7/24/2014 10:01:41 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
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Hello everyone ! I'm curious to know what are your stories/comments about the most hurtful or outrageous thing your significant other did to you?
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7/24/2014 10:22:58 PM |
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ghari
Brentwood, NY
36, joined Feb. 2014
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Stole money from me..
..it sucks to know u can't trust someone u loved
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7/24/2014 10:24:02 PM |
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righttwix
Fort Garland, CO
48, joined Oct. 2013
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You first OP
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7/24/2014 10:25:12 PM |
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rt5724
Houston, TX
41, joined Aug. 2013
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You first OP
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7/24/2014 10:57:26 PM |
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righttwix
Fort Garland, CO
48, joined Oct. 2013
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and if the worst thing a woman has ever done to you was steal a few bucks you've had a pretty easy life ghari
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7/24/2014 11:41:33 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Hello everyone ! I'm curious to know what are your stories/comments about the most hurtful or outrageous thing your significant other did to you?
Well guys, I have had so many horrible experiences...I can't even begin to count how many. But I strive to stay as positive as I can. The worst thing that ever happened to me from a guy was loving someone who was a secret predator. He profiled me before he met me. He lied big time about who he was and what his true intentions were. And guys I'm not just talking about the usual lies people may tell to date someone or even just to have sex. He lied about his intentions to hurt me physically, screw up my finances, hurt my family, block any chances of me meeting new people, and stalked me for a long time. Thank God, I'm finally rid of this person. But that was a truly hurtful experience indeed. I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy.
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7/25/2014 2:29:17 AM |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
63, joined Feb. 2009
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Another drama queen.
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7/25/2014 4:42:18 AM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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I wish I was being a drama queen, but unfortunately those things actually happened.
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7/25/2014 12:25:11 PM |
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ghari
Brentwood, NY
36, joined Feb. 2014
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and if the worst thing a woman has ever done to you was steal a few bucks you've had a pretty easy life ghari
Far from it..try thousands from a bank account
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7/25/2014 3:16:20 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Far from it..try thousands from a bank account
Yeah it sux big time when people date you for your money. Instead of seeing a person, they only see an atm augh. Thanks for your posts Ghari and have a wonderful day hon.
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7/26/2014 3:06:35 AM |
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ashleyjoelle35
Tacoma, WA
32, joined May. 2014
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I had the same thing happen to me very similar,and he would come sit at my work to make sure i wasn't speaking to any men
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7/26/2014 4:54:59 AM |
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kellysmith31
Richmond, KY
40, joined Jun. 2014
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Decided to tell me in their own way that they moved out with me and moved in with another person that I use to talk just to hurt me.but I don't stay down long or let things get to me. Just goes to show me it was not the right person so now I am just
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7/26/2014 8:24:58 AM |
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vida60
Norman, OK
55, joined Jul. 2012
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might want to read up on what the early signs of abuse are, and steer clear of anyone that use those tactics, learn from your past, don't let history repeat itself, but of course don't come off as jilted, instead, learn from it.
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7/26/2014 9:25:39 AM |
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righttwix
Fort Garland, CO
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Far from it..try thousands from a bank account
Cash isn't what makes the world go round, Money can be replaced, and if you had it siting in a bank account it wasn't like you really needed it anyway right?
Try having a woman clean out your account, and then use that money to hide your kids from you while she tried to convince them to hate you
Like I said if thats the worst you've dealt with, just losing a few bucks your lucky
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7/26/2014 9:59:54 AM |
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geminigirl1957
Everett, WA
59, joined Jan. 2013
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Let's see.. Never got money.. Didn't have to give.. But the few things were:
Walking in the door and a woman in his lap
Dumped by either text or email..
Find out they are married
Nothing too traumatizing .. This site is more traumatizing then that hahahaha
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7/27/2014 6:58:57 AM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
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Decided to tell me in their own way that they moved out with me and moved in with another person that I use to talk just to hurt me. but I don't stay down long or let things get to me. Just goes to show me it was not the right person so now I am just
That's an excellent way to go about it Kelly!! I do my best to stay positive also. Thanks for your post!
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7/27/2014 7:01:38 AM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
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Cash isn't what makes the world go round, Money can be replaced, and if you had it siting in a bank account it wasn't like you really needed it anyway right?
