4/24/2014 5:46:49 PM |
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cinnamonhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Jul. 2013
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I will not be able to post soon, so what the fuk? I'm gonna say how I REALLY feel!
Mr. Funtimz - you are the ugliest mother fuker I've ever seen. You have your nose so far up "Bruce's" a** it a wonder you can breath. You are such a spineless chameleon. You are the worst possible type of man. You go into groups with both sexes & suck up to any woman who will answer you. Then you go into Mans Land & talk about how women should be slaves & how women don't deserve equal pay. Gee, why are you single???
And Bruce over there with his delusions of having a woman wait on him hand & foot is just that - delusional! He talks about foreign women. Yeah, like he's got a shot at that! Trust me. If all these "AmeriC*nts" as he calls women won't have anything to do with him, then why in the hell would a foreign women come all the way here for a washed up shriveled up unemployed butt ugly dirt bag like him. I'm sure cats cross the street when they see him coming, much less all these "p*ssies" as he refers to woman. Someone put him down permanently & do the world a favor. He's a waste of air!
Now I've gotta go for a bit but I'll come back later & spread the hate on any other losers I can find.
Feel free to insult people here!!!
Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
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4/24/2014 7:18:37 PM |
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cinnamonhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Jul. 2013
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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4/24/2014 7:40:36 PM |
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imagingtech
Powell, OH
51, joined Feb. 2012
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Well Cinnamon, I don't know you, but funtimz just made a thread about you in DGD! Reminds me of Verat the rat
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4/24/2014 8:06:06 PM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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According to my email all they did was delete my email to cs. Wtf. Now you too
Okay - was resting; still will rest - downloaded this
DON'T contact me by any means other than DH - I'm running this SOLELY through DH (not that you could anyway - or would)
And believe me; you all are 'interesting posters' to say the minimum - but that's just in Women's World
Tough On Love - would like to exchange posts some day; looking forward to your coming back.
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4/24/2014 8:56:45 PM |
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cbarrrington201
Udall, MO
69, joined Mar. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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4/24/2014 9:02:43 PM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Thank you Messengers:
I went to FunTimz thread in DGD to rock it G-Rating Style in the Thread ONLY and it got pulled
I am such a DH poster - even my best offer to be Bawdy was G/PG Rated strictly.
Hope you all are here tomorrow,
Night now.
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4/24/2014 9:10:04 PM |
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computercat
Rozel, KS
68, joined Aug. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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4/24/2014 9:38:25 PM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
31, joined Mar. 2013
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What's the title of the post? I can't seem to find it.
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4/24/2014 10:22:45 PM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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AZ , hi
Dont know which post title u are looking for
I saw u then and i see you now, and i am not at all surprised that u are hanging in here.
There is so much that you can do! I am old but naiive just post and be mindful take nothing to excess (okay, do as i say not as i do ),
Things may improve - especially if u hang in DH and dont get flagged out (wink!).
Ive git a thread in forums under help about corporate. Headquarters and a poll thing that i . Kind of botched (as usual ).
If u go to either one just be sincere and totally ignore anyone elses posts. K
Only u and what u might think matters, and, no need to go there.
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4/24/2014 11:23:08 PM |
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grrlygrrl
Wimberley, TX
39, joined Aug. 2013
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AZ , hi
Dont know which post title u are looking for
I saw u then and i see you now, and i am not at all surprised that u are hanging in here.
There is so much that you can do! I am old but naiive just post and be mindful take nothing to excess (okay, do as i say not as i do ),
Things may improve - especially if u hang in DH and dont get flagged out (wink!).
Ive git a thread in forums under help about corporate. Headquarters and a poll thing that i . Kind of botched (as usual ).
If u go to either one just be sincere and totally ignore anyone elses posts. K
Only u and what u might think matters, and, no need to go there.
Why should we ignore other's posts???
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4/25/2014 4:58:42 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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I hate to say this ,but can't find the post either.But I have seen some of the worst posting just in GD. And really makes you wonder why moderator's don't post or warn.
