He demands to have my Facebook password

11/12/2014 12:04:50 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
irisnorway88 Hobbs, NM 26, joined Jan. 2014	My S/O just got back from a business trip today.I can understand He is exhausted at some point to talk about certain things,but over dinner he demanded my password to Facebook,I eventually gave to him because he gave me his tumblr password...but do you think people in a relationship should have some privacy ? Or is it okay to have each others passwords? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
11/12/2014 12:07:51 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
requestinvalid Jal, NM 28, joined Oct. 2014	This isn't any trust it seems.
11/12/2014 12:37:01 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
naturebiy Mc Kenzie, TN 39, joined Jul. 2011	You got something going on daily with this guy.. Seems kind of dysfunctional no offense.
11/12/2014 12:41:32 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
ronleeseberg Mauston, WI 48, joined Jan. 2012	Sounds like there is a lack of trust.
11/12/2014 12:54:13 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from irisnorway88: ...but do you think people in a relationship should have some privacy ? Or is it okay to have each others passwords? Todays relationship is such a got damn joke. Those who are in them are only interested in the benefits but dance around and sidestep the responsibilities. In a REAL relationship there is no privacy. Privacy in a relationship it's like having kitchen cabinets. lol A great place to hide bugs and rodents. A real relationship is built upon trust as a part of its foundation. There is no trust if you have to hide certain aspects of your life from the person you're supposed to be giving yourself to 100%
11/12/2014 12:58:48 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
theloser2123 Manassas, VA 23, joined Apr. 2014	Sounds like some p*ssy high school drama to me
11/12/2014 3:46:38 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
sweetnsassy227 Valparaiso, IN 55, joined Jul. 2014	My husband and I shared email accounts, Facebook and others. Why not, we shared even bigger things called marriage, children, life, mortgages, bills, bank accounts, and investments. JS
11/12/2014 4:01:58 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
oppsiidazi Orr, MN 45, joined Oct. 2014	Quote from irisnorway88: My S/O just got back from a business trip today.I can understand He is exhausted at some point to talk about certain things,but over dinner he demanded my password to Facebook,I eventually gave to him because he gave me his tumblr password...but do you think people in a relationship should have some privacy ? Or is it okay to have each others passwords? you say, "he demanded to have" yet; i also read how you said, 'after' he gave you his tumblr password. this leads me to surmise that you, first, "demanded" for his password. my answer: one really shouldn't try and hold another to a higher standard, than they wouldn't expect of themselves.
11/12/2014 4:19:45 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
cavie59 Enid, OK 55, joined Feb. 2010	I never ask another person for their password, and if they asked for mine, I would point them to the door. I do not have to worry about it though, I do not have any one.
11/12/2014 6:29:07 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
testsignup Springfield, VA 61, joined Sep. 2009 online now!	It's the demand, that makes it most problematic, and makes it a negative indicator. I'd recommend you go in and change your password as soon as you can, and then don't tell him the new one. Then re-do the discussion, and have him explain what it is that HE did during his trip, which suddenly made him think YOU were messing around behind HIS back.
11/12/2014 6:40:38 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
twining Anderson, SC 22, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	I think there should be privacy and when the question arises to exchanging passwords than it's probably time to call it quits. Depending on what kind of passwords anyway. If it's to your phone, okay. If it's to you laptop, no. There's either gonna be trust or there isn't and no amount of knowing passwords or screen names is gonna strengthen that.
11/12/2014 6:42:45 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013 online now!	you dont trust him and he doesnt trust you ... you dont have nothing without trust
11/12/2014 6:43:51 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
xray6 Fort Stewart, GA 27, joined Mar. 2012 online now!	Me to women I don't want your password. I don't want to see your phone. I don't care how many social networks your on. I don't care if another guy calls you sexy on Facebook.
11/12/2014 7:10:30 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
naturebiy Mc Kenzie, TN 39, joined Jul. 2011	Quote from xray6: Me to women I don't want your password. I don't want to see your phone. I don't care how many social networks your on. I don't care if another guy calls you sexy on Facebook. A person has to have this mentality or a person can go bat shit crazy fast.
11/12/2014 7:11:38 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
asiancawk Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from irisnorway88: My S/O just got back from a business trip today.I can understand He is exhausted at some point to talk about certain things,but over dinner he demanded my password to Facebook,I eventually gave to him because he gave me his tumblr password...but do you think people in a relationship should have some privacy ? Or is it okay to have each others passwords? Say "sure, just as soon as you give me yours and the pin number to your debit card" Or give it him...and then change it immediately [Edited 11/12/2014 7:12:19 AM ]
11/12/2014 7:30:48 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
lovetodoit Buffalo, MO 59, joined Sep. 2011 online now!	I don't think demanding is sa good idea I might get in to my account and let her look but only with me opening the page trust me or not that's as good as u get .
