11/23/2013 1:11:45 PM |
Why cant i ever find a good guy? |
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bellasmommy2011
Beaverton, OR
26, joined Oct. 2013
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Why cant I ever find a good guy I always end up with the a**holes and everybody else gets the good guys
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11/23/2013 2:50:58 PM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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Your picker is broke
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11/24/2013 11:33:02 AM |
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legaleye
Columbus, OH
65, joined Mar. 2008
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There are good people all around you, but most people are blind to them. The real key is taking a chance on meeting people. Unless you are very lucky, you have to put time and effort into meeting people and actually go out and meet for real and see what you find. I can probably say that I have met, for an hour, a date or two, etc. at least 20 people that appeared compatible for each relationship I have had over the years.
And while you may have a fantasy notion of what kind of hunk or whatever you deserve, think carefully and refine your criteria to include people who actually would be attracted to you as well.
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11/24/2013 5:20:29 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
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Ones that are good, u probably pass them right on by.
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11/24/2013 5:40:29 PM |
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resa3
Arnold, MO
31, joined Oct. 2013
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What's with all the pity parties? I've gotta a kid and don't go scouting for "good guys". Just take your time and let's things play by ear. That or focus on yourself and kid (s).
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11/25/2013 10:15:37 AM |
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good_dr
Spokane, WA
53, joined Dec. 2011
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Truth is that this subject can always go both ways. Many have been so scorned that they leave their red flags flying at full mast. It's hard to bring down those flags at times. Specially when you have more than yourself to think about. Things are not what they used to be as well, and can be just down right scary at times.
Then there are those that got to have this, and got to have that. So much so that they have put them self beyond any reach. Set expectations so high along with their noses. That they can not see a good possibility, and just pass them by.
Sure we all have to weed out the players and gamers, but at the same time reset the flags at half mast. That and with a spring loaded hair trigger device that sends them back up to full mast.
Red flags are there for a reason for all of us. Just have to remember to reset them from time to time.
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11/26/2013 11:05:50 AM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
57, joined Jan. 2013
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Young and a lot of head of you.
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11/27/2013 12:59:12 PM |
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rose1206
Gilbert, AZ
36, joined Jul. 2012
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Why cant I ever find a good guy I always end up with the a**holes and everybody else gets the good guys
Everyone else? I think that's a long stretch, many ppl who are married/in a relationship can't stand each other. Take your time, patience is a virtue!
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11/27/2013 4:34:52 PM |
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lorababy1983
Pearl River, LA
34, joined Sep. 2013
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good men don't exsedst thay are married gay or full of shit
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11/27/2013 6:28:53 PM |
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cbarrrington201
Udall, MO
69, joined Mar. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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11/27/2013 6:38:27 PM |
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agooddaddy10
Liberty, KY
53, joined Aug. 2010
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good men don't exsedst thay are married gay or full of shit
..or maybe we are just hiding effectively. Too effectively perhaps.
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11/29/2013 4:27:58 PM |
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staceyd3
Fort Myers, FL
41, joined Jun. 2013
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I'm with you on that.. They look pass the good women and run into a woman that just want what he has to offer I'm at a point in my life where I'm about to give up my search and let God bring what's best for me.. I've been single for some years now...
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11/29/2013 5:00:17 PM |
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jaybyrd45
Cedartown, GA
31, joined Dec. 2011
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If you have kids you don't need a man a man should be a secondary thought process
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11/30/2013 7:31:11 PM |
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browneye71
Park Hills, MO
45, joined Sep. 2013
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Because most men are liers and players. I really haven't met or talk to any good guys unless the many states apart from me. Or in another country.
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12/5/2013 9:33:22 PM |
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python1363
Los Angeles, CA
54, joined Jun. 2013
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The good guys are there!! Start with friends, and work your way up!! Find a man that wants to know you!! How do you do that? My first rule, no sex or talking about sex. You will be able to see the difference right away.... Stop by and I will tell you the next stage...it's that simple........
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12/8/2013 8:05:27 PM |
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rickypoppy
Abilene, TX
44, joined Aug. 2012
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Why cant I ever find a good guy I always end up with the a**holes and everybody else gets the good guys
Someone already gave you some good advice. Forget your own self-induced pressures and enjoy yourself. Your other half will find you. You just take care of your family, which should be your top priority anyway, and take care of yourself.
If you don't, you will regret and always end up with guys you had no business to begin with. Respect yourself. We, men, we notice things like this. An independent and self-assured woman is so sexy.
Good luck.
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1/10/2014 7:39:28 AM |
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adb1976
Elkhart, IN
41, joined Aug. 2011
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i have been waiting six years since i have been divorced and have yet to find anyone... i just concentrate on my daughter
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1/11/2014 2:18:01 PM |
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greekusurper
Phoenix, AZ
30, joined Feb. 2009
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Because we only go for girls that have class. Think about it logically. If u hook up w/ a nice guy and get married...then god forbid he dies...u now have his kids. If your standards r low youll end up w/ a jerk raising his kids. We stick w/ ladies that have standards. U dont need a man honey... Just ignore the jerks.
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1/13/2014 8:53:29 PM |
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computercat
Rozel, KS
68, joined Aug. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
[Edited 1/13/2014 8:55:10 PM ]
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1/21/2014 9:26:16 PM |
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countrymomhere
Sparta, MI
38, joined Jun. 2013
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I found one & fked it up. hope some day to find another one. I focus on my kids & myself for now. I hope I find a good guy sooner then later. I'm slowly starting to think I'll always be single.
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