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lonleycat1979
Flushing, NY
37, joined Sep. 2013
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Why is harder for a single dad ,to get
A girl than it is a single mom to get a
Guy
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| 2/9/2014 10:14:57 PM |
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tessarella6844
Orem, UT
47, joined Oct. 2013
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Why do you think that is true? I don't think it is any easier for either.
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| 2/9/2014 10:24:52 PM |
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lonleycat1979
Flushing, NY
37, joined Sep. 2013
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Well i been experiencing that
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| 2/9/2014 10:50:02 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
57, joined Sep. 2012
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Far more men than women on dating sites.
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| 2/9/2014 11:05:42 PM |
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beckybabee
Las Vegas, NV
23, joined Nov. 2013
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I think it's hard on both. Other parents will be more understanding and wanting to date other parents as of dating someone who isn't a mom or dad. If you're looking for someone who doesn't have kids it probably will be hard for you only because she doesn't understand what it's like to be a mother/parent. Try dating someone who has kids, do play dates. Include the kids and that will only make your bond stronger.
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| 2/9/2014 11:22:25 PM |
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bubblyblond4u
Crestline, CA
57, joined Jan. 2013
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Why is harder for a single dad ,to get
A girl than it is a single mom to get a
Guy
You wouldn't be able to compare the 2 unless you posed as a woman,
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| 2/9/2014 11:38:58 PM |
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tjl503
Portland, OR
36, joined Dec. 2012
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As a single dad with kids living with you you're in the minority. Guys are used to dating moms who have kids living with them full time. Usually when women are dating guys who have kids they only have part custody. It's not a problem, you're making it a problem. There are a lot of women who can relate to being a single, full time parent.
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| 2/10/2014 4:33:42 AM |
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septembersong72
Beverly Hills, CA
47, joined Sep. 2012
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Perhaps it has nothing to do with you being a dad.
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| 2/10/2014 4:40:46 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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Why is harder for a single dad ,to get
A girl than it is a single mom to get a
Guy
um....because you don't have a p*ssy?
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| 2/10/2014 4:44:03 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
61, joined Apr. 2011
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News Flash op.
Its typically harder for men in general.
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| 2/10/2014 8:09:38 AM |
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sandu469
Phoenix, AZ
34, joined Sep. 2013
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1. Baby Mama Drama
2. Attention
Those would be the top two reasons IMO.
Even if you don't have BM Drama a lot of woman don't want to chance getting involved in that since it could be them who starts it.
And as you know in general they want all the attention you can give them so if you have kids of your own that takes a lot of her time away and if she has kids too then competition for time and trying to make it "fair" for all...
As a single father I would say enjoy life and love it and love being the single dad. These are years you will always cherish and never get back.
Instead of worrying of a relationship keep focused on your kids and set the bar on life for them don't bounce around from woman to woman it doesn't show them a strong foundation.
[Edited 2/10/2014 8:10:58 AM ]
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| 2/10/2014 9:54:00 AM |
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badchevy4x4babe
Fort Worth, TX
27, joined May. 2011
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Perhaps it has nothing to do with you being a dad.
lol this could be.
i think OP needs to be more positive and optimistic than woe is me down in the dumps
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| 2/10/2014 11:21:20 AM |
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lorenze3
Phoenix, AZ
39, joined Dec. 2013
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1. Baby Mama Drama
2. Attention
Those would be the top two reasons IMO.
Even if you don't have BM Drama a lot of woman don't want to chance getting involved in that since it could be them who starts it.
And as you know in general they want all the attention you can give them so if you have kids of your own that takes a lot of her time away and if she has kids too then competition for time and trying to make it "fair"  for all...
As a single father I would say enjoy life and love it and love being the single dad. These are years you will always cherish and never get back.
Instead of worrying of a relationship keep focused on your kids and set the bar on life for them don't bounce around from woman to woman it doesn't show them a strong foundation.
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| 2/10/2014 3:49:47 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Why is harder for a single dad ,to get
A girl than it is a single mom to get a
Guy
The single dads that I have dated tend to be very busy because they are always working to pay child support and pay their own bills and then they end up having their kids every weekend or every other weekend thus messing up any date time we could have because I have my kids on the opposite days and my weekends are my FREE time and I don't want to spend them around the guys brats.  However, if the guy knows how to parent correctly then the kids aren't so bad, but if they are under the age of 12 they are usually brats and they are always with the man on weekends and I won't date a man that's too tied down to pay attention to me.
Why date?? Most men will not get a babysitter on their weekends because they haven't seen their kids all week which is understandable but I don't want to go out with a man and his kid(s). You can't move on in the relationship if you don't a lot of time together alone. It feels more like a friendship than dating if our kids are always around when we're together.
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| 2/10/2014 3:51:55 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Childs mom causes drama.. Ive only dated one single dad and probably wont do it again.
Maybe it's just the guy you met. I doubt every single man that you could find that has children has baby mama drama. You've only tried to date one. Since I've been single again (I have 3 kids) I've dated 4 dads and none of the moms were a bother at all except for one of them and that's because the guy lied about being separated from her and was seeing her and me at the same time. He got kicked to the curb as soon as I found out about his wife.
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| 2/10/2014 10:14:03 PM |
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lonleycat1979
Flushing, NY
37, joined Sep. 2013
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Thanks sandu????
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| 2/11/2014 1:46:55 PM |
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shadygirl13
Lincoln, NE
44, joined Jun. 2010
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Well i been experiencing that
When was the last time you were a single mother so you could compare??
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| 2/11/2014 4:16:47 PM |
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stepupaknee
Wenatchee, WA
36, joined Aug. 2012
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nawh i feel its easier for a single man to get one then the other way. i mean women love taking on challenges that make em look better then the last girl that was in the picture. i totally gotta also put into factor how many kids cause there hast to be someone really special to fit into such a large family with lots of different personalities and still be patient and loving
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| 2/11/2014 5:03:48 PM |
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ladypat81
Baltimore, MD
35, joined Jun. 2013
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Dating is just a lot harder for everyone. Everyone just wanna get laid without the commitment. 
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| 2/12/2014 7:17:24 PM |
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pickygirl72
Victorville, CA
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I think single women with kids get a very bad wrap. While single men with children are thought of being hero's who take care of their children.
But sorry you're having difficulties.
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| 2/12/2014 9:49:11 PM |
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emerald1977
Winchester, VA
39, joined Nov. 2012
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This was my challenge, I tried and kept the relationship at the start between us, so that I get to learn more about him. I don’t involve my kids until I feel the man can contribute to that part of the relationship. Very often they get frustrated about why I don’t spend enough time with them. As a result, I end it because I’m not ready to try and convince them why the waiting is necessary. I don't think this issue is just one sided. I think most dating adults struggle with this dilemma.
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