11/12/2014 7:50:41 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
asiancawk Houston, TX 47, joined Sep. 2014	Op, you should demand he stops making demands.
11/12/2014 7:57:20 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
cubcougar Lucerne, CA 61, joined Oct. 2010	he thinks you are a liar and hiding stuff ... when a person points the finger ... there are three fingers pointing back. he might think you are f**king around on him. and this is the same guy who says OUCH when he is dipping his wick in you. Sure ... you want him around. Me ... I would give my self to you and not be a sick accusing liar prick. But .. that is me and how I am kinked out. sumbuddie wear blind sea
11/12/2014 8:10:41 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
cubcougar Lucerne, CA 61, joined Oct. 2010	Quote from theloser2123: Sounds like some p*ssy high school drama to me Nope started in Grade School with Daddy ... Hey OP ... check it out sweetie. If SO is a sick controlling possessive prick getting his OJ game on. and your LAST SO is a sick controlling possessive prick. and your Dad is a sick controlling possessive prick ... and HOLD ON .. let us plan for the future. YOUR NEXT Significant Other after you dump this guy .. is ALSO a sick controlling possessive prick. Then ... please consider that there is a PROBLEM in side of YOU that you can CHANGE. I suggest that 5 element classical old school chinese accupunture before with you getting healthy pricks in you. Go change you ... and the sick pricks go away. After all this was the guy who says 'Ouch' when he is shagging you. sumbuddie wear blind sea [Edited 11/12/2014 8:11:10 AM ]
11/12/2014 8:26:37 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
bumblebee7 Fort Payne, AL 59, joined Apr. 2011 online now!	normally....I'd have to say there should be trust. But sometimes there may be a reason not to trust...or enough happens to where you really begin to wonder. Thats different. I'm not there to see your personal life and everything else....and his So, I can't really answer here.... in this specific situation. So he works and has to go out of town some......your on here and face book. Op...I think if even the genders were reversed, enough women might begin to wonder too. just sayin.
11/12/2014 8:31:21 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
viper1e Jeannette, PA 56, joined Dec. 2013 online now!	Quote from irisnorway88: My S/O just got back from a business trip today.I can understand He is exhausted at some point to talk about certain things,but over dinner he demanded my password to Facebook,I eventually gave to him because he gave me his tumblr password...but do you think people in a relationship should have some privacy ? Or is it okay to have each others passwords? Good for him! That's how I caught my slut of a ex girlfriend cheating!
11/12/2014 8:49:04 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
nothingneeded Johnston, IA 46, joined Sep. 2014	Wow! Ok first. He went on a buisness trip...over the weekend? Is what I presume because that's when you created a thread about him not calling. When he decided to call, it was on a Sunday...going by the day you posted he called. Now he comes back and demands your password to fb...you thought "ok" cause he gave you his to "whatever" site you're speaking. I think you need to wake up...the guy wants to see if first....you know someone that he may know on fb.... Maybe his buisness partner. And or he wants control because he knows that his shit ain't right. Now you can be all naive if ya want to...but that's how I see it.
11/12/2014 8:55:59 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
nothingneeded Johnston, IA 46, joined Sep. 2014	And to answer you question... Yes people should have some privacy...more so in a relationship then in a marriage. He wants to control you because he knows he did his thing out of town while you waited for two days for him to call. Now he's trying to do a reverse care, your mine and mine only act cause he is not yours and yours only. Trust me on this...I've seen it. Wake the hell up. Let me revise privacy in a marriage...I believe in a marriage that there should be some privacy. However, marriage and a relationship/dating is different therefore I believe one should have more privacy. You don't have his last name..so
11/12/2014 9:01:30 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
irisnorway88 Hobbs, NM 26, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from nothingneeded: Wow! Ok first. He went on a buisness trip...over the weekend? Is what I presume because that's when you created a thread about him not calling. When he decided to call, it was on a Sunday...going by the day you posted he called. Now he comes back and demands your password to fb...you thought "ok" cause he gave you his to "whatever" site you're speaking. I think you need to wake up...the guy wants to see if first....you know someone that he may know on fb.... Maybe his buisness partner. And or he wants control because he knows that his shit ain't right. Now you can be all naive if ya want to...but that's how I see it. he is good at trying to control me.....again.I'm trying to make this work
11/12/2014 9:05:40 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
nothingneeded Johnston, IA 46, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from irisnorway88: he is good at trying to control me.....again.I'm trying to make this work By your response, let's me see why he feels he can control you. You need to open your eyes.
