He says, he wants to thank me for showing the beautiful things this world has to offer, he thanks me for responding back to him and asked if he could text me the next day. He says he's happy that all has worked for me and I'm happy. It seems like he feels guilty. He left me with no good explanation.

He's horny and you're familiar p*ssy.

He's horny and you're familiar p*ssy.

I don't know what to think. We went out for a year, he was unemployed and he was depressed. I could not stand that he was sooo cold during that time so I stood away and we separated without any explanation. A year later he came back and I gave it another chance. We went out for 3 years and it was great. I was busy with work, he lived far but he would come to me always. His mom loves me but I felt he kept me away from the rest of the family (he tells me that he only cares about his mom and no one else). He never invited me to his place in 3 yrs. (no other person existed-I checked on that personally). All of a sudden he wants a break. I was upset because I loved him. I moved on and took care of me. I needed his moral support though, I was looking for another job, going through a foreclosure, an illness which worked itself out. I needed him to just be there during his absence. Everything worked itself out for me and now he's back. It hurts that I took him to a family wedding and introduced him to all my family members, I exposed him to a world that he would have never bothered seeing if it wasn't for me. We shared these expenses. This is why he thanks me. He hurt me but I still love him. He's not the best looking person but he has a great personality, we get along great, we have fun with each other. The sex is not the best but all else trumps this. Did I say I love him but I can't get hurt.

Personally, I think he left you because he met someone else. He has gotten back in touch with you because that person he left you for either dumped him or he dumped her. You are someone familiar...chances are just someone to fill in til he meet "the one" again. I'm not saying this to be mean but to point out that break ups happen for a reason. The past should remain in the past. Going backwards isn't ever a good idea.

He's horny and you're familiar p*ssy.

I suggest you reread your own post above for some hints, OP. Not as in "it's all your fault!" , but because you have expressed yourself, your own duality about the entire experience. You yourself are still adjusting to and changing because of what the two of you went through, still reassessing what each thing meant and didn't mean.

Yeah, it could just be that he's coming home for some reassuring sex, but it's also possible that HE is still figuring everything out, and wanted to compare notes with you, as well as to test his own conclusions so far, by observing how he himself reacts to having talked to you.

After my own most painful relationship ended, my ex got back in touch with me twice, once about a year later, and another time about three years on. She certainly had zero desire to get back together, I could tell she was testing her own perceptions. Since that was my experience, it's what I'd suspect for yours as well.

Don't sweat it too much.

He might actually mean it.

But just make sure he doesn't want something.

Anyhoo,be thankful.

My ex just tried to bum money for her boyfriends bail money.

I said no f**king way.....

So I'm the a**hole now.

I don't know what to think. We went out for a year, he was unemployed and he was depressed. I could not stand that he was sooo cold during that time so I stood away and we separated without any explanation. A year later he came back and I gave it another chance. We went out for 3 years and it was great. I was busy with work, he lived far but he would come to me always. His mom loves me but I felt he kept me away from the rest of the family (he tells me that he only cares about his mom and no one else). He never invited me to his place in 3 yrs. (no other person existed-I checked on that personally). All of a sudden he wants a break. I was upset because I loved him. I moved on and took care of me. I needed his moral support though, I was looking for another job, going through a foreclosure, an illness which worked itself out. I needed him to just be there during his absence. Everything worked itself out for me and now he's back. It hurts that I took him to a family wedding and introduced him to all my family members, I exposed him to a world that he would have never bothered seeing if it wasn't for me. We shared these expenses. This is why he thanks me. He hurt me but I still love him. He's not the best looking person but he has a great personality, we get along great, we have fun with each other. The sex is not the best but all else trumps this. Did I say I love him but I can't get hurt.

He's horny and you're familiar p*ssy.