Building a site is worth being proud of,but also needs to be regulated,and guildlines for all.Not just a posting.
To all the gals Good Morning!!
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4/25/2014 9:28:47 AM |
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computercat
Rozel, KS
68, joined Aug. 2012
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I hate to say this ,but can't find the post either.But I have seen some of the worst posting just in GD. And really makes you wonder why moderator's don't post or warn.
Building a site is worth being proud of,but also needs to be regulated,and guildlines for all.Not just a posting.
To all the gals Good Morning!!
the post and whole discussion was in the doggie link above. that was the only way i found it. it was horrible and he claimed he " refused " sam's come on or date i don't remember and told how she stalked him, etc., etc.. when i went back to again see cause i couldn't believe my eyes...the whole thread was gone.
I too am re-thinking my membership here if females are treated like this.
and a good morning to all.
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4/25/2014 3:05:04 PM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Definitelydoesnt seem rrigh . I found a thread by fun timz using part of her screen name as part of the topic and opening with disparaging comments, there was discussion regarding misogynists and the V from days gone by.
It was im Forums not Groups, i started postimg in it and was either blocked or thread is gone,
Seems odd that this amd similar things happen contribitors being deleted while shock jocks pander invtje forums.
Apology for typos.
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4/25/2014 4:42:04 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
online now!
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ladies, sad you're leaving cinnamon and alot of threads I stay away from, u got women bashing each other over a man, racist threads and it's just ridiculous the way they behaving.
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4/26/2014 6:32:17 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Packer I tend to do the same thing avoid many of the forums.Mainly because usually the topics,tend to be as you said.You have the fulltime posters,that use forums,as their life outlet.And as always you will find the "Click Its",that love drama,and need drama.Because the real day to day life,socializing,working,etc etc,may seem not available.
Many could solve their own disagreement,with a personal note to the people involved.If that didn't work sure there is an option to block. Flaging I feel should be only for personal threats,with proof, for moderators to address,with reply and written warnings,of what the threat was.
Toughonlove... Thank you for posting the new colt pic,Sam got in trouble for.She sent me a pic also,glad you posted for others to see what a beautiful baby.
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4/26/2014 1:50:04 PM |
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computercat
Rozel, KS
68, joined Aug. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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4/26/2014 2:09:32 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
52, joined Jul. 2013
online now!
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Packer I tend to do the same thing avoid many of the forums.Mainly because usually the topics,tend to be as you said.You have the fulltime posters,that use forums,as their life outlet.And as always you will find the "Click Its",that love drama,and need drama.Because the real day to day life,socializing,working,etc etc,may seem not available.
Many could solve their own disagreement,with a personal note to the people involved.If that didn't work sure there is an option to block. Flaging I feel should be only for personal threats,with proof, for moderators to address,with reply and written warnings,of what the threat was.
Toughonlove... Thank you for
posting the new colt pic,Sam got in trouble for.She sent me a pic also,glad you posted for others to see what a beautiful baby.
So true.. the colt is pretty
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4/26/2014 3:08:49 PM |
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computercat
Rozel, KS
68, joined Aug. 2012
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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4/29/2014 9:41:52 AM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Seems like DH should have had this sorted by now...
Whatz up in the "D" H ?!
Member Beware ?
This example illustrates the absurd lengths to which that concept is being taken by DH.
...and there are so many more, yet this one is realistic, pretty concise and straight forward - DH.
What gives!?
Who gives!?
How much in an open market for AIC's "share" of the online dating segment - where is ops and management ?
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4/29/2014 11:43:08 AM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Gm Playby...Would of gave my greetings in my thread, but when I tried it said I was bumping.
Whats next??Don't post at all anything??And I know Sam won't care I send hello's to our regular posters.
So Cinn using your thread for greetings since general chit chat here won't let me.
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5/1/2014 11:44:28 AM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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GM -
MissOldFriends/KegaK ?
...she was mistreated by flagging or vanished and did not receive support from Customer Service either
Ironically, the Women's World Chit Chat thread opens with a hello to her.