11/12/2014 9:12:35 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
xray6 Fort Stewart, GA 27, joined Mar. 2012 online now!	Quote from irisnorway88: he is good at trying to control me.....again.I'm trying to make this work her eyes are open she is not about to take a pay cut.
11/12/2014 9:14:48 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
xray6 Fort Stewart, GA 27, joined Mar. 2012 online now!	women will put up with anything for a well off man. just like men will put up with anything for a 10
11/12/2014 9:36:24 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 55, joined May. 2009	Being in a relationship does not preclude having things that are just your own. A well-adjusted and mature adult understands that they do not get to have access to every part of another person's life. Everyone gets a little privacy and respect. They also get trust and realization of boundaries. When my husband was alive we had a shared email, and each of us also had our own and we did not even think to ask for those passwords. We also didn't share our FB passwords or any other that didn't pertain to us. There were times that either of us gave the other a password to something for some particular event, but neither of us ever remembered it to use later. Your guy demanded it. Why? His giving you the password to something as if proving his openness was manipulative. If he just gave it to you and said, "see? I have nothing to hide? Why are you resisting giving yours to me? Do you have something to hide?" Or did you start it by questioning him about his activities and he threw the password to you to try and reassure you and stop you? I've been in a relationship for close to four years now, and I never asked for any of his passwords nor demanded that we share everything as some proof of our love or our fidelity. He hasn't asked, either. If either one of us did demand, I would think it's a indication of a much larger problem. [Edited 11/12/2014 9:37:02 AM ]
11/12/2014 9:39:56 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
maggie__magpie Santee, CA 43, joined Oct. 2014	Quote from asiancawk: Op, you should demand he stops making demands. This ^^^
11/12/2014 9:54:11 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
irisnorway88 Hobbs, NM 26, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from cubcougar: Nope started in Grade School with Daddy ... Hey OP ... check it out sweetie. If SO is a sick controlling possessive prick getting his OJ game on. and your LAST SO is a sick controlling possessive prick. and your Dad is a sick controlling possessive prick ... and HOLD ON .. let us plan for the future. YOUR NEXT Significant Other after you dump this guy .. is ALSO a sick controlling possessive prick. Then ... please consider that there is a PROBLEM in side of YOU that you can CHANGE. I suggest that 5 element classical old school chinese accupunture before with you getting healthy pricks in you. Go change you ... and the sick pricks go away. After all this was the guy who says 'Ouch' when he is shagging you. sumbuddie wear blind sea how you know about my dad? First off he was my first,my before and he maybe my last Why you say things like that??
11/12/2014 10:12:50 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
viper1e Jeannette, PA 56, joined Dec. 2013 online now!	Quote from asiancawk: Op, you should demand he stops making demands. And then his next demand will be, that she get the F**k out of his house!
11/12/2014 10:17:41 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
xray6 Fort Stewart, GA 27, joined Mar. 2012 online now!	why yall trying to give this woman advice. let her suffer like she wants to I told yall she is not about to take no pay cut [Edited 11/12/2014 10:18:04 AM ]
11/12/2014 10:32:41 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
amusicluvr Salem, OR 62, joined Nov. 2013	OP - He doesn't trust you, so you don't really have a relationship worth keeping. Dump him, and get a new password, and keep it to yourself.
11/12/2014 10:34:43 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
doublethree Germantown, TN 37, joined Oct. 2013	Quote from requestinvalid: This isn't any trust it seems. women never trust men and demand things like this, so no difference there.
11/12/2014 10:42:39 AM	He demands to have my Facebook password
xray6 Fort Stewart, GA 27, joined Mar. 2012 online now!	Quote from amusicluvr: OP - He doesn't trust you, so you don't really have a relationship worth keeping. Dump him, and get a new password, and keep it to yourself. and risk having a man with less money HELL NO that girl better not leave unlessa black eyes involved. and after that she still better stay
11/12/2014 12:40:40 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
nothingneeded Johnston, IA 46, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from amusicluvr: OP - He doesn't trust you, so you don't really have a relationship worth keeping. Dump him, and get a new password, and keep it to yourself. Are y'all serious.....he's only making it look as though he don't trust her. If that was the case, why did he leave on a business trip without calling her for a few days. Oh....he trust her......he's the one that can't be trusted.
