider myself a kind and considerate girl but I do NOT reply to every message. Sure they may have taken time to send me a message but it really doesn't take a whole lot of effort to simply say hi. My opinion on the matter is if they're really looking to get a response then they should put some effort into it. I would never just say hi to a guy that I was interested in. If I'm interested I'm going to ask questions so that's what I expect in return. I don't think it's rude at all to not respond if they give me nothing to respond to.

And so what if she isn't interested? not responding IS a b*tch (or for a guy an a**hole)move.

What are they royalty that a simple no thank you is too much? These mooks b*tch that men doesn't write complete emails, but then are too lazy to do 2 simple words?


ANd before the cliched, some people get mad even when you do that, so what?! If you don;t do things because you don;t get the result you want 100 percent of the time, you are just making excuses.[


Oh come on! seriously? I'm sooo tired of "nice guys" complaining about girls being b*tches to them and only wanting the "bad boys" blah blah blah. There are hundreds of threads talking about it. Truth be told, there are hundreds of threads talking about "jerk guys" only out for girls that look a certain way. Maybe if you'd drop that nasty attitude you wouldn't have to worry about people sending a "no thank you" response because they would be sending YOU messages and then YOU could be the one that sends the silly "no thank you" response. Although, I would be willing to bet that if you got a lot of messages you would probably rethink your "no thank you" approach. Bottom line is, it's a matter of opinion not a matter of right and wrong. Some people would rather you reject them without words and some such as yourself want to hear it. Either way I think the people on the recieving end get the message.



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No. It's pretty still pretty c*nty.

I used to feel that way, but then I realized that being rude is the prevailing type of behavior on here. Now I delete friend requests from people I play word games with, and winks from suspected frauds.
Can't help it; this thing turns you into an a**hole. JMO

I'm gonna still keep on being me, I understand what you are saying though, but I feel like, you gotta stay true to who you are no matter what.

I regard it as very rude not to respond to an email from any one and the need to be honest with ones response and be polite in that response be it positive or negative

No reply is a reply.

I rarely reply to any of my messages because most are retarded. I'm not going to waste my time replying to somebody who can't write and/or clearly didn't read my profile.

I used to try and be nice and reply to everybody but I stopped doing that ages ago. If somebody's too retarded to send me a decent message they don't even deserve a reply.

yeah but you think you are smarter than everyone.



Regardless rude is rude. just own up to it.