| 3/25/2008 10:36:06 AM |
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wvareb1980
Chagrin Falls, OH
age: 27
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Lie to me and your gone
Be self centered and your gone
Be controlling and your gone
try to put yourself before my kids and your gone
Being a little barbi doll that's afraid to get her hands dirty and I won't even consider you.
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| 3/25/2008 1:45:05 PM |
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sitkarains
Sitka, AK
age: 47
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Does anyone have trouble with sometimes making exceptions for someone with a dealbreaker and regretting it later?
OH yes I have I think we all have at some point. The thing I have learned from doing that is I have to take responsiblity no one else. I also find it takes me longer to bounce back. I really take time to examine the reason why I felt so compelled to do it. Sometimes I come up with because it was fun dammit... so live and learn.
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| 3/26/2008 5:54:31 PM |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
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Great answer, sitkawench. At least you take responsibility and don't blame others!
I get really tired reading posts of people b*tchin' about continually winding up with losers and wonder when, if ever, they will examine themselves and the decisions they make, and then take ownership which is the first step to change.
Taking ownership gives us the hope and opportunity to change things rather than acceptance of shitty situations we don't like. We see that we can change the situations that come our way by setting higher standards for ourselves and others.
Is that really so difficult a concept to embrace? 
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| 3/26/2008 6:47:00 PM |
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katrina_sq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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I am looking for "normal", so that means no drunks, druggies, perverts, abusers, controllers, complainers/whiners, men who don't like kids or animals, men who have serious mental issues, men who dwell on the negative, smokers (sorry guys), tobacco users (yuck), inconsiderate men,and couch potatoes. All things in moderation, you know?
I am not helpless to my feelings, just know what I want and refuse to settle. I settled in my marriage for 7 years knowing I deserved better, so I will not compromise because that means I would be compromising myself not compromising for him.
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| 3/26/2008 6:54:21 PM |
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justlooking630
West New York, NJ
age: 48
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My deal breaker are smoker,negative attitudes, cheaters ,any one who uses drugs, who is emotional controlling
Must understand boundaries emotional and personal space ...
Not helpless with my feeling but learning how to express what I'm feeling ....
[Edited 3/26/2008 6:55:33 PM]
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| 3/26/2008 7:02:58 PM |
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lumberdude
Lewiston, ID
age: 38
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To Many Young Children
Bi-Polar.......Last 3 out of four girls I met claimed to be and I believe them.
Someone financially unstable.
Someone who tries to put A leash on me!
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| 3/26/2008 7:15:07 PM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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DEAL BREAKERS:
Control Freaks
Mainpulators of any nature
Ignorance of any type - displayed in any manner
Boundaries?
Locks
concrete walls
and...heavily armed
Am I helpless to my feelings?
Only with one individual and only ONE, and with that one - yes, I am entirely helpless. Hopeless. Absurdly and unconditionally whacko. I do think it's progress of some sort that I can now admit this..
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| 3/26/2008 8:03:02 PM |
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nonverbose1
Bullhead City, AZ
age: 47
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Homicidal Maniacs!!
You just can't trust'em!!
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| 3/26/2008 8:33:20 PM |
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comes2please69
Tyler, TX
age: 29
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-Do you have dealbreakers?
Yes...People who lie or cheat....
-Do you have boundaries?
Not in those above...Although i really cant stand snootie or b*tchy women i can put up with a little. But always b*tching and nagging....Shes gotta go! Wont loose any sleep over it.
-Are you helpless to your feelings?
NO.....I try and keep it real with myself..If it looks like shit...Must be shit. I can do better..Have to much to offer to settle for nothing less than the best..
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| 3/26/2008 9:13:06 PM |
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tommyguy4u
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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Great topic! ]
Dishonesty,false representation,be it through the person or their looks..
As in deceptive pics or fake pics..
Everyone is entitled to their preferences lookwise imo..
Untrustworthy,to talk to others,as in show interest in others during any stage of the relationship..
At this stage in life,I know I deserve better.. No reason to ever have to "settle"..
Hypocrites,sets a standard but rarely self imposes..
Lies..excessive flirts ,attention seekers...Conceit..
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| 3/26/2008 11:40:14 PM |
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whomper
Greenwood, IN
age: 64
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My dealbreakers: 
Smoker
Excessive drinker
Drug addict
Liar and cheater (they go together)
Abuser (emotional, physical or sexual)
Jealous
Controller
Passionless
Boring
Bully
Stupid
Lack of motivation
Dirty
Grouchy or bad-tempered
Loud
Non-believer
Pushy
Cruel
Hunter
Lazy
Bad mannered
Fat or beer belly
Selfish
Cheap
User
Suspicious
Uses foul language
Crude behavior
Fickle
[Edited 3/26/2008 11:44:35 PM]
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| 3/27/2008 5:08:47 AM |
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whosyour51
Plymouth, IN
age: 56
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Ha Ha whomper looks like your deal is broken. And with all them your not going to find anyone anywhere's lol Whats left Dead??
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| 3/27/2008 5:31:12 AM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 45 online now!
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whomper that is crazy..........lol
For me it's cheating.............you break the deal if you ever cheat on me..........and you're gone.
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| 3/27/2008 5:47:00 AM |
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wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
age: 41 online now!
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Aww Foul language turns me on if used in the right context..when she hollers or moans..F*** me...shwing...
But lie to me..back stab me..and it's over.
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| 3/27/2008 5:58:46 AM |
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sugalaflame
Macon, GA
age: 48
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1. Lie to me/dishonesty
2. A married man
3. Guys who are jerks (knowing they are being a jerk) and think its cool!
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