11/18/2014 12:15:01 AM |
I think I lost my soul mate |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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So I met this guy at the MGM casino down town, we instantly clicked, we connected on do many levels I began to believe in love at first sight. ANYWAY he's from Wyoming, we hung out the last 2 days he was here then he went back. We talked everyday , all day for three months straight. We even made plans to start a relationship and blah blah blah but just 2 days ago he just stopped texting me no phone calls or anything. Its like he fell off the face of the earth, im not sure if its because he didn't like me anymore or he just got into some trouble. Should I be worried or upset ? Should I wait or move on ??
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11/18/2014 12:21:20 AM |
I think I lost my soul mate |
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theloser2123
Radford, VA
23, joined Apr. 2014
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he probably has a boyfriend who just got outta jail. Big Bernie bent his a** over and f**ked the phone right out of his hand. How unfortunate
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11/18/2014 12:24:29 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
20, joined Feb. 2013
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He clearly wasn't gay
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11/18/2014 12:40:03 AM |
I think I lost my soul mate |
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amyamyplayer
Omaha, NE
30, joined Sep. 2014
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Check up on him. Call or text him to make sure all is well with him.
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11/18/2014 12:45:56 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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I have never been fortunate of being able to connect with a soul mate.
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11/18/2014 12:49:55 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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I didn't call him but I did text him, I didn't want to seemb clingy and call him right after a text
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11/18/2014 12:50:08 AM |
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missamicable
Hurst, TX
55, joined Jul. 2014
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Darn that sucks..............
Hope you had a good time with him in Vegas.
Now move on and learn from this experience.
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11/18/2014 12:56:50 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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It sucks a lot , he was amazing. Its like we were exactly alike, from hobbies we shared to the way we speak. Thats why I dunno if I should hold on to some hope that he'll come back.
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11/18/2014 1:05:56 AM |
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queensbirth
Virginia Beach, VA
34, joined Jan. 2014
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Call him and see if he answers he might just have gotten in some trouble if he doesn't respond maybe he has found someone else
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11/18/2014 1:11:40 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Im so scared to call him...im afraid of what might happen
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11/18/2014 1:13:50 AM |
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avegasman
Manhattan, KS
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So thats why you are sad. Hey the MGM is not downtown. Its clear down on the south end of the strip. Loose some lot of weight. Quit being an idiot and making things up.
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11/18/2014 1:16:10 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Uhm it is downtown on the strip so go f**k yourself, since thats the only thing you're ever going to f**k you remedial . And its lose not loose dumb f**k.
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11/18/2014 1:17:10 AM |
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denise1028
Clinton, IN
47, joined Nov. 2013
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If you think hes ur soul mate tuff it out find out whsts really goimg on dont just give up so easily
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11/18/2014 1:19:51 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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I called..no answer feeling really down
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11/18/2014 1:32:17 AM |
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amyamyplayer
Omaha, NE
30, joined Sep. 2014
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Maybe he's going through some stuff right now. Hopefully he calls you back. Hang in there.
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11/18/2014 1:35:33 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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I will thank you
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11/18/2014 1:42:06 AM |
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amyamyplayer
Omaha, NE
30, joined Sep. 2014
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You welcome.
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11/18/2014 1:42:40 AM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
62, joined Nov. 2013
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OP - He may have been bi...or married...or engaged. You were fun, for awhile, but he has something else now that he considers better. Forget him, and move on. 'Love At First Sight' rarely lasts. It is not love. It is flash in the pan lust with the intrigue of The Unknown. Once The Unknown becomes really known, or-in many cases-even after the first shine of lust wears off after the first bout of sex, the attraction dies.
CLUE:
If he can fall instantly IN LOVE WITH YOU, he can also fall instant OUT OF LOVE with you, and fall instantly IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE.