11/12/2014 12:41:59 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
nothingneeded Johnston, IA 46, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from xray6: and risk having a man with less money HELL NO that girl better not leave unlessa black eyes involved. and after that she still better stay True true true
11/12/2014 12:49:51 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
xray6 Fort Stewart, GA 27, joined Mar. 2012 online now!	Quote from nothingneeded: Are y'all serious.....he's only making it look as though he don't trust her. If that was the case, why did he leave on a business trip without calling her for a few days. Oh....he trust her......he's the one that can't be trusted. He got DA MONEY DOE his behavior can never be in question. women who are not capable of independents cannot question their master.
11/12/2014 12:53:47 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
anton998 Cincinnati, OH 27, joined Sep. 2013	I think u should dump his a** immediately. Control freaks are losers
11/12/2014 12:55:19 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
xray6 Fort Stewart, GA 27, joined Mar. 2012 online now!	She can't she is dependent on him
11/12/2014 1:40:41 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
chitowngirl78 Oak Lawn, IL 36, joined May. 2014	What exactly do you have to hide OP that you're not willing to give up your FB password?!?!
11/12/2014 1:54:13 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
chitowngirl78 Oak Lawn, IL 36, joined May. 2014	Define "demand"? I know most normal people go by the dictionary definition but Im willing to bet OP has her own version of "demanding behavior."
11/12/2014 2:29:53 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
ILUVFORUMS Flossmoor, IL 49, joined Oct. 2014	nothing to see here [Edited 11/12/2014 2:32:28 PM ]
11/12/2014 2:31:21 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
ILUVFORUMS Flossmoor, IL 49, joined Oct. 2014	Quote from xray6: Me to women I don't want your password. I don't want to see your phone. I don't care how many social networks your on. I don't care if another guy calls you sexy on Facebook. THIS...no demands on either side.
11/12/2014 3:04:49 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
pickygirl72 Phelan, CA 44, joined Sep. 2011	He should not demand anything there should be enough trust to show him your Facebook account and other accounts at any time. Why hide things from him, because it only looks suspicious. but he needs to be open and willing to show his accounts to you too. If he doesn't then there might be a problem. privacy in a relationship [Edited 11/12/2014 3:05:15 PM ]
11/12/2014 3:18:01 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
mehbleh Glendale, AZ 99, joined Oct. 2014	do you think people in a relationship should have some privacy ? Somewhat. I mean if we live in a one bedroom apartment together trying to save money to pay down student loans or something I sure as hell don't want you leaving the bathroom door open while you take a dump, nor do I want to leave the door open to try and communicate I am all comfortable and lovey with you. I also don't really want to hear you talk to your mother, or sit there and watch you while I talk to mine. I also like a nice, quiet, uninterrupted work space where I can do my quarterly government a** raping called taxes. I think some privacy is necessary. But part of developing a relationship is setting up expectations and boundaries about what privacy is wanted or needed. So, really, it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks people "should" do in a relationship...it matters what you want in yours. Or is it okay to have each others passwords? Only if I want them to have the passwords. Personally, if they gave me theirs I'd probably shred them and never use them unless I was executor of their will or something and it was necessary for settling affairs after death. But if it's some sort of ultimatum then I'm going to tell them to eat my ass. Then it's not a matter of passwords but some sort of control issue.
11/12/2014 4:27:28 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
cubcougar Lucerne, CA 61, joined Oct. 2010	Ditto on this OP ... listen up darling baby girl ... Quote from nothingneeded: Wow! Ok first. He went on a buisness trip...over the weekend? Is what I presume because that's when you created a thread about him not calling. When he decided to call, it was on a Sunday...going by the day you posted he called. Now he comes back and demands your password to fb...you thought "ok" cause he gave you his to "whatever" site you're speaking. I think you need to wake up...the guy wants to see if first....you know someone that he may know on fb.... Maybe his buisness partner. And or he wants control because he knows that his shit ain't right. Now you can be all naive if ya want to...but that's how I see it.
11/12/2014 4:58:19 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from cavie59: I never ask another person for their password, and if they asked for mine, I would point them to the door. I do not have to worry about it though, I do not have any one. Absolutely. They wouldn't have time to unpack their bags they'd be gone so fast.
