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simplyshy34
Kentwood, LA
43, joined Aug. 2011
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The times I have, it only ended up happening again...so NO!
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| 10/9/2012 2:22:26 PM |
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keepslowprofile
Moose Lake, MN
98, joined Nov. 2011
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No way.
Nope.
Never.
Ain't gonna happen.
No way.
Once a cheat, always a cheat.
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aperture
Philadelphia, PA
27, joined Oct. 2012
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No. No matter how much I love him, I couldn't take him back. Even if he says it was a one time thing or that it didn't mean anything, the damage is already done. There would be a nagging voice in the back of my head all the time, constantly question him and everything he says and does. I couldn't live like that.
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| 10/11/2012 12:16:08 AM |
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fallenangel0485
Waukesha, WI
32, joined Feb. 2010
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Nope
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| 10/11/2012 3:31:31 AM |
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mary6522
Freedom, CA
30, joined Sep. 2012
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I wouldn't because they cheat on u once and u 4 give them them after a while there they go again
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| 10/11/2012 9:08:33 AM |
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brokenheart0837
Gastonia, NC
27, joined Aug. 2012
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Honestly i would give them a 2nd chance if u really loved that person enough then o well if they cheated as long as he come back to me in the end f**k it and love over powers everything !!!
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| 10/17/2012 5:25:18 PM |
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realtalk120
Carson, CA
67, joined Aug. 2012
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At my age HELL no. There was a time I would have but now absolutely not
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| 10/17/2012 5:26:08 PM |
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realtalk120
Carson, CA
67, joined Aug. 2012
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no
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| 10/18/2012 10:49:00 PM |
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kryptickitty85
Cumming, GA
33, joined Jul. 2012
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H-e double hockey sticks no!! Once a cheater always a cheater. There is no respect there if that person cheated in the 1st place!
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| 10/22/2012 2:44:56 PM |
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halcyonmerc
Lawton, OK
24, joined Oct. 2012
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The trust between us would never be the same and would place us both in an awkward position I think.
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| 10/23/2012 11:28:10 AM |
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preciouslady51
Dyersburg, TN
56, joined Aug. 2012
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No, why? They will just do it again.
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| 10/23/2012 11:30:21 AM |
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preciouslady51
Dyersburg, TN
56, joined Aug. 2012
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Why? They will just do it again.
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| 10/23/2012 8:17:07 PM |
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cowgirlz21
Yakima, WA
27, joined Apr. 2012
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Not dating a guy but a girl but I think its still applies, but yes I would give them a second chance. I am more of a three times your out on your a** kind of person.
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| 10/24/2012 1:18:00 PM |
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beachgirl97
Aynor, SC
50, joined Aug. 2012
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I have in the past, but NEVER again after cheating ended a 16 year relationship & 10 of
of that we were married. I promised myself that I would never live through that pain again, if you don't love me & want to be with me the just leave DON'T CHEAT...... IT HURTS.....
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| 10/25/2012 12:00:02 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
36, joined Jul. 2012
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Not just no, but hell no! After seeing my mother go through such turmoil for years it' s not something I wish to sign up for.
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| 10/27/2012 1:08:07 PM |
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jamie624
Peoria, AZ
41, joined Apr. 2012
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I still say hell no, he sends his slut to insult me in front of my son.. I dont rub my friends in my face.. I laugh at him cos now he tells me he is too nervous to have her two kids and my boy and a newborn.. Out and about.. I moved forward.. I just dont think he should bring her everytime for visitation.. Its a slap in the face.
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| 10/27/2012 3:40:17 PM |
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six1five
Marietta, GA
30, joined May. 2011
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Nope
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| 10/27/2012 5:15:26 PM |
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jess1001
Mesa, AZ
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once a cheater always a cheater!!! I am sure that has been said more than once in here.
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| 10/27/2012 8:07:57 PM |
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dixieflaggirl
Ellabell, GA
25, joined Oct. 2012
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no, I'll not be a victim of his cheating more than once, and once is enough.