Give in to a 'Love At First Sight' thing, if you want...enough to have some hot sex...IF you feel safe about avoiding STDs. Do NOT ever expect a 'Love Ar First Sight' thing to last very long. After all...Love At First Sight is all about....
...L.A.F.S.
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11/18/2014 1:55:52 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Thats thing ! We never had sex ! We were flirtatious and playfully touching but never had sex. We would sit in his hotel room and laugh and talk from dusk til dawn
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11/18/2014 2:05:15 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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So I met this guy at the MGM casino down town, we instantly clicked, we connected on do many levels I began to believe in love at first sight. ANYWAY he's from Wyoming, we hung out the last 2 days he was here then he went back. We talked everyday , all day for three months straight. We even made plans to start a relationship and blah blah blah but just 2 days ago he just stopped texting me no phone calls or anything. Its like he fell off the face of the earth, im not sure if its because he didn't like me anymore or he just got into some trouble. Should I be worried or upset ? Should I wait or move on ??
and people wonder how this young girl got conned by Manson to marry him.
Read the above and the title here....I think it explains it.
We talked for a month and that made him her soul mate...I began to fall in love at first site.
Sigh!!!!!
I think you did connect...all levels? well you think so.
What happened here was a weekend fling, yeh it was good for him too....enough to email for a month, but he realised you were way to hung up on him, and he knows the drama that will ensue, because he wasn't in love and knows it.
And he knew there could be all the backlash or drama if he told you straight up....so he faded away...
Give it a few days without emailing him....then plan on moving on.
Then find out why you fall into love way too fast and fix it.
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11/18/2014 2:09:45 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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OP...a soulmate is one to where both have deep love for each other, they have enough time into the relation or marriage to know they will be there down the road.
not some Vegas Weekend Fling.
Sorry you'll be hurt, but its a another lesson in life to where we are suppose to learn from it.
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11/18/2014 2:10:58 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Actually we talked for 3 months and yes its possible to love someone in three months (my parents married within 90 days and is still married now) I dont fall in love quickly but I was developing feelings for him. It wasnt a weekend fling, I was with him every day all day doing things on the strip and we never had sex.
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11/18/2014 2:23:25 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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I read where you said you met there, then more or less fell in love at first site.
why change the story now?
I did mess up on the months of emails....I thought it said one....but it says three.
I don't know what to say...many women here will respond to a question like this, with whats happened to them....and they think the worse too.
So, take it all with a grain of salt.
In my honest opinion....I think its a matter of the distance and reality....yes, he enjoyed the weekend too, his lonelyness and inner voids filled for a while....which can give a euphoria that "feels" like feelings.
You emailed that long, but in reality never saw each other...and that in itself is a reality awakening.
The words kept the voids filled for a while, but reality kept creeping back into the picture and words can't replace being together and something really growing.
Plans to start a relation, but the distance making it so you can't see each other that much...then what?
I assume he is young too and in reality wants and needs someone closer to see each other regularly.
And reality came into the picture and maybe has been for a little while and he finally decided to quit takin this any further...for both your sakes.
He should have told you, but with you overwelmed and in love like this....well some men find it hard to break a heart and be there to see it.
Again...give it a few days, then move on.
Sorry hun...we've all been down the road of heart break.
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11/18/2014 2:27:24 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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We made plans that when we started a relationship we would take turns visiting each other , I even offered to move there. Maybe you're right tho thank you.
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11/18/2014 2:38:20 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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I think thats what it was.....a player would make sure sex happened and not stayed up all night laughing together.
Its hard to have a weekend, then months of not seeing each other especially at your age....
Then you had these feelings, they probably weren't as deep with him. Most men need contact and etc to really fall like that.
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11/18/2014 2:40:47 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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You make a point, I should've known better.
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11/18/2014 2:47:50 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
38, joined Aug. 2014
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I say just move on
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11/18/2014 3:15:51 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Wait you are only 20, why were you at a casino? Anyway it was a fun fling. And that wasn't your soul mate. So stop texting him and move on.
