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| 9/8/2013 4:11:57 PM |
Money flows like gold...family drops like flies |
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daretobeyou
Fishers, IN
37, joined Nov. 2010
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Have you ever felt this way as your career and/or education has gotten better? You imagine your family being proud...yet, instead you experience the opposite.
You become a go-getter...bettering yourself, even giving back to your family. But all you see is more greed and jealousy from them no matter what you say or do.
Have you ever went through this...and if so..how did you handle/resolve it?
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| 9/8/2013 5:47:34 PM |
Money flows like gold...family drops like flies |
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booch3333
Peru, IN
39, joined Oct. 2012
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At the end of the day, you've got yourself and what you love most!
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| 9/8/2013 6:10:06 PM |
Money flows like gold...family drops like flies |
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daretobeyou
Fishers, IN
37, joined Nov. 2010
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?? Not sure I understand.
Got what? Money? That comes and goes along with beauty. I'm thinking more of things like: loyalty, deep love rather then what is based on the superficial.
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| 9/8/2013 8:16:00 PM |
Money flows like gold...family drops like flies |
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kkr88430
Pittsburgh, PA
29, joined Sep. 2013
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You should stop trying to give back to them, and instead give them what time you have. That way they don't expect gifts from you, but you still get to spend time with the ones you love.
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| 9/9/2013 5:44:32 AM |
Money flows like gold...family drops like flies |
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booch3333
Peru, IN
39, joined Oct. 2012
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?? Not sure I understand.
Got what? Money? That comes and goes along with beauty. I'm thinking more of things like: loyalty, deep love rather then what is based on the superficial.
What I'm saying is people come and go -just like family members- they tend to live their own lives. Unless you have a dedicated soulmate, or a great dog, you really experience life on your own terms- that includes prioritizing what is most important to you- if you want more from your family, then you know what to do. You are an extremely attractive, and intelligent woman- definitely a curse LoL! Don't overthink everything hot stuff!
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| 9/12/2013 1:13:45 PM |
Money flows like gold...family drops like flies |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
65, joined Mar. 2008
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I assume you are running into the situation in which you now outearn other family members by a significant amount, and the only thing you see from relatives is their hand out for "their fair share." I didn't have that in my family as we all are pretty self sufficient, but I see it all the time in other families. It gets to be notorious among athletes and entertainment types.
There is no simple solution. You are dealing with people who are thinking only of themselves. If they are relatives you have to handle interacting with them, and many times politely telling them "no." It's not your job to pay off someone's credit card debt that was accumulated buying junk. However, if you are dealing with significant sums of money, helping someone who truly needs help with for example, medical bills, is a good family gesture. But you aren't a money tree.
If one is truly dealing with significant sums of money, you may well feel obligated to help out your parents a bit. But then all the brothers, sisters, cousins, etc. come along and start whining. If all they want is money with no realistic purpose, sorry. I would consider helping someone with educational expenses to better themselves, with the understanding that when they make it, they will give back as well..... sometimes on that you win, sometimes you dont.
I remember an athlete who really hit it big and out of his signing bonus gave significant gifts to his first cousins that he had known all his life. Next year they were b*tchin because the holidays came and went and he wasnt so generous.
The money, unfortunately, brings out the worst in people. If, after time, the relationship doesnt improve, its time to get new friends. Relatives are harder to break away from, but you have to protect yourself.
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| 9/18/2013 12:26:49 PM |
Money flows like gold...family drops like flies |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
65, joined Mar. 2008
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For many people the ability to spend money they didnt earn is a good transient substitute, until the money runs out. If you buy something really fancy, such as expensive jewelry, you get noticed for a week or two by your friends, until someone else goes to the store and gets something, then its their turn.
True happiness comes from within, but it is a very difficult thing for people to first understand and then second, make it work.
But most people are pretty shallow, so they never understand.
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| 9/19/2013 12:24:18 PM |
Money flows like gold...family drops like flies |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
53, joined Mar. 2009
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In life we are always entering one of the 5 stages of change. Those include:
Pre-contemplation-Knowing change needs to be made but not wanting to.
Contemplation-weighing the cost of change.
Preparation-making a decision to change and planning the course of action it will take.
Action-putting your plan of action into play.
Maintenance-keeping up the lifestyle once change has been made.
As one stage ends another begins. We might be ending a relationship but starting a new job. Our lives are fragmented into different roles. The successful business man/woman may stink at relationships. Success in one area does not guarantee success in other or all areas.
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