| 3/10/2008 3:51:40 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
grneyedluvr
Waverly, NY
age: 42
|
i love it when as soon as someone post a thread about nice guys, all the men in DH are now automatically nice guys. lmaooooooo cumon guys, keep it real.
|
| 3/10/2008 4:01:17 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
cozzykitten_383
White Cloud, MI
age: 38
|
because when we are a good person evil hates it so the good is left on his or her own so here we are alone still your not alone just dont ecept evil or you will recive evil wait the right one will come along have faith stay good 
|
| 3/10/2008 4:05:32 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
newinil
Carlock, IL
age: 36
|
Grn...Man this is why I don't even try to pretend to be nice. I would rather they find out who I really am in person instead of faking it on the forums.
They meet up with me and expect whatever...Then they find out the truth. I get really sick of the guys playing to the crowd on here, when we know not all of them are who they claim to be.
I may not be the brightest peanut in the turd but I think I have figured out that much about some of the people on here.
|
| 3/10/2008 4:15:33 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
grneyedluvr
Waverly, NY
age: 42
|
im with ya new. i mean if we were all nice guys wtf are we all doin here?
|
| 3/10/2008 4:15:57 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43
|
grneye. i'm not one of the nice guys. and i have of witnesses to prove it! some of them t even on this site. i just wanted to see if the ladies can tell me, for my own benefit, what a nice guy is, in their estimation. that's all.
|
| 3/10/2008 4:21:04 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
grneyedluvr
Waverly, NY
age: 42
|
i wasnt picking on you in particular drummr all i meant was that every guy who posted on here was automatically a nice guy fishing for a chick. ive seen you around enough to know that you keep it real. theres a few of us on here that are real..and we know who we are.
[Edited 3/10/2008 4:21:21 PM]
|
| 3/10/2008 4:21:53 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
jasmom
Quincy, IL
age: 35
|
A nice guy is someone who keeps their word. A nice guy puts a relationship with a woman they say they are crazy about over what they call the "game" of DH. They realize a good thing when they have it.
|
| 3/10/2008 4:29:06 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
|
And a real and a good woman doesn't make her needs the only thing that matters when a good man says he's crazy about her....
There are good men on here
there are good men who are real on here
and my admiration is always going to be for the peanuts in the turd who don't mind saying how it is.
Personally I'd prefer that honesty to feeling as though I have some right to tell a man what or how he should be to be a good one.
Or one good enough for me....
The hoops you make for someone to jump through shouldn't have strings attached...
many people on here don't know how to do relationships any other way...
that's too bad for them
|
| 3/10/2008 4:31:32 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
lagator
Dallas, TX
age: 45
|
wizduels
Lees Summit, MO
missmatch well nice guys have a problem: they are too nice. they are willing to bend over backward to please their woman because their woman is everything to them. that is a noble thing in itself but not neccessary the most conducive thing to a relationship. a man that gives his woman everything she wants and sets no boundries is bound to get walked on by his woman. in the long run she will not respect him for it...................... Wizduels, I think you answered my question perfect. In every break up with the ladys in my past, they all eventually tryed to come back to me. When they would contact me it was basically the same story from all of them. The guy or guys they had been seeing since our break up did not know how to treat them and they missed what they use to have. And, hell no I never took them back. I give everything in a relationship so, if they walk out I always have told them "I do nearly anything to work this out but, once you leave out that door, you won't be walking back in"! Thanks Everyone, Gator!!!!!!!!
|
| 3/10/2008 4:32:02 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
grneyedluvr
Waverly, NY
age: 42
|
i guess if we all were perfect at relationships, we wouldnt be here. we'd be snuggled on the couch with that special nice girl or guy.
|
| 3/10/2008 4:36:24 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
jasmom
Quincy, IL
age: 35
|
I have the right to decide how I will be treated if I choose to be in a relationship. I have respect for myself and anyone I choose to date. I date single men because I want a REAL relationship based on honesty and trust. You're right Gone I have no right to tell anyone who they should be nor do I want to. But what do I know??? I am just a "breeder" after all.
|
| 3/10/2008 4:43:10 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
|
An interesting use of a term seldom heard here by anyone publically...you just revealed far more about yourself than you should have.
Which really wasn't very wise of you, to date you were not on my radar at all.
You should have kept it that way.
Stubborn you may be,
foolish,
again bingo those are your issues and not my problem.
Don't make you my problem.
Make me an open enemy, further because of your own insecurities and personal issues
and you will regret it.
I have no reason to come at you in public so I respectfully, suggest you remain silent and un-noticed and heal yourself without taking pot shots.
At anyone.
You made your choices. Live with them.
[Edited 3/10/2008 4:56:59 PM]
|
| 3/10/2008 4:53:22 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43
|
...and scene!
|
| 3/10/2008 5:03:36 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
jasmom
Quincy, IL
age: 35
|
I have nothing to hide and I have no enemies on here. If you want to discuss this like a lady feel free to e-mail me but I have nothing more to say in this public forum.
I would like to apologize for airing my dirty laundry in public. If I offended anyone I'm sorry.
[Edited 3/10/2008 7:17:22 PM]
|
| 3/10/2008 5:05:46 PM |
Why do nice guys always finish last? |
|
bry11ca
Wappingers Falls, NY
age: 43
|
We don't. 
|