11/18/2014 4:17:14 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
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What do you do when you think that the person you want to be with don't want you even though she may be the one for you
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11/18/2014 4:22:26 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
38, joined Aug. 2014
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Well first of all how do you know she don't want you?
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11/18/2014 4:25:54 AM |
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ermgotticity
Saint Louis, MO
22, joined Sep. 2014
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Shit, u keep it moving.
~ I know u say you love me girl but problem is u probably say that shit to errbody so we hear u talking boo, but we just don't believe u
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11/18/2014 4:28:18 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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What do you do if you think she is the one for you, but she does not feel the same way?
What can you do?
We are not allowed to play caveman and just throw them over our shoulders kicking and screaming
As much as I enjoy playing caveman
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11/18/2014 4:33:01 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
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Well first of all how do you know she don't want you?
because she been married before and she don't trust alot of guys and I use to work with her she barely even spoke to me and she just got a divorce and don't speak to me now
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11/18/2014 4:39:18 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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Why would you want someone that just got out of a divorce ?
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11/18/2014 4:52:40 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
23, joined Sep. 2014
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Why would you want someone that just got out of a divorce ?
cause I figure I can make her life a little better man we been friends since 2012
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11/18/2014 4:56:42 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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Thats understandable..
But what about you?
Not doubting that you dont have love to give her.
But what about your needs?
People straight out of divorces tend to be like a dry sponge for the most part..
The will take all you give...and give little in return claiming they are not ready..
If you ever hear..." I am hurt..I am not ready..I just need time"..
Best to just back off..
Good luck
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11/18/2014 5:03:11 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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Well..I do need to add..
They are like dry sponges emotionally for the most part.
But as far as going out..partying..spreading their wings and flying..maybe having a few flings.. perhaps doing something taboo that has always been eating at them..
Than those things are not out of the question depending on the individual.
[Edited 11/18/2014 5:03:36 AM ]
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11/18/2014 5:05:18 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
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Well..I do need to add..
They are like dry sponges emotionally for the most part.
But as far as going out..partying..spreading their wings and flying..maybe having a few flings.. perhaps doing something taboo that has always been eating at them..
Than those things are not out of the question depending on the individual.
well with this girl like id say less then half of America she was sexually assaulted when she was young so idk if she will do anything like that
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11/18/2014 5:09:22 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
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Thats understandable..
But what about you?
Not doubting that you dont have love to give her.
But what about your needs?
People straight out of divorces tend to be like a dry sponge for the most part..
The will take all you give...and give little in return claiming they are not ready..
If you ever hear..." I am hurt..I am not ready..I just need time"..
Best to just back off..
Good luck
You are a very bright man
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11/18/2014 5:11:16 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
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well with this girl like id say less then half of America she was sexually assaulted when she was young so idk if she will do anything like that
You are really starting to worry me maybe you two will make a great couple
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11/18/2014 5:17:20 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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well with this girl like id say less then half of America she was sexually assaulted when she was young so idk if she will do anything like that
I hate to say this..so I dont speak for all victims..
Some people that are sexually assaulted at a younger age.. tend to have sexual problems as adults.. ranging from pedophilia to nymphomaniac. .
If she is not talking to you..
There is a good chance she is involved with someone. .
Its not uncommon for someone to be talking to several people during the choosing processes. .
Meaning..good chance you was not the only "friend"
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11/18/2014 5:22:32 AM |
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kingslayer99
Galveston, TX
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"What do you do when you think that the person you want to be with don't want you even though she may be the one for you"
Klil her stuff her in a steamer trunk and dump her into the ocean..
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11/18/2014 5:24:00 AM |
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kingslayer99
Galveston, TX
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natureboy:
"Why would you want someone that just got out of a divorce ?"
You really never get laid do you?
HOT divorcee idiot!
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11/18/2014 5:26:18 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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natureboy:
"Why would you want someone that just got out of a divorce ?"
You really never get laid do you?
HOT divorcee idiot!
Dude..
Getting "laid" is so easy..its boring.
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11/18/2014 5:27:27 AM |
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kingslayer99
Galveston, TX
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^ You do have a point!
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11/18/2014 5:34:30 AM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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It may sound like being less of a man..
Id rather just have a woman thatI can confide in and trust..
Be able to hold tight..make love to her..and know that I will get that same in return..
I figure the older I get the easier it would be to find..
But for the most part I just attract married women.. one night stand..or women that have several things revolving in their life..and are clearly not ready..
