When do you feel the most alone?

6/22/2011 12:51:08 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
5of5 Flat Rock, AL 61, joined Apr. 2010	I'm a widower (2+ years) and I posted this question on the Widows thread, so I wanted to ask the same question here so I can compare. For some reason, I, and other widows and widowers, feel lonely, not when we're at home alone, but when we are at some social function. We see couples and families together and it causes us to feel alone and out of place. We feel less lonely when we are alone than we do when we are in a crowd. When to you feel the most lonely? Alone or in a crowd? Thanks for your answers. Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
6/22/2011 12:55:16 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
wsprs0nthewind Powell, TN 53, joined Mar. 2009	I don't feel lonely most of the time. Only sometimes when I'm at home and it's been quiet for a long time. I will get out and go somewhere for a few minutes of get busy doing something to take my mind off of it and it usually passes. For the most part, I don't mind being alone most of the time. [Edited 6/22/2011 12:55:33 PM ]
6/22/2011 1:49:55 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
stupendouskiss Jesup, GA 40, joined Jun. 2011	When I am with my friends and their husbands. 2 of the 3 are pregnant and they are happy. It hit me hard then that I am alone.
6/22/2011 3:38:52 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
kaceykeys Sylvania, OH 38, joined Sep. 2009	I feel the most alone when I get overwhelmed with life. Paying bills, working, grocery shopping, helping kids with their school work. Alot of these things my ex-husband helped me out with. He'd go to the store, 5 times a day if I needed him to. He'd take the kids out for me to rest. So, it's during those times when I notice that I am alone and want a companion there to be with me.
6/22/2011 3:41:48 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
kmc726 Fruitland Park, FL 47, joined Jul. 2010	When I slip up and let things get to me and just need to be held by someone.
6/23/2011 6:14:23 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
david0527 Jasper, AL 51, joined Jun. 2011	When my kids are spending the night at a friends and I am here by myself with too much time to think. If I get to thinking too much, I really start to feel alone.
6/23/2011 7:33:04 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
tarheelfan71 Rocky Mount, NC 45, joined Jun. 2011	Whenever I look over to my right and see a wall. My wife used to sit over to my right...I'd look over at her and feel content.
6/23/2011 8:24:48 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
angel_rose1976 Mount Joy, PA 41, joined May. 2011	I feel the most alone when I'm out at a function or even at a restaurant and see couples together
6/23/2011 8:27:11 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
imsotired Marion, OH 45, joined May. 2011	In the evenings after dinner has been made and dishes done.... sitting here with no one to talk with, I feel alone.
6/23/2011 8:49:38 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
smokethat247 East Haven, CT 33, joined May. 2011	At night... we use to watch TV all the time together like certain shows we both enjoyed
6/24/2011 12:04:26 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
david0527 Jasper, AL 51, joined Jun. 2011	Me too.
6/24/2011 12:04:42 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
tarheelfan71 Rocky Mount, NC 45, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from imsotired: In the evenings after dinner has been made and dishes done.... sitting here with no one to talk with, I feel alone. Yes I am the same way. Sitting here, watching T.V. and no one to talk to.
6/24/2011 3:40:12 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
david0527 Jasper, AL 51, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from angel_rose1976: I feel the most alone when I'm out at a function or even at a restaurant and see couples together Me too !!!
6/24/2011 10:41:16 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
ireneann Stuart, FL 62, joined Dec. 2009	Good Morning 5 of 5.....both are wonderful threads and you have been given so many wonderful answers to your question.... I have thought about my aloneness....it happens after I take the cornbread out of the oven (as I recently learned how to make it very good) and set it on the stove....I realize there is no one here to want to get a knife and slice into it with me. There was another moment too....like on a Sunday morning.....when you get up with the smell of coffee to get a cup and realize you only have to get one...or go to the refrig to see if you have enough stuff to make a really nice breakfast. This alone thing really does sucks for the most part. And for you 5 of 5......May whatever is happening in your life today go on and on!!!
6/24/2011 9:23:52 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
bmxdad2 Silvis, IL 48, joined Jan. 2011	When we have family get togethers and I`m the only one without anyone
6/26/2011 5:10:35 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
lynn2356 Southern Pines, NC 70, joined Oct. 2010	I just went through a divorce I have a hard time just going to a store and seeing couples holding hands, cooking a good meal and setting down with my us to be partner, waking up in the middle of the night and no arm around me holding me. Those are just a few.
