11/13/2014 12:23:59 PM |
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taylor7779311
Quantico, VA
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Been dating casualy for about 6 months. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but I haven't even gotten a commitment of a monogamous relationship.::idontknow
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11/13/2014 12:26:58 PM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Umm isn't his statement a commitment?
The monogamy part is usually implied with that.
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11/13/2014 12:31:05 PM |
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diana29615
Greenville, SC
45, joined Jan. 2014
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I agree.
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11/13/2014 12:57:17 PM |
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xray6
Fort Stewart, GA
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Umm isn't his statement a commitment?
The monogamy part is usually implied with that.
she wants it in writing and notarized
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11/13/2014 12:58:47 PM |
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taylor7779311
Quantico, VA
39, joined Oct. 2014
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she wants it in writing and notarized
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11/13/2014 1:02:09 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
23, joined May. 2013
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she wants it in writing and notarized
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I guess simple words don't matter anymore. Op I don't think it's casual anymore if he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
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11/13/2014 1:55:03 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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she wants it in writing and notarized
Or a big expensive diamond.
I didn't know we were in kindergarten anymore where we had to ask somebody if they would be our friend a lot of things are simply implied. This being one of them
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11/13/2014 1:56:29 PM |
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thekinghasrisen
San Diego, CA
30, joined Nov. 2013
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Been dating casualy for about 6 months. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but I haven't even gotten a commitment of a monogamous relationship.::idontknow
And...what are YOU doing about that? Have you offered monogamy to HIM?
Sounds like he's making all of the leg work and you're sitting comfortably on the mantle of expectancy.
A LOT of good men have been cast aside that way.
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11/13/2014 2:31:48 PM |
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irisnorway88
Hobbs, NM
26, joined Jan. 2014
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The sex is great don't walk away...just like me too much we burned why walk away now?
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11/13/2014 2:44:58 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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80 % negatives for BOTH the President and the Congress ...
yet ...
only 35% of people are voting all across the USA they are saying.
In California ... 80 % are registered Independent.
Yet ... only 35% of people voted yet they bother to register to vote.
Also ... NO Independent or third party on the ballot.
ONLY ...
GOPerps .. and Democ*nts
Library B*tches that get skull f**ked by the Dixie Cave Apes taco sauce covered swartzn**ger.
No one notices that fact I am sorry to say ...
They are n**ger f**king all of you guys.
Obama Mama tosses Mary Landrew to the gutter the c*nt she is ... and then goes whole hog illegal Messican.
Did not want to do that before the election .. as that would be worse on the vote for those that vote I suppose.
Have to report only 10 percent vote then.
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11/13/2014 2:55:50 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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This is too much and funny comments.
it kinda reminds me when I got with this women and she stated up front....no idea of marriage, it messes up everything....I said...okay.
Then a year or so later when we broke up, she whined about me never asking her to marry me....
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11/13/2014 3:09:51 PM |
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cali8zice
Albany, NY
49, joined Oct. 2012
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she wants it in writing and notarized
I'm a licensed notary. I need identification
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11/13/2014 3:18:46 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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I'll teach you some russian, if you want me to. Low fees, guaranteed
How to speak Dixie Cave Ape getting N**ger F**ked by the President ...
They not gonna do a thing about illegal Messicans ...
but the Executive Action that is illegal about illegals ...
will make it harder to reach across the isle and get things done in Congress.
Like the N**ger F**kers cares about dat !!!
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11/13/2014 4:52:01 PM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
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what's casual? you see him once a week, once a month, is he dating others? I hate when the OP doesn't given me enough information.
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11/13/2014 5:13:57 PM |
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taylor7779311
Quantico, VA
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what's casual? you see him once a week, once a month, is he dating others? I hate when the OP doesn't given me enough information.
We see each other about 2 to 3 times per week he may be dating others
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11/13/2014 5:45:05 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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Most likely he is
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11/13/2014 6:35:30 PM |
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studframer
Middletown, NY
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And...what are YOU doing about that? Have you offered monogamy to HIM?
Sounds like he's making all of the leg work and you're sitting comfortably on the mantle of expectancy.
A LOT of good men have been cast aside that way.
"Sitting comfortably on the mantle of expectancy." I like that. Gonna use it REAL soon.
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11/13/2014 8:55:43 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Have "the talk" with him and find out where things are headed and get some commitments. Based on that you ought to know if you need to be taking more exercise.
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11/13/2014 9:04:26 PM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
48, joined Jan. 2012
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Figure it out OP.
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11/13/2014 9:24:18 PM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
52, joined Sep. 2014
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He's lying
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11/13/2014 9:29:17 PM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
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And if you're in doubt like you are because you don't know... Well guess what? You know. You just have to accept it and do what's BEST for you.
