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ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
60, joined Jan. 2008
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That isnt sexual. What do you do for him to go the extra mile to show how much you care?
How attentive are you to his needs...remember not sexual..
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| 4/26/2008 4:19:44 PM |
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eveane
Philadelphia, PA
26, joined Mar. 2008
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Repair his violin (I worked with woods for last decade with Steinway), he usually drops a tear everytime i tell him after 2 days "honey ur violin is ready to play again". Physical contact at every given second available (non sexual) he knows i hate being touched full stop, and me unable to keep my hands off him makes him feel special. SMS him at work every morning just to say "i love u sweetheart, i miss u and i cant wait to see u and hold u when u get home".. EVERYDAY! lol.
but mostly i spoil him with my music, hes the only person who actually cries when i play piano or violin.
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| 4/26/2008 4:34:00 PM |
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jangel53
Brampton, ON
62, joined Feb. 2008
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Respect him, listen when he is talking, wash his back, buy him cologne or a CD, make him his favourite home cooked meal, sew a button on his shirt, iron his shirt, give him a foot rub, give him a sincere compliment & many things I can't tell you.
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| 4/26/2008 4:35:01 PM |
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bonsaijoe
Vero Beach, FL
48, joined Oct. 2007
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where would that buttoned be sowed before i say yes
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| 4/26/2008 4:38:18 PM |
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thekimmykim
Burnsville, MN
34, joined Apr. 2008
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Make them dinner, give massages, etc.
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| 4/26/2008 7:52:47 PM |
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ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
60, joined Jan. 2008
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I enjoy getting up early to fix breakfast of his choice. I make his lunch if he comes home during the day, a nice dinner when he gets home. Ive already ran to the store to pick up his favorite beverge.
I wash and iron all of his clothes and put them away neatly.
I give loving touches, through out the day or evening and sweet kisses to keep him going.
I pack for him when he needs to travel on business or pleasure.
I enjoy sitting with him talking about his day and listen intently with a smile on my face lending a shoulder if he needs it.
I dress the way he likes to see me dress, sexy yet tasteful, and make sure I look fresh and well kept in order to greet him at the end of each day.
When he is doing yard work, I periodically take him a cold beverage, give him a kiss and a pat maybe feel him up some, just to let him know Im interested when he's ready.
As he relaxes during the evening, I bring him a snack and/or a drink to enjoy.
I participate in his interests, hobbies and go fishing, and camping with him.
I shower with him because I know he loves it.
I bake his favorite cookies without him having to ask.
I give him a massage as I know he needs it to release tension from a hard day
I will do what ever it takes whether in small deeds or large, to keep him happy
I do these little things for him because I want to, not because he asks or expects it.
There are many more attentive acts that I enjoy doing for the man in my life...these are only the a few..
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| 4/26/2008 8:16:13 PM |
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katrina_sq
Mena, AR
47, joined Mar. 2008
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Lady, I think you about covered it all. I think doing all those things for each other makes a stronger relationship. It's all about being considerate and thoughtful.
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| 4/26/2008 8:49:48 PM |
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muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
34, joined Mar. 2008
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for me, I give him as much space as he needs...if he had a rough day and just wants peace and quite to himself without me nagging him to take out the garbage then I just respect his space...I don't mess with his things....i give him as much time as he needs with his friends and family. If he has a bad day then I am there for him to lean on if he asks for me.
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| 4/26/2008 8:56:20 PM |
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stylist7
Berea, KY
47, joined Mar. 2007
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Maybe it is not what you are doing as much as it is when are you doing and how often...... When I was married I always cooked my Ex's favorites every day...had his coffee waiting on him when he got home, I handed it to him as he got out of his truck. I laid his towels and clothing out in the bathroom for his showers...I shaved him, being a hairdresser I always groomed his beard, mustache, and all his shaves were with hot lather and towels. I made his breakfast every morning and never told him NO when he wanted to be intimate even if I was not really in the mood I always took care of my man...Stylist
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| 4/26/2008 9:02:07 PM |
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collegekidunot
Winnsboro, LA
56, joined Feb. 2008
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give him a back massage!
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| 4/26/2008 9:33:36 PM |
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kitkat1204
Crawfordsville, IN
57, joined Dec. 2007
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ANYTHING and EVERYTHING i can possibly think of!!!
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| 4/26/2008 10:12:45 PM |
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chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
55, joined Feb. 2007
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I serve him the meals first before all others. At a potluck party, I make up a dish for him and bring it to him. My 2nd X colored his hair and I'd help him. When he's ill, I made sure that I gave him liquids throughout the day so he doesn't get dehydrated. I fix his favorite meals even if I don't like it.
