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daziemae
Oklahoma City, OK
60, joined Jul. 2010
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He wouldn't want to stay If I knew for sure he cheated. I would be his biggest nightmare. 
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| 6/19/2012 12:51:13 AM |
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deanna1111
Chicago, IL
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No. Even if they were sincere and would really want to change. It will be hard if not impossible to trust them again.
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| 6/19/2012 12:55:32 AM |
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veronica00
San Antonio, TX
31, joined May. 2012
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 A cheater will always be a cheater.
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| 6/19/2012 6:41:33 AM |
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jude666
Pittston, PA
53, joined Apr. 2012
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im a believer in second chances,,,
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| 6/23/2012 5:24:13 AM |
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flirtygirl_17
Columbus, OH
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Once a cheater always a cheater
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| 6/23/2012 12:37:58 PM |
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yourromeo86
Gary, IN
31, joined Apr. 2012
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Wow flirtygirl you're hot. If you cheated on me a few times I think I'd still be crazy not to take you back.
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| 6/24/2012 7:08:29 PM |
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gangstergirlxox
Columbus, OH
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never
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| 6/24/2012 10:30:08 PM |
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pillows1228
Calhoun, GA
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If he's dumb enough to cheat once, he's dumb enough to do it again.
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| 6/25/2012 10:07:10 PM |
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lil_meow
Port Orchard, WA
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Yes, i would give him another chance. After that hell no. He can go kick rocks.
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| 6/26/2012 11:23:24 PM |
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zoey357
Boston, MA
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.....no, i deserve better!
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| 6/27/2012 1:24:26 AM |
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xkaylachristine
Aliquippa, PA
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No!
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| 6/27/2012 1:29:07 PM |
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marydoe
Christchurch
New Zealand
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I'd hear him out... then dump him! Cheat on me and your out!
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| 7/4/2012 8:18:48 AM |
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pretty_leo47
Norfolk, VA
54, joined Jan. 2011
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Your boyfriend cheats on you, does he deserve a second chance?
No! I think we all attended Cheater Unversity. What I learned attending there is cheaters have a set pattern they believe in their mind no one sees what they are doing so in a nutshell it make them become comfortable to repeat their wrong doing until it begin to unfold the lies become unbearable to the point were you actually have to catch them in the act of their wrong doing and some not all still be in denial to what is happening. Why bother to set or build yourself up once again for a downfall. Here and now is really the wrong time to have multiple sex partners.. Two deadly cheaters is awaiting for the next individual who think they are invisible to what they are doing however HPV and HIV is the newest cheater awaiting to jump on board without no cure. Cheaters need to visit patient that have diseases and suffering. This is the result to sleeping around.    
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| 7/20/2012 3:57:09 PM |
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lov3abl3_bitzh
Alvin, TX
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Hell no .... i do belive that once a cheater always a cheater...
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| 7/20/2012 5:20:30 PM |
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spiceythang
Fayetteville, NC
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Never! Cheaters don't respect anyone's feelings!
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| 7/26/2012 10:55:42 PM |
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mebritney
Windsor Mill, MD
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depends who he is
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| 7/27/2012 12:28:25 AM |
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anja_lou514
Kissimmee, FL
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Any time I did in the past, they just cheated again.
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| 7/27/2012 1:59:47 AM |
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i_am_me_2012
Phoenix, AZ
38, joined Jun. 2012
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Hell No
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What she said.
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| 7/27/2012 3:20:31 PM |
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keep_it_real_a
Riverside, CA
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Once a cheater always a cheater! simple as that
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| 7/28/2012 11:03:42 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
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It's not worth it IMO, more often than not they make a habit of cheating vs it being a one-time thing.
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| 7/29/2012 9:02:07 AM |
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ludya24
Boca Raton, FL
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No way, thats mean im not enough so stay away from me! 
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| 7/30/2012 1:39:04 AM |
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sharonorahs2
Wilmington, NC
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Absolutely not
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| 7/30/2012 10:12:50 AM |
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jaekae96
Indianapolis, IN
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If I loved him enough, I would. Women cheat too. I have, and was forgiven. Would you want a second chance? Would always depend on the circumstances.
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| 7/30/2012 9:13:22 PM |
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chicago986
Lorain, OH
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Hell No because they will do it again and again and lie more and more and you will be hurt in the end second chances never work out.If he really loved you he would not have cheated on you in the first place he just showed that he dont care at all.
