9/20/2012 11:26:52 AM |
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coolguy262013
Wichita, KS
31, joined Sep. 2012
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I know money is important cause you need to pay bills and buy food for your house and family.
But is it really important to blow money just to please one person so they can like you.
To me money is important. But its not important to buy love. I think a good heart and respect.
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9/20/2012 2:33:53 PM |
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arky51
Wamego, KS
56, joined May. 2012
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Money is a way of keeping score. The higher the score the more likely you are to win. Women will tell you it is all about the love but I will bet that if all your dates were going to the park and sitting on a bench and talking you are not going to find much "love ". Put her butt in a nice ride and do the town in style with lots of bling and love will be all over you.
Just the way it is. I mean if it weren't so why then when my ex-wives did not love me any more they fought so hard to keep the house, cars and stuff I worked and paid for?
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9/21/2012 12:18:08 PM |
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
47, joined Mar. 2009
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Money is a way of keeping score. The higher the score the more likely you are to win. Women will tell you it is all about the love but I will bet that if all your dates were going to the park and sitting on a bench and talking you are not going to find much "love ". Put her butt in a nice ride and do the town in style with lots of bling and love will be all over you.
Just the way it is. I mean if it weren't so why then when my ex-wives did not love me any more they fought so hard to keep the house, cars and stuff I worked and paid for?
This is your personal issue due to what you experienced.. Maybe the ex's were just really pissed off at you for something...
But truthfully it depends upon the woman.. Some do see money equals love (but are those one's true relationship material, personally I think NOT) but some see there is more to a relationship than materialistic things, it's all about what you make it..
Don't stop doing the things you did for each other when you met.. you got each other some how, so why stop doing these things.. flirty texting, flowers, homemade dinners, date nite, movies, passion.. (Some men/women love to give Gifts, and gift are great but it shouldn't be anything grad, especially in the beginning)
If you buy love in the beginning then they will expect it through-out as well as in the end.. Don't do that..
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9/21/2012 1:05:23 PM |
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ksswthrt1974
Wichita, KS
43, joined Sep. 2012
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Love.
Money is the root of all evil.
I can buy the things I want. Yes, its nice being spoiled, but I don't need to be spoiled with material things. Doing everyday things, and helping when I haven't asked for it, is the best way to spoil me.
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9/21/2012 10:26:23 PM |
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arky51
Wamego, KS
56, joined May. 2012
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I would be willing to bet the farm (oops she's got it now) that women get most of the money when the love is over.
Why fight so hard to get a house I built with my two hands if you do not want me any more? The courts stick it to the man even if it was not his fault. She was the one who started dating again and left home then got the kids back, the house, a car and then about half of my income for the next 12 years.
If a woman really loves you she will sign a pre-nuptial and leave with what she came with if the love is all she really wanted. I see that as a deal killer.
Lust just happens; but true love is a choice you make every day when your eyes open. You have to choose your mate every day and over look them little imperfections that come up. But I have come to learn that just because you choose to love someone they donot have to return it. There in lies the problem.
Enjoy life and as the Good LORD said "If you are not welcome then leave and shake the dust off your sandals on the way out."
Why people do not choose to love is beyond the grasp of my simple mind, but see the effects everyday.
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9/22/2012 1:10:40 AM |
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coolguy262013
Wichita, KS
31, joined Sep. 2012
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I just want make shure you all know i wasn't trying to be hatefull or rude i was just getting everyones thoughts.
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9/23/2012 9:21:22 AM |
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jctagger
Junction City, KS
28, joined May. 2012
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Think you already answered it OP. Love is important, money is too but not like spoiling the other person. If it's real love then material things won't matter.
But like you pointed out, love don't pay the bills, and it's hard to be with a broke person.
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9/23/2012 1:55:50 PM |
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kclady41
Kansas City, MO
48, joined Jun. 2011
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Love
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10/7/2012 1:02:31 AM |
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aussie_mom92
Great Bend, KS
44, joined Oct. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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10/7/2012 7:34:42 PM |
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rebel_cowboy01
Superior, NE
26, joined Sep. 2011
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Love, you can have all the money in the world but if you are not in love with your partner money isn't going to make things better.
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