8/16/2011 5:49:23 PM |
Dating someone who is 20 years younger |
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charstar67
Cumberland, WI
47, joined Jul. 2011
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How much does age mean to you? Would you date someone 20 years younger than you? Guess that depends if they are even born lol but lets say you are 43 like me would you go out with a 22 year old?
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8/16/2011 5:56:03 PM |
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shelybean
Goldsboro, NC
47, joined Feb. 2010
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Nope. I'm not dating someone that is young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent lol.
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8/16/2011 5:57:11 PM |
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75scott
Salt Lake City, UT
40, joined Mar. 2010
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Doesn't work for me. That sort of math equals prison for me.
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8/16/2011 6:04:19 PM |
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struckbylightn
Oelwein, IA
58, joined Oct. 2009
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Yes. Been there, done that. 20 years younger as well as older. When I was 24 I dated a woman 44. So you're definitely not alone in having larger age differences between you and your mates.
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8/16/2011 6:07:56 PM |
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rlm68
Aurora, CO
46, joined Apr. 2010
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age isnt an issue.
but dating someone my daughters age is too creepy...
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8/16/2011 6:14:24 PM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
64, joined Dec. 2008
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Oh hell NO...My son is 43, any Man his age Now if hes 5 - 10 years younger then me, I'd have to think Long and Hard about it. I've done the 10 younger and I'm really Not Sure if I wanna go there again
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8/16/2011 6:35:07 PM |
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invinciblemuse
Alf
Germany
42, joined Jun. 2011
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When love strikes, what can you do?? It's only ever the others, who are not in the relationship, who count the years. People in love don't give a damn!!
[Edited 8/16/2011 6:35:17 PM ]
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8/16/2011 8:17:59 PM |
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renegadetrucker
Lomira, WI
51, joined Jul. 2011
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When love strikes, what can you do?? It's only ever the others, who are not in the relationship, who count the years. People in love don't give a damn!!
EXACTLY!!!
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8/16/2011 8:21:27 PM |
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daniel8673
Shelby, NC
29, joined Jul. 2011
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when you get into things like this always about sex! id love to have an older woman just too see what its like. If shes been around for 20 more years than i have she might know how to f**k perfectly! but as always the attraction has to be there so it better be a good looking 45 year old.....wich ive seen some good looking older women that id love to please
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8/16/2011 8:22:45 PM |
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zapphire_6_9
Rome, GA
45, joined Aug. 2011
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ive been seeing a 24 yr old for while now. i'm 41. i have an 19 and 14 yo boys. i asked my kids in the begining what they thought. my boys told me if i was happy with him that was all that mattered. my mom even knows but she cant say anything her bf of over 30 years is 18 years older than her. so as long as everyone concerned is ok and happy then enjoy life with that person.
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8/16/2011 8:31:35 PM |
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matureblkmann
Atlanta, GA
60, joined May. 2011
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I go by the ten rule.Ten years older than my kids and ten years younger than my sweet mom.Thats cutting it.
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8/16/2011 8:34:04 PM |
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troublextoo
Washington, MI
48, joined May. 2011
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If it feels right, you click with each other and your both comfortable with the age difference then why not. Dont worry about what others think or say, they dont live your life or walk in your shoes!
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8/16/2011 8:41:44 PM |
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goodman4sum1
Reading, PA
46, joined Oct. 2009
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20 years younger or older is too great a difference for me.
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8/16/2011 10:18:44 PM |
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xyhoney
Atlanta, GA
36, joined Apr. 2010
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my last boyfriend was 16 years older I never thought I thuoght I'll date someone that old but it was great the youngest was 7 years and not so great, do whats fits u, men date younger women all the time
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8/16/2011 10:19:13 PM |
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trulovewaits21
Castaic, CA
25, joined Jun. 2011
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It's what the heart wants not what other people want for u. U are ur own person and u can make ur own decision and let ur heart deceide
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8/16/2011 10:20:02 PM |
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jenlynn84
Bemidji, MN
31, joined Jul. 2011
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I would rather not date a second grader if I can help it.
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8/16/2011 10:23:52 PM |
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ashadeofred
Lansing, MI
64, joined Dec. 2007
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Thats too much difference. I need someone I can relate to on several levels.
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8/16/2011 10:54:42 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
55, joined Jul. 2007
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I barely had anything in common with the one I went out with who was ten years younger so nah, I'll pass on this one, too young for me.
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8/16/2011 11:55:59 PM |
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sweetpeapaddy
Salem, OR
37, joined Jan. 2011
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I'm 33 and I probably wouldn't date a 22 year old. I would and have dated guys 20 years older though.
Really, once someone hits about 25 it really doesn't matter as much anymore.
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8/17/2011 12:01:46 AM |
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pepgirl
Brockton, MA
49, joined Jul. 2010
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Nope not for me OP.
