4/16/2014 6:46:38 AM |
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onlykisses4u
Winterport, ME
36, joined Dec. 2011
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1. <6 Months |
2. 6 Months to 1 Year |
3. 1 year to 1 1/2 Years |
4. 1 1/2 Years to 2 Years |
5. 2 Years to 3 Years |
6. 3 Years + |
"Dating" doesn't count. Only serious relationships of at least 3 or more months.
Personally, I've been single since October 2011. Dated a few guys very short term, but nothing serious (they wouldn't work out). However, I feel as though I was a single parent all along (the Ex-husband really didn't help with the kiddos).
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4/16/2014 6:47:46 AM |
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n3lly_n3l
Oklahoma City, OK
39, joined Jul. 2013
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11yrs
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4/16/2014 7:18:21 AM |
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agooddaddy10
Liberty, KY
53, joined Aug. 2010
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7 years with sole custody.
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4/16/2014 9:05:12 AM |
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soonergirl84
Yukon, OK
32, joined May. 2012
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It has been 4 years for me
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4/16/2014 8:33:46 PM |
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krazyjogirl
Tulsa, OK
43, joined Mar. 2014
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7 yrs
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4/16/2014 9:58:40 PM |
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texasgirl_1978
Grapevine, TX
38, joined Sep. 2013
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I have been a single parent since my child was born. He is now 10 years old.
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4/16/2014 11:12:35 PM |
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amiez
Shawnee, OK
32, joined Sep. 2008
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My newborn is 10 days old, so not very long, but I've been 'single' since October.
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4/16/2014 11:21:24 PM |
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kashakole
McMinnville, TN
42, joined Nov. 2012
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Two great jitter bugs 5 & 6 lookin for moms with younger children to kick it with
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4/17/2014 2:52:26 AM |
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good_dr
Spokane, WA
53, joined Dec. 2011
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around 6 1/2 years. Since they were around 18 months old.
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4/17/2014 5:58:45 AM |
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onlykisses4u
Winterport, ME
36, joined Dec. 2011
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With all of you that have been single for 3+ years, how would you explain your reasons for being single so long? Mine honestly, is lack of guys seeking actual, committed relationships. I've seen way too many men who say they want a relationship, but turn to talking about only sex. The other type of men, lie on their profiles. They do drugs, can't/don't see their kids, or they have an extensive criminal history. Why would I allow someone like that around MY children? LOL
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4/17/2014 6:36:33 AM |
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kashakole
McMinnville, TN
42, joined Nov. 2012
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I am very selective on who meets my kids I don't people coming in and out of there life they are very loving kids and Im not going to cause them confusion about who I date
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4/17/2014 12:17:28 PM |
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txcountrymedic
Pleasanton, TX
39, joined Mar. 2014
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I have been a single dad 4+yrs this go around. 6 the first.
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4/17/2014 2:05:43 PM |
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trinkel86
Bristol, FL
30, joined Oct. 2013
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I have only been a single parent for about 9 months. but I guess the entire 8 years I was in a way. he the ex only wanted to take care of a beer.
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4/17/2014 2:11:19 PM |
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kaseyadams10
Cherryville, NC
26, joined Dec. 2013
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It's just me an my two boys
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4/17/2014 2:53:30 PM |
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soonergirl84
Yukon, OK
32, joined May. 2012
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I've stayed single for so long because between raising kids full time, going to school full time, and then working part-full time didnt leave much time for dating.
And now that I've been done with school it's been hard finding someone who is looking for a relationship, they seem to only be looking for sex. So I've kinda given up
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4/17/2014 5:52:00 PM |
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c2j2012
Holt, MI
36, joined Apr. 2013
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Been on my own since the wee one was 6 mths old, and he is my bestest pal. I have not been actively pursuing a relationship, been focusing more on improving our lives, work, being a good parent and making myself healthy so that I seek out a good relationship.
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4/17/2014 5:53:24 PM |
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c2j2012
Holt, MI
36, joined Apr. 2013
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My newborn is 10 days old, so not very long, but I've been 'single' since October.
Congrats on the new baby!
The first 6 mths are tough, but it does get easier. Cherish the happy moments - they will never be that tiny again!
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4/17/2014 8:11:25 PM |
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good_dr
Spokane, WA
53, joined Dec. 2011
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With all of you that have been single for 3+ years, how would you explain your reasons for being single so long? Mine honestly, is lack of guys seeking actual, committed relationships. I've seen way too many men who say they want a relationship, but turn to talking about only sex. The other type of men, lie on their profiles. They do drugs, can't/don't see their kids, or they have an extensive criminal history. Why would I allow someone like that around MY children? LOL
Not to be mean, but your statement can go both ways. I'll leave it alone at that.
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4/17/2014 10:43:50 PM |
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anja_lou514
Kissimmee, FL
42, joined May. 2011
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I'm in a committed relationship, but I'm still a single parent. He doesn't share my bills or child raising responsibilities. I was a single parent for 9 years before I got married to the ex. I've been a single parent for almost 4 since the ex moved out.