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| 10/28/2012 9:59:53 PM |
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arii323
Los Angeles, CA
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Nope. He'll do it again
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| 11/8/2012 12:58:17 AM |
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sassysweet123
Oklahoma City, OK
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It happened to me...13 yrs with my boyfriend decided he wanted alittle something on the side and wanted me to be ok with it....who does that crap
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| 11/10/2012 12:09:15 AM |
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laugh101always
Orlando, FL
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F***. NO.
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| 11/10/2012 1:43:34 AM |
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robin0927
Cincinnati, OH
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No i wouldnt. Once a cheater allways a cheater.
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| 11/11/2012 1:07:04 PM |
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fairblond60
Bakersfield, CA
57, joined Sep. 2012
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Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater! plain and simple.
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| 11/11/2012 1:40:47 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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| 11/14/2012 4:51:43 PM |
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icbubbless
Bronx, NY
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did that... and he still cheated.. wasnt worth forgiving the first time
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| 11/14/2012 6:45:05 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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No.
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| 11/21/2012 8:40:51 PM |
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dtrap718
Toms River, NJ
29, joined Nov. 2012
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Honestly, I was with my daughters father for 4 years, and out of the 4 he cheated on me 3 times. Kind of broke me down, and made me hate men. I have trust issues now cause of one man, so it's def. Not worth it.
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| 11/23/2012 2:33:28 AM |
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greeneyedgirlok
Oklahoma City, OK
47, joined Nov. 2012
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Hell no! If he cheats once he will cheat again. This is the honest truth. If he doesn't respect you enough to NOT cheat You need to respect yourself enough to not allow it. Not all men are cheaters. We are all tempted, but how one conducts themselves is who they really are. And clearly he is a cheater.
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| 11/23/2012 9:53:23 PM |
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alicia1031
Temecula, CA
30, joined Oct. 2012
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Did once and he repetitively cheated. For me personally I will not give a second chance again.
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| 11/23/2012 10:59:47 PM |
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jamie624
Peoria, AZ
41, joined Apr. 2012
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Nope.. Not even a call..
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| 11/25/2012 4:28:26 PM |
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blackcatblues
Chesterfield, MO
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My ex was walking with our daughter. She was 4. He was smoking a cigarette and not looking at her, outside. She ran into a tree! I came home a couple of minutes later. Half of her face was blue. He was on the computer, ignoring her. I call the md & they slightly calmed me down. But NO sex after that. I kicked him out a couple of months later but, priorities are children, not stupid adults 
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| 11/25/2012 4:43:21 PM |
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xashax
Union, NH
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I understand that he was irresponsible but was he cheating? 
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| 11/25/2012 6:18:25 PM |
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blackcatblues
Chesterfield, MO
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As it turned out also, yes 
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| 11/26/2012 5:02:47 PM |
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marie444444
Spring, TX
49, joined Oct. 2012
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I have in the past, but NEVER again after cheating ended a 16 year relationship & 10 of
of that we were married. I promised myself that I would never live through that pain again, if you don't love me & want to be with me the just leave DON'T CHEAT...... IT HURTS.....
Perfect...response. I could not have said it better myself. I tend to always give people the benefit of the doubt, not worried about what he has done in the past. But I am older and wiser, and once we both agree to be in a relationship we both know the rules :heart::.
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| 11/29/2012 12:56:44 PM |
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impressmary
Waterbury, CT
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No
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| 11/30/2012 5:35:19 PM |
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shayla585
Rochester, NY
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| 11/30/2012 5:39:54 PM |
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shayla585
Rochester, NY
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No because if he gets away with it one time he'll feel like he can get away with it again.
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| 11/30/2012 7:43:24 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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| 12/3/2012 10:07:20 PM |
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ladviv
Baton Rouge, LA
55, joined Dec. 2012
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Hell no ...
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| 12/13/2012 8:16:07 PM |
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msbossy1
Houston, TX
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Definitely not, once a cheater alwaysa cheater. The first time you decide you wanna mess around on me will be the last time 
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| 12/16/2012 1:00:34 PM |
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heathensmom
Shelbyville, IN
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same as a man that hits a woman. they will do it again. if they cheat, they also are liars.
told my ex if he ever cheated I would tear off his testicles and hang them off my rearview mirror like a pair of fuzzy dice...he still had them when I kicked him out. 
