7/18/2014 5:54:42 PM |
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tjwoldate
Syracuse, NY
59, joined Feb. 2013
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Has anyone else met someone and been in a relationship for almost a year,
that took everything given to them,Money,Property-my Heart my time,with no after though.
It was all about her???
[Edited 7/18/2014 5:57:58 PM ]
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7/18/2014 11:08:15 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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That sucks, but you don't sound like a widow which is why I rarely post in here.
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7/18/2014 11:18:44 PM |
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heart_and_soul2
Sarasota, FL
59, joined Dec. 2013
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^^
I know--It is sad how some come in here and try to play with other's emotions.
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7/20/2014 9:10:25 AM |
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tjwoldate
Syracuse, NY
59, joined Feb. 2013
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It's been 2 and half years since my Love passed away.
I went full circle with her till her death,I had to let her go.
From last August until just recently,I was in a relationship
with someone I met from this website.I did everything for her even when her parents sold her house out from underneath her and she was homeless.I helped her find a place and move
her.I payed part of her rent many times when things didn't workout with her so called"friends" she thought she knew.
She claimed property from me when I couldn't take anymore of her bulshit.Blatingly
lying to the Police right in front of me.She stold my Heart with no regard.I've Learned what a "User" is and
I "won't get fooled again"
-Never!
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7/20/2014 10:49:38 AM |
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yetskimama
Walterboro, SC
66, joined Sep. 2011
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op, sorry you had to learn the hard waynext time remember,Eyes wide open
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7/20/2014 11:20:57 AM |
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tjwoldate
Syracuse, NY
59, joined Feb. 2013
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op, sorry you had to learn the hard way next time remember,Eyes wide open
ThankYou!
I guess in a way I have a compulsion of anger, and posting a tread about this,
but I really ment to try and help other widower's/morner's.
When you get over that "person"that ment everything to you,
had what most people would find to be, "impossible."
I've made my mistakes-read my other post's/Thread's,but the big picture to love someone
for 35 years was my honor.I guess I won't have that relationship-again.
Going into another relationship was foreign to me,but to never give up,
but it borders on the line of becomming a "Fool."
You hear the "words"you say the words,but there's no compromise,
and in the end,
you face the truth.
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7/21/2014 3:09:58 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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still naive at 56?
Sounds like a great book title.
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7/21/2014 3:26:56 PM |
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tjwoldate
Syracuse, NY
59, joined Feb. 2013
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still naive at 56?
Sounds like a great book title.
Hiccup
"We won't get fooled again."
Maybe we could call it,"The dh"jungle book?"
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7/22/2014 9:33:07 PM |
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peachy1954
Sacramento, CA
63, joined Oct. 2010
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Sorry to say a lot of times the first relationship after being widowed turns out really bad. People don't realize how vunerable they are to emotional vampires/ terrorists that prey on the recently widowed. It happens because it is really easy to try to escape the loss of a mate by "caring" for others. Usually by the time you realize you have been "taken" the anger stage of greif and loss rebounds and it can really tear you down if you don't work hard to keep things in perspective. Usually you can go back to your Hospice support services if you need a little help to get your footing.
Sorry this happen to you.
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7/22/2014 9:58:59 PM |
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tjwoldate
Syracuse, NY
59, joined Feb. 2013
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Sorry to say a lot of times the first relationship after being widowed turns out really bad. People don't realize how vunerable they are to emotional vampires/ terrorists that prey on the recently widowed. It happens because it is really easy to try to escape the loss of a mate by "caring" for others. Usually by the time you realize you have been "taken" the anger stage of greif and loss rebounds and it can really tear you down if you don't work hard to keep things in perspective. Usually you can go back to your Hospice support services if you need a little help to get your footing.
Sorry this happen to you.
Your a kind person,with knowledge.
That's very true.
I have a younger Brother we're very close.
I have so many things to do,I have to focus.
Focus on my life.
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