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flexxx6969
Browns Mills, NJ
36, joined Jun. 2013
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| 6/13/2013 10:40:30 PM |
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jennie0726
Toms River, NJ
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a loosey goosey can be of any age
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| 6/14/2013 1:35:57 AM |
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jay60s
Trenton, NJ
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If anybody have sex on the first date then why would a guy call you back?!?!?!
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| 6/15/2013 9:05:34 AM |
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msn69
Elizabeth, NJ
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 sex on the 1st date?  does not make you a slut like etc or all depends on the guy n girl n if it's more then just sex if they really are deeming eachother trust me he will call n text her.the next day
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| 6/15/2013 9:07:53 AM |
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msn69
Elizabeth, NJ
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| 6/15/2013 9:11:43 AM |
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msn69
Elizabeth, NJ
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sex on the 1st date blah blah blah when you horny you horny F**K we all human here.just always remember to practice self and responsible sex and have fun mmmmm lol  
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| 6/15/2013 11:35:58 AM |
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benz550e
Picatinny Arsenal, NJ
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All for it
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| 6/16/2013 3:37:40 AM |
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frontlynez
Piscataway, NJ
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if its great sex, you get a call back. If not, well, nice meeting ya. I should be a Human Resource rep. 
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| 6/16/2013 1:55:43 PM |
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carjunky54
Howell, NJ
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We are all adults not 18 anymore and it is 2014 and the double standard shouldn't be there (but still is to a point).
I think its perfectly fine on a first date. If they both want to what the hell. Like a girl that knows what she wants, when she wants and how! That's a big turn on in my book!
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| 6/17/2013 8:03:00 PM |
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jay1313
Newark, NJ
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As long as our introduction is you giving me some head within the first 10 mins of meeting sure why the hell not lol
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| 7/19/2013 1:42:35 PM |
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beenext2me
Hoboken, NJ
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Not true - just having fun
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| 7/19/2013 9:35:29 PM |
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monkeydaizen
Clementon, NJ
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I did that before I still talk to the girl and I'm still her friend I hate not talking to people unless for some reason they were very mean to me or crazy women.
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| 7/19/2013 10:41:57 PM |
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rugger12
Morganville, NJ
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Honesty, depends on the girl and the situation.
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| 7/20/2013 2:37:39 AM |
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monkeydaizen
Clementon, NJ
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This is true in a sense she knew what she was getting into with me and we stayed cool still very good friends but that's not really something you can do all the time.
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| 7/20/2013 7:00:02 PM |
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slimgoody888
Newark, NJ
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In this world today its just plain disrespectful to oneself to have sex like that with someone you barely know. Their r over 30 STD'S in this day and age. Condoms break and the company says their 99% safe. Why would anyone play Russian Roulette with their life. Its sad actually. Sex is "OVER RATED " and those one night stand women & men r the ones you kick like a can. Their is more to life than some temporary sexual high.
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| 7/31/2013 9:54:28 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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In this world today its just plain disrespectful to oneself to have sex like that with someone you barely know. Their r over 30 STD'S in this day and age. Condoms break and the company says their 99% safe. Why would anyone play Russian Roulette with their life. Its sad actually. Sex is "OVER RATED " and those one night stand women & men r the ones you kick like a can. Their is more to life than some temporary sexual high.
Lol if u think sex is over rated then u haven't had good sex..too bad 4 u
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| 8/1/2013 1:41:29 PM |
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alex1418
South Hackensack, NJ
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Pls  me I want to have some sex tonight 
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| 8/1/2013 3:39:23 PM |
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zippy75
Manahawkin, NJ
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I don't even kiss on 1st dates much less have sex
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| 8/1/2013 5:05:24 PM |
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jrupp0604
Stoughton, MA
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A kiss, or hug is good, gotta wait awhile for sex. I am old school. 
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| 8/1/2013 5:38:48 PM |
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irishlady855
Philadelphia, PA
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I think It really depends on the two people involved. Does not always mean that you are not going to hear from the person again.
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| 8/1/2013 7:01:11 PM |
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jrupp0604
Stoughton, MA
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Dont do sex for awhile, till i have feelings for someone. I like to take it slow.  
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| 8/1/2013 8:06:50 PM |
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turtlelover48
Huntsville, TX
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I want a deep connection to the man and care for him before I make love to him.
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| 8/1/2013 8:10:20 PM |
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sorpstar
Little River, SC
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I'm seeing some outta staters here, perhaps It's dry in their states...lol..no I could wait at least for awhile...then I'm on the clock...lol...or if I didn't think I was in a relationship progressing It's football season and I would punt...actually I did read some of John grays books, do I get extra credit..lol.
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| 8/1/2013 10:15:39 PM |
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nilli00
Duluth, GA
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Sex on the First meet makes you a slut
And the second, third and fourth ..