6/26/2011 7:50:25 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
tarheelfan71 Rocky Mount, NC 45, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from lynn2356: I just went through a divorce I have a hard time just going to a store and seeing couples holding hands, cooking a good meal and setting down with my us to be partner, waking up in the middle of the night and no arm around me holding me. Those are just a few. I am the EXACT same way. So yes I do know how you feel. Tears me up sometimes to see it.
6/27/2011 7:26:31 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
ilovemyjob Frankfort, KY 64, joined Feb. 2010	From dinner on. I miss watching ty or bed time snacks& suggling. I also feel alone at functions.
6/27/2011 1:31:16 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
doodle76 Skellytown, TX 41, joined Jun. 2011	i feel lonely in a crowd with my married friends basically every where i i was married for almost 11 years and felt alone
6/27/2011 10:33:27 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
countryboy73160 Depauw, IN 57, joined Jan. 2011	On days that end in Y
6/28/2011 8:49:10 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
toofine2 Angola, IN 45, joined Jun. 2011	Quote from countryboy73160: On days that end in Y i have to agree with you on this one, feel alone a-lot no matter if i'm with a group of riends or at home by myself. I miss that man that could make me smile no matter if i was mad,sad,sick he is the only one that has ever been able to do that. Everyone tells me it will get better but i haven't seen that yet..sigh....
6/29/2011 6:30:14 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
lilwaya Mercer, PA 55, joined Jun. 2011	When I'm trying to sleep. I miss cuddling with my fiance and feeling secure & complete. (He passed away 3+ yrs ago.)
6/30/2011 2:28:08 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
lilkarebear Wilmington, DE 45, joined Jun. 2011	When I think about my college years. My x husband and I were in college together because we both started after we got married. I'm still in touch with my closest friends from college, and most of them are married, happily, with or without children. I don't miss my x husband, or anyone I was serious with after him. I have good reason to not be with him or any of them. But I do miss what I never really had, which is to love someone, flaws and all, and know that they love me just as much if not more.
6/30/2011 5:30:30 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
tarheelfan71 Rocky Mount, NC 45, joined Jun. 2011	Going the movies alone. Watching couples hold hands...makes me feel sick to my stomach. I know I shouldn't. But it's just not fair to me sometimes. Yet I suck it up and keep moving.
7/1/2011 3:46:38 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
alphabetsamson Santa Ana, CA 53, joined Nov. 2010	Late at night at bedtime!
7/2/2011 7:05:56 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
auntaa Pell City, AL 40, joined Jun. 2011	real bad at night time. cuz we were alway's snuggling and cuddling up then. but i do all the time too.
7/2/2011 10:32:23 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
alphabetsamson Santa Ana, CA 53, joined Nov. 2010	After sex with myself!!!
7/3/2011 12:33:14 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
colemanta Savannah, GA 38, joined Jul. 2011	i feel more alone during the holidays, but what i try to do is keep myself busy with my kids, family, and friends
7/3/2011 6:13:46 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
auntaa Pell City, AL 40, joined Jun. 2011	right about now i feel very lonely.
7/4/2011 6:10:14 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
tractortroy68 Copan, OK 49, joined Jan. 2011	holidays of course!
7/4/2011 9:31:37 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
cowboyalex22 Omak, WA 37, joined Jun. 2011	I know what you mean. I get dinner done after a 10 hour day and kids in bed. I just want someone to sit on the couch with me and cuddle.
7/10/2011 6:32:02 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
backhere New London, WI 54, joined Jul. 2011	Anytime I see couples together. I often wonder if I tried hard enough to save my failed marriage. My divorce was the worse day of my life.....I'm always lonely now I just can't feel good about being alone. I sure do feel bad for anyone going through this..
7/10/2011 6:48:11 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
colorblind2009 Bristol, VA 44, joined Oct. 2009	Hmmm, haven't really thought about that. I still have my children with me so I guess not much and I work full time, full time student with exercising....I fill up my time
7/10/2011 10:48:16 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
marble104 York, PA 48, joined Jul. 2011	I too, like many others, feel alone in a crowd. I do things by myself such as go to the movies, eat in a restaurant, go to the park, etc. However, I feel that I stick out like a sore thumb because it seems as if everyone else has a partner.
7/10/2011 11:46:37 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
mug_of_fun Green Bay, WI 43, joined May. 2011	I feel alone when I learn something new and cool. I want to shair it with someone and no one is there.
