8/7/2013 10:19:55 AM |
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lovelydani
Bensalem, PA
22, joined May. 2013
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I don't have any kids but I was wondering how people felt about dating a woman and/or a man that already a child. There are pro's and con's to everything. My only concern as a woman would be (the mother of their children). Simply because a lot of ex's don't like when their man or woman has moved on and found someone else, so they try to give that person hell. So share how you feel about this topic.
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8/7/2013 10:22:44 AM |
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barbiedollgirl
Vienna, VA
59, joined Aug. 2010
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sure
I love kids!
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8/7/2013 10:24:44 AM |
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lovelydani
Bensalem, PA
22, joined May. 2013
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It's a shame that some people don't feel the same way as we do!
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8/7/2013 10:28:56 AM |
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wheeliemanmick
New South Wales
Australia
32, joined Jul. 2013
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Sure would hopefully they are wiser now they have kids n have learnt from any bad relationship they had previous
They may even be more stable and less of a player !
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8/7/2013 10:31:53 AM |
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lovelydani
Bensalem, PA
22, joined May. 2013
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Sure would hopefully they are wiser now they have kids n have learnt from any bad relationship they had previous
They may even be more stable and less of a player !
This is true. I would hope so children need stability. But I also feel like children shouldn't meet everyone that he or she dates. Children get attached very quickly.
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8/7/2013 12:25:04 PM |
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woot771
Millville, NJ
22, joined Aug. 2012
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I would date a women that has kids
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8/7/2013 12:53:39 PM |
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fraggle2
Meriden, CT
45, joined Jun. 2013
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Sure.....somebody has to help do the chores.....!!!!!
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8/7/2013 1:00:43 PM |
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codyh23
Beverly Hills, CA
24, joined Mar. 2012
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I don't see any pros in dating 20-30 year old women who has kids.
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8/7/2013 1:17:26 PM |
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sgbrown
Hillside, NJ
50, joined May. 2012
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That's a negative on little children...drama is written all over that. But, if his child or children are adults and able to take care of themselves,then I think we can have a conversation.
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8/7/2013 1:30:20 PM |
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alfrednewman4
Syracuse, NY
45, joined Jul. 2013
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I have.
I don't get with or stay with parens with poor parenting skills though.
But if they raise their kids right I don't see any problem dating single parents.
One woman I had to cut loose because she refused to control/discipline/educate her son - she let him run wild and I just couldn't live like that.
Kids need to know they're kids, not adults, and they do as they're told without any back talk.
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8/7/2013 1:35:08 PM |
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deexdeelicious
Fort Worth, TX
34, joined May. 2013
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I would, but it would have to be no more than 3. As far as the kids mother, I'm not worried about her giving me hell, cause I can raise hell also. May the best hell raiser win!!
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8/7/2013 1:42:56 PM |
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dorval
Danville, IL
97, joined May. 2009
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at 19, it would not be something I would be doing.
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8/7/2013 2:05:03 PM |
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tasgosa
Knob Noster, MO
61, joined Jul. 2013
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sure
I love kids!
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8/7/2013 2:38:59 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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I don't have any kids but I was wondering how people felt about dating a woman and/or a man that already a child. There are pro's and con's to everything. My only concern as a woman would be (the mother of their children). Simply because a lot of ex's don't like when their man or woman has moved on and found someone else, so they try to give that person hell. So share how you feel about this topic.
umm OP you're 19 I'm over 40 and yes I have children and yes the men I've dated have all had children since my divorce. I would be STUPID not to expect them to have children, whether they are grown children or still living at home.
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8/7/2013 3:53:37 PM |
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mms3181
Rutland, OH
59, joined Jun. 2013
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I would be afraid i would get attached to the children[if they were 10 or under]] rather than their dad since i don't have any children of my own.
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8/7/2013 3:59:19 PM |
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sillylaugher61
Murrysville, PA
54, joined Aug. 2011
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at my point in my life, the only parenting that I want to do is take care of my 3 pets!
at least I never have to worry about them wanting to borrow my car!!