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11/18/2014 3:24:03 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
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OP...a soulmate is one to where both have deep love for each other, they have enough time into the relation or marriage to know they will be there down the road.
not some Vegas Weekend Fling.
Sorry you'll be hurt, but its a another lesson in life to where we are suppose to learn from it.
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11/18/2014 3:27:44 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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11/18/2014 3:49:45 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
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Thats thing ! We never had sex ! We were flirtatious and playfully touching but never had sex. We would sit in his hotel room and laugh and talk from dusk til dawn
You will have plenty of opportunities were this happens. And it certainly does not mean they are your soul mates. It just means you guys clicked, probably more of a friendship thing. It happens to all of us.
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11/18/2014 6:12:12 AM |
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tweakthis2
Clarksville, TN
28, joined Jan. 2014
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Sounds like he may be married.
Hope it works out.
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11/18/2014 6:33:19 AM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
59, joined Jan. 2008
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falling in love is wonderful, falling out not so much. most of us have felt the joy and your pain. Morn your loss but dont linger. Treat yourself tenderly and dont jump to conclusions.
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11/18/2014 6:53:49 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
38, joined Aug. 2014
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falling in love is wonderful, falling out not so much. most of us have felt the joy and your pain. Morn your loss but dont linger. Treat yourself tenderly and dont jump to conclusions.
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11/18/2014 7:02:09 AM |
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chambella
New South Wales
Australia
94, joined Jun. 2014
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2 days is nothing....too early to stress
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11/18/2014 7:04:13 AM |
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asiancawk
Houston, TX
47, joined Sep. 2014
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He clearly wasn't gay
Bisexual then.
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11/18/2014 7:24:25 AM |
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xray6
Fort Stewart, GA
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you've been replaced
you talk about starting a relationship
people aren't fond of a long distance relationship.
so he backed out
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11/18/2014 8:04:48 AM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
52, joined Sep. 2014
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Im so scared to call him...im afraid of what might happen
If you don't call him, you're only going to stay miserable thinking about him so why torture yourself like that.
Call him.
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11/18/2014 8:07:46 AM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
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OP - He may have been bi...or married...or engaged. You were fun, for awhile, but he has something else now that he considers better. Forget him, and move on. 'Love At First Sight' rarely lasts. It is not love. It is flash in the pan lust with the intrigue of The Unknown. Once The Unknown becomes really known, or-in many cases-even after the first shine of lust wears off after the first bout of sex, the attraction dies.
CLUE:
If he can fall instantly IN LOVE WITH YOU, he can also fall instant OUT OF LOVE with you, and fall instantly IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE.
Give in to a 'Love At First Sight' thing, if you want...enough to have some hot sex...IF you feel safe about avoiding STDs. Do NOT ever expect a 'Love Ar First Sight' thing to last very long. After all...Love At First Sight is all about....
...L.A.F.S.
I think of all the comments this is the most true. That is, EZ in love then EZ out of love.
More so if you f**ked like bunnys when in love. In your case, that does NOT seem to be the case. Then some poeple are like mirrors. So you think they are just like you but they are nothing like you. They just reflect your attitude at the time. Good actors can do this on a dime.
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11/18/2014 8:19:32 AM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
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I'm don't know if anyone asked this...
But how old is this guy?
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11/18/2014 8:21:01 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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He's 26
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11/18/2014 8:25:48 AM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
46, joined Sep. 2014
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He's 26
Either he's married, or just busy.
Maybe his wife found out.
What was he in town for?
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11/18/2014 8:33:19 AM |
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sea_
Kent, WA
62, joined Oct. 2013
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What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.. ( love this saying of course till it gets on the internet ) ..It's hard to have a long distance relationship.. He may not want to get more attached knowing this.