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| 12/16/2012 1:13:31 PM |
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kitty97
West Palm Beach, FL
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Imagine the screen filled with these letters:
NO
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| 12/16/2012 2:56:09 PM |
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swaggurl26
Northbrook, IL
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H-E-double hockey sticks....NO.
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| 12/17/2012 7:57:21 PM |
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bstaypulling
Perris, CA
26, joined Dec. 2012
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Once a cheater always a cheater, the one who cheats with yu will cheat on yu
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| 12/17/2012 8:20:13 PM |
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georgiamama2010
Pembroke, GA
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no, I won't allow myself to be a victim of his heartlessness. once is one too many times.
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| 12/25/2012 9:25:18 PM |
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rosahaze
El Paso, TX
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its simple, if they did it once they will do it again. why? because it's easy.
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| 12/26/2012 2:32:21 AM |
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19smilez89
Compton, CA
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Once a cheater always a cheater but when u luv sumtimes u make stupid mistakes but ppl do change sumtimes 
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| 12/26/2012 5:32:58 AM |
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yourfriendfirst
Lobelville, TN
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I wouldn't give them a second chance. If I did I would be not respecting myself. If I don't no one else will.
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| 12/28/2012 12:11:10 PM |
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pumkin74girl
Wheeler, MS
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HELL NO but , opps i gave mine 4 chances, YEAH I KNOW DUMBAZZ RIGHT
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sky62010
Pacoima, CA
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If he gives me good loving. If not, no I would not forgive him.
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
47, joined Mar. 2009
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Just dating a guy who would cheat, Hell no I wouldn't give him a second chance.. (I have never cheated so I expect the same) and I know for a fact I wouldn't stay, because that is why I'm single.. 1x I'm done!
If I were married and he cheated I may try to work it out but, he best remember what comes around goes around (not saying I'd cheat) but if he was vulnerable then don't think someday I may not be.. (again not saying I'd cheat) His a** would work to get my trust back and damn straight he'd remember it wasn't worth it..
It's human nature to want to cheat or want to know what it's like... but,it's another to do it..
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nursemel73
Burleson, TX
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Hell no.. I did it once and he was still a cheater..I learned my lesson.. The hard way..
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swimgirl701
Trumbull, CT
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hell no if they cheated once they will do it again
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| 1/6/2013 10:41:49 PM |
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jamie624
Peoria, AZ
41, joined Apr. 2012
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hell no if they cheated once they will do it again
I agree! No no NO!!!!!
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| 1/8/2013 11:46:13 PM |
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tinkerbrat25
Pittsfield, MA
30, joined Dec. 2012
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I've been there done that way to many times with the same person. Why'd I take him back not because I only loved the person but I saw As if I kept taking him back he'd finally realized I wasn't like the rest and he learn from his mistake (never happened)cycle repeated itself. But I don't believe in the saying once a cheater always a cheater. Some people like myself have cheated and then learned to be faithful. In all honesty would I take the cheater back most likely especially if its the same person. There must be a reason why the two are still connected. Sometimes it takes time and patients to get it right.
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| 1/8/2013 11:55:40 PM |
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liveever757
Williamsburg, VA
33, joined Dec. 2012
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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| 1/9/2013 1:06:03 AM |
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ladyc2003
Burkburnett, TX
41, joined Dec. 2012
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I am currently in that problem!! Forgave husband 2 times already, than he did again!!! So now we r getting divorce!!! Its not worth the pain!!! 
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| 1/9/2013 11:11:05 AM |
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blacchina
Pomona, CA
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No not at all cause every time I would Iook at him I would think about what he did
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| 1/10/2013 9:37:40 AM |
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ddlavru4me
Johnstown, PA
61, joined Dec. 2012
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once cheat could do again ... no trust anymore ... been there ... doesn't pay to give another chance ... also if I wasn't enough woman for him, he can let the door not hit him in the a** ... and good luck to him ... I deserve better than that ...
Just my opinion ... if you think a cheater is deserving of a second chance give him one ... my experience is what it is and shaped my opinion
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