Try having a woman clean out your account, and then use that money to hide your kids from you while she tried to convince them to hate you
Like I said if thats the worst you've dealt with, just losing a few bucks your lucky
That's awful!! I think its absolutely the worst when people drag children into their plans to get back at their exs. Obviously, the children are being hurt as well. Have you been able to reconcile with your kids?
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7/27/2014 9:58:13 AM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
59, joined Jan. 2013
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While in the custody battle, he notified the California court that I was late. They were gonna put me in jail, until I told them I was nursing my baby. Touché daRn butthurt bastard and his new wife (which happens be be his "sister" >>>>>talk about keep'n it in the family>>>> only in the South.
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7/27/2014 11:05:07 AM |
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righttwix
Fort Garland, CO
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That's awful!! I think its absolutely the worst when people drag children into their plans to get back at their exs. Obviously, the children are being hurt as well. Have you been able to reconcile with your kids?
Yes once I did get to see my kids again both realized what she was doing and chose to come live with me instead, I've had them full time since then, and repairing the damage she caused.
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7/27/2014 12:30:15 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
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Yes once I did get to see my kids again both realized what she was doing and chose to come live with me instead, I've had them full time since then, and repairing the damage she caused.
I'm glad to hear that! Yes, there is definitely life after nasty divorces/break ups! Thanks for your wonderful posts and take care hon!
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7/28/2014 2:33:04 AM |
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miamichellee
Malibu, CA
27, joined Nov. 2012
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I found out my ex cheated on me but that's not the worse part he cheated with one of my classmates she was the ugliest, sloppiest chicks in school embaressing.
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7/28/2014 2:37:40 AM |
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winterswoman
Summers, AR
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The most hurtful thing is a lie...
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7/28/2014 10:43:06 AM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
44, joined Jan. 2014
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Ask me to marry them.
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7/29/2014 2:00:27 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Divorced me.
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7/29/2014 2:43:48 AM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Thank you for your posts ladies and I hear ya! But thank goodness you got through it and are all the more smarter for it. Have a great one!
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7/29/2014 12:12:37 PM |
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oolike_honeyoo
Pico Rivera, CA
29, joined Mar. 2013
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Kidnapped for a whole day and night. Constantly treating to hurt me if I screamed. Stole my purse and truck. Drove himself home and left me stranded. Hummm lets just say I still have nightmares
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7/29/2014 12:30:59 PM |
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som1special77
Niagara Falls, NY
39, joined Jun. 2014
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Came home from work to find that my now ex husband took our at the time 2 year old daughter and moved out with is new gf that I suspected he was having an affair with. I was very hurt but now I see she has to support him cause he can't find a job hasn't worked in like 4 years. She has him so p*ssy whipped that he has to tell her when he shits what color it is ect. Honestly I'm glad he did it cause I got the most beautiful thing out of the relationship (our daughter) and he's stuck married to a psycho witch from hell.
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7/29/2014 4:46:11 PM |
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myrealme
Nampa, ID
41, joined Aug. 2013
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My ex was an abusive alcoholic..
I dont think there is enough room here to name it all.
So I will just say the most hurtful thing he did was breath
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7/29/2014 5:14:25 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
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Came home from work to find that my now ex husband took our at the time 2 year old daughter and moved out with is new gf that I suspected he was having an affair with. I was very hurt but now I see she has to support him cause he can't find a job hasn't worked in like 4 years. She has him so p*ssy whipped that he has to tell her when he shits what color it is ect. Honestly I'm glad he did it cause I got the most beautiful thing out of the relationship (our daughter) and he's stuck married to a psycho witch from hell.
Wow and stories like yours is why the phrase, "Karma is a b*tch!" came about!
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7/29/2014 5:23:22 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Yes, unfortunately there are some very selfish and sick people out there that most likely had issues well before they ever met you. It's good to keep in mind, that those issues belong to that person and not you. I applaud everyone that has posted so far, for sharing their stories and having the strength to move forward past their pain.
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7/29/2014 7:20:51 PM |
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kellysmith31
Richmond, KY
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7/29/2014 11:27:25 PM |
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latinasm
Amarillo, TX
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I think , to me was that my ex worked so much that he ignored me an the kids .....didn't make time for us , an then our kids grew up an it was just me.... Still ignore me , we were more like friends than husband an wife ..