Although that's all that seems to contact me 18-25!
I should have been a cougar!
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8/17/2011 3:59:13 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
55, joined Feb. 2010
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I would never date someone 20 years younger than myself. I have a daughter that is that age. Just like I would not date someone 20 years older. My mother is that age.
My limit is 10 years either way.
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8/17/2011 6:19:25 AM |
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one_of_two
Greensburg, IN
42, joined Aug. 2011
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I once did the reverse and it was closer to thirty years. Never again and would not even go ten years younger now.
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8/17/2011 6:22:17 AM |
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bigdudeoncampus
San Diego, CA
38, joined Jun. 2011
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This place is stacked with cougars that do that shit all day, and the boys are jacking off like mad on their cams for that shit.
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8/17/2011 8:52:26 AM |
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ladyeden
Waynesville, MO
55, joined Apr. 2008
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Under 30 years old don't think the maturity level has had time to develop.
Would have a hard time taking a 20 year difference in age span seriously - really.
Short term just for fun sex, dating, sugarbaby expect would be more likely. However......there are exceptions to every rule.
Have been spending some occassional quality time with a thirty-something that has been kept friendly/buddy like (6 months so far) but he's always dated/married older women, has offspring and wants no more and we do have a tremendous rapport and commonalities. So while keeping the getting to know each other real slow and casual, there is some mutual growing interest.....can't just reject this particular potential pairing out of hand as rediculous. I guess never say never. What consenting adults choose to do is ultimately their business.
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8/17/2011 3:05:57 PM |
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mischiefmanaged
Bellevue, WA
45, joined Jul. 2010
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When love strikes, what can you do?? It's only ever the others, who are not in the relationship, who count the years. People in love don't give a damn!!
Exactly! X2!
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8/17/2011 3:53:02 PM |
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myprofile1
Polk City, FL
50, joined Aug. 2011
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I guess we could listen to Britney Spears Cd's .........
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8/17/2011 4:16:14 PM |
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matureblkmann
Atlanta, GA
60, joined May. 2011
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Hope the younger is into saggy skin.Sooner or later,saggy tits and skin will show up.
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8/17/2011 6:22:31 PM |
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solemanmt
Flagstaff, AZ
42, joined Aug. 2011
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I'd do it...of course I'll have to wait til next year to make it safe for me haha. 18 is still jail bait I don't care what they say.
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8/17/2011 6:30:23 PM |
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kuhlt
Grass Lake, MI
48, joined Feb. 2011
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Dating someone 20 years younger than me is the only way I can date someone who doesn't have three kids from two or more guys and a couple of exes that are nothing but jerks to me. Why do women wait until they're in their late thirties/early forties before they are finally done going out with the biggest f**king jerks and losers they can find. Do women in their twenties ever look for a decent guy and bypass the bad boy/loser,jerk phase??
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8/17/2011 6:35:19 PM |
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josh_p
Los Angeles, CA
28, joined May. 2008
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Uh, someone 20 years younger than me would be still in kindergarten.
Would I date someone 20 years older than me? Maybe since I don't get interest from all the women my age because they're all interested in the loser, good-looking bad boys.
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8/18/2011 1:37:44 AM |
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matthewcorey
Rochester, NY
29, joined May. 2011
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Why the heck not??
Why discriminate and limit yourself, when that younger person might be the best thing that ever happened to/for you??
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8/26/2011 6:15:23 PM |
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servantofchrist
York, ON
58, joined Jul. 2009
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The age emotional maturity for most women seems to be around 25. Give or take a few years. (Depending on the individual.)
After being alone for awhile, I'd have to say I've become less rigid in my insistence that a potential partner's age be any specific age at all. *shrug*
The law must certainly be attended to.
No, really though...I kinda believe that most 25 year-old women are able to "emotionally/intellectually satisfy men" of just about any age.
But maybe not. How would I know?
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8/26/2011 6:24:35 PM |
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hatari78
Oklahoma City, OK
36, joined Aug. 2011
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They both use or exhaust each other.
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8/26/2011 6:36:17 PM |
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touchtone1
Middletown, NY
45, joined Aug. 2011
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well i had a girlfriend that was 18 yrs younger than me. and it was nice. the only problem i had was that her family was trying to treat me like i was a child and they also where all up in the biz. had not they been all up in it. we would be together right now. i hate people that dont mind there biz. im a good man and shes a good woman. she has learned alot from me and i learned a couple of things from her. so i guess it all depends on the type of person your dealing with. so long as she/he acts mature enough to be in a relationship. then its all good. i just wont do it again. shes my only 106 insider.....
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8/26/2011 6:40:25 PM |
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rhea27
Danbury, CT
46, joined Dec. 2010
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Do whatever makes you and your partner happy.... as long as it's not forced or illegal.
