srj1963
Vancouver, BC
54, joined Jun. 2011
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Okey here we GO people !why would you.get One if all you Can do is trash us.not all women need you for a greencard! hello.c-mon.you dont get a second because of maybe how you treated us in the first place !not all women are what you Say!Just like men .women could Say that.listen i Saïd women everyone has a choice right! Both genders know within mins if your for them or not.also if a person whats to be with you they will make it happen (right) we are grownups here not children anymore,we should know right away how far it will go or maybe not @ all.if we're not into you its because of maybe a few things we pick up by listening to the person on the other hand.this goes for both genders.so iam not picking sides but saying what should be said.if it goes great then yes by all means in some small way we should be told why your not in to me .(right) but let the truth be told not all people are like that.thats what makes us individuals in our own way.but why would you want a second date if & only if you were being treated a certain way that you don't like.if the person is like that @ the being why would you want to stick around .when there are so many people out there that would except you for you! So as for us being grownups we need to realize that we as humans deserve so much more & never settle for less then we deserve .when you do find your person that is into you.a few things should be known 1st money should never ever talked about like how much you make.you should never leand money to the person you date.2nd commit is only on the table when both partys agree that they want to be with one another.3 never give keys to your new partner under a certain amount of time 4th within 3 months don't introduce the person to your family or friends.why you ask its way to soon.you as the person don't even know if it will lazt that long.if you pass that time then & only then you figure out if its relationship material.5 never ever sign anything for your new mate.6 always be truthfully.it gets you further ahead don't b/s with your mate.okey people i believe i said enough.before you guys start freaking out.ill talk to you soon.thanks for reading this.
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srj1963
Vancouver, BC
54, joined Jun. 2011
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Ok explain to me why people would want a second chance ,if the first time was bad why would you want another go @ it???
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notabeliever
Surrey, BC
58, joined Jun. 2011
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Gawd I don't know. Maybe if the person explained she had an off night and was out of character? Or maybe if she talked to me and I clearly seen she was sorry for her behaviour the first time and sincerely wanted another go at it? Why not?
It's not as if I think I'm perfect or something. I've gotten off on the wrong foot with someone and wished I had the chance to do it right. Sometimes a person just reads you wrong, then by the time he realises his mistake it's too late and he has to do better the next time. So why not another chance?
For me if I screwed up and the woman as understanding, or reasonable, enough to give me another chance if I appologized and showed how sorry I was I'd be glad. If she wasn't I'd be glad I found out how vengeful. insensitive, uncaring, and self centered she is before we went any further.
After all I am just a fallible human and I need a person with a forgiving heart.
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casagrandegirls
Casa Grande, AZ
29, joined Jul. 2011
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