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| 4/26/2008 10:13:46 PM |
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duby115
Converse, TX
49, joined Jan. 2006
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oh my
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| 4/26/2008 10:14:12 PM |
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tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
55, joined Jan. 2008
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I will cut and file his toenails, and then massage his feet. Kinda weird but he liked it
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| 4/26/2008 10:23:53 PM |
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kitkat1204
Crawfordsville, IN
57, joined Dec. 2007
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i do the toenail thing too, but everyone thinks i've lost my mind
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| 4/26/2008 10:24:48 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
58, joined Jan. 2008
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Love him for who he is, respect him, tease him,laugh with him,cry with him,let him know i am missing him,tell him how important he is,hug him,share the simple little things with him,mother him, befriend him, and be there for him...touch him often,and when he needs be his silent companion....
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| 4/26/2008 10:59:10 PM |
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susyk42
Appleton, WI
50, joined Mar. 2008
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I would cut his fingernails, rub lotion on his hands........cut his hair, shave his back, kiss him all over. Feed him breakfast in bed..anything and everything for him... this is just me.....and he still cheated...
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| 4/26/2008 11:04:21 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
45, joined Apr. 2007
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 ya gotta be kiddin
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| 4/26/2008 11:05:49 PM |
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onelife2live
Janesville, WI
51, joined Feb. 2008
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Sorry Susy, no hair on my back and I trim my own nails and don't eat breakfast...unless..
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| 4/26/2008 11:40:21 PM |
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wolfkeeper
Holland, MI
54, joined Feb. 2008
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Jeez this is a pretty open ended question.. but here are a few of the things I have done...
Take his mother out shopping for new clothes.
Given him a pedicure.
Cooked his favorite meal.
Spoke kindly to the mother of his children.
Played dress up and wore a pair of come f*ck me shoes with thigh highs.. .. uh.. yeah. Nothing really.
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| 4/26/2008 11:44:26 PM |
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steve419
New Port Richey, FL
37, joined Feb. 2008
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LadyV......Where have ya been fore the last 3yrs!! You sound great!!
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| 4/26/2008 11:47:39 PM |
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wolfcreekgal
Sheridan, WY
52, joined Dec. 2007
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When he is feeling ill, I like to treat him as if he were a small child. I bring him all of his meals, make sure the cup beside his bed is full and the wet rag on his forehead is kept cold.
I could go on, but am not in the frame of mind to write a novel!!!! 
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| 4/26/2008 11:58:16 PM |
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ru2timid
Rockford, IL
54, joined Dec. 2007
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I listen to him, but not necessarily with my ears. I watch his body language as it may be saying something different than his lips. Whether it's a homecooked meal or a bite out to eat, I try to make it fun. But mostly, I change the oil, spark plugs n wires and rotate the tires not to mention snake the pipes and mow the lawn! All so he can have cave time.
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| 4/27/2008 12:50:10 AM |
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heyppl
Saint Louis, MO
35, joined Mar. 2008
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Whatever he deserves, needs and wants. My man is spoiled. Will treat him like a King. That is if he deserves it.
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| 4/27/2008 12:52:37 AM |
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grovelbear12
Kingston, ON
58, joined Nov. 2007
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dam i knew i was in the wrong room lol this is where the ladies are and may i say good looking ladies at that . hellooo leadies.
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| 4/27/2008 12:53:09 AM |
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grovelbear12
Kingston, ON
58, joined Nov. 2007
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mean ladies sorry
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| 4/27/2008 12:55:28 AM |
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onelife2live
Janesville, WI
51, joined Feb. 2008
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The lack of response by the women speaks volumes imo...
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| 4/27/2008 12:57:47 AM |
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kitkat1204
Crawfordsville, IN
57, joined Dec. 2007
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| 4/27/2008 7:58:10 AM |
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imgenuine
Belle Vernon, PA
68, joined Apr. 2008
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Whatever I want to do for him . . . backrubs, text messages, sweet nothings, and not keep score. RC
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| 4/27/2008 8:02:49 AM |
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iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2008
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Yes.....he is the king...he does not have to lift a finger around me unless he wants to....I would do anything for him
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| 4/27/2008 8:12:18 AM |
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wildgypsy
Bellevue, WA
96, joined Aug. 2007
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Hmmm, when I was married...