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11/14/2014 9:29:46 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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"Sitting comfortably on the mantle of expectancy."
So true. Some women think by throwing subtle hints this will solve their problems or making the guy try to read her mind. Then she is pissed when the guy says to her "I just don't understand what you want." Some sit on their a** waiting for the guy to figure out their life for them.
OP has left the building. I guess the truth hurts.
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11/14/2014 9:34:17 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
29, joined Aug. 2013
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Been dating casualy for about 6 months. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but I haven't even gotten a commitment of a monogamous relationship.::idontknow
Do you still swallow?
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11/14/2014 3:29:53 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
61, joined Oct. 2010
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Been dating casualy for about 6 months. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but I haven't even gotten a commitment of a monogamous relationship.::idontknow
All Hail El Presidente Obama that loves the taco sauce on the swartzn**ger ...
and the nasty c*nt slut wives who get their Calista Billary Shriver game on.
N**ger f**king Main Street ....
as the 2.5 Billion dollars a year that the GOPerps and the Democ*nts get every year is from Wall Street.
Illegal Messicans have more money then Mr and Mrs America do.
So .. you get n**ger f**ked by the GOperps and the Democ*nts ...
good thing you still vote for them.
I can only guess you love being n**ger f**ked.
Otherwise .. you would not do it !!!
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11/14/2014 5:44:15 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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op has left the building, fast
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11/14/2014 6:03:16 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
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mono meaning one,,single,two can become one,i been on here too long,,,,,,startinto sound like that last dude that needs thorazine,an xanax,an maybe a brain purge,vacuum. haha.
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11/14/2014 7:57:13 PM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
42, joined Jan. 2014
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Makes you the bigger person.
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11/14/2014 7:59:57 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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OP - More like you know it is not a good idea, but are afraid to admit it. If he can't commit to being monogamous for a few months, there is no way he can do it for life. What he wants is you at home, as a backup, while he plays the field at work, in the bars, etc. Monogamy is the furthest thing from his mind. You know it.
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11/14/2014 9:41:39 PM |
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mehbleh
Glendale, AZ
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I haven't even gotten a commitment of a monogamous relationship
Are you under the impression that a commitment is some sort of magical behavior leash?
You "really" want a commitment of a monogamous relationship?
Then learn to pay attention to who he is, what he does, and what he means by what he says.
His words of commitment should be confirmation of his behavior, not the other way around.
If you rely on him telling you he is committed before you start paying attention to whether or not he's going to live up to it, if he can live up to it, or even what he means by his idea of what commitment is, then you are always playing catch up, always learning, and you never "really" know.
dating casualy for about 6 months...he may be dating others
So if you do walk away you don't even really know what you're walking away from.
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11/14/2014 9:45:39 PM |
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inni_dreamz
Pasadena, CA
50, joined Nov. 2012
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Umm isn't his statement a commitment?
The monogamy part is usually implied with that.
Couldn't say it better if I tried. ^^
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11/14/2014 9:59:42 PM |
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studframer
Middletown, NY
47, joined Sep. 2014
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Do you still swallow?
I would say by her quick exit Jack, the answer is no.
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11/14/2014 10:38:44 PM |
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missamicable
Hurst, TX
55, joined Jul. 2014
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Let him put it in writing OP along with the prenup.
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11/14/2014 10:50:24 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Walk away. After 6 months he ought to know if he wants to commit or not.
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11/15/2014 8:52:14 AM |
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giraffesrus
Auburn, AL
54, joined May. 2012
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80 % negatives for BOTH the President and the Congress ...
yet ...
only 35% of people are voting all across the USA they are saying.
In California ... 80 % are registered Independent.
Yet ... only 35% of people voted yet they bother to register to vote.
Also ... NO Independent or third party on the ballot.
ONLY ...
GOPerps .. and Democ*nts
Library B*tches that get skull f**ked by the Dixie Cave Apes taco sauce covered swartzn**ger.
No one notices that fact I am sorry to say ...
They are n**ger f**king all of you guys.
Obama Mama tosses Mary Landrew to the gutter the c*nt she is ... and then goes whole hog illegal Messican.
Did not want to do that before the election .. as that would be worse on the vote for those that vote I suppose.
Have to report only 10 percent vote then.
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11/15/2014 8:52:56 AM |
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giraffesrus
Auburn, AL
54, joined May. 2012
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11/15/2014 8:55:06 AM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
52, joined Sep. 2014
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When to walk away you ask?
How about now.
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11/15/2014 10:30:02 AM |
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notlikeurex
Greenville, NC
37, joined Aug. 2012
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Gotta do what's right for you.
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