7/11/2011 6:02:54 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
pinkythevixen Moreno Valley, CA 33, joined Jul. 2011	When I run errands or go shopping..I used to always have someone to do that stuff with.. that's when it hits me.
7/12/2011 3:31:42 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
texas_night_owl Kensington, MD 98, joined Jul. 2011	You start to feel alone when your spouse who literally wants to kill you, starts saying that everything you do annoys her, even though she's literally trashing your house and breaking everything, and things are disappearing (because she's pawning your posessions.) You feel alone when you've bought a luxury vehicle and drive her around with her family of con artists and MURDERERS and take them to a place to shop which YOU are paying for and you're left to park an oversized vehicle ALONE in a large, dark overcrowded parking lot while they skip into the store. They dont close the doors fully so you have to get out reopen the door and reclose it. Turns out this is just part of a con artist's technique of keeping you off balance. You walk alone thru the parking lot while your spouse and her family look at all the goodies they can buy with YOUR money. There is something wrong, you can feel it, but you dont know what it is. NOW i know what it is. You're being set up, you're being conned, you're being backstabbed. and if your con artist has any skill, they will ALSO go to their/your friends relatives family neighbors dr's and psychiatrists that YOU pay for, and say bad things to them about you, then come to you and say they're being rude to her, and ask you to protect them, FROM the friends neighbors etc. so you are always suspicious and angry. which can be later used against you in court. Anger management, PARANOIA <~~~~watch out for that word. ANYBODY starts using that word against you, you better watch out. You can easily end up in jail or a mental hospital. Easier than you think. It's done right here in america, just more subtly than other countries. And when you are in jail or restrained in a mental hospital because you were set up and your FELON spouse is crying to your neighbors and YOUR FAMILY that you abused her, you can sit there and rot. Or maybe you can entertain the troops there by being a rape object.
7/12/2011 3:37:46 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
texas_night_owl Kensington, MD 98, joined Jul. 2011	Stop letting the media make you FEEL alone. At least you are free. Maybe allllllllll those happy couples out there really arent so happy. But even if they are, at least you got your freedom. Stop getting married and stop buying the dirty SCAM known as marriage. I call marriage The Vile Contract. MARRIAGE IS A SCAM FOR CON ARTISTS AND MURDERERS TO GO AFTER YOUR MONEY. You are better off "alone" then you are poorly accompanied. A spouse is BAD Company. What is pathetic, absolutely PATHETIC is that some of you were trashed and broken in a marriage EVEN THOUGH YOU CANNOT DEFINE WHAT YOU'RE "WORKING ON" IN A MARRIAGE, and you're going to just GO AND MARRY AGAIN!!!! Grow up and face reality before it's too late. YOU are lucky to be alive and you dont even know it. Take a good look at "marriage" and ask yourself if you'd still "love him" if he didnt marry you. If not, why? maybe YOU are in love with the CONTRACT. Maybe that's all you been taught. you had better learn how to take care of yourself. or you're going to end up in prison, mental hosplital, or simply broke, in debt, and below poverty level.
7/12/2011 3:37:54 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
hazeleyes360 Fruitdale, AL 25, joined May. 2011	When I can't sleep and I'm up all night and just need somebody to love
7/12/2011 3:56:29 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
ides33 Clearwater, FL 39, joined Jul. 2011	When i have to use a dating site to have an adult conversation.
7/16/2011 9:33:38 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
webwench Diberville, MS 61, joined Jul. 2011	Sometimes, I like the freedom of being alone and during those times, I do not feel alone or lonely. It feels good because there are no fights, no head games, no drama etc. Then there are so very many times I feel alone. Some of the times it hurts so bad and there is so hiding from it, like holidays, like quiet evenings at home, like going out to eat, etc. If you go to work and stay busy, life is almost bearable, but when you come home and know that nobody will be there, nobody will call, nobody will invite you out or over, nobody will even know that you are in agony, that is when I am most alone. Or, when at family reunions, movies, eating out, taking walks, or any other activity that should be fun, there is nobody to share with. Holidays are not ever shared, nor are good times of any kind, bad days at work, pride at doing something well, disappointment in failing, etc. When the nightmares overtake me, there is nobody to cuddle me and help me sleep. When the sensual nature in me wants to play there is nobody and on a good day, I can ease it myself, but on a bad day, I cry afterwards because I am so much more alone than when I started. You look at yourself in the mirror, you analyze your thoughts, your think about all your habits and lifestyle choices, trying to figure out what makes you alone when others are not. Mostly, just knowing all this can be felt and run around in your head or heart 24/7 and nobody knows or if they know, they don't care.
