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kenzo541
Williamstown, NJ
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wtf!!! wise and true is 68 and commenting on sex chat... lol viagra got him all pumped up to say something when a few years ago he was playing pool with a rope... stfu old man you online gigalo
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| 10/27/2012 2:22:18 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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wtf!!! wise and true is 68 and commenting on sex chat... lol viagra got him all pumped up to say something when a few years ago he was playing pool with a rope... stfu old man you online gigalo
LOL....  
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| 10/28/2012 7:21:08 PM |
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ronnie021
Jersey City, NJ
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@Lori,This is really insane ,getting such guys who just forget the friends after one night ,it really should not be like you f**ked the girl and forget it ,i think people should call back and be friends,,its just u liked ech other and had a night out,,i dont know why such reckless guys get a chance over some gals and spoil their moods also ..
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| 10/29/2012 9:14:10 AM |
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cmnjscorpio
Cape May, NJ
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Tricky it is. From my perspective that would be more likely to happen if there wasn't sex (girls- make note) initially. If there was sex upfront and it was good and she was cool and I was into her, I'd be going back for more especially to see if its really good and she's really cool EVERY TIME! Maybe even to see if she might be someone/The 1 that I might consider getting into a LTR with.... and whether she feels that way about me... and it's something WE agree upon. The bottom line is: YES its tricky, but if you say you're gonna do something, regardless of what it is.... DO IT! Its called Courtesy and being real, truthful, and honest.... otherwise you're none of the above! No games drama or bs.
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| 10/30/2012 9:41:11 PM |
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antg86
Oaklyn, NJ
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Maybe I'm a little old fashion but I like to actually get to know the person on the first date
So I don't even kiss on the first date
Sex on the first date will get u ignored
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| 10/30/2012 10:56:23 PM |
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candylovett
Trenton, NJ
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sex the first time you meet?! -no
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| 10/31/2012 3:07:38 AM |
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antyvonne
Clementon, NJ
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Can't get mad at someone for treating like a slut, if you acting like one and sex on the first date is slutish... so if I did that I wouldn't even be waiting on a call. Truthfully speaking.
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| 10/31/2012 4:58:13 AM |
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reymoney
Camden, NJ
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sex on the first meet. why not? 2 adults come together, have a great conversation and decide that each is attractive to one another and are both in that mood why not take advantage of each other? and ofcourse if it was good enough on both ends a call should be made, maybe another arrangement, if not good, atleast let the other person know its the decent thing to do. either way a call is important. even after sex lol
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| 10/31/2012 9:52:08 AM |
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fireinurbox21
Clementon, NJ
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It takes two for sex, you obviously both agreed to it so therefore there is no reason you cant talk after that. Something mustve clicked for the d*ck to come out and the legs to spread so atleast have courtesy to call back. I would, if I didnt like what happened Id say that but Id still communicate that!!
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| 11/4/2012 9:42:23 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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It takes two for sex, you obviously both agreed to it so therefore there is no reason you cant talk after that. Something mustve clicked for the d*ck to come out and the legs to spread so atleast have courtesy to call back. I would, if I didnt like what happened Id say that but Id still communicate that!!
so blunt.. LOL...sometimes i guess its chalked up to a 1 night stand
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| 11/4/2012 11:41:51 PM |
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ronnie021
Jersey City, NJ
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@ Lori I agree with you on this Lori but i feel if you have a one night stand with a drunken guy ,he will not remember anything but a descent guy if he like the gurl in bed or not atleast he will have a conversation kick on and will not run away ,may be he will say ,lets be only friends
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| 11/6/2012 12:59:40 AM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
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Having sex on a first date--simply says BOTH people wanted it--and no more. Women think differently about it---some women want emotional connection--some men don't see it that way. That's why there is no communication. It was simply a one time thing!! It's the hunt--and the chase and capturing the person---sex------GAME OVER. Now if the people wait--and they develop a relationship--and THINK the same about a lot of stuff--and have some similiar goals in their lives---the sex act is bound to solidify a bond--and you continue to have communications. Personally, I do not think very highly of a woman who puts out after 2 hours of dinner and drinks. In Junior High, we had a saying---FIND em---FEEL em---F**K em---FORGET em..!! So even as young kids--we had no intentions of establishing any bonds. Continue to aim high--never accept poor treatment--and make sure you know the person you are getting involved with. This takes time!!
