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sharonorahs
Wilmington, NC
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rachel_cassidy
Minneapolis, MN
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NWIH
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| 1/29/2012 12:30:08 AM |
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imaceltic
Salem, OR
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No!!!!
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| 1/30/2012 4:56:46 AM |
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frendlyfyre
New York, NY
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It depends. I would NEVER tell a guy this but seriously, why let one indiscretion ruin the entire relationship? No one is perfect.. But like I said this is a case by case basis.
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| 1/30/2012 3:44:57 PM |
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sweetpea0607
Harbor City, CA
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I agree with you ^^^^
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| 1/30/2012 4:56:04 PM |
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65heart
Saint Simons Island, GA
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| 1/30/2012 10:10:02 PM |
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six1five
Marietta, GA
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Hell to the no
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| 2/2/2012 8:25:12 PM |
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pinkischic
Victorville, CA
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once a cheater ALWAYS a CHEATER...he is just looking for something better to come along, why put yourself through that mental torture wondering if he is at work OR out with the boys...not worth the anguish. Cut him loose and start over again.
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| 2/2/2012 9:09:25 PM |
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duchessa
Yonkers, NY
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1) Cheating is a huge sign of insecurity...2) A cheater may (and most times does) bring home a STD....We don't need insecure people around us and most certainly we don't need any STD.
No, I will not give a cheater a second chance.
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| 2/2/2012 9:46:16 PM |
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kimmy63
Fort Smith, AR
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Without trust what do you have,and i'm not sure I could trust anyone who could cheat on me.
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| 2/3/2012 9:52:20 PM |
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camilla79
Lynn, MA
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Nope!!  if he cheats once he will cheat again!, when it comes to trust there are no second chances once, broken it can never be fixed
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| 2/4/2012 7:51:24 AM |
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donewrkin
Lakeland, FL
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Sorry, no matter how much I loved him I would have to leave him.
Why are they wired so differently?? 
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| 2/4/2012 8:10:31 PM |
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robin81360
Parkersburg, WV
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I agree
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| 2/5/2012 3:06:12 AM |
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stormygrl
Denver, CO
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No once a cheater ....always a cheater!!
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| 2/5/2012 7:48:35 PM |
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cenah
Cincinnati, OH
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After giving too many second chances I found they always return to past behaviours of cheating.
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| 3/2/2012 9:56:42 AM |
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samsonite87
Las Vegas, NV
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| 3/2/2012 6:48:24 PM |
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ilovemyjob
Frankfort, KY
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| 3/5/2012 6:57:52 PM |
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suzie2760
Columbia, TN
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once a cheater always a cheater . I dont understand why guys play games and cheat It shows who the adult real is between the 2 of them .......
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| 3/7/2012 5:07:22 PM |
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christied20
Tacoma, WA
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There are not enough days in a life time for me to put up with that b.s. again
[Edited 3/7/2012 5:09:08 PM ]
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| 3/7/2012 11:03:31 PM |
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cheridth
Monahans, TX
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i gave a cheater a second, third and fourth chance...never again. I was so retarded for doing that. But what the hey he was a real convincing liar so y beat myself up. It took a conversation with his mom and my kids questions that woke me up. I really loved him but no matter what i did it was never going to make him love me and do the right thing. Btw i have daughters would i want them put threw that no. If i didnt have daughters to role model for i probably still be with the j*rk. Which is sad. Women go through h*ll when they love someone like that. I learned my lesson, no its too much pain and drama to take back a cheater.
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| 3/8/2012 1:38:50 AM |
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zoey357
Boston, MA
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once a cheater ALWAYS a CHEATER...he is just looking for something better to come along, why put yourself through that mental torture wondering if he is at work OR out with the boys...not worth the anguish. Cut him loose and start over again.
going through this part^always wondering is he really at work, is too much distress, i had to let him go , for my own happiness
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| 3/8/2012 5:47:40 AM |
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megpies
San Antonio, TX
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I'm done making excuses about staying in bad situations. If he feels the need to cheat... I feel the need to leave the relationship.
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| 3/8/2012 12:21:48 PM |
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brenduuhh
Houston, TX
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Their is no excuse for a guy to cheat. If he doesn't like or love her anymore i feel like he should man up and just leave the relationship.
I've been burned in the past and I realize that I should have never forgiving him because at the end he did it again. Ive learned from this experience and I def. never want to be that girl again.
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| 3/8/2012 12:41:17 PM |
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toxicsoul
Salem, OR
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| 3/16/2012 6:11:14 PM |
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pinpanther
Trenton, MI
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b/c thier other fish in the c
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| 3/21/2012 9:30:50 PM |
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oceanbornchilde
Brea, CA
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No. Because if another woman could steal a man from me, she could keep him, 'cause I wouldn't want him anymore! 
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| 3/22/2012 11:10:24 AM |
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sweetmelissa18
Parkersburg, IL
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Helllllllll no
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| 3/22/2012 3:59:02 PM |
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tweetstuff
Tucson, AZ
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ok hows this one for you all what do you do if you been with a man for 3 years and got married but found out that he was areested and it was because he is a pedafile? but you never new.
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| 3/22/2012 5:15:28 PM |
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pplsheri
Salt Lake City, UT
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ok hows this one for you all what do you do if you been with a man for 3 years and got married but found out that he was areested and it was because he is a pedafile? but you never new.