7/16/2011 9:42:43 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
1991a1 Harriman, TN 61, joined May. 2011	I think I felt most alone when I was married... Sometimes I feel lonely now but I can change that if I choose.
7/16/2011 10:09:41 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
noonespecial72 Fort Campbell, KY 45, joined Apr. 2011	Seeing children around my children's ages knowing I cannot see them but about one to three times a year, that is when I am lonely the most.
7/17/2011 12:34:35 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
pinochater Dawson, MN 46, joined Jun. 2011	When my kids are with their dad and home alone, I hate this feeling. I need to get out and experience life.
7/17/2011 1:58:31 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
454chute Lubbock, TX 64, joined Jul. 2011	It starts out as Saturday thru Sunday. It ends up as Sunday thru Saturday.
7/17/2011 5:32:56 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
mistieyes Stephens City, VA 74, joined Jan. 2011	Here is something from an older person that you might wish to think about. Mom use to tell me not to grow old alone. she was so right in many ways but I did not listen to her. I miss helping another when they need help and having it returned..I miss someone special to do fun things with and share my thoughts with. And yes, I miss cooking for two, doing the extra chores, even. These are the times I feel most alone.
7/19/2011 9:48:22 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
desire1975 East Alton, IL 42, joined Jul. 2011	holidays, but it is better to be lonely without someone than to feel lonely when you are with someone...
7/19/2011 4:00:16 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
rand525 Friendship, WI 54, joined Apr. 2011	on week ends when my son is at work
7/27/2011 12:13:44 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
lulunmsu82 Sunland Park, NM 34, joined Jul. 2011	When I have been having a stressed day..when my children are asking for daddy. When I lay down at night and see an empty side and pillow, and when I wake up in the morning-and there's no one to say good morning .... [Edited 7/27/2011 12:19:28 PM ]
7/27/2011 7:19:42 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
tattsdeej New York, NY 44, joined Jul. 2011	I moved to NYC, 7 weeks ago for work. Leaving home my wife and kids with the impression that in a few months, they were coming up. My wife had other designs and I'm now heading for divorce. I'm 1100 miles away from my kids, my friends, my family. I get lonely on a daily basis
7/28/2011 11:21:39 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
bellaradiance Lemon Grove, CA 48, joined May. 2011	Holidays...
7/29/2011 12:43:46 AM	When do you feel the most alone?
1x0x0x1 Kensington, MD 82, joined Jul. 2011	Better alone then poorly accompanied.
7/30/2011 8:16:19 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
littlebitspunky New Castle, VA 64, joined Jul. 2011	Most alone on the weekends. During the work week am too busy and too tired to think about being alone.
7/31/2011 8:38:32 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
ranger1011 Cleveland, TN 44, joined Jun. 2011	at night, every night and when i am off work, and when i go to town and see couples happy and together and when i see same on tv
8/6/2011 5:58:50 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
daystardusky Fredonia, AZ 38, joined Aug. 2011	at night in bed by myself wishn for someone to hold me and cherish me as i am....
8/6/2011 11:21:09 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
hot32love Englewood, CO 38, joined Aug. 2011	when the kids go to their dads house
8/7/2011 12:59:53 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
needtokno Framingham, MA 66, joined Jun. 2010	On the weekend, when I'm not diverted by work. Especially bad after I moved to a new town where I don't have any friends yet.
8/7/2011 3:13:51 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
yaretzy46 Weirton, WV 52, joined Jul. 2011	I agree-I feel the most alone at social functions, or where I see couples with or without children. There are times I feel alone at home, too-especially when going to take a shower. For some reason, I want someone in the house with me when I take showers early in the morning or late at night?
8/8/2011 7:46:34 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
morningperson40 Yukon, OK 46, joined Aug. 2011	It's a toss up for me between when my kids are with their dad, which is 2 days each week, and late at night after the kids have gone to bed and the house is quiet and my bed is empty except for me and the cat.
8/8/2011 9:52:15 PM	When do you feel the most alone?
kayy72985 Bakersfield, CA 32, joined Aug. 2011	Being out and seeing a happy couple that reminds me of when I was that happy

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