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4/17/2014 11:31:27 PM |
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luvre41
New York, NY
44, joined Feb. 2014
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I been single parent over twenty plus years I love all five children nd I won't trade that for nothing they in a better place that's all I wanted
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4/18/2014 7:20:02 PM |
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2wheeledrider
Live Oak, FL
53, joined Jun. 2012
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Going on 12 yrs now. Started out with 4 children (2 girls//2 boys), now down to my 2 boys.
Dated off and on and a few relationships along the way, but so far there is no staying power with a woman no longer raising children with me still having kids. But I'm never changing that in me being a parent, even if it means me being single/alone the rest of my life. The irony of the term "Single" Parent.
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4/19/2014 10:00:43 PM |
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11itsme
Vancouver, WA
27, joined Jul. 2013
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4/20/2014 1:21:31 AM |
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european_fly
Amsterdam
Netherlands
98, joined Mar. 2014
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4/20/2014 1:05:16 PM |
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tanika23
Nürnberg
Germany
26, joined Apr. 2014
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Hitting the three year mark now
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4/20/2014 7:10:38 PM |
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eddies_back
Kane, PA
47, joined Sep. 2013
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Hitting the three year mark now
You're young yet..Love will find it's way..
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4/25/2014 4:56:00 PM |
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luvre41
New York, NY
44, joined Feb. 2014
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So if you have any problem with that hmu if interest
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4/25/2014 5:08:52 PM |
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lovelockdown81
Saint Louis, MO
35, joined Nov. 2013
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good days and some bad days. There's been days where I just want to go outside and scream, but those are the days when I realize how blessed I am to have my little boy. There are people who try and try and try and are not able to conceive a child. he is my gift and I will nurture and protection with every ounce of my being. I love my little prince!
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4/25/2014 5:18:53 PM |
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jla3767
Brookville, PA
50, joined Oct. 2012
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14 years this past Feb. I miss the companionship someone to talk to
or confide in but it is what it is. My kids as all single parents kids ( their own kids )
needed me. I made the choice ( wasn't a hard choice) that my twins came first
and to hell with every thing else within my life.
I wouldn't change a thing either.
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4/25/2014 5:20:12 PM |
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rko009
Brooklyn, NY
39, joined Jul. 2013
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::hi:
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4/25/2014 6:15:43 PM |
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81chris04
Saint Louis, MO
36, joined May. 2013
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I have been a single parent(full custody) for 5 years, Fatherhood is great
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4/26/2014 4:33:47 PM |
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juanmorales1968
San Jose, CA
48, joined May. 2013
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Been single 11 years..
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5/18/2014 10:20:28 PM |
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onlykisses4u
Winterport, ME
36, joined Dec. 2011
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good days and some bad days. There's been days where I just want to go outside and scream, but those are the days when I realize how blessed I am to have my little boy. There are people who try and try and try and are not able to conceive a child. he is my gift and I will nurture and protection with every ounce of my being. I love my little prince!
I feel the same way about all of my boys!!
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5/19/2014 1:23:37 PM |
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risitaaazul
Plant City, FL
37, joined May. 2013
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8 years
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5/19/2014 1:29:45 PM |
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jhbenb28
Tampa, FL
32, joined Mar. 2014
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Been rough but I love my son too much to give up. Really too buisy to date.
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5/19/2014 4:24:16 PM |
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bmarszalek
Spring Hill, FL
33, joined Nov. 2012
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5 years
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5/19/2014 7:44:08 PM |
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xxbookiebearxxx
Coshocton, OH
23, joined Apr. 2014
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I'm ready for something serious
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5/19/2014 8:21:48 PM |
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avgjoe0266
Augusta, GA
97, joined Aug. 2008
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7 years
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5/20/2014 12:15:07 AM |
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nikkinono9213
Hebron, ND
25, joined Mar. 2014
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Since I got pregnant in may 2012
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5/20/2014 6:52:07 AM |
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miss_sthing
Leesburg, GA
32, joined May. 2014
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I have been single for 2 and half years
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5/21/2014 4:01:57 PM |
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bethymay123
Elmendorf, TX
38, joined May. 2012
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18 years with a five year break ( not really) for a horrible marriage.
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5/23/2014 4:09:54 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
online now!
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Almost a year
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5/24/2014 10:38:57 PM |
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nascarchamp6tim
Hansen, ID
60, joined May. 2014
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I've been single 9 years. Just got custody of my daughter this past March. Been on 5 or 6 dates in all that time.......but its all good! Just want some new friends!
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5/25/2014 7:32:51 AM |
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ayeee_jessica
San Jose, CA
24, joined Apr. 2014
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It is hard to find someone that is serious nd with a good personality.
