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bmyheart
Perris, CA
42, joined Dec. 2009
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My profile turn offs are, when guys start their profile off sweet and innocent like " I'm looking for a good woman that I can treat like a queen" then after the first few lines of BS the true them start to show, "I'm very sexually active I like a woman who don't mine me putting her over my lap and spanking" lol how ridiculous.
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| 3/12/2012 8:57:08 PM |
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adsumars
Sandpoint, ID
48, joined Feb. 2012
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The old bait and switch me thinks?
Women with no profile pic or real description who want your phone number ect.
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| 3/12/2012 9:04:32 PM |
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donnalynn
Whitehouse, TX
37, joined Dec. 2007
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I hate it when they say " I'm just a simple man and want some one to love me for me" and then "I'm not looking for a relationship"..... What a joke!!
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| 3/12/2012 9:11:28 PM |
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adsumars
Sandpoint, ID
48, joined Feb. 2012
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They wan't lovin all right just happens to be for one night only!
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| 3/12/2012 10:08:43 PM |
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donnalynn
Whitehouse, TX
37, joined Dec. 2007
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Not from this girl you gotta wait!!! And earn that!
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| 3/12/2012 10:10:28 PM |
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adsumars
Sandpoint, ID
48, joined Feb. 2012
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 Smart girl guys!
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| 3/12/2012 10:36:34 PM |
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donnalynn
Whitehouse, TX
37, joined Dec. 2007
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I presume that me!!! Thanks!!!
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| 3/16/2012 5:24:06 AM |
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luckylibragal
Mesa, AZ
50, joined Oct. 2011
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Men that won't date someone their own age. I want someone that is mature and happy with themselves; rather than trying to prove they still "got" it.
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| 3/16/2012 6:39:03 PM |
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pappysmurf
Hinesville, GA
38, joined Mar. 2012
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A woman that has a bunch dudes on her page...and..and they look ridiculous. I don't want to be the next on there
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| 3/18/2012 6:06:30 PM |
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southernman65
Dallas, GA
53, joined Jan. 2012
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smokers
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| 3/19/2012 10:43:44 PM |
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ohmalley
La Salle, IL
38, joined Feb. 2012
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I really hate seeing "just wanna have fun". Duh. Like I want a root canal? Just say what you really mean-I wanna get laid.
Or since I am gay something to the effect of "fwb" "my man can watch/participate". Seriously?
1. Just because you think your man is the cat's pajamas does not mean he does anything for me. And I am not interested in being your experiment.
2. I am not a plaything. I am a human being with thoughts and feelings of my own. I am by no means a prude, but I'm not a blow-up doll either.
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| 3/19/2012 10:50:46 PM |
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ohmalley
La Salle, IL
38, joined Feb. 2012
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Caustiic, If only you were a woman!
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| 3/21/2012 12:05:45 AM |
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ohmalley
La Salle, IL
38, joined Feb. 2012
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People who push marriage/soulmate stuff. My grandparents never married and were together 45 years. They died 9 months apart. If you desperately need that piece of paper so badly as proof of my commitment to you than you don't get it. It's an archaic concept of ownership, having nothing to do with romantic love ( a relatively new concept). My proof of commitment is my presence.
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| 3/21/2012 6:14:42 PM |
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li5ten2urheart
Assawoman, VA
44, joined Feb. 2012
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True, but being obese is a recipe for health problems. As we age people develop health issues. Obesity is a life style choice and compounds health issues far beyond the normal issues of aging.
Obesity is not a lifestyle choice for a lot of people!!! I exercise three days a week and eat healthy, but I will never be a size 5 like I was at 19. I don't drink soda, coffee, tea, alcohol or smoke. Water is my choice. So don't judge others if you don't know the back ground.
I didn't receive a bad back and my other health conerns from obesity, I received them when I was a passenger in a car that was hit head on by a drunk driver when I was 4 months pregnant.