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| 11/6/2012 9:26:51 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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obvioulsy your not into friends w/benefits ?? LOL
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| 11/10/2012 10:48:23 PM |
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snicholl93
Apache Junction, AZ
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Sex on the first meet is ok sometimes but it's completely screwed up if you don't call or text after I mean yes it gets rid of the challenge however where has the chivalry gone people especially players should be ashamed of themselves for there hit it and quit it attitude that is so trashy and it shouldn't be done to anyone
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| 11/12/2012 3:58:48 AM |
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ryguy511
Mount Laurel, NJ
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Sex on the first date is always better lol but honestly mostly all these guys on here mostly one want a one night stabs that how we are but honesty if the pushy is good we do call back
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| 11/12/2012 1:08:38 PM |
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lovely1227
Absecon, NJ
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Well guy or girl if u have sex on the first date, ur adults and i dnt see anything wrong with that. but if u have sex w the person on the first date and den expect the one or the other 2 hit u back and still get nothin well u aint dumb, hit them up and ask wats up? still no reply, well then u were bein used just for sex. 
Thats y make ur choices wisely. I choose no sex on the first date just so i can c the guys reaction wen i dnt invite him in. if the guy acts stubborn and curses and all he just using u to get laid. aint worth ur time. 
if he doesnt and asks u on a second date go for it. in dating caution is a must whether it b a guy or a girl and even if u feel like having sex w him or her.
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| 11/18/2012 3:02:22 PM |
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saw_return
Newark, NJ
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Nobody can be this dumb this gotta be a joke
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| 11/21/2012 2:27:36 PM |
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willvsaber
Runnemede, NJ
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Id rather not jump IMMEDIATELY into bed on the 1st meeting/date ... not saying I haven't ... it really depends on the chemestry and comfort level ...
2nd date???? If the first was awesome ... all bets are off haha
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| 11/22/2012 7:23:41 AM |
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yaboy1000
Plainfield, NJ
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What female wanna have sex on the first date? Hmu!
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| 12/3/2012 10:43:53 PM |
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nicole102172
Landing, NJ
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It SHOULDN'T matter.. but I guess it does to some people. It SHOULDN'T be considered wrong if two consenting adults want to do it.. but there are these double standards all over the place and lots of liars. I'm tired of the "If you put out you're a slut" thing. I'm not 16. I'm 40 and should be able to have sex without being thrown out with the trash. That said. I'm joining a convent))
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| 12/10/2012 12:18:20 AM |
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catchme1990
Garfield, NJ
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deff 
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| 12/14/2012 9:18:15 PM |
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alanjr1978
Williamstown, NJ
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Sex on the first night is the wrong woman for me
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| 12/14/2012 10:15:06 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
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I never liked the idea of sex on a first date. I appreciate getting to know the person--and having some nice easy relaxing fun. A typical date might only last 4 hours--what can possibly be considered a sexual attraction--after 4 hours?? That would be a red flag for me. Please remember--I am speaking for myself, here.
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| 12/25/2012 12:24:11 PM |
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kloesdaddy
Brick, NJ
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I don't see anything wrong with it. He'll I've had sex with women before the date even began. Can't tell you what attracted her to me enough to wanna do that but whatever it was was fine for me. And yes those relationships did last a long time. Years long. As I got older I realized that if anything I believe those women where attracted to my confidence. I know what I like and what I want in a women and have the confidence to Persue it. Matter of fact I'm talking to a women I met here and all be it it's only been 1 day I can see it going somewhere. Men's intuition. So if we go on a first date and it happens I'm fine with that. If it takes 2,3, or even 4 then that's fine too.
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| 12/26/2012 7:43:00 PM |
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sorpstar
Wayne, NJ
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OP it sounds like this happened to you maybe in the past but why...give everyone the riot act guys or ladies...what happened to adding the spiritual and emotional conditions combined with physical too or everyone will get dumped and used. What I am saying you should control your date mutually or lose
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| 1/8/2013 5:38:17 PM |
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xzar2013
Williamstown, NJ
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well obviously if i meet up with a chick and have sex with her why would i call her back its pointless.... the challenge is gone, this isnt a girl you want to be with i mean it took a few hours to have sex with her so no point in calling
This is a very good point! And besides I want a good girl not a desperate girl. I want a girl that respects herself in every way
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| 1/8/2013 11:40:57 PM |
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mizta_j
San Antonio, TX
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Yo
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| 1/9/2013 4:49:23 PM |
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willvsaber
Runnemede, NJ
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I've done it ... rather not, but if the chemestry goes there ... it goes there ... I don't think anything of it ... its not a game or challenge to me ... its just sex at that point ... there's nothing wrong with a woman that like sex ... tired of seeing negativity toward the women, because they want it as bad as most guys do ...
I want more ...