But... im not a needy soul.. if it happens it happens.. if not.. when I get a urge.. Ill go out on the prowl and take care of buisness.
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11/18/2014 5:41:13 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
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I was sexually assaulted myself but I'm no pedophile or none of that I'm basically normal
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11/18/2014 5:47:49 AM |
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tweakthis2
Clarksville, TN
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It may sound like being less of a man..
Id rather just have a woman thatI can confide in and trust..
Be able to hold tight..make love to her..and know that I will get that same in return..
I figure the older I get the easier it would be to find..
But for the most part I just attract married women.. one night stand..or women that have several things revolving in their life..and are clearly not ready..
But... im not a needy soul.. if it happens it happens.. if not.. when I get a urge.. Ill go out on the prowl and take care of buisness.
No comment
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11/18/2014 5:49:36 AM |
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letitridegirl
Covington, KY
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I was sexually assaulted myself but I'm no pedophile or none of that I'm basically normal
Yea well everyone has had problems in their life either its assaulted, sexually assaulted, drugs, parents on drugs , beaten, or watch their mother get hurt actually 60 % has in america so you got to look forward and keep moving and not make excuses. We have all been heart broken the way I look at it is this person worth a heart break if it does happen? Is always my question? Cause someone always gets hurt at the end if it don't work out
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11/18/2014 5:52:26 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
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What do you do when you think that the person you want to be with don't want you even though she may be the one for you
You man up and move on.
Chances are if she does not even talk to you, she does not want you, and there is nothing you can do about that.
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11/18/2014 6:13:42 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
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That true bro guess I got my hopes up for nothing
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11/18/2014 7:14:47 AM |
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chambella
New South Wales
Australia
94, joined Jun. 2014
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Lick your wounds and move on.. sorry only advice I can give...
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11/18/2014 7:16:08 AM |
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kingslayer99
Galveston, TX
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Quote from kickbuttnow: "I was sexually assaulted myself but I'm no pedophile or none of that I'm basically normal"
Dude you just sunk your own boat!
What a FOOL! No women with a brain is gonna come near your zip code!
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11/18/2014 7:17:55 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
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Yes they will IV dateed plenty of smart woman lol quite making fun of disabled people numb nutts
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11/18/2014 7:21:31 AM |
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xray6
Fort Stewart, GA
27, joined Mar. 2012
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she's only the one because you made her that in your mind
don't believe in the one so I would just go find one more
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11/18/2014 7:31:13 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
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That a good idea
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11/18/2014 7:58:21 AM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
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Just be a really good friend for right now. I'm talking a friend that genuinely is very patient, very patient and understanding.
One who doesn't rush the relationship process but sees her as really wanting to just be a friend without sexual innuendos, or anything like that.
Try to be just her friend and give her time. You're young so you have time to wait and be patient ....give it 3 to 6 months and evaluate it during the interim and take it from there. See what happens.
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11/18/2014 7:59:39 AM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
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she's only the one because you made her that in your mind
don't believe in the one so I would just go find one more
Good point.
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11/18/2014 8:27:07 AM |
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fastpony
Hammond, IN
40, joined Apr. 2007
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you move on,and don't take it so personal. to force one to like you,is showing you have no confidence or self esteem.
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11/18/2014 8:30:40 AM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
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What do you do when you think that the person you want to be with don't want you even though she may be the one for you
Just be a man about it and leave her alone.
One thing about a woman especially one that has a good head on her shoulder...you can't change her and make her feel something that's not there.
If she starts seeing you different, it's not going to be because you're always around her, calling texting..etc.
So let off.
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11/18/2014 8:37:39 AM |
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fastpony
Hammond, IN
40, joined Apr. 2007
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and to really think about it,she might like you for all the wrong reasons that benefit her,or vice versa in your case. you like her because shes hot,has humor,draws in your family around her like a magnet and shes well liked a lot.
maybe she likes you for the financial stability you provide,the great home you have....but underneath it all-youre sour to her,boring in conversation.
the real connection in a couple that will go a long way is the emotional connection.
if you truly feel like the two of you are ONE,its not gonna take you long to feel that,and sense it.
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11/18/2014 8:41:11 AM |
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purdiibirdi
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France
40, joined Aug. 2014
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What do you do when you think that the person you want to be with don't want you even though she may be the one for you
there is nothing you can do if she doesn't want to be with you. you just have to accept being friends and move on. someone else will cross your path eventually.