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8/7/2013 4:05:45 PM |
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miguelf0182
New York, NY
42, joined Jun. 2013
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My childhood experiences with mom, pop, step mom, step pop got me screwed up on this question...so for me that's a no, unless they're financially stable...then I might consider it.
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8/7/2013 5:41:56 PM |
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lovelydani
Bensalem, PA
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umm OP you're 19 I'm over 40 and yes I have children and yes the men I've dated have all had children since my divorce. I would be STUPID not to expect them to have children, whether they are grown children or still living at home.
I don't think that my age matters Whether I'm 19 or 21, people all over the world have children. Regardless of age. Not to sound rude but I'm not a child especially when you have your own. And you work for the things that you have.
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8/7/2013 5:57:28 PM |
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punke196103
Bradenton, FL
55, joined Jul. 2013
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I would date someone with kids, I like children. I have three grown boys but they don't live at home. But I found that it was very hard on them when they were young. They would be rude and even ask my boyfriend to leave. Surprisingly he came back...guess he didn't scare easily.
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8/7/2013 5:59:15 PM |
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eyes_of_glass
Charlotte, NC
28, joined Jul. 2013
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Yes... I have one myself
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8/7/2013 6:13:54 PM |
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creepmike
Willoughby, OH
33, joined Dec. 2012
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there's this white girl on Facebook I like but in her picture there's like 7 interracial children. I guess she like the African American sausage pretty well indeed. what should i do should I go after this Grand Canyon like hole?
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8/7/2013 7:18:12 PM |
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lovelydani
Bensalem, PA
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there's this white girl on Facebook I like but in her picture there's like 7 interracial children. I guess she like the African American sausage pretty well indeed. what should i do should I go after this Grand Canyon like hole?
If you like her it doesn't hurt to let her know. You don't want to have regrets about not letting her know how you feel about her.
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8/7/2013 7:55:10 PM |
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lovelydani
Bensalem, PA
22, joined May. 2013
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Wow, I feel bad for you. There is nothing worse than listening to people bicker...
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8/7/2013 8:52:51 PM |
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1darksavior
Far Rockaway, NY
54, joined Mar. 2011
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i dont see why not
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8/7/2013 8:55:41 PM |
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ladypat81
Baltimore, MD
35, joined Jun. 2013
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I don't have any and don't date men with kids unless the kids are grown but even that's a headache.
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8/7/2013 9:56:47 PM |
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boomer8719
Tucson, AZ
29, joined Jul. 2013
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I have and would. I want to be a father someday of my own kids but if she has one or two then ok, I would give it a shot.
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8/7/2013 10:35:07 PM |
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shoequeen85
Burley, ID
30, joined Apr. 2013
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I'm kind if a hypocrite. I have children, but would not date a man that has young kids. I want to be the center of his world and any man who is going to put me before his kids is a jerk, who I don't want.
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8/7/2013 10:44:11 PM |
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barbiedollgirl
Vienna, VA
59, joined Aug. 2010
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Seeing a man that is a loving father is a big turn on to me
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8/8/2013 6:15:38 AM |
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mr_imperfect
Philadelphia, PA
54, joined Sep. 2011
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At my age there probably aren't going to be too many 40 something females with young kids unless they had the, later in life. In a case like that so long as there is no baby daddy drama I wouldn't let kids stop me from dating her if I really liked her.
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8/8/2013 6:19:21 AM |
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mr_imperfect
Philadelphia, PA
54, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm kind if a hypocrite. I have children, but would not date a man that has young kids. I want to be the center of his world and any man who is going to put me before his kids is a jerk, who I don't want.
So you expect a man to understand that he will always come second after your children yet you yourself don't want to be second best in your man's life. Yeah good luck with that one.
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8/8/2013 6:25:15 AM |
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epicureanms
Carthage, MS
45, joined May. 2012
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Where my cigarettes at Biotch?