I was on a medication for two years and went off of it last year and lost 30lbs in one month with no other changes!! So, trust me being overweight is not a choice for most people.
I don't choose to be overweight and I do my best to take care of myself.
Maybe I should judge you because you choose to be partially bald!!!
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| 3/22/2012 10:41:32 AM |
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samhill420
Sullivan, MO
58, joined Mar. 2012
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What turns me off is females that have their profile private or no pic i pass them by and i won't post on their thread
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| 3/22/2012 1:01:15 PM |
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darknluvlee1
Saint Paul, MN
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Turn offs on a guys profile-
1. "Ask me and I'll tell you", I like to read their info to make a decision if we have something in common.
2. When they say "they don't want drama or baggage", probably means they have a crazy exwife or ex gf , but seriously we all have drama its called life.
3. Anything in their nickname with 69 or 420 or crazy sexually names, like "lickalotofpuss" or "horny4u", yeah no thanks.
Yes,everything she just said!!
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| 3/22/2012 5:14:10 PM |
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patriciabelle
Knoxville, TN
75, joined Nov. 2011
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lolol
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| 3/22/2012 5:17:13 PM |
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patriciabelle
Knoxville, TN
75, joined Nov. 2011
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Photos that are 15 + years old. Average weight does NOT mean 50 + lbs. overweight. 
lolol I ran into several, esp. one like this.
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| 3/22/2012 5:26:58 PM |
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patriciabelle
Knoxville, TN
75, joined Nov. 2011
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Yes. I have learned that the "no drama or baggage" people have enough for both of you. You just might interupt their emotional woes with your insignificant life.
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| 3/22/2012 5:45:15 PM |
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patriciabelle
Knoxville, TN
75, joined Nov. 2011
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The first meeting isn't always the best meeting since there are "nerves" involved..LOL. One turn-off would be someone from the east coast (New York, New Jersey) with that accent that comes through the nose. It just grates on my spine...sorry, it is what it is. I try not to put too much emphasis on the photo, however, since some people (myself included) don't photograph well.
Anyway...I've said WAY too much! I forgot I wasn't working on my third novel (gave up on the first two).
You too? I thought I was being awfully shallow judging people by the accent, which does grate. He may be a perfectly fine person, otherwise.
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| 3/22/2012 5:51:43 PM |
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stallion509
Milpitas, CA
44, joined Dec. 2011
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when they have more mustash than me.
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| 3/23/2012 12:31:18 AM |
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azrael49090
South Haven, MI
31, joined Mar. 2012
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Hey guy who does my have a job or at least it's not even going to school that just makes me think that I'm gonna be the one paying for everything. I agree with an earlier post about the immature screenames insinuating sex. my biggest pet peeve is someone who isnt a gentleman and hand me the check the last time this happened I paid my part and walked out.
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| 3/25/2012 11:09:40 AM |
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sassifrass419
Toledo, OH
37, joined Mar. 2012
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When you have pics up of your kids and your not in them. Why pimp your kids out like thst. this site isn't regulated there are no background checks that go on before you can search for profiles, its bad enough we are putting ourselves on display don't do it to your kids.
I think if you have kids you should definately mention that in your profile since some people will only date parents and vice versa but don't put their pic up yes their cute, yes you love them, yes you are a package deal, but theres no reason for their face to be on a dating site. That's just my opinion. There are a lot of disgusting people out there and you need to protect your kids from strangers just as would at outside.
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| 3/27/2012 12:49:32 PM |
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ange1eyes1953
Lawndale, CA
54, joined May. 2011
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when all me want is sex this is a dating site not a sex site so they need to look else where 
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| 3/27/2012 12:50:33 PM |
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ange1eyes1953
Lawndale, CA
54, joined May. 2011
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that is just to funny
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| 3/27/2012 6:31:10 PM |
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alainnwe
Warwick, RI
55, joined Dec. 2011
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What's up with sending a phone number right off in the first message, as if I would call, maybe its my age, its just to forward for me.