11/12/2014 5:27:11 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
packersbabe920 Green Bay, WI 49, joined Jul. 2013	Quote from xray6: She can't she is dependent on him Yup, that's her problem
11/12/2014 5:29:18 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 55, joined May. 2009	Quote from mehbleh: Only if I want them to have the passwords. Personally, if they gave me theirs I'd probably shred them and never use them unless I was executor of their will or something and it was necessary for settling affairs after death. But if it's some sort of ultimatum then I'm going to tell them to eat my ass. Then it's not a matter of passwords but some sort of control issue. This. I can't imagine any scenario other than the one mentioned here where I ever needed to look at his FB or his email or anything. It isn't a question of hiding anything or thinking they are, or even that he'd have balked at letting me look at anything I wanted to see, much like he wouldn't have balked at me going through his wallet. But why would I? What possible reason do I need to have full and total access to any of that? Especially if we're just dating? If we're married, we'd have joint things, and things that are ours alone. If I grant you access to something, that's my decision, not yours.
11/12/2014 5:30:38 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
neo52 Tallahassee, FL 58, joined Sep. 2009	"he demanded my password" Not very polite ,IMO ..
11/12/2014 5:35:30 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
lovethelake17 Henderson, NV 55, joined May. 2009	I used to work with a woman whose boyfriend demanded total access to everything. Not only her personal phone, and email (this was before FB), but also her work cell phone, work desk phone, and work email. She thought it meant he loved her so very much since he was so jealous and so interested in what she did when she wasn't with him. So she allowed him access to all of it, because, after all, she had nothing to hide. All of this just escalated, and she lost her job because of things he did--that she allowed him access to.
11/12/2014 5:45:39 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
neo52 Tallahassee, FL 58, joined Sep. 2009	"So she allowed him access to all of it, because, after all, she had nothing to hide. All of this just escalated, and she lost her job because of things he did--that she allowed him access to." A sign of those that are Demanding .....
11/12/2014 6:03:58 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
cubcougar Lucerne, CA 61, joined Oct. 2010	Quote from neo52: "So she allowed him access to all of it, because, after all, she had nothing to hide. All of this just escalated, and she lost her job because of things he did--that she allowed him access to." A sign of those that are Demanding ..... oh the Dumbfkery is every where ... see any Mushroom Clouds and WMDS to die for. Last nger in the case blanca did ... This nger is bombing pickup trucks. Dumbfks vote them ... you know.
11/12/2014 6:07:54 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
inni_dreamz Pasadena, CA 50, joined Nov. 2012	Quote from xray6: Me to women I don't want your password. I don't want to see your phone. I don't care how many social networks your on. I don't care if another guy calls you sexy on Facebook. That's how I feel about the whole thing. ^^^
11/12/2014 6:10:46 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013 online now!	if you're really THIS clueless to dating and relationships (referencing all your previous posts about your relationship problems), then nothing we will say is going to help you OP
11/12/2014 6:48:09 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
irisnorway88 Hobbs, NM 26, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from dixie_dancer: if you're really THIS clueless to dating and relationships (referencing all your previous posts about your relationship problems), then nothing we will say is going to help you OP believe me y'all do help me some. Its me asking if there should be privacy,or not. But john did demand I did give him my password and he gave me his to his social sites...I see that he wants to look in on why I'm on Facebook than usual and I see why hes on tumblr than usual.
11/12/2014 6:49:32 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
dr_i_got_answer Gwynn Oak, MD 48, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from cavie59: I never ask another person for their password, and if they asked for mine, I would point them to the door. I do not have to worry about it though, I do not have any one. Absolutely. They wouldn't have time to unpack their bags they'd be gone so fast.
11/12/2014 6:51:18 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
irisnorway88 Hobbs, NM 26, joined Jan. 2014	Quote from xray6: and risk having a man with less money HELL NO that girl better not leave unlessa black eyes involved. and after that she still better stay x ray,who said I wasn't independent? What are you assuming?
11/12/2014 6:51:26 PM	He demands to have my Facebook password
dixie_dancer Kansas City, KS 26, joined Feb. 2013 online now!	i mean, to each their own, but all of your insecurities about him, and all your stories, seem to really paint a huge field full of red flags. i've been engaged, i've been in lengthy monogomous relationships, and never have i been DEMANDED for my password. I do believe i once gave my facebook password, but that was before screenshots and whatnot, and i had received a not-so-nice message from a friend of the guy i was with and wanted him to see it. but he didn't keep it for spying purposes. to each their own, but ... wow, just wow OP

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