Do you plan to be alone? 31

5/2/2008 5:18:13 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
nicksterdemus Little Rock, AR age: 50	Well, if a broad falls outa da sky for me I hope she's loaded w/jewels,lands in da backyard n not too deep...
5/2/2008 7:02:33 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
soullygrounded Mount Olive, NC age: 53	Ted, once again friend you have gone and "stirred" the pot. I simply don't know how to answer this question. I have spent almost 2.5 years on and offline looking for Mr. Right. Am I looking for Mr. Perfect? Hell no. I'm not perfect, so therefore I cannot expect perfection from a partner. But by many's standards, I carry too much baggage to be seriously considered as a lifelong partner. And the older I grow, the more baggage I have. I do not believe that I intentionally sabotage relationships. I have spent the better part of the past 10 - 15 years exploring "who" I am, how I came to be this person, and what I have to offer. Unfortunately, those that have "tripped my trigger" so far are out of reach. You know what, I don't think I'm really in a position to delve into this subject right now. I wish all on here who are seeking their very last date, the love of their life, their soulmate, the very best blessings that God has to offer you in your search. As for contenting myself with a dog, cat, fish, horse....who's back am I going to massage...who is going to massage my achy muscles? Those of you who have been able to make do with a pet as a companion for the rest of your lives, I applaud you. I was not cut out for that. I have a lot of loving to give that somedays will hardly be contained. I figure I get one more chance at this, if at all, so I will do the best I can to help it happen. Bless you Ted for once again posting one of those truly thought-provoking as well as almost depressing threads. No offense meant friend. You and I know each other well enough to know that nothing you can say will offend me. I like to shoot straight from the hip and expect no less from those I care for. To all who posted to this thread, I wish you nothing but blessings in great abundance. Peace, love and tranquility, Soullygrounded aka DreamsMayCome Edited to add: In the movie "Must Love Dogs" its was said that the universe is constantaly expanding, and that each time our heart is broken, it's capacity to love also expands. This is what I choose to believe. And so I will carry on searching for that person who has the capacity to love and compromise on the "small stuff", because truthfully, in the big picture of the universe, it's all "small stuff" [Edited 5/2/2008 7:09:15 PM]
5/2/2008 7:19:44 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
curious70000 Wyandotte, MI age: 46	I don't "plan" to be alone, yet i don't "plan" to with someone either? Don't much matter to me either way?
5/2/2008 7:21:10 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
tlc4u46 Santa Barbara, CA age: 47	I don't think people plan to be alone, it's just what's in the cards sometimes. I don't want to be alone but yet here I am ALONE. Not my plan at all.
5/2/2008 7:24:39 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
misssmatch Cleveland, TN age: 51	no i dont plan on it...but things happen all the time in my life that i dont "plan" on happening...lol so i wonder, if i plan on being alone, does that mean i WON't BE???? hmmm i'm going to go think quietly about that...
5/2/2008 7:34:22 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
nevyn Prattville, AL age: 64	Plan it? HELL NO! And it matters to me...a lot.....Being alone is like talking down a rain barrel...all you ever hear are your own words bouncing back. I plan on having someone in my life. And I guess I believe that if I plan it then it will happen: but the message to the Universe has to be clear and not mixed. It comes down to creating your own reality.
5/2/2008 7:37:02 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
blueyedbobbie Poultney, VT age: 36	no and i know the right guy will come to me! in the meanwhile i have two great sons to keep me busy!
5/2/2008 9:28:17 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
heyppl Saint Louis, MO age: 27	yes for another 14 months i do.I plan on to pursue my happiness i have with my man until he gets home then it will really be a wonderful life that we will live together. Until then all I can do is wait and stay busy. [Edited 5/2/2008 9:33:52 PM]
5/2/2008 9:40:49 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
sliver22 Meridian, ID age: 40	I dont pursue the happiness as much as I would like. I think now, as I get older, I am getting "comfortable" being alone
5/2/2008 9:41:38 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
countrydancer1 Elmo, UT age: 32	Thank you Tedric for making a great quality thread! You hit home with this one. Which led to another doozy for me. How do I teach my daughter to dream of the fairytale when I struggle with the idea of it myself? What kind of relationships will she end up in if I don't allow anyone in my life close enough to show her what a good guy and/or relationship would be like? I'm going to blame my sleepless night on you!
5/2/2008 11:00:02 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
katrina_sq Mena, AR age: 39	I definitely do not plan on being alone. I have always seen myself growing old with the wonderful man who completes me. It just wasn't the man I thought it was. But I know in my heart he is out there, and I hope to find him soon. My Mom became a widow at 42. She never dated, never looked for another man. She was lonely and bitter and wasted 27 years being that way. As much as I loved her, I refuse to allow myself to become like that. My goal is to be happy sharing my life with the right person.
5/2/2008 11:12:27 PM	Do you plan to be alone?
tedric Anchor Point, AK age: 67	Nevyn has the right words "It comes down to creating your own reality"... I don't believe in "Destiny", but I do believe that we take certain paths in life according to where we have come from. Familiarity is a safe haven, and many of us travel in circles trying to maintain contact with familiar territory, even if it means being alone. The longer we are alone, the easier it becomes to be alone. Some of us choose to be alone; others are forced into it by circumstances beyond their control, and still others are alone because they have beeen convinced that they are unworthy, or unacceptable, or unlovable. There's one more category, and it may be the most difficult to break out of... It belongs to those who love in vain. Countrydancer, get some sleep. [Edited 5/2/2008 11:15:26 PM]
5/3/2008 3:39:26 AM	Do you plan to be alone?
29tootsie Brightwaters, NY age: 59	I really don't find it easier to be alone the longer I am alone. In fact, just the opposite. I'll bet Katrina can say that her Mom became more and more bitter as those 27 wasted years went by. Love in vain? - can we choose who we love? I don't think so but I guess we can choose what we do about it. I'm not so good at that.
5/3/2008 4:03:06 AM	Do you plan to be alone?
the_voices Vancouver, BC age: 42	Tedric, wenches of the twentish think it's cool to call us older women by derogatory terms. I'm 42. My life experiences are varied and amazing. I have NO plans to be alone or with anyone. All I know is that life is short.
5/3/2008 4:20:28 AM	Do you plan to be alone?
whomper Greenwood, IN age: 64	Whatever you focus (your thoughts) on -- grows! Strong desire backed by unquestionable belief will produce results. However, if she is sending the idea of failure to the subconscious mind the result will be failure. Yes -- she wants a relationship but she is self-sabotoging because of her un-belief that she can obtain the desired results.

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