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8/1/2014 10:22:28 AM |
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janneegurl
Kansas City, MO
63, joined Jun. 2014
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Hurt people, hurt people.
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8/2/2014 1:11:21 AM |
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ltlwing
Winchester, OH
52, joined Oct. 2013
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My first husband messing around on me constantly...when confronted.He said I deserved it.I had my revenge though in leaving.Funny after I felt nothing anymore,he kept trying to win me back.
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8/2/2014 10:30:41 AM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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My first husband messing around on me constantly...when confronted.He said I deserved it.I had my revenge though in leaving.Funny after I felt nothing anymore,he kept trying to win me back.
Hey some people don't realize they had a good thing until it's gone!
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8/2/2014 10:31:18 AM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Hurt people, hurt people.
This is very, very true!!
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8/2/2014 3:53:01 PM |
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_lockedup
Crossville, TN
36, joined Aug. 2013
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the b*tch stole my money
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8/2/2014 4:28:48 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
57, joined Feb. 2014
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worse thing was he rolled over my naked body and went to sleep. no cuddles or kisses. so he is gone. really hurt though, and then I got pissed.
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8/2/2014 5:08:41 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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worse thing was he rolled over my naked body and went to sleep. no cuddles or kisses. so he is gone. really hurt though, and then I got pissed.
Wow I don't blame you for kicking him to the curb, if you can't have sex with emotion...ya might at well be screwing a robot. Thanks for you post hon
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8/2/2014 5:19:11 PM |
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ladybugruth58
Patton, PA
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I still don't know what his problem was, but I don't care now. he owns the problem not me. your welcome
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8/8/2014 12:35:11 AM |
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xxxtammigirlxxx
Clarkson, KY
38, joined Jul. 2014
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He cheated on me and got her pregnant.
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8/8/2014 1:35:26 AM |
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youreheartspoem
Gretna, VA
31, joined Jul. 2013
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Cheated on move three months before wedding day
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8/8/2014 3:11:57 PM |
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luvmeorhateme39
Louisville, KY
41, joined Jul. 2014
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Cheated on move three months before wedding day
Geesh can't think of any never been cheated on or hit by one it just didn't work out
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8/9/2014 4:11:00 AM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
48, joined Aug. 2013
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Cheat. That is always the most hurtful.
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8/9/2014 9:17:58 PM |
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owllover3
Newport News, VA
46, joined Sep. 2013
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Finding out the person you loved is cheating
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8/9/2014 10:22:43 PM |
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gingine
Saint Cloud, MN
41, joined Jul. 2014
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Hmmm he cheated on me, finding out and realizing he never loved me, and worst of all is finding out he hurt my daughter but the best thing was sending his arse to prison !!
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8/10/2014 8:36:21 AM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Hmmm he cheated on me, finding out and realizing he never loved me, and worst of all is finding out he hurt my daughter but the best thing was sending his arse to prison !!
Awww now that truly is bad when children are involved. I'm sorry to hear about that and glad that pig is in prison!
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8/10/2014 10:31:26 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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Bragged in public to others, and in front of me, of her other sexual conquests while we supposed to have been together. Then lectured me, again in public, and with an affected air of genuine concern, on how I needed to improve myself.
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8/10/2014 10:33:52 AM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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Sharing personal things with in laws.
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8/10/2014 5:41:48 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Bragged in public to others, and in front of me, of her other sexual conquests while we supposed to have been together. Then lectured me, again in public, and with an affected air of genuine concern, on how I needed to improve myself.
OMG that's absolutely awful! Yes, this person deserves the crazy face, because I'm sure they would explode if you did that to them.
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8/10/2014 5:43:43 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Sharing personal things with in laws.
Yeah that's way immature considering now that you not only have that person judging you...but you have the in-laws jumping on the band wagon too. I empathize because I value privacy myself.
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8/11/2014 9:41:15 AM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
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I try not to hold onto resentments a Nd negative feelings. Honestly I'd have to sit and think long and hard to remember.