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| 3/28/2012 11:49:38 AM |
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mz_panama
Las Vegas, NV
33, joined Oct. 2011
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Agree with the girl above me. It's usually "what's up with your number" seriously that's a then off lol then its damn how big ate ur tits get with the program fellas!
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| 3/28/2012 12:07:08 PM |
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alainnwe
Warwick, RI
55, joined Dec. 2011
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Lol they don't ask me the next question!
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| 3/28/2012 8:25:23 PM |
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mz_panama
Las Vegas, NV
33, joined Oct. 2011
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Lol well trust me I'm sick of it hun
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| 3/29/2012 1:53:23 PM |
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crazycato
Powder Springs, GA
44, joined Feb. 2012
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when all me want is sex this is a dating site not a sex site so they need to look else where
I am not trying to be mean I personally am here to meet friends not date
And the site is date hook up not just Date  some things we just have to over look
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| 3/29/2012 2:17:08 PM |
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gentlebear1949
Apple Creek, OH
68, joined Jul. 2008
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| 3/29/2012 4:21:51 PM |
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megpies
San Antonio, TX
39, joined Jan. 2012
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I run from the phrase "just here to have a little fun". For some reason that just screams they are here to get laid.
And I check out posts... If they're a forum poster, it can help me get a feel for them. If all their posts are vulgar or in sex and dating or just rude, I pass. Also, if they have their friends visible and all the featured friends look like they could be related, as in no diversity..I will pass.
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| 3/30/2012 9:41:36 AM |
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crazycato
Powder Springs, GA
44, joined Feb. 2012
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i hate when the ladies put out demands
(if you do this if you do that i dont like this i dont like that and if you are a real man contact me )
then leave no info about them selfs
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| 4/2/2012 12:36:03 AM |
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redstarr1
Corpus Christi, TX
61, joined Feb. 2012
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This is for swamp donkey, you really are a donkey-get your self some therapy dude.
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| 4/2/2012 12:49:59 AM |
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redstarr1
Corpus Christi, TX
61, joined Feb. 2012
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If I was to put the ring on their finger first it would be from a cracker jack box.
That's very romantic and enticing- you should get lots of responses for you cracker jack ring..
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| 4/2/2012 4:07:23 AM |
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adsumars
Sandpoint, ID
48, joined Feb. 2012
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When a women posts her profile pics out of her highschool year book. Swears on the phone they are current but when you meet its a total
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| 4/4/2012 11:51:37 AM |
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shawnsr33
Dayton, OH
47, joined May. 2011
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after the second email , that said person treats you like you did them wrong in some way, and then say you look like or remind me of my ex and treat you like you were.
Making judgments by the photos which shows shallowness and ladys would have to agree.
Women can be just as bad as men.
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| 4/8/2012 10:58:15 PM |
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brwnydgrl61
Sandwich, MA
56, joined Feb. 2012
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smokers and/or mustaches
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| 4/8/2012 11:01:07 PM |
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brwnydgrl61
Sandwich, MA
56, joined Feb. 2012
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smokers and/or mustaches and people who reply who live omg states away or even countries
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| 4/9/2012 5:11:14 AM |
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megpies
San Antonio, TX
39, joined Jan. 2012
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When they show up but don't talk to you?? Like you've chatted for hours before but in person they show no personality.
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| 4/9/2012 8:31:05 AM |
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luvspells
Whitesburg, GA
43, joined Apr. 2011
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Reading this....
"i have been single long enough.... almost 3 days now and i need some attention. lets go"
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| 4/9/2012 9:28:29 AM |
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gentlebear1949
Apple Creek, OH
68, joined Jul. 2008
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When a women posts her profile pics out of her highschool year book. Swears on the phone they are current but when you meet its a total
That just happened to me recently......... ......well,perhaps not her yearbook,but at least 10 years old.....
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| 4/9/2012 1:59:01 PM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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With almost every one of MY potential "dates"
my "turn off " is on the first meet...
and that is usually their " attitude "...
I've dated approximately 20 to 30
gals from this site..
( most I knew from other sites too )
and ALL of them were as stated or MORE..!!
But it may be just me..
I deal in Forensic Data Acquisition
so BEFORE I even email, contact them,
or accept/read a message FROM/to them..
I ALREADY know most everything ABOUT them..
I am REAL careful...
cause with five ex-wives...    
I gots a nose for trouble..!!
 Digital Dog
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| 4/10/2012 5:59:18 PM |
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markwtbyct
Waterbury, CT
60, joined Mar. 2012
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Five ex-wives? I do not think I could ever handle that!
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| 4/10/2012 9:04:57 PM |
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southerndream32
Colorado Springs, CO
38, joined Apr. 2012
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someone who wants sex right away that mean they dont care about the long run or get to know someone. that doesnt make you feel special or like they or you are the one .
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| 4/10/2012 9:37:39 PM |
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iisgreen
Placerville, CA
38, joined Apr. 2012
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Baahaahaa! How about when men put up pictures after they cropped out a female next to them...
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| 4/10/2012 10:22:58 PM |
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southerndream32
Colorado Springs, CO
38, joined Apr. 2012
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got to agree with you there
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| 4/10/2012 11:32:08 PM |
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cowboy_54321
Sebring, FL
45, joined Oct. 2011
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Huge turn off's
So fixed on looks
Booty calls
Do not have enough common sense( yes I said that) to even respond. Thank you but I am not interested. Shallow people just are not worth it.
Also being the one who initiates everything in the relationship.
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| 4/11/2012 7:06:00 AM |
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luvspells
Whitesburg, GA
43, joined Apr. 2011
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Pictures of your reflection in the bathroom mirror.. Accompanied by your cell phone...
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| 4/11/2012 8:43:19 AM |
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flgir1
Lake Worth, FL
65, joined Mar. 2012
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So true i will be trying to talk to them and they are gone get off internet and never talk to them again!!!! Whats up with that?
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| 4/11/2012 8:52:53 AM |
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flgir1
Lake Worth, FL
65, joined Mar. 2012
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How can u find a man if you cant get past the first conversation with them , i feel im holding the whole conversation
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| 4/13/2012 8:30:12 PM |
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shawnsr33
Dayton, OH
47, joined May. 2011
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Five ex-wives? I do not think I could ever handle that!
Wow I think you lost your last house eh?
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| 4/13/2012 9:02:03 PM |
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markwtbyct
Waterbury, CT
60, joined Mar. 2012
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Actually I kept the house, it's the 401K plans I keep losing!
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| 4/14/2012 2:37:41 AM |
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gentlebear1949
Apple Creek, OH
68, joined Jul. 2008
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Pictures of your reflection in the bathroom mirror.. Accompanied by your cell phone...
You mean like this??.......
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| 4/15/2012 10:41:53 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
61, joined Jun. 2011
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When they tell you they "really liked your profile" but don't have a clue what you wrote.
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| 4/15/2012 10:48:13 PM |
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magnolia1488
Helena, AL
50, joined Feb. 2012
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no pics...come on, mine's out there....are you hiding something?
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| 4/16/2012 11:14:38 PM |
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hecate55
Jeffersonville, OH
65, joined Feb. 2012
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wearing sunglasses, no pictures and telling me what they like to do in bed when i don't know then, or have not even met them yet..... 
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| 4/17/2012 8:34:32 AM |
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luvspells
Whitesburg, GA
43, joined Apr. 2011
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no pics...come on, mine's out there....are you hiding something?
Most are hiding from someone... As in, not suppose to be on a dating sight...
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| 4/21/2012 3:44:51 PM |
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tcretiredhippie
Durand, WI
59, joined Apr. 2012
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My favorite so far is the mirror pic ehere the beer bottle AND the crack pipe were visible. Priceless!
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| 4/21/2012 7:58:00 PM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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meeting and finding tha 'a few extra pounds' is way more than a few.
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