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| 8/2/2013 10:00:44 PM |
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njdevil_75
Pennsauken, NJ
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Nothing wrong with having sex on the first date. As long as both parties know what the true intentions are for then that's fine. Me personally, I would still call back the woman after a night of having sex.
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| 8/3/2013 11:14:53 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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If u establish u only want FWB why wait...not looking for love
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| 8/5/2013 3:46:42 PM |
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nikya20
Hainesport, NJ
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Me personally that's a big no no ..,,,,
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| 8/17/2013 11:47:36 AM |
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abbie_normal
Bloomfield, NJ
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I guess sex on the first meet depends on what your looking for.
If your looking for a real relationship then its highly risky.
If you just want an fwb then you better be good (this also has to do with chemistry. I mean who wants a lousy fwb.
For me I never do it on the first meet.
I prefer to do it with someone I actually give a shit about. So I am very selective in sexual partners.
But to each his/her own.
Remember I'm not a judge and hopefully we're all adults.
Party hearty and stay safe out there.
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| 8/24/2013 6:30:15 AM |
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toorican
West New York, NJ
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if you're young it's a different story. I've had my heart broken multiple times & until I'm ready for another relationship I'm gonna be doin what's more convenient for me.. there's nothing wrong with a booty call
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| 8/24/2013 12:59:23 PM |
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hbic25
New York, NY
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That's Just Too Much Drama SMH That's Why I'm Picky And Like What I Like Grown And Sexy 
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| 8/31/2013 9:10:03 AM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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Sex on the first date doesn't make you a slut, or a wh*re, or easy. Sometimes there's a great connection made, other times it's just that you both needed it (we're only human after all). The part about not calling or messaging afterwards just shows the negative side of some people. I believe that no matter what happened, even if the sex was terrible, messaging or calling is the decent thing to do.
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| 9/1/2013 8:33:52 AM |
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sorpstar
Little River, SC
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Nothing wrong with having sex on the first date. As long as both parties know what the true intentions are for then that's fine. Me personally, I would still call back the woman after a night of having sex.
I think you're wrong..and lying...lol...think if what you say was true what intelligent woman would believe ya...why do women say I was only good for sex and it happened on that first date..what would guys think of that woman if she said that...sure you'd call her back esp if she was hotter then you but she may wake up the next morning and say easily...what was I thinking...esp if she drank for one...so my advice, get to know each other well first or you'll forever get it wrong esp the more you age, you get smarter..Jmo..
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| 9/1/2013 8:39:04 AM |
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sorpstar
Little River, SC
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I think you're wrong..and lying...lol...think if what you say was true what intelligent woman would believe ya...why do women say I was only good for sex and it happened on that first date..what would guys think of that woman if she said that...sure you'd call her back esp if she was hotter then you but she may wake up the next morning and say easily...what was I thinking...esp if she drank for one...so my advice, get to know each other well first or you'll forever get it wrong esp the more you age, you get smarter..Jmo..
You also sound like you do many test drives...if you took your time more the right car hits you in the face like a big pizza pie...that's amore...just maybe you found the right woman for the right reasons instead of the wrong pizza..
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| 9/1/2013 11:46:02 AM |
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rushdolla30
Hackensack, NJ
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So are we meeting up or what?
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| 9/11/2013 9:55:41 AM |
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rich6695
New Brunswick, NJ
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Im not like that. I think restlate first then sex
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| 9/12/2013 7:32:36 PM |
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joeylaboi
Scotch Plains, NJ
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There's nothing wrong with it if both parties want it why not if it's good do it again
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| 9/13/2013 2:28:12 AM |
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stayfly_19
Flanders, NJ
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So who wants to have some fun sex?
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| 9/15/2013 11:11:35 PM |
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shadysoldier
Ogdensburg, NJ
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I ain't never ever ignored a chick because I already slept with her. To me it has nothing to do with a challenge. If anything I will call her back. Maybe just as a booty call but ain't nothing wrong with that. I keep bangin her untill she get a man and decides to stop cheating on him with me. It happens. No reason to stop talking to a chick after u bang her unless she's ugly or just has a beat vag. Real talk
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| 9/17/2013 10:42:27 AM |
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_multifaceted_
Voorhees, NJ
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There isn't anything wrong if those involved want sex on the first date, I am not that type of female though. In order to have sex, I need the emotional commitment before going forward, I prefer connecting emotionally and taking the time to get to know one another and seeing if there is chemistry before jumping into bed together. I've never taken intimacy casually, maybe its somewhat old fashioned but that's me. I am an adult, as an adult I choose not to have sex immediately with someone I just met. One of my big reasons besides needing the emotional connection is that when we have sex, how will I know if he will be there when we are done? I don't. Its not out of low self esteem either, it's me going slowly into what I want.