You are missed MissKega
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5/1/2014 3:50:22 PM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Tauriq Moosa - Citation Cedits material originally published by another source:
"...why should the trolls dominate these areas when it is the trolls who are wrong?
there exist terrible people ready to mouth off, knowing Internet culture helps insulate them from reaction rather than provide safety and inclusion for women.
We need to change the system; we can start with a bottom-up approach of not dismissing women because abuse or messages "aren't technically criminal"; that women just need to ignore or use different social media platforms - this is a mindset that helps foster moral immunity for the trolls, not solidarity or safety for women.
It would then be up to smarter people to come up with different policies and top-down approaches in how to change their spaces - whether social media platforms, websites, career paths .... etc. - to make it safe for women."
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5/7/2014 10:13:48 AM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Where we at on this?
Did DH step up and reinstate chaze with her posting history?
Is kegakatey reinstated?
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5/7/2014 12:11:00 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Not sure Playby..Haven't heard from either as of yet.All I know is there is far worse posting, then what these 2 ladies have done.Then you have the flagers and blockers,on petty comments.Lets not forget the haters of the world,that just looking for a place to insult anyone in their path.or don't see their views.
The years that I have been here I have blocked one person,last month.Even tho I feel she needs more help then this forum could ever give her.And most men would run,and hide.She has a right to look like a fool.I say that is my opinion.Even tho she can't save herself,I give up reading her posts.As well my choice.
As for flaging,why??each person has their own spin and thoughts,don't post if you can't handle replies, that they don't agree with you.>>my 2 cents worth.This week.
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5/8/2014 10:56:19 AM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Not sure Playby..Haven't heard from either as of yet.All I know is there is far worse posting, then what these 2 ladies have done.Then you have the flagers and blockers,on petty comments.Lets not forget the haters of the world,that just looking for a place to insult anyone in their path.or don't see their views.
The years that I have been here I have blocked one person,last month.Even tho I feel she needs more help then this forum could ever give her.And most men would run,and hide.She has a right to look like a fool.I say that is my opinion.Even tho she can't save herself,I give up reading her posts.As well my choice.
As for flaging,why??each person has their own spin and thoughts,don't post if you can't handle replies, that they don't agree with you.>>my 2 cents worth.This week.
I''ve been seeing attractive women who are real get flagged for their SENSIBLE photos - in Groups (not necessarily here). Which suggests it isn't even opinion or posting based at times Chaze is a VERY attractive WOMAN (and drew attacks regarding her weight, appearance, and every sundry of prejoratives ... on the basis of appearance in the Main Forums and her inbox was an amalgam of unsolicited incoming porno pics - yet she maintained HER personality throughout - NOW that is tough to do!)
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AND YES,
...the manner in which the system is allowed to work DEFIES reason.
Look at the 'background' of the multi-platform users that appear to be "on the roam" in Forums and Groups - such as the one Chaze encountered AND Kegakay.
I find this concerning.
That is among my reasons for inquiring.
FINE WOMEN they are!
I can't blame them if they never come back (NO ONE should have to undergo what I witnessed aspects of ... certainly not all, that each encountered); but Women's World and DH are poorer for THEIR absence
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5/8/2014 11:56:34 AM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Just received this:
"This site has been one of the worst forms of sexual discrimination I've encountered in my 50 years - & trust me, I've suffered some major discrimination being in the construction field for work & attending a school that was a mere 4% women when I attended. It's just rediculous & I wish that I could post to draw attention to this. Please pass this onto the women for me & say hello for me, please!"
May. 08 X:XX AM
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Refer back, DH to my post of 5/1 in this thread - could be worth a think?!
EVEN though I'm just a little 'guy' in a big world -
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5/8/2014 11:08:36 PM |
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grrlygrrl
Wimberley, TX
39, joined Aug. 2013
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Where we at on this?
Did DH step up and reinstate chaze with her posting history?
Is kegakatey reinstated?
WTF is wrong with you
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5/9/2014 9:41:52 AM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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ToughonLove
From WomensWorld was.also deleted.