Get married with a background check and credit report? Never!
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| 3/22/2012 11:52:40 PM |
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lovelylace1432
Swords
Ireland
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But only to one person though
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| 3/23/2012 1:31:46 AM |
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pingiluv
Albuquerque, NM
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I think the eye will always wonder
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| 3/23/2012 7:30:33 AM |
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pingponger
Lewiston, MI
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It's just not NO, it's HELL NO! I'm worth so much more then some moron with issues.
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| 3/30/2012 2:07:22 PM |
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jessa88
Rancho Cordova, CA
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NO way!
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| 3/31/2012 12:39:34 AM |
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sweetyvette4u
Boston, MA
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Once a cheater, always a cheater... waste of my time....
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| 4/2/2012 6:04:43 PM |
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maowow
Roseville, CA
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Heck no. If a man wants to be with other women thats fine go be with them. Dont drag me down though. It might be sad at first, but honestly. I will be happier later that you didn't waste my time and actually meet the man that is ready.
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| 4/4/2012 6:41:21 PM |
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lookin4ones
Hurst, TX
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Once a cheater, always a cheater... waste of my time....
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| 4/5/2012 3:59:43 AM |
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3n1nogirl
Westwego, LA
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F**k No!!
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| 4/5/2012 12:56:04 PM |
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24milkduds
Vallejo, CA
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No time to get envolve with the games people play!! Cheaters suck and shouldn't be in relationships....
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| 4/5/2012 6:47:12 PM |
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nit2wnit
Nashville, TN
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Been there done that. Writing a book about it. They don't change they just find a better way to hide it. Also, its hard to get over the distrust which leads to second guessing your self.
Don't do it. 
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| 4/5/2012 7:16:04 PM |
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fumeagater
Staffordshire
United Kingdom
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No as I may as well have MUG stamped on my forehead.
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| 4/5/2012 9:39:48 PM |
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onnie23
Grand Rapids, MI
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No ,once a cheater always a cheater.
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| 4/5/2012 10:24:02 PM |
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lookin4ones
Hurst, TX
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ok hows this one for you all what do you do if you been with a man for 3 years and got married but found out that he was areested and it was because he is a pedafile? but you never new.
Now, how the hell did this happened? Before dating ALWAYS run a background check, talk to their families and friends, get their medical chart, and do a thorough check.
Man is not a prize ladies. They could be an accessory that could be replace if needed. 
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| 4/7/2012 8:37:38 PM |
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thompson_girl
Thompsons Station, TN
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I have a big issue on trust.
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| 4/8/2012 7:04:07 PM |
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kerrybluedogmom
Katy, TX
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Plan and simple. No way ever. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Chances are he cheated on someone (unbeknownst to you) to be with you.
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| 4/9/2012 1:22:02 AM |
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24milkduds
Vallejo, CA
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Im a one man women..if you want to cheat have respect enough to break up first...no second chances in my book!
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| 4/18/2012 10:54:47 AM |
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babe528
Burr Hill, VA
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Once he cheated once he do it again /nope
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| 4/18/2012 4:36:00 PM |
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pike_co_rfd
Keokuk, IA
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Never ever again......
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| 4/19/2012 4:54:53 PM |
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maggiemagpie
Santee, CA
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Hell no
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| 4/19/2012 8:27:19 PM |
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six1five
Marietta, GA
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Sorry I don't want to take the chance of them doing it to me again
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| 4/19/2012 8:35:57 PM |
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randa0707
Auburn, GA
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No, no, no. (:
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| 4/22/2012 9:33:30 AM |
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barbiewestbrook
Philadelphia, PA
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Because once someone cheats on you that trust is lost u cnt trust him anymore your always going to wonder wht he's doing when he's not with u, cnt b with someone like that
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| 4/25/2012 11:13:05 AM |
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onnie23
Grand Rapids, MI
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let me revise my awnser It depends on the guy and situation
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| 4/25/2012 2:25:43 PM |
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prettymixzz
New York, NY
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Hell no if his a** is a cheater let his a** go u neva know wat type of nasty hoes he cheatin wit
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| 4/26/2012 6:16:02 AM |
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jude666
Pittston, PA
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We all make
mistakes "
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| 6/10/2012 11:25:23 PM |
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sportsgal14
Buffalo, NY
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I did it once. He cheated on me the first time I took him back. But yet, he was forced by his parents to break up with me because they didn't like me and I was "too fat" for him. :/
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| 6/10/2012 11:33:57 PM |
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pilgrimlass
Ayer, MA
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I have been married twice and both were cheaters. I won't date a man who has cheated on anyone he has been with, cause if he has done it to one he will do it to you also.: :thumbsdown::
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| 6/12/2012 4:35:25 PM |
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lisas69
Springfield, MA
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Its not fair to the gal
I only got abused in a second chance.
And couldnt trust him.
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| 6/12/2012 5:09:01 PM |
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innovativeone26
Pearland, TX
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I feel that everyone deserves a 2nd chance but in this case no! Why cheat on a good thing? 
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| 6/12/2012 5:48:40 PM |
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darknluvlee1
Saint Paul, MN
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A second chance to cheat again? No
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| 6/13/2012 10:05:08 PM |
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sagr65
Wylie, TX
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if he cheats once, he will cheat again.
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