Personally, I will probably not go beyond 10 years either way. I can't see myself with a guy that could you young enough to be my child or old enough to be my father or grandfather. There would not be a lot of (possibility for) longevity and commonality
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8/26/2011 6:46:53 PM |
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millyx22
Suffolk, VA
26, joined Aug. 2011
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20 years is too much of a difference for me. I don't wanna date someone who is old enough to be my mom. That's just gross in itself. I still look at my mom as a role model and good parent. I like to take in advice from older folks not fu#k them
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8/26/2011 6:48:44 PM |
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audlove515
Jasper, IN
26, joined May. 2011
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Maybe since I don't get interest from all the women my age because they're all interested in the loser, good-looking bad boys.
Josh!!! Your too good to talk like that!!
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8/26/2011 7:03:38 PM |
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zspall
Corona, CA
45, joined Aug. 2011
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It sounds creepy BUT my last few flings where 20+ younger... I have no clue why but freaking 18 to 25 yo tend to get into my pants. Freshly divorced and an 18yo a** begging me to bang em.. LoL loved every moment of it but prefer someone aroundy age.
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8/26/2011 7:08:58 PM |
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marble104
York, PA
45, joined Jul. 2011
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I dated a guy 10 years younger, but 20 is pushing it! That would mean someone the same age as my daughter & that would not feel right.
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8/26/2011 7:34:50 PM |
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luvins2
Marysville, WA
43, joined Jul. 2011
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In my experience men younger then me say by 10 years are fun, more open minded, less judgemental, willing to push the limits, accepting of change and new generations of diversity and variety and- stamina is a tad better. But they think intellectual stimulation is some kind of skull f**king, have less wisdom and are still immature. Older men, Have great conversation skills, intellect, know a little more about respect, have learned from their mistakes. But they are stuck in their era, and walk on graph paper with grids of boundaries and limits. Having that balance, that well rounded combination of interests and wisdom is not common for a lot of people- so choose one or the other. But 20 years? No! I agree on the child and parent perspectives.
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8/26/2011 8:10:59 PM |
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rhea27
Danbury, CT
46, joined Dec. 2010
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Quote from shane0012009: ive done it many times but age makes a difference.the idea that it dont is an ilusion.
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It's usually men that use the "age is only a number" phrase. Those are the horny young guys or "dirty old" men. Most grown men with their heads screwed on right, might fantasized about it, but won't follow through.
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8/26/2011 8:31:24 PM |
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randystaats
Sacramento, CA
45, joined Nov. 2007
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I don't know. Twenty years younger than me, she'd be 21, and most kids these days can't think for themselves. They're too busy with their texting while driving, and talking on their cell phones. And most of them suffer from ADD anyhow.
I think I wouldn't go younger than 24-25, not that it matters anyway. They have to like me too.
Heh. Right.
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8/26/2011 9:08:19 PM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
65, joined May. 2009
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I'm dating someone 21 years younger and we get along well. I let her be herself and only offer my advice if she asks. She makes her own decisions and learns the lessons from her mistakes. I don't try to press my wisdom on her and am younger in spirit for my age. It works for us and most people think I am in my late 40's.
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8/26/2011 9:47:32 PM |
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soloman99
Bakersfield, CA
45, joined Jul. 2011
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I would if I could lol But i know a 36 year who is a knockout and she looks 25. So it's not all that necessary to even go 20 years younger.
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8/27/2011 12:42:50 AM |
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hunt2011
Fargo, ND
61, joined Jan. 2011
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sure.did but never again
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8/27/2011 1:37:18 AM |
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grneyedluvr2
Sebastian, FL
50, joined Apr. 2011
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When love strikes, what can you do?? It's only ever the others, who are not in the relationship, who count the years. People in love don't give a damn!!
Oh pulease!! thats not love with a 20 year gap, thats lust for f**ks sake. there isnt a damn thing a 20 yr old is going to have in common with a 40 yr old except wanting to get f**ked. plain and simple.
OT...my son is 26, i think ill let him have the younguns as long as he introduces me to their moms. lol
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8/27/2011 1:39:59 AM |
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loveblueskies
Batavia, NY
62, joined Apr. 2011
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How much does age mean to you? Would you date someone 20 years younger than you? Guess that depends if they are even born lol but lets say you are 43 like me would you go out with a 22 year old?
Nope, personally that would be a little too pedophile for me.
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8/27/2011 1:44:00 AM |
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just_me_dani
Wilder, ID
29, joined Jul. 2011
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love knows no boundary
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8/27/2011 3:17:54 AM |
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gatorboy89
Bolivar, TN
26, joined Aug. 2011
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Age is just a number in my books the oldest woman I was with I was 20 and she was 28 she just didn't know if it was right or not
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8/27/2011 6:43:45 AM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
63, joined Jul. 2010
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Doesn't work for me. That sort of math equals prison for me.
LMAO! Hell at 60 I am safe with two thirty year old`s! For dating only!
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