| 3/24/2008 3:36:41 PM |
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bella2020
Lebanon, OH
age: 47
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DD Let me guess? Your whole life {justkidding}
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| 3/24/2008 3:44:03 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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brneyes74
Loves Park, IL
age: 33
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married men
abusive men
stalkers
selfish men
needy men
jobless, unmotivated men
substance abusers
The biggest is anyone who doesn't want to deal with children
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| 3/24/2008 3:48:46 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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jealousy = dealbreaker. pretty much everything else, is negotiable. maybe. 
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| 3/24/2008 4:16:00 PM |
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luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 42
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married
controlling
demeaning
critical
unmotivated
a person without dreams
primarily negative
comes home cranky every night
doesn't like to cuddle
druggies
philanderers
drunks
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| 3/24/2008 4:17:36 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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I agree with the last poster here.
married
controlling
demeaning
critical
unmotivated
a person without dreams
primarily negative
comes home cranky every night
doesn't like to cuddle
druggies
philanderers
drunks
And let me add Fridgid to the list too...
Put out or get out!
[Edited 3/24/2008 4:18:01 PM]
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| 3/24/2008 4:47:17 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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-Do you have dealbreakers?
Yes.
Alternate Lifestyles (BDSM, etc) Just not my bag
Infidelity
Misplaced Trust (Allowing outside forces control our relationship)
Inability to Forgive
Stagnation
-Do you have boundaries?
Except for the above Not Really
-Are you helpless to your feelings?
No I am very expressive of my feelings but I don't allow them to rule me.
edit: added quotes
[Edited 3/24/2008 4:49:09 PM]
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| 3/24/2008 5:15:10 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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monique08
Arlington, TX
age: 18
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I agree with sitkarains 100% but I also can not stand a guy that spits or body hair. 
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| 3/24/2008 5:50:47 PM |
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debi01
Pasco, WA
age: 49
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Dealbreakers; Liers, Cheaters, Control Freaks, those who are Materialistic, Druggies, Alcholics
Also agree with 1pinkstar!!
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| 3/24/2008 6:07:29 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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stella23
Lake Jackson, TX
age: 47
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Two come to mind:
Don't trash my kids. Constructive criticism, okay, but out and out trashing is way on the other side of my 'boundary line'.
Don't be insecure! Example: "Are you mad at me?" "Are you sure?" "Are you sure you're not mad at me???" Ahhhhh! Deal Breaker!
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| 3/24/2008 7:11:41 PM |
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genie8211
Chickamauga, GA
age: 40
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LIARS, I hate them I cant stand them and I have stopped being friends with them because of their lies, I can forgive most things in life but I cant forgive a liar, why waste my time and yours telling lies.
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| 3/24/2008 7:25:01 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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bry11ca
Wappingers Falls, NY
age: 43
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Hairy knuckles
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| 3/24/2008 7:29:53 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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lonely11980
Livonia, MI
age: 28
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hairy knuckles? damn .....guess that would be one for me to!
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| 3/24/2008 7:30:55 PM |
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ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
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You know, they can be great looking, perfect in every other way, but if they can't kiss...I just can't get past it. (Or if they have an itsy bitsy teenie weeny weenie!) I am telling you, I was with a guy once who made a #2 pencil look thick! He had no other skills to make up for his shortcomings either! (Too tacky for the relationship thread?)
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| 3/24/2008 7:39:56 PM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
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women who are tone deaf
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| 3/25/2008 10:03:54 AM |
DEALBREAKERS - What are yours? |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
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Yeah artist, tone deaf women can get on your nerves, especially singing loud while plugged in to the Ipod. These are great answers! Keep 'em coming.
Does anyone have trouble with sometimes making exceptions for someone with a dealbreaker and regretting it later?
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