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5/9/2014 5:12:01 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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WTF is wrong with you
Not sure why you posted this to playby,But many of us miss Katie, and Sam.Now Toughonlove is MIA????
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5/10/2014 8:24:45 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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WTF is wrong with you
She got lost looking for the "mean girls" thread. I guess she couldn't find any puppies to kick.
And I'm not talking about Alphabet. This is for you little Miss Texas.
Here I thought southern gals were supposed to be charming. I guess not all of them.....
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5/10/2014 8:57:19 AM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
31, joined Mar. 2013
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Ha I'll call you when I find a charming southern girl here. I'm still waiting on southern hospitality and I've been in NC for 7 years. Atleast Florida had some but you might as well consider Florida a country of it's own cause it's really not a "southern state"
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5/10/2014 9:03:44 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Yeah, sometimes I have to throw that "Minnesota Nice" out the window. Most of the time it works but occasionally ya just gotta take the gloves off!!!
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5/10/2014 9:13:31 AM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
31, joined Mar. 2013
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Man us Puerto Ricans when you go to our house we just like to feed you and not just a snack we feed you like meal for 3 lol. We'll party and whatever but when it's that time to go we just say "no hay cama pa tanta gente" meaning there's not enough bed for too many people.
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5/10/2014 9:49:58 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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^^^^^^
I hear ya on feeding people! I'm 100% Polish (which explains the temperament - lol) & we feed people too! When people look in my cupboards or frig they laugh because it looks like a family of 14 lives here! I think I get that from my mom cuz she grew up during the depression. I'm always making food & baked goods to send to my neighbors. I carry dog treats in my car. I have carrots for people stopping by on horseback.
As for sleeping, I have 5 bedrooms but no one wants to stay here because it's too cold in the winter & I get the occasional bat in the summer. Whimps! lol
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5/10/2014 10:47:45 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Why should we ignore other's posts???
We shouldn't ignore all - just yours!
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5/10/2014 11:33:36 AM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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AZ
I Puerto Rico and would loveto retire there.....in old town
That culture kicks add easy spanish-english mixed sentences, the island vibe, history and museums
Or the people celebrating a holday at midnight where u walk backwards into the ocean (saw that )....im from a real small town originally rural area VERY rural
So i love the sounds of the little frogs.
Heck,, even starbucks has mutliple hooks on the wall outside toleash our dog in the modern part of tje Triangle.
PR is paradise to me.
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5/14/2014 11:27:01 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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C'mon ladies! Update me! What's going on with all of you? Let me live vicariously through all of you! I missed y'all! I've literally spent 2+ weeks pumping out my basement (taking an unbenounced) crash course in plumbing.
Update me?!?
Alady: how are the batteries holding out?
Packers: inform me on any solid advice you've given in my absence!
Azazel: you just crack me up & I love it!!!
Alphabet: you always have some very wise insight to offer!
Yets: what's going on - how do you feel? (I've gotta get my butt out walking cuz it helps me de-stress!)
Woods: how is that new "squeeze" in your life?
Deneez: any wise words for me?
Janet: you're a hoot! Keep me laughing!
Pilot: I need your sensibility!
Anyone I missed - please reply also!
Hugs to you all!!! I just missed my gals & all the laughs.....
Miss you gals! Now tell me what's going on???
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5/14/2014 12:19:35 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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C'mon ladies! Update me! What's going on with all of you? Let me live vicariously through all of you! I missed y'all! I've literally spent 2+ weeks pumping out my basement (taking an unbenounced) crash course in plumbing.
Update me?!?
Alady: how are the batteries holding out?
Packers: inform me on any solid advice you've given in my absence!
Azazel: you just crack me up & I love it!!!
Alphabet: you always have some very wise insight to offer!
Yets: what's going on - how do you feel? (I've gotta get my butt out walking cuz it helps me de-stress!)
Woods: how is that new "squeeze" in your life?
Deneez: any wise words for me?
Janet: you're a hoot! Keep me laughing!
Pilot: I need your sensibility!