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8/12/2014 5:34:03 PM |
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theringhand
Kalamazoo, MI
37, joined Jul. 2014
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Got a phone call from my girlfriend of three years after not seeing her for a few weeks of her avoiding me. She said what she was doing to me wasn't fair. I asked her what she meant. She asked if she could call me right back. That's the last I heard from her. That was a little over two years ago. We were together for three years. I bought her a car when gets broke down so she wouldn't lose her job. I stayed with her through some brutal emotional distress she was going through. I would have married her. She never called me back. I tried too many times to reach her. She avoids social media. I can't find anything about her online. I have no idea if she is alive or dead. For more than two years now I have been left to wonder what happened to the love of my life. No clue. It's agony. If you've been hurt but you know how it happened, then consider yourself lucky. It could be worse. You could be abandoned an have absolutely no idea why. One piece of advice. If you have social anxiety or depression, don't just automatically think finding a S.O. With the same type of affliction is good. You may think you can team up and face the world, but it is the opposite.
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8/12/2014 6:12:10 PM |
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kal196
Hamilton, OH
56, joined Jul. 2014
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Most hurtful thing ,for me was my husband dying after 25 years marriage, how do you start over..
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8/12/2014 6:35:44 PM |
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xxnostringsxx
Roanoke, VA
43, joined Jul. 2014
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Cheated on but not once but twice. and the second time I'm waiting at the park and I just had this awful feeling I was being cheated on. so I left the park and went to the place I thought she would be at,and sure enough her car was parked behind the business. I walked in and she was in the office talking again to the one she cheated on me with. I was so heart broken.I even moved 4 hours away and she is beging me to come back. I just feel if my love wasn't good enough then for her, what would make things any different now.
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8/12/2014 6:39:18 PM |
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diana29615
Greenville, SC
47, joined Jan. 2014
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Most hurtful thing ,for me was my husband dying after 25 years marriage, how do you start over..
One day at a time..... I know how hard it is.
Good luck to you
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8/12/2014 6:59:53 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
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Got a phone call from my girlfriend of three years after not seeing her for a few weeks of her avoiding me. She said what she was doing to me wasn't fair. I asked her what she meant. She asked if she could call me right back. That's the last I heard from her. That was a little over two years ago. We were together for three years. I bought her a car when gets broke down so she wouldn't lose her job. I stayed with her through some brutal emotional distress she was going through. I would have married her. She never called me back. I tried too many times to reach her. She avoids social media. I can't find anything about her online. I have no idea if she is alive or dead. For more than two years now I have been left to wonder what happened to the love of my life. No clue. It's agony. If you've been hurt but you know how it happened, then consider yourself lucky. It could be worse. You could be abandoned an have absolutely no idea why. One piece of advice. If you have social anxiety or depression, don't just automatically think finding a S.O. With the same type of affliction is good. You may think you can team up and face the world, but it is the opposite.
Yes not knowing is the worst. It really helps to have closure at least, I'm sending love and light you hon
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8/12/2014 7:01:51 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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Cheated on but not once but twice. and the second time I'm waiting at the park and I just had this awful feeling I was being cheated on. so I left the park and went to the place I thought she would be at,and sure enough her car was parked behind the business. I walked in and she was in the office talking again to the one she cheated on me with. I was so heart broken.I even moved 4 hours away and she is beging me to come back. I just feel if my love wasn't good enough then for her, what would make things any different now.
That is true with cheating, if they wanted the relationship to work...they should have sought to resolve things first before acting selfish and betraying your trust.
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8/16/2014 1:14:34 PM |
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nurset05
Tempe, AZ
29, joined Jul. 2014
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My ex husband beat me up 3 days before I delivered my daughter and then ran with her when she was 6 months old. It took me a week to find her, and the police wouldn't help. I have never felt so crazy, and close to losing it in my life. The most terrifying thing to happen to me ever. I thought I was never going to see her again.
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8/17/2014 6:03:39 PM |
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sweetsiren1234
Smithtown, NY
37, joined Dec. 2013
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My ex husband beat me up 3 days before I delivered my daughter and then ran with her when she was 6 months old. It took me a week to find her, and the police wouldn't help. I have never felt so crazy, and close to losing it in my life. The most terrifying thing to happen to me ever. I thought I was never going to see her again.
OMG your ex sounds lower than scum to first of all beat on a woman, especially a pregnant woman and kidnap the baby. Thank God you found your little girl, much love and light to you hon!
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