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11/18/2014 9:53:18 AM |
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candmann73
Petersburg, VA
41, joined Apr. 2014
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I keep it moving I Don't want anyone that dont want me..
People change. Things go wrong. Just remember life goes on.
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11/18/2014 10:01:56 AM |
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sweetmama117
Bronx, NY
54, joined Aug. 2013
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OP: Divorce is never easy,she may be feeling like she failed,
she my have animosity toward her ex. You need to give her space
until these negative feelings lessen. She may even feel confuse
and emotional unstable. You don't want to get in a relationship
with a women that is hurting.
You need to give her space, time to get over her pain.
And why would you want tobe with someone who don't want
you.
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11/18/2014 10:08:34 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
23, joined Sep. 2014
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That the trouble no one does
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11/18/2014 11:28:25 AM |
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lostlove8322
Shelton, CT
31, joined Jul. 2014
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Op you just have to move on, even though you have these feelings for her you can still have feelings but from a distance. That's all you can do. You're not going to change her mind in any way.
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11/18/2014 1:36:01 PM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
32, joined Jul. 2014
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You know what they say about intuition/trusting your gut...
Move on...
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11/18/2014 2:35:04 PM |
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b2cold
Bark River, MI
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Dude op if she don't wanna be wit u she ain't right.
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11/18/2014 2:42:36 PM |
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wafflehuggins
Elizabethton, TN
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^ ^
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11/18/2014 2:46:40 PM |
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b2cold
Bark River, MI
22, joined Mar. 2014
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@waff
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11/18/2014 4:04:09 PM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
23, joined Sep. 2014
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Well maybe she not right her husband or soon to be husband want her back
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11/18/2014 4:38:42 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
49, joined Jul. 2013
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Absolutely Nothing OP
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11/18/2014 7:05:33 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Happens to guys all the time, kid. We're quite interested in them while they cannot find a way to be more disinterested in us.
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11/18/2014 7:06:07 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Nice pic, waffle.
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11/18/2014 7:11:44 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
46, joined Aug. 2013
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Obviously she isn't the one for you if she doesn't feel the same. Keep looking.
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11/18/2014 8:08:45 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
55, joined Mar. 2012
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Dude..don't bother with her!
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11/18/2014 8:29:35 PM |
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dddddc
Billings, MT
31, joined Aug. 2012
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Move on man find another girl
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11/18/2014 8:56:18 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
49, joined Jul. 2014
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i know a way to win anyone even if married,no thanx,or they gotta boyfriend, a woman will allways be tempted by bigger,stronger, sweeter an better lookin, but not a good way, and a beer or 2 an somethin green an smell good.i like m to come to me though naturally,on there own,
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11/18/2014 10:57:16 PM |
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missamicable
Hurst, TX
55, joined Jul. 2014
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OP stop being selfish. She just got divorce,
give her time to heal.
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11/19/2014 5:37:14 AM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
48, joined Jan. 2012
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There are plenty more women out there that will talk to you.
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11/19/2014 6:06:25 AM |
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Eternalnight
Moody, TX
38, joined Oct. 2014
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Get a new one
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11/19/2014 7:58:08 PM |
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jimmco
Monroe, NY
52, joined Sep. 2014
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If she doesn't want you, "how the hell is she the one for you?" Not possible. Love is a two-way street...TWO !!!
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11/19/2014 8:24:56 PM |
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missamicable
Hurst, TX
55, joined Jul. 2014
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Find someone that wants you.
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11/20/2014 8:11:10 AM |
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kickbuttnow
Owensboro, KY
23, joined Sep. 2014
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Find someone that wants you.
where at no one does
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11/20/2014 1:02:40 PM |
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candmann73
Petersburg, VA
41, joined Apr. 2014
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man you're young you're only 23 get out there experience life go to places where women frequent in Iraq with them Owensboro Kentucky population is 50,000 people go hang out in Lexington Louisville largest cities
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11/20/2014 6:27:26 PM |
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larena40
Lemon Grove, CA
42, joined Jan. 2014
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Nothing.
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11/20/2014 6:38:55 PM |
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carmelcb
Leonia, NJ
24, joined May. 2012
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move on.
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11/20/2014 6:55:41 PM |
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legendary_j420
Cicero, IL
22, joined Aug. 2014
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What do you do when you think that the person you want to be with don't want you even though she may be the one for you
You chase that person until you die.
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