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8/8/2013 11:38:08 PM |
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monteypython
Dickson City, PA
33, joined Sep. 2011
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Most def.. It takes a true gentleman to step up to the plate...
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8/9/2013 1:10:55 AM |
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gamerepairpros
Cleveland, OH
38, joined Dec. 2012
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nope. can't do it.
not interested in raising another man's seed.
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8/9/2013 2:19:17 AM |
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hichoi
Los Angeles, CA
23, joined Jun. 2013
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Gross, no.
Maybe when I'm old, desperate and can't find anybody.
I don't want kids so can't imagine being with someone who has their own running around the house like roaches.
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8/9/2013 6:26:44 PM |
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miguelf0182
New York, NY
42, joined Jun. 2013
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I want to date a woman with 5 kids or more....... but only during tax season
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8/10/2013 12:30:00 AM |
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featherleaf
Minneapolis, MN
34, joined Aug. 2013
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i hav kids..so i would
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8/10/2013 12:40:12 AM |
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check_mate8
Albuquerque, NM
32, joined Aug. 2013
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The most I would want is two but if my heart falls I love
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8/10/2013 12:43:45 AM |
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anthonytra
Fort Worth, TX
38, joined Mar. 2013
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I have before, she had 4 kids. I see no problems with it as long as she's a good mother and her kids are well behaved.
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8/10/2013 12:11:11 PM |
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butterflybby4
Round Rock, TX
33, joined May. 2013
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It's a shame that some people don't feel the same way as we do!
There's lots of people that feel like they don't wanna have to deal with a child or want to be with someone who will have their child only.
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8/10/2013 1:25:08 PM |
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412rep
Pittsburgh, PA
32, joined Jul. 2013
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I would never date a woman with more than two kids... To be honest I don't even want to meet your kids until I KNOW FOR.CERTAIN that I'm this for the long term
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8/10/2013 1:35:50 PM |
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lovelydani
Bensalem, PA
22, joined May. 2013
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There is nothing worse than a rude child. I feel like respect is something that a parent should teach their children.
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8/10/2013 1:48:21 PM |
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jheated5
Wilkes Barre, PA
33, joined Jan. 2011
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I draw the line on 3 children, then you're out!
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8/10/2013 2:59:12 PM |
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ohhh_me
Pittsburgh, PA
37, joined May. 2013
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I date no man that can't respect that I have a child.
Its a packaged deal. You can't be with me without acknowledging my offspring. She was here first and when he's gone, the child is still around. To each their own.
I'm in a deep family setting, so if you can't handle being around my child, you won't be able to handle my other many family members.
My child likes to approve of who her mommy dates, if not you'd be dealing with my brothers anyway.
And why waste both our time living in a fantasy world? Even if you end up liking the mom you still have to meet the child(ren) at some point. And children don't always get attached. It's the stupid ones that make promises and try to be the child's friend right off the bat that fûck it up. Building a false sense of reality is wrong. Being honest up front helps the child cope and understand a situation. Not all single parents know how to tell their child the harsh reality of life. What a disservice when they grow up. And men blame it on Disney. When in most situations its the parents fault for the delusions of grandeur they instill in their children.
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8/10/2013 6:16:01 PM |
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412rep
Pittsburgh, PA
32, joined Jul. 2013
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I don't believe involving my child in my romantic life is smart... As a child, being brought into those situations is awkward enough. I wasn't subjected to it, so I wouldnt do that to my kid.... In my opinion keeping those worlds seperate is smart, I'm not saying lie or embellish, I believe you should only make that move if you are serious, and the way most women are from one dude to the next, that's just stupid....
Everyone is different, I wasn't raised without my mother and father, and never had to be dragged in and out of a relationship
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8/10/2013 6:35:52 PM |
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justjay21
Indianapolis, IN
37, joined Jul. 2013
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I prefer women with children. Most of the time they are more focused and mature.
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