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| 8/2/2012 9:20:26 PM |
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littlebella2012
Saginaw, MI
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yes depends on the situation because we all make mistakes an the reality is if we kept leaveing everyone who ever cheated on us we would be alone.. it happens.. all though im knot stupis i can forgive once but not twice.. then he would be out!!!
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| 8/6/2012 7:38:56 PM |
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scourge101
Sheffield, AL
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Yes.
I think everyone needs a 2nd chance!
What better 2nd chance to take for your Cheater?
He probably will do it again,but I think everyone needs a 2nd chance at least!
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| 8/6/2012 10:51:10 PM |
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fiacha
Lorton, VA
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Not going through that drama ever again. Nope.
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| 8/7/2012 1:33:09 AM |
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cactusflower74
Des Moines, IA
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Been there,done that. Once a cheater, always a cheater & no trust is left in the relationship.
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| 8/8/2012 12:08:37 AM |
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unsweetened
Lancaster, OH
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Hell no, no matter the reason why they cheated they don't deserve ANYTHING! You say "oh everyone deserves a second chance" Cheating isn't a mistake you can just change by saying sorry. Someone just said you know they will probably do it again, so why hurt yourself even further? knowing it will happen again anyways?? that seems pretty dumb to me.
It's like this if they can cheat on your a** and get away with it and your stupid enough to take his/her a** back, They will do it again and again and again, Why? because he/she knows YOU WILL TAKE IT! And not leave them. Why people feel the need to be with someone and cheat is beyond me, Cut the ties and just be single and sleep around.
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| 8/12/2012 11:38:46 PM |
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nicewalk
Kaiserslautern
Germany
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Depends on HOW MUCH he cheated. My EX-BF cheated on me really often and with prostitutes also; he never really admitted it, but I found a lot of telephone numbers and addresses in his navi (of wh*re-houses)...So it was not only "one mistake", he even improved his cheating (second cell phone, calling me before he left there, so I wouldn't call him anymore etc.). I still love him, but I couldn't trust him anymore. (He's great at making you feel like the only one). He now wants to marry me, but well, this is not going to happen anymore.
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| 8/14/2012 1:57:51 AM |
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jboo60545
Batavia, IL
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well to be honest it depends on how bad he cheated on yu but personally I also think hell no bc they already messed up once so who's to say they wnt do it again
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| 9/5/2012 4:14:34 AM |
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jamie624
Peoria, AZ
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Hell no.. I would not give that man a second chance.. One a cheater always a cheater.. Never want responsiblites.. Always work, no play, just never got anything.. I will never ever go back.. I moved on.. And loving it..
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| 9/5/2012 6:31:14 AM |
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
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Nope that's why he's my ex.. Was heartbreaking cause I was in love, but disrespect me and our relationship and I'm done! Yes, I can walk away even if I'm in love it's bitter sweet and hurts like hell, later found out he started cheating on his new GF.. all I could think was, Good luck with that.... (Glad it wasn't me, anymore) 1x is all it takes..
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| 9/5/2012 7:46:47 PM |
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audriadawson
Bronx, NY
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Keep it moving. I move forward my backwards!
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| 9/5/2012 8:45:00 PM |
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sancha23
Aurora, CO
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Hell no wouldn't even think about it there's to many other man out there that will respect u just have to finde him lol...
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| 9/6/2012 12:57:48 PM |
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lildarln4rt1
Mesa, AZ
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Been there...done that! I tried, but I couldn't get past it! It didn't help that he needed to be completely transparent in all that he did to rebuild the trust, and wasn't able to do that... so inevitably our second chance failed!
Doesn't mean some couples might not succeed in rebuilding... If you truly love this person and feel it's worth the effort, you may want to try as well. If the changes don't occur that need to take place, then at least you made every effort without having the regrets or "what ifs"...jmo 
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| 9/6/2012 3:10:14 PM |
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xashax
Union, NH
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I probably would have when I was younger but now Im too old for those kinds of games. I gotta go with "no" on this one.
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| 9/8/2012 10:47:48 AM |
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jemeyes54
Spokane, WA
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If I had to do it all over again hell no
He cheat with my best girl friend
Left. Me 7 months pregnant our and with our three daughters so he could find himself finally came back two years later
Forgave him then shouldn't have
This time no f**king way
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| 9/8/2012 10:51:09 AM |
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purplehaze1126
Dade City, FL
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If I had to do it all over again hell no
He cheat with my best girl friend
Left. Me 7 months pregnant our and with our three daughters so he could find himself finally came back two years later
Forgave him then shouldn't have
This time no f**king way
This is exactly why my answer is no! What kind of "man" does that? Wait a second, a real MAN would NOT do that!!!
