Anyone wanna lick deeeeez nutz???

Well Bumblebee i have been here a long time and seen a lot of craziness. I have definitely changed since I been here, hopefully for the good. I've stand up for the nice guy and those who are jerks remain jerks. I only speak the truth. And I KNOW I may come across a certain way. Its up you my viewers to decide if they like it or not.

Please if u don't feel it then that's life the problem is U! You gatta wait no matter how long it takes for true love!

Long but really worth the read.

Ok I am sick of ALL the excuses people make because they can't find the right person to date/marry or they are ONLY running into the the less desirable.

Stop making excuses! Get off your lazy a** up and go change it up!

A poster wrote he only gets the hoes and losers. Well what is he doing to change that...nothing.

Don't worry I have a point.

I changed it up. I wasn't running into my type of guy. Mainly getting guys that I am not compatible with. So I changed my outlook.

I love hiking. So a few years back I joined a volunteer group that runs a visitors center in my local mountains. I love it BINGO, that's my key in finding my type of guy. Have I found him yet, nope, but I am in the right place.

So no more f*cking excuses of way I can't find the right person. Its up to YOU to make it happen.

What are YOU doing to change it up?

A public service announcement by Pickgirl.

Though I found my true love but then he shoved me what a wimp

But it's Christmas. Wasn't Santa supposed to send me my true Love?

I guess i've been naughty.

Dont worry there @Whale, broaden your horizons and come meet me at the gun range.
I will try not to use you for target practice.

I think it's more complicated than changing your outlook, in terms of breaking out of your old routines and developing new ones.

Some people feel like the obligations behind fulfilling the objectives in sustaining a healthy relationship, are not worth pursuing, knowing all the tribulations that come with losing somebody you truly love.

And I'm not complaining I've loved and I've lost. One of the most beautifulest things in this world, is being with somebody that makes you feel like you can conquer the world! But these are dreams of grandeur, that sometimes due come true. when all the variables are aligned.

This places you on the winning team, if you have the proper supporting cast, and the bond is cohesive.

And there lies the distinction having the right supporting cast, which goes back to OP's original comment on changing your outlook, not just the different situations you could physically place yourself in, but the mental state that goes along with having an open mind, leading into the situation.

If everybody has a wall up, how do you let the things you value the most, enter your way of being, if there's no room for improvement.

They have dictionaries for translating from one to the other.

The problem is that there are two types of people here. Those who are looking to hook up with finances disguised as looking for romance and those who won't accept anyone who is not at least as wealthy as they are.

It is a jousting match with words to see if someone qualifies by how they present themselves.

I have had all the women I want that did not have as much wealth as I do to offer in a relationship. If a woman doesn't have as much wealth as I do I don't care what else she has to offer.

I won't be controlled by my little head again. Two people have to be on the same page or one is always giving and one is always taking.

Pylgram