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11/18/2014 10:00:30 AM |
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candmann73
Petersburg, VA
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OP you're young if you don't connect with him again you'll find another in know time.. just stay positive
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11/18/2014 10:27:43 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Either he's married, or just busy.
Maybe his wife found out.
What was he in town for?
No I dont think so because a married man wouldn't have the time to talk to you all day everyday. He lived with family and we were on the phone all the time so im pretty sure if he was married his wife would've been said something. He was in town for a disc golfing competition lol it was his nerdy side that I liked the most
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11/18/2014 10:39:35 AM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
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No I dont think so because a married man wouldn't have the time to talk to you all day everyday. He lived with family and we were on the phone all the time so im pretty sure if he was married his wife would've been said something. He was in town for a disc golfing competition lol it was his nerdy side that I liked the most
The problem with soul mates is they not only can break your heart but they can also break your soul. If he does that, you will never be the same.
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11/18/2014 10:42:26 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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My feelings are a lil hurt but I'll be fine, I just wished we could've had a happy ever after.
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11/18/2014 10:45:17 AM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
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My feelings are a lil hurt but I'll be fine, I just wished we could've had a happy ever after.
Just think how you would feel if the sex was fantastic. Or better still, he said to you no two people on this earth could have better sex then us and you agree. Then he decides not to call.
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11/18/2014 10:52:06 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Just think how you would feel if the sex was fantastic. Or better still, he said to you no two people on this earth could have better sex then us and you agree. Then he decides not to call.
I would definitely feel crushed if we had sex then he disappeared. My body is a temple and im very selective about who I let in. As much I wanted him in that way I never did because I was afraid of this exact thing. Good job to me lol
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11/18/2014 11:22:46 AM |
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candmann73
Petersburg, VA
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Stop getting attached to people so fast, because attachments lead to expectations and expectations lead to disappointments.
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11/18/2014 11:25:46 AM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Stop getting attached to people so fast, because attachments lead to expectations and expectations lead to disappointments.
I honestly dont do that usually im the one to do the heart breaking its just I clicked with him so well I let my guard down because I never connected with someone like that EVER
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11/18/2014 12:09:19 PM |
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deeppacific
Trenton, MI
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I don't put to much faith in meeting women on dh, you e mail a few times and maybe meet but usually it fizzles out and you never hear from that person again jmo
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11/18/2014 12:38:21 PM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
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I honestly dont do that usually im the one to do the heart breaking its just I clicked with him so well I let my guard down because I never connected with someone like that EVER
Heart break is EZ. It's when your soul gets broken that things get really bad. Count your blessings.
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11/18/2014 12:40:44 PM |
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candmann73
Petersburg, VA
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You'll be fine OP
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11/18/2014 7:07:24 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
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You cut him off?
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11/18/2014 7:09:42 PM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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He finally texted me back, he said he was sorry for ignoring me its just he suffers from severe depression and is going through a tough time so he shut out everyone for awhile
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11/18/2014 7:25:45 PM |
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theloser2123
Radford, VA
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He finally texted me back, he said he was sorry for ignoring me its just he suffers from severe depression and is going through a tough time so he shut out everyone for awhile
Aka he's d*cking down his girlfriend or boyfriend. Open your eyes up like damn. How dumb can you be?
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11/18/2014 7:31:15 PM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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Aka he's d*cking down his girlfriend or boyfriend. Open your eyes up like damn. How dumb can you be?
Not as dumb as you for sure
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11/18/2014 7:42:14 PM |
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niterydah
Houston, TX
44, joined Jan. 2013
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He finally texted me back, he said he was sorry for ignoring me its just he suffers from severe depression and is going through a tough time so he shut out everyone for awhile
...............run while you can op ............if he takes out his depression on the ones he love thats not a good sign op
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11/18/2014 7:55:28 PM |
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belizeanblist
North Las Vegas, NV
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...............run while you can op ............if he takes out his depression on the ones he love thats not a good sign op
Im trying to be understanding because I go through that too
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