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| 1/12/2013 9:49:07 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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I've done it ... rather not, but if the chemestry goes there ... it goes there ... I don't think anything of it ... its not a game or challenge to me ... its just sex at that point ... there's nothing wrong with a woman that like sex ... tired of seeing negativity toward the women, because they want it as bad as most guys do ...
I want more ...
hmm idk about that i want it pretty much 24/7 & i dropped my fwb so it sucks right now lol.. and i agree we are both adults if sex happens it happens !
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| 1/13/2013 9:24:15 PM |
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sorpstar
Wayne, NJ
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hmm idk about that i want it pretty much 24/7 & i dropped my fwb so it sucks right now lol.. and i agree we are both adults if sex happens it happens !
let's see 24/7 times an average few minutes, lol...i can see you miss it..fwb no... i rather have financial security 
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| 1/22/2013 12:27:08 PM |
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dazed05
Atlantic City, NJ
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This is BS, men say that they aren't attracted to easy girls but once they find a girl who isn't willing to do anything dirty and would actually like to get to know them then they start giving dirty hints through text or try to hard to get you to drink alcohol during the date, yeah men don't know what they want. I can't tell you the numerous times, I've been on a date and men just can't stop throwing themselves at me when they see I DO NOT WANT THAT and makes me uncomfortable... Psh    
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| 1/23/2013 9:08:18 AM |
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itsrobbyxx
Newark, NJ
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You know your very true. Alot of us men think with out privates. We walk around talkin that big game like "we don't want easy girls" but if the girl turns you down you get mad and start throwing yourself at her. I think it's so stupid. What ever happen to just going out with someone on a nice date and enjoy each other company an call it a night ?!? Maybe if us men would start using out heads more then out private then maybe some females would take us more serious and won't always say "all guys are the same, they only want one thing" and that's a shame!!!!
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| 1/24/2013 11:07:15 PM |
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bandz4u
Clementon, NJ
32, joined Dec. 2012
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Whose tryin to f**k
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| 1/30/2013 9:25:57 PM |
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joemango69
Riverside, NJ
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I want sex
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| 2/2/2013 9:36:16 AM |
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rendmc
Westville, NJ
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It's one of those things that happens. But no, I don't agree with the "hit and run", it's ignorant. Even if the call/text is to say you're not interested in anything else, don't leave the other person hanging.
I've had a couple of first meets that lead to sex, but we had been talking regularly for a while before we met and honestly, it was the woman that initiated it. In each case though not only did we contact each other after, but went on to have relationships that lasted a while.
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| 2/2/2013 2:37:39 PM |
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pssshplzzz
Saddle Brook, NJ
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As long as there was chemistry, I'd call back.
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| 2/3/2013 5:56:48 AM |
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lookhere2121
Voorhees, NJ
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We are all adults and if the date goes well and we decide to have sex, that's fine. What's the big deal! I agree with you.
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| 2/4/2013 4:50:11 PM |
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robw1990
Roebling, NJ
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As a young guy I agree with the "the challenge is gone" part. Men can be a**holes but we dont want a slut. A man wants a girl who will make him work for it not a girl who will give it up within hours or even days/
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| 2/6/2013 2:44:12 AM |
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jdang17
Newark, DE
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Not all young men feel the same, my ex and I were together for 4 yrs and had a fantastic relationship and we had sex the first night we hung out if the chemistry is there why deny it? Doesn't make you a slut or a wh*re.. I was the second guy shed ever been with doesn't sound like a slut to me. We did and it was amazing and only made us feel stronger for each other... So basically it's the situation and at your discretion.
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| 2/10/2013 8:55:19 PM |
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apples22345
Paramus, NJ
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Ok sounds good but not to call is kind of rude...Maybe there is a chance or for ongoing hook up hey you new know.
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| 2/24/2013 8:23:23 PM |
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allen7141
Jacksonville, FL
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So if you meet up & having a great time & u decide to have sex & then after u leave & u say talk to u in a few days guy or girls side & dont hear from the person obviously he or she is not interested but you couldnt even send a text or email saying so.. Aren't we all adults here??? Then you wonder why meeting up is sometimes tricky...
That's just the way it is in
Toms River
Bricktown
seaside
surrounding areas
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| 2/26/2013 8:56:58 PM |
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sportsmom74
Vincentown, NJ
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I have had sex on the first meet tons of times. Sometimes that is all guys want and I want.