Anyone I missed - please reply also!
Hugs to you all!!! I just missed my gals & all the laughs.....
Miss you gals! Now tell me what's going on???
Nothings new with me,just recovering from back problem,90% back to normal. LOL as for the batteries,If your asking if there been a replace with human,ahhh no.And always keep options open.But as I mentioned before look up,look up,who knows whats falling from the sky.
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5/14/2014 12:31:59 PM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Oh gosh, A Lady so sorry about your back trouble.
C'mon ladies! Update me! What's going on with all of you? Let me live vicariously through all of you! I missed y'all! I've literally spent 2+ weeks pumping out my basement (taking an unbenounced) crash course in plumbing.
Update me?!?
...
I was in a serious MOOD till I read Chaze's plumbing STORY - and A lady's batteries - now I think the on-line term is LMAO
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Sump Pump -
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5/14/2014 2:22:43 PM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
31, joined Mar. 2013
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So I think I'm gonna get my first start right now......
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5/14/2014 2:23:39 PM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
31, joined Mar. 2013
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Woohooo I'm a start!!!!! Yay Nicky!!!!
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5/14/2014 3:01:03 PM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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5/14/2014 3:28:29 PM |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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that a girl AZ..lol
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6/5/2014 11:37:01 AM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Hoping this is the appropriate thread to post this in.....
My cat died this morning. I was with him in my bedroom & left for about 2 minutes & he had stopped breathing.
My younger Bloodhound keeps trying to wake him up. So very sad....
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6/5/2014 2:42:15 PM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
31, joined Mar. 2013
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Awe this just broke my heart. They must have been great friends. I'm sorry for your loss.
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6/5/2014 4:15:39 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Thank you Azazel. I'm usually a pretty tough cookie, but this past year - uff dah.
I was heating up a piece of pizza when I went right back to check on my cat. I knew he was gone then & I wasn't so hungry. I gave my dogs my pizza & Issabelle went running in to find Quinton (my cat) cuz he always got the last bite. Issabelle couldn't understand why he wasn't there trying to get his fair share. Just the way Issabelle went running in to find him. She was so happy, trying to wake him up to let him know he was gonna get a treat.....
ok, now I'm crying. My cat was the one that would go out to the barn with me at 3am to check on the cows (cuz I was always a little bit scared to wander out there alone at that time) My cat also could catch a bat like he had sticky traps on his feet. Yet he was so clumsy - falling off the back of the couch & stuff. Everyone in the neighborhood knew him cuz he would go out & sit on the biggest rock & wait for gophers (etc) to bring home for me (goofy cat!) And in the winter he would wait until both dogs would fall asleep & then scootch inbetween them & snuggle. He will be missed by so many of us, especially me......
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6/5/2014 4:46:56 PM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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so many losses
So many ....Chaze, I am so sorry
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6/5/2014 5:22:14 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Thanks Play.
That goofy cat. Like how he would get "cabin fever" about the middle of February & just pounce on a 100 pound Bloodhound cuz he was bored & frustrated, yet too cold to go outside. The dog would just look at him like,
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He would go running outside & out run 5 huge dogs cuz he would "dive & tuck, duck & roll" & end up rolling under all of them & take of in a full Gazelle run! lol. (the dogs around here respected him!!!)
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6/6/2014 11:27:08 AM |
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playbyalphabet
Calabasas, CA
50, joined Sep. 2013
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Awesome style!
....what a personality
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6/6/2014 12:08:47 PM |
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azazel4
Morganton, NC
31, joined Mar. 2013
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Wow now that's a great cat!!
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6/6/2014 12:58:28 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Thanks ladies. He was a great cat. Irreplaceable, but aren't we all....
So life goes on. Thank you all for your kind words.
I really you ladies!!!
Everyone have a great weekend & please drive safe! Sometimes people get a little wreckless in the summer so be extra safe & on the lookout for distracted drivers.....
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6/8/2014 9:32:32 PM |
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icarenotaboutu
Mount Juliet, TN
39, joined May. 2014
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Hey girls
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7/2/2014 6:44:54 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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Wow! What a day! Going out with a bang & coming back in with one too!