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| 10/2/2013 7:35:10 PM |
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travyr
Newark, NJ
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What's good though?
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| 10/4/2013 5:47:30 AM |
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hotcop83
Colonia, NJ
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hell id call you ,lori cuddling on the couch and a movie sounds nice... id even cook you dinner
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| 10/4/2013 5:58:11 AM |
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hotcop83
Colonia, NJ
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`your right
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| 10/4/2013 6:02:11 AM |
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hotcop83
Colonia, NJ
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theres nothing wrong with it ...we are adults correct
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| 10/6/2013 8:51:21 PM |
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hotcop83
Colonia, NJ
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id be glad to help out lol
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| 10/7/2013 11:24:01 AM |
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raymondemi
Wildwood, NJ
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whats the problem with having a sexual feeling with anyone at the 1st meeting,,its a nice feeling for both,,even if you never see them again you will always remember how you felt in the bed with someone new,,,sex is cool,,no matter 1st meeting or second,,if you get off its all worth it...
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| 10/9/2013 9:49:30 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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There isn't anything wrong if those involved want sex on the first date, I am not that type of female though. In order to have sex, I need the emotional commitment before going forward, I prefer connecting emotionally and taking the time to get to know one another and seeing if there is chemistry before jumping into bed together. I've never taken intimacy casually, maybe its somewhat old fashioned but that's me. I am an adult, as an adult I choose not to have sex immediately with someone I just met. One of my big reasons besides needing the emotional connection is that when we have sex, how will I know if he will be there when we are done? I don't. Its not out of low self esteem either, it's me going slowly into what I want.
If your into FWB there is no emotional connection... FWB have chemistry just not a committment
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| 10/17/2013 1:10:27 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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Agreed with Lori224 why wait let's go
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| 10/17/2013 5:31:35 PM |
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xxenigmaxx
Harrison, NJ
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Sex on the first meet its good, well depending on the person. But really who doesn't want to have sex
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| 10/19/2013 9:20:53 PM |
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hotcop83
Colonia, NJ
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i believe i believe
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| 10/19/2013 9:22:17 PM |
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hotcop83
Colonia, NJ
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theres something wrong with you
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| 10/20/2013 1:19:25 AM |
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exceedinlife
Newark, NJ
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I'd call you call you back
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| 10/20/2013 10:49:29 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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I would call her back. I won't have sex unless I'm in love anyway.
Ur gonna wait awhile then
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| 11/17/2013 10:19:05 PM |
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mz_gemini_85
Trenton, NJ
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I see nothing wrong with sex on the first night
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| 11/17/2013 10:50:40 PM |
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realbigwill
Landing, NJ
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To have sex on the first date is your choice. But if you are treated like crap after. Don't be surprised! The truth is you didn't have sex to be with him or her. You did it for the excitement. FWB does not mean a friend w/benefits. It means fool without brain. Because if you was using your brain you would not be hurting yourself mentally. Yes it is just sex. But somebody always start to have feelings for that friend that they can not have. 
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| 11/23/2013 7:33:25 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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To have sex on the first date is your choice. But if you are treated like crap after. Don't be surprised! The truth is you didn't have sex to be with him or her. You did it for the excitement. FWB does not mean a friend w/benefits. It means fool without brain. Because if you was using your brain you would not be hurting yourself mentally. Yes it is just sex. But somebody always start to have feelings for that friend that they can not have.
yea i had a FWB i did get feelings & I ended it but long story short he came back 5mos later..We still mess around & i still have that feeling for him..
But i do have a FWB we r just freinds.. we talk, hang, go to dinner... sex is a bonus & NO feelings !!!!
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| 11/24/2013 11:34:58 PM |
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capabillity
Boonton, NJ
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I'm game if you are.
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| 11/26/2013 8:09:50 PM |
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xzar2013
Williamstown, NJ
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well a woman who has sex on the first date is not for me. or even in the first month really. I would rather meet a self respecting woman. Just saying not hating. Life is your own to live your own way this is my way
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| 11/29/2013 1:42:22 PM |
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hazmat_id_8000
Jersey City, NJ
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Jersey city here
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| 12/5/2013 11:32:24 AM |
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slidingin
Mahwah, NJ
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Depends on where you met and what circumstances are laid on table. Met at bar and she's dressed to 9's or just in jeans- moving all over your stuff- bang her lights out. If it's a date/date then wait and build her respect for you. Every woman has her grace period. I just dated a knockout for 4 months and finally gave up. I'm not in HS waiting forever anymore. She was nice, but WAY too much drama! So time to hop on motorcycle and take another ride!
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| 12/11/2013 11:36:07 AM |
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slow_eater69
Edison, NJ
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Honestly, if two ppl decide to have sex on the first date, is a great thing!! We are all adults, this is not the 1950's....and if the sex is great, then u best believe he will call u again and again!!! Lmfaoooo
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