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| 9/8/2012 10:53:56 AM |
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purplehaze1126
Dade City, FL
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I don't care how my trust level has been violated it has been violated, and without trust I cannot have a solid foundation. Once deception of this sort happens the likelihood of it happening again is great. Along with the cheating comes the lying as well. I have zip, zero, zilch tolerance for it
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| 9/8/2012 12:31:06 PM |
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lipbiter12
Seagrove, NC
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F**K no! ONCE a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater! They canNOT be "rehabilitated".
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| 9/9/2012 10:53:20 AM |
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dottedstar
Coshocton, OH
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F**K no! ONCE a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater! They canNOT be "rehabilitated".
What she said!!!!
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| 9/10/2012 1:54:44 AM |
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jesilyn26
Rhinelander, WI
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When you love someone, you shouldn't be loving on someone else!
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| 9/12/2012 7:15:54 PM |
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witchofthewest
Rancho Cordova, CA
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Not when it comes to cheating, no, no, no, no to the infinity!
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| 9/12/2012 9:37:00 PM |
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bay_shore
Washington, DC
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No. Most likely he has cheated before. But this is the first time he was caught in the act.
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| 9/14/2012 12:00:31 AM |
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qtronni3
Virginia Beach, VA
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i would give them a chance because you never really know if you might be on the end of that stick in the same shoes ... people make mistakes.. and who is to say that they dont learn from em. i make one at least every week and i continuosly learn from em. so second chance is okay but a third one will never happen.
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| 9/19/2012 11:32:15 AM |
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sharrison92
Pilot Rock, OR
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Honestly, cheaters can change but theyre not gonna change being urs if theyve already done it once to u..
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| 9/20/2012 1:17:19 AM |
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24milkduds
Vallejo, CA
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just had this conversation with a guy friend, he states if you really love your mate, but have the chance to fulfill a fantasy this one time..you should be given a second chance...Hell No! a cheater is a cheater, and that is my view!
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| 9/21/2012 10:43:13 AM |
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angiekristen07
Raeford, NC
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I know this is against the grain for most, but I think everyone has weak moments, or can sometimes be self destructive. but we all do grow and change in life. I would however trust my instincts, and make him earn my trust again
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| 9/28/2012 11:22:03 PM |
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lenn1825
Cavite
Philippines
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I think everyone deserves a second chance,so my answer would be,YES.
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| 9/29/2012 10:30:44 AM |
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aqua321
Deer Trail, CO
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I realize that you are looking for an answer, but the reality of this is yoare the one that has to decide. There is really no right answer. If he means enough to you to try and work things out then forgive him and take him back. But trust is a really hard thing to repair and you have to except the fact that he might cheat again. Some times it is better to cut your losses and move forward. Good luck in making your decision. It has always worked out the for the best when I follow my gut instinct.
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| 9/30/2012 12:29:45 AM |
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annaaaboo23
Helotes, TX
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Depends on they guy, but then again they're all dogs
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| 9/30/2012 12:36:16 AM |
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la_dv8
Albuquerque, NM
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No
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| 10/1/2012 10:09:59 PM |
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pinksky22
Barberton, OH
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I never cheated on a man and expect the same. If he cheats then he is gone.
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| 10/1/2012 10:15:43 PM |
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littlebee
Clinton, OH
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No been cheated on and it hurts.I would never cheat and would want the same respect from the man
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| 10/7/2012 4:19:53 PM |
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dethklokangel
Yuba City, CA
37, joined Oct. 2012
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Oh bloody HELL no!!! I tried that ONCE before with my ex giving him more than THREE chances and He can't keep his apple in his own pants cheating me six times!!
It felt so good for all those years I chewed him out like a vicious pit bull at the dance because he's such a bloody cry baby! I got his face white like he just died on the floor! LMFAO
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| 10/8/2012 8:26:26 PM |
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dumbdog
Johnson City, TN
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i did give my ex 3 chances he never changed and in my book if he cheats he probally would lie steal or kill never trust those kind of men they should be strung up by their feet 4 a week
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| 10/8/2012 8:30:37 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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| 10/8/2012 8:47:58 PM |
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jeanem
Omaha, NE
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No, the trust is gone.
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| 10/8/2012 9:41:59 PM |
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shareberry
Chicopee, MA
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My last was not physically one, but he did some stuff where he was paying for video chats on computer, which was so uncalled For and then caught him talking with other girls, that ended the engagement and tried to work on it after and always had a feeling after, and my gut was right... And plus there were other issue but that was the main topper...
So much better off...
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