I've been talking with a guy that runs a scrap metal place near by since about December. Not as a "date" but purely about business. He had said way back then that he wanted to speak to me about hiring me. This past winter, with all my house & car troubles, I couldn't even think about being reliable as his employee. Well, we've been back in touch (I need a dumpster for all the scrap metal my ex left me to deal with) So I stopped there last week to get the terms of the dumpster. He remembered me & still wanted to add me to his staff. I went to talk to him this morning & he had called the main office to have them "create" a job for me! They need an estimator for a new division he wants to create. He hired me on the spot. (yay) It's just starting out part time, but it's also just 3 miles from my other job working at a fancy gift shop/log furniture place. The hours were conflicting. I went in to that place this morning to explain & asked if they could work with me around my hours. I finally met the owner there & both the manager & asst manager were there with the owner (all women). They were all so supportive & happy for me & understanding that I'm digging myself out on my own of the mess my ex left me. They totally worked out my schedule so I can do both & get myself back on track. I my women friends!!!
Then I had an appt with a local legal aide attorney. My ney that was supposed to buy my tractor (for cheap!) & cut my hay has refused to do either. With the lack of the remainder of the payment & NOT cutting my hay & removing my tractor from my property while I wasn't home, looks like I'm not only going to get my tractor & all the attachments back, but I probably won't have to pay him back what he partially paid me, but he's gonna end up owing me on top of the return of my tractor. (lots of details)
I need to thank all of you wonderful ladies on this site that pulled me through probably one of the worst years of my life. You ladies & my wonderful young neighbor helped me gain back my "will to live" when, for a while there, I thought I had lost it.
Today was fabulous. I'm not out of the woods yet, but at least I got back that "spunk" that I had misplaced for so very long. And now the neighbor that totally tried to screw me is gonna have to "bend over"! lol
My lesson: patience is a virtue. People/friends are presented to us at the right time & the right place. For me, "God" brought me all of you wonderful souls to get me through. He also dropped my lovely young neighbor off right where I needed her. Tonight at bedtime picture me on my knees thanking God & all of you for the incredible women I have encountered this year.
Thank you & I you all!!!
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7/2/2014 7:37:49 PM |
Going out with a Bang!!! |
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icarenotaboutu
Mount Juliet, TN
39, joined May. 2014
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I have needed you.
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7/3/2014 6:53:21 AM |
Going out with a Bang!!! |
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aladytoo
Monroe, WI
61, joined Apr. 2006
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Way to go Cinn...there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.Some times when we are crawling threw,we do run in to muck,but moving forward always as the answer,and never look back.
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7/3/2014 8:37:45 AM |
Going out with a Bang!!! |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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I have needed you.
I'm so sorry for everything that you've been going through.
I've been so busy for the past few weeks. Yesterday I literally forgot my zip code! lol
Thanks Alady! And everyone else that's been so supportive.
Now another busy day....
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7/3/2014 8:56:28 AM |
Going out with a Bang!!! |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
67, joined Sep. 2011
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To all the great Lady's .. Happy 4th... stay safe, God bless you
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7/3/2014 10:17:37 AM |
Going out with a Bang!!! |
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icarenotaboutu
Mount Juliet, TN
39, joined May. 2014
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I'm so sorry for everything that you've been going through.
I've been so busy for the past few weeks. Yesterday I literally forgot my zip code! lol
Thanks Alady! And everyone else that's been so supportive.
Now another busy day....
I lost a whole hell of a lot more than my zip code.
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7/3/2014 10:49:59 AM |
Going out with a Bang!!! |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
53, joined Apr. 2014
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^^^^^^
I read what happened to you. So very sorry about everything you've been through. I wish I lived closer.....
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7/3/2014 11:04:26 AM |
Going out with a Bang!!! |
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icarenotaboutu
Mount Juliet, TN
39, joined May. 2014
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Since I've been home it's gotten worse. Really feeling they should have let me go.
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