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jayp2677
Midland, TX
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Women, you ever really wonder why a man cheats? Most woman say because we're dogs. Truth is a woman can be compared in the same way. Let's be real or let me say for myself. I wasn't in a relationship before just for the hell of it. I didn't go in saying " oh I'm going to cheat"! Shit happens, guys get tired of the BS the same way that woman get tired of our BS. Two way street. Just relax. Drink a cup of coffee it will all work out. " it's not you hun, it's me"
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| 2/5/2015 11:48:50 PM |
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unique_woman
Omaha, NE
27, joined Dec. 2014
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I see & I agree 
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| 2/5/2015 11:57:02 PM |
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jayp2677
Midland, TX
30, joined Jun. 2014
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I'm glad at least someone agrees lol
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| 2/6/2015 12:04:34 AM |
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truckerdaddy915
El Paso, TX
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Don't read too much into that psycho Unique_woman agreeing with you.
That being said.
Men are dogs, women are wh*res.
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| 2/6/2015 12:11:42 AM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
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| 2/6/2015 12:14:00 AM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
36, joined Apr. 2014
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cheating is deception or at least in my interpretation of the word
if you've communicated what you're going to do, PRIOR, then it's obviously not cheating
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| 2/6/2015 12:22:12 AM |
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bigdinv
Houston, TX
83, joined Sep. 2011
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This topic shows up at least twice a week.
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| 2/6/2015 12:32:34 AM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
36, joined Apr. 2014
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and so do you getting redundant huh?
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| 2/6/2015 12:39:15 AM |
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bigdinv
Houston, TX
83, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm a staple.
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| 2/6/2015 12:40:09 AM |
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luxorus
Peoria, IL
36, joined Apr. 2014
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what's the cat's name? doesn't look like it cheats
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| 2/6/2015 12:43:08 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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<--- never cheats, will not cheat.
cheating is for cowards who can't confront their mate about problems they are having.
Men and women cheat. That is fact. People need to grow up and take responibility for their own actions.
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| 2/6/2015 1:23:41 AM |
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norwegianwood64
Huntsville, AL
51, joined Jul. 2014
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People cheat because they are addicted to drama. Rarely does someone who is married or in a relationship cheat who would do it with the same person if they were single.
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| 2/6/2015 1:31:12 AM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