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5/25/2014 11:03:30 AM |
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locome
Sunnyvale, CA
29, joined Apr. 2013
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5/25/2014 11:46:49 AM |
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nick91420
Sherman, TX
26, joined Apr. 2014
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Son is 2 daughter is 6 months
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5/26/2014 1:12:36 AM |
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bostonbaby34
North Reading, MA
40, joined Jan. 2014
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1 1/2 years
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5/26/2014 5:14:43 AM |
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bruinsjoe
Quincy, MA
33, joined Nov. 2013
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It was worth the divorce tho....
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7/15/2014 8:56:12 AM |
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caribchica
Fort Lauderdale, FL
45, joined Jun. 2014
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Yup got that right OP
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7/16/2014 7:59:09 PM |
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cestlanuit
North Las Vegas, NV
30, joined Mar. 2014
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I have had one short relationship since I left my daughter's father in Feb 2010. She was born October 209. By the standards posted here even that relationship barely counts. Approximate 4 months which the last two he would not see me or let me visit him.
I get asked why I am single quite a bit, and it's many reasons. Mostly that I am very picky and never get approached by men I am interested in. In fact to be blunt the majority of those who 'flirt" with me I actually find either desperate or repulsive. (Imagine the types of creeps standing outside Home Depot looking for illegitimate work or outside the convenient store asking for spare change. No joke!) Sometimes I feel like I must be repulsive myself since they are the main men showing interest. But I usually come out of my slump. Look in the mirror and realize/convince myself that I do deserve better and that when the time is right a man whom I am actually attracted to will show the same interest in me, and things will evolve naturally from there. As they have for so many other couples.
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7/16/2014 8:35:28 PM |
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m3xikan1
Las Vegas, NV
27, joined May. 2014
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I like being a single father... is not easy!!! But my daughter is the best thing that ever happen to me
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7/18/2014 2:04:41 AM |
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holli0725
Springfield, OH
27, joined May. 2014
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I've been a single mother for 4 months after being with my daughters father for 6 years. It's been a really rough breakup and he has completely changed his personality towards me. He has called me b***h in front of my daughter and continues to treat me like dirt. So yeah, its been really hard to get my life back.
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7/18/2014 10:40:29 PM |
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dlc4c
Ormond Beach, FL
44, joined Dec. 2013
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5.....seems to be easier for me....but much harder on my son! I have my little man like 90 percent of the time! I love it.....but I don't feel it's very conducive for him
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7/20/2014 10:24:05 AM |
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2luvandbluvd
Mars, PA
39, joined Oct. 2013
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I have been a single parent, withmy kids father not in the picture at all for about 5 and a half yrs now..
and..I'm okay with that, being the type of person he is, and negative influence,
he was abusive towards me, and..snatched my son out of my arms as if he were a toy, I was cheated on, and ..well. I am just glad I got away finally, wasted a few yrs of my life..but, finally woke up realized I deserved better",and I will never settle for less..ever again"!!
And..no more broken promises to me, or my kids, etc, etc.
I rather be single the rest of my life, and never know what love is ..than to be in a relationship, give my all, get hurt, and feel nothing in return".
Being a single parent has molded me into the good woman I am today, and has made me stronger.
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7/25/2014 5:41:03 PM |
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melb2626
Clearwater, FL
31, joined Feb. 2014
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I can't believe it's been 4 yrs now
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7/26/2014 7:43:20 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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all my life
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8/3/2014 11:01:09 PM |
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egypt1010
Greensboro, NC
31, joined Jul. 2011
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Five years. Finally ready for something real just no luck yet
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8/12/2014 9:59:44 PM |
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jc1174
Powder Springs, GA
42, joined Apr. 2014
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Jan 2015 will be 3 yrs. I hate it but I wouldn't change anything. I dont need a wife like her or a best-friend like him. I'm better and stronger
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8/13/2014 9:35:40 PM |
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onlykisses4u
Winterport, ME
36, joined Dec. 2011
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Jan 2015 will be 3 yrs. I hate it but I wouldn't change anything. I dont need a wife like her or a best-friend like him. I'm better and stronger
Amen Hunny! It'll be 3 years in October here. I've come to realize I'm a lot stronger than I ever thought I could be! Being lonely alone is better than being miserable together! That's my theory anyways. LOL! Someone is out there waiting for us and when we're supposed to have them, they'll appear exactly where they're supposed to be.
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8/13/2014 10:31:28 PM |
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tiffany0302
Riverdale, GA
34, joined Jul. 2014
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Being a single mother with five kids looking for a long lasting relationship is hard
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8/14/2014 12:24:02 AM |
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jc1174
Powder Springs, GA
42, joined Apr. 2014
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Amen Hunny! It'll be 3 years in October here. I've come to realize I'm a lot stronger than I ever thought I could be! Being lonely alone is better than being miserable together! That's my theory anyways. LOL! Someone is out there waiting for us and when we're supposed to have them, they'll appear exactly where they're supposed to be. I agree, just wish she'd hurry up lol. We were best friends for 27 yrs. Me and her were married 3yrs, nit one argument and suddenly. am she wants him and I'm thrown away lol. Their loss not mine.
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