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| 2/27/2013 10:58:16 AM |
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njmom427
Bridgewater, NJ
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Sex on a first date is viewed differently by different people. Only two people are on the date, therefore only those 2 people should have anything to say about hooking up. I agree that waiting can lead to a more emotionally stable relationship, but I guess hooking up on day 1 can as well. It's messed up to hook up and not call though.
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| 3/3/2013 9:23:53 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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That's just the way it is in
Toms River
Bricktown
seaside
surrounding areas
Oh it goes by area.. lmao.
I cant believe i started this topic so long ago ppl still talking bout it.lol
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| 3/11/2013 9:49:41 PM |
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maxavell
Newark, NJ
25, joined Oct. 2012
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Smfh
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| 3/12/2013 5:58:12 PM |
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vskizzles
Jersey City, NJ
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Sex is pretty natural. If you don't think so then your complicating things.
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| 3/12/2013 7:24:45 PM |
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sorpstar
Wayne, NJ
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Let's say if you get a second date after the first meeting of the minds you have a greater chance to have sex or keep chasing those suspects on here until you find a prospect..jmo
Btw you can find someone in the real world you fear the same...but this site sounds like a bragging site but let's face it who's getting any, not here for sure...
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| 5/13/2013 10:45:58 PM |
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mixedboricuaxd
Garfield, NJ
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I agree that the person he/she must have not be interested. If you are a female having sex on the first date..Hun you are EASY! Guys having sex and quitting it is not cool! All in all, people should have STANDARDS! 
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| 5/14/2013 12:43:01 AM |
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truepapirican
Newark, NJ
30, joined Sep. 2012
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Omg people got how to get to know you person better you for sticking anything in side and use protection because there so many std out there.
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| 5/14/2013 12:44:52 AM |
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truepapirican
Newark, NJ
30, joined Sep. 2012
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On the start date not cool.
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| 5/14/2013 3:13:25 PM |
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jlt122977
Branchville, NJ
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Try different screams in bed, mabe that will bring him back for more....
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| 5/16/2013 9:01:27 AM |
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goingdeep1972
Beach Haven, NJ
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Simple. If the sex was good and you both felt connected then chances are he or she will call back. I dont have issues with sex on the first date and most times it turns into long term relationships. On side note...guys, most women see through you when you say your not into sex on first dates. STOP!! If your a man then it's in your DNA to want to procreate with as many women as you can. All animals do this in the wild, they just don't have a conscience.
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| 5/16/2013 9:28:43 PM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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Simple. If the sex was good and you both felt connected then chances are he or she will call back. I dont have issues with sex on the first date and most times it turns into long term relationships. On side note...guys, most women see through you when you say your not into sex on first dates. STOP!! If your a man then it's in your DNA to want to procreate with as many women as you can. All animals do this in the wild, they just don't have a conscience.
agreed
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| 5/18/2013 5:55:33 AM |
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ltrforu
Orange, NJ
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Really?!? You have sex on the 1st date.....and think he's going to call or text you the next day? Do you also get confused when it rains? 
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| 5/18/2013 11:52:32 AM |
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windrazed
Bradley Beach, NJ
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Agreed. D:
Sex on the first date is a big nono. It puts a lot of thins at risk ... and also reduces you to being somebody that's sleezy in their eyes. Possibly. But who knows? Different people, different perspectives.
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| 5/19/2013 1:22:18 PM |
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themicrochip
Roselle Park, NJ
34, joined May. 2008
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Sex on the 1st date doesn't mean sleazy to me.
I can say now that it does let you know whether someone is a mental case or not because you women talk the most openly after sex. And how you act DURING sex is a fair indicator of how you act in general.
A relationship to me is more than just sex because you can have the best of it, but the person is an ass.
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| 5/20/2013 7:43:57 AM |
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lori224
Toms River, NJ
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sex is natural we all want it need it crave it.. if your attracted & it happens well so be it.. usually if your meeting off here arent u generally talking first so hopefully your getting to know someone...I dont think this site is long term but things have happened I guess ?? I mean i dont really meet off here anymore but who knows..
Im sure people not from this site or maybe from here but in general have had a 1 night stand in their lifetime.. If u didnt well then idk..
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| 5/20/2013 6:03:23 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
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| 5/30/2013 6:31:51 AM |
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bignorb
Asbury Park, NJ
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Sex on the first date is ok with me..because you already talking to the person. ..I see if you just meet them that day then sleep with them then You just looking for ass...no-one is looking to get in a relationship it look like to me. .
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| 6/12/2013 2:21:51 AM |
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someday72
Freehold, NJ
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When you leave and say god I can't wait to see her again you call. When you don't look back it's because you know your never going that way again. You can't call tell which it's going to be ahead of time.
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