| 8/21/2014 9:26:21 PM |
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justforfuni69
Ruskin, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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before you start messaging a woman you should view her featured friends profiles I have done this I found women who are in relationships and they said they were not. 
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| 8/23/2014 1:29:15 AM |
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cbrdud
Midlothian, VA
45, joined Jan. 2014
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Go out of the USA and find good caring women I have been believe me the women here in the USA are horrible there overweight rude and think we men owe them everything f that
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| 8/23/2014 7:43:17 AM |
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lefty247
Swartz Creek, MI
70, joined Apr. 2009
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before you start messaging a woman you should view her featured friends profiles I have done this I found women who are in relationships and they said they were not.
Given the longevity of a many ephemeral relationships, and the lag time in updating info, it's not always an accurate predictor. I've been in some degree of involvement with partners from one & done, all the way up to 5 years.
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| 8/24/2014 8:36:09 AM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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That information is at best useless. I have befriended several with no correspondence. It could be a dead profile that was never deleted.
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| 8/24/2014 9:30:47 AM |
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justforfuni69
Ruskin, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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That information is at best useless. I have befriended several with no correspondence. It could be a dead profile that was never deleted.
that is entirely possible however I know a guy on here who has been seeing a woman who is also on here as well for over 3 years she has not updated her profile and he knows that she is messing around with other guys on here and it hurts him very deeply. so if you want to think it's useless information that is your choice but it is very good advice.
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| 8/24/2014 12:10:26 PM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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before you start messaging a woman you should view her featured friends profiles I have done this I found women who are in relationships and they said they were not.
This is a very limited resource since the friends can be hidden on a profile.
Reading posts that they make gives an idea of attitude and if they make a lot of complaints about men. They can not hide posts.
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| 8/24/2014 1:37:37 PM |
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justforfuni69
Ruskin, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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This is a very limited resource since the friends can be hidden on a profile.
Reading posts that they make gives an idea of attitude and if they make a lot of complaints about men. They can not hide posts.
That's true although some don't hide the ones that they should.
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| 8/24/2014 3:52:51 PM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
66, joined May. 2011
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I have found that most of the ones on here that are married post between 9am and 3pm during the week, seldom do they post on weekends. So reading the posts also has time and date of post.
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| 8/24/2014 5:34:14 PM |
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justforfuni69
Ruskin, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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I have found that most of the ones on here that are married post between 9am and 3pm during the week, seldom do they post on weekends. So reading the posts also has time and date of post.
a lot of us out here only have smart phones to get on the site with, as of yet I have not found a time or date when somebody post anything to the home screen.
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| 8/25/2014 8:09:32 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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I have found that coming online with a pc is better. I see all so-called flagged posts, times of insertions. Since I don't do Iphone, I wouldn't know what you may miss. Now, I did come on late in the evenings because I had dialup, it was faster then. I ran a blog saying that, with several responses about the possibilities that the cheating mate would come on late in the evenings. It's worth thinking about.
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| 8/25/2014 11:12:09 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
65, joined Oct. 2009
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Just watch the game, drink a beer and leave those women alone. You don't need to be making child support payments.
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| 8/26/2014 12:06:48 AM |
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justforfuni69
Ruskin, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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Just watch the game, drink a beer and leave those women alone. You don't need to be making child support payments.
you need to look at my post in the jokes section under birth control pills. in my opinion that's where you should have posted this out but hey I appreciate it.
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| 8/30/2014 7:06:17 PM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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| 9/5/2014 6:42:07 PM |
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justforfuni69
Ruskin, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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| 9/12/2014 2:23:04 AM |
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bruce_2014
Dothan, AL
60, joined Jan. 2014
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Awash in technology, anyone can hide behind the text, the e-mail, the Facebook post or the tweet, projecting any image they want and creating an illusion of their choosing. They can be whoever they want to be. And without the ability to receive nonverbal cues, their audiences are none the wiser. This presents an unprecedented paradox. With all the powerful social technologies at our fingertips, we are more connected – and potentially more disconnected – than ever before.
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| 9/12/2014 2:24:01 AM |
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bruce_2014
Dothan, AL
60, joined Jan. 2014
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Most men online, the forums and dating sites are the quintessential narcissistic beta male.
He is unattractive to women. Instead of self-handicapping or drinking himself to death, he lives in a world in his own mind. His outlandish shit talking is often hilarious, but speaks to a level of delusion.
His incessant watching of TV reinforces this point. Such levels of media immersion are correlated to levels of narcissism, as you either identify or become envious of the characters. You start to live out lives you don’t get to in real life. With too much engagement in it, it can lead to blurring the lines between reality and fantasy.
This is the reality of the beta male in modern society. Unable to come to terms with the sexual revolution, and social decline, they check out and live lives in their own heads.
When women talk about guys far overplaying their hand, such as on dating sites, they are right sometimes. Sometimes it is self-handicapping (intentionally picking women that far outstrip your SMV) or just plain thirstiness.
The thirst of a beta male isn’t just sexual – it reflects the desire for female approval in the forums and in Real Life!.
Unable to get that positive attention as a child, they act it out through their sexuality. They may white-knight for female friends, but the thirst gets most palpable when presented with a sexually attractive female.
They are acting out failed relationships with their mother – “I should just able to offer myself and that should be good enough.”
It reflects the stupid prevailing advice given to men, but it also has a level of immaturity to it. That line above is something a kid should be able to say to his mother and get unconditional love in return.
Many men on dating sites and in forums display the lives of some low-status males. Suddenly the ball-busting Guy is a huge p*ssy and this is evident by taking the side of women and trying to score points to gain approval from women they will never have sex with.
Think about it – if he just used some of that bluster and take-no-shit attitude (although he does put up with a lot shit from women, he would able to get some female attention.
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| 9/19/2014 7:51:34 PM |
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justforfuni69
Ruskin, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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last time I looked this thread was closed. isn't it strange when you start a thread about customer support that it reopens.
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| 9/19/2014 8:01:57 PM |
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justforfuni69
Ruskin, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014
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 wrong thread my mistake.
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