He left in the morning after having a hot breakfast, with the lunch and both snacks for breaks I'd packed up, per his incredibly picky specifications. He came home to dinner waiting, along with desert, the bath water was drawn and his clothes were laid out, and there was also a pan of hot water in front of his chair for his feet if that is all he wanted. There was a fresh pack of smokes and a lighter on one arm of his chair, and the TV remote on the other. The house was always spotless, right down to the clean ashtray on the end table next to that same stupid chair LOL
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| 4/27/2008 12:40:29 PM |
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pichick712
Aston, PA
57, joined Jan. 2008
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Find me a man and I will let you know. It's been so long, I forget.
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| 4/27/2008 1:06:44 PM |
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candyisdandy
Montpelier, VT
50, joined Jan. 2008
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Cook for him, alot. Bake pies, he loves them. Tell him he is the best thing that ever happened to me and never bad mouth him. He goes to church, I don't but occassionally I go with him, it makes him very happy that I respect his faith. Buy him cologne and take him for drinks and dinner, he likes being pampered. Picnics and fishing, fixing his fish pole and making a new fly escpecially for him. He keeps them (flies) all separate and refuses to use them...What a guy my Michael. You wouldn't believe but I met him here (DH) about a year ago....
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| 4/27/2008 1:30:30 PM |
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bethlett
Spokane, WA
96, joined Apr. 2008
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Holy Mother Theresa....after reading this thread, I realize now that I don't need or want a man.
I NEED AND WANT A GOOD WOMAN!!!
Ok, ladies. I am currently taking applications. I do not cheat, I make bank, I give great foot massage, I own a barbecue, AND I have a brand new set of oversized Washer and Dryer!
EDIT: And there is this great mani/pedi place I have an account at....I'll get you your own personal Starbucks Card....There's a florist on the corner...
Not to mention my best friends are a realtor and a travel agent.
And I can put a penis on retainer for us if necessary...
rofl
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| 4/27/2008 5:02:23 PM |
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susyk42
Appleton, WI
50, joined Mar. 2008
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Hi bear, one
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| 4/27/2008 5:05:41 PM |
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butterfly832609
Fayetteville, AR
32, joined Apr. 2008
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pay all the bills for about 5 years, cook, buy him gifts, love him . . now its my turn. do i have any takers 
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| 4/27/2008 5:35:11 PM |
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barbara1
Reston, VA
59, joined Nov. 2007
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give him a massage, cook him a delicious dinner, clean for him, do his laundry or whatever he needs, maybe surprise him with presents and love him everyday!
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| 4/27/2008 5:53:04 PM |
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snowbird1961
Los Lunas, NM
54, joined Apr. 2008
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Don't have a man yet, but have lots of ideas.
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| 4/27/2008 6:00:14 PM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
50, joined Mar. 2008
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Well im pretty impressed with these ideas. even shocked by the clipping nails idea. didnt think women would do that. although i dont want anyone clipping anything on me, the thought is still nice. 
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| 4/27/2008 6:03:17 PM |
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hr4frnds8uphuh
Dayton, OH
47, joined Mar. 2008
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lmao beth
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| 4/27/2008 6:05:11 PM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
58, joined Jul. 2007
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Nothing...don't have one to pamper. But if you ask my dog and cat they can vouch for my pampering skills.
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| 4/27/2008 6:08:14 PM |
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hr4frnds8uphuh
Dayton, OH
47, joined Mar. 2008
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Dang, even the animals get better treatment then some of us men 
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| 4/27/2008 9:08:28 PM |
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lowstar
Falmouth, KY
60, joined Apr. 2008
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All these years never got spoiled by anyone like that. Sure sounds like some guys have a good thing ! Hope they appreciate it!
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| 4/28/2008 12:44:24 PM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
54, joined Feb. 2008
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onelife I'd give you breakfast but you'd need to give me a reason to be there in the first place................
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| 5/2/2008 11:39:21 PM |
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fiscalyear2008
Nacogdoches, TX
60, joined Apr. 2008
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give his dog a bath!!!!! go buy him a jockstrap!!!! drive for him so he can sit there and fall asleep!!!! fix him an ice cold glass of tea!!!! cook him breakfast!!!! make sure he has his lunch!!!! don't forget that wallet!!!! car keys!!!! kiss him good bye and be there for him when he gets home from work!!!!  
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| 5/3/2008 9:41:25 AM |
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doll121
Middleport, OH
58, joined Jan. 2008
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fix him breakeast in bed, buy him little gifts, drop notes throughthe house and in his car, call him at work, and etc.
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| 5/9/2008 5:43:15 AM |
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kwietkptkatie
Las Vegas, NV
47, joined Apr. 2008
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I now wait until he's asleep before I roll him. 
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| 5/9/2008 7:47:15 AM |
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iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
46, joined Feb. 2008
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I would treat him like the King he is........cook, clean and do his laundry.....give him massages......tell him how wonderful he is.......
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| 5/9/2008 7:50:41 AM |
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ldt
Houma, LA
49, joined Sep. 2007
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I would treat him like the King he is........I would let him cook, clean and do our laundry.....give him massages...after I get mine of course...tell him how wonderful he is......
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| 5/9/2008 10:18:09 AM |
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bikerangel3
Pittsburgh, PA
62, joined Nov. 2007
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Everything + foot and body massages , scrub him up and down in the shower , tell him dirty little night time tales of course I expect the proper appreciation when due!!!
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| 5/9/2008 10:36:45 AM |
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sweetiepie1977
Jacksonville, FL
38, joined Feb. 2008
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I love to send letters, texts, emails & poems.....
I also will buy him clothing "Florida" style....give him hugs, kisses, massages, tell him how gorgeous he is...
Basically shower him with lots of love...whether it be affectionately or material wise...
I love to show the man I am with, that I care about him so much that he will never second guess my feelings.
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| 5/9/2008 10:40:41 AM |
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mooseslayer
Fairbanks, AK
39, joined Apr. 2008
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Wow you laidies are awsome and the man thats gets any one of you is very lucky.
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| 5/9/2008 10:47:20 AM |
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justmemaree
South Australia
Australia
53, joined Feb. 2008
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be there with him and for him...............always!!
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| 5/9/2008 12:15:14 PM |
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usjunior
Albany, MO
59, joined Mar. 2008
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When I was with my husband I
Made his meals for him , plated them up, got his drink and took them to him in the living room top put on his tv tray so that he could watch TV after a long hard day at work, ( even though I worked as a cook in a nursing home and came straight home and started cooking for him) and then when he was done I would get his plate, fill his drink and go clean the kitchen up and do the dishes!!!
Did his laundry, fold them and put them up for him
Cleand the house, took care of all the finances, took the vehicles in for oil changes, inspections, and repairs
Gave him back scratches, massages, hair cuts, and good loven when ever he wanted
I gave him his space so that he could go visit with friends and didn't have me hanging on to him at all times ( yeah well that back fired on me , I meant guy friends not his girlfriend!!! ) may have to rethink that one next time!
Gave him truth, honesty, commitment, unconditional love, and my soul.
Sometimes I wonder how he ever manages with out me!!
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| 5/9/2008 12:20:46 PM |
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sumbeach777
Red Springs, NC
52, joined Feb. 2008
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Did all that to, and took care of the kids too. But things are looking up.....
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| 5/9/2008 3:29:33 PM |
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daretobreal
New York, NY
96, joined Oct. 2007
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First I need a man - LOL
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| 5/9/2008 3:50:29 PM |
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ferrari348
Milford, OH
54, joined Jun. 2007
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Dayummm,
All mine did was..
Raid my bank accounts
Rack-up my credit cards
Take all my chit
Nearly destroy my positive outlook on life
Virtually had me considering "going the other way"...don't worry didn't last long!
Good thing I'm heathen or I might have gone to the monastary
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| 5/9/2008 4:03:27 PM |
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zeanah
Clarion, PA
56, joined Dec. 2007
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Breakfast in bed
Massage his tired muscles
Give him Compliments
Always say "Thank you Honey" when he does something for me
Smell good and dress nice for him
Cook him his favorite meal
Smile a lot, Laugh a lot
Listen to what he is saying, let him vent
Never flirt with other men
Never withhold sex to punish Him
Do things he likes to do,even if it is not what I like
Buy him things for no reason
Give Him His Space when He needs it
Leave him Love Notes around the house or in his car
Let Him know He is the One and Only!
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| 5/9/2008 4:05:30 PM |
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freebirdvt
Milton, VT
59, joined Mar. 2008
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well some women are like that....to make a error is only human but forgiviness is devine....to pamper me well just let me be the boss 10 percent of the time......Dan
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| 5/9/2008 4:20:54 PM |
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topamountain
Nitro, WV
53, joined Apr. 2008
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I tried being the perfect wife,in the end he still didn't love me. so much time and energy... I think now that I spoiled him to much. all the attention and care became so mundane, he never seen the love behind it.
Maybe when things get old (and it will) we should try to find away to, rock a man's world. something unforgettable. But you cant do this everyday, it would have to be unpredictable.It could be something easy like a very sexy suggestion ,when lest expected. Not just write" I love you "notes all the time , spice them up a bit, make them so spicy he cant wait to get home.And again not everyday.keep him wondering when and what you'll come up with next. Maybe something more extravagant now and again.. but not on a special occasion.Must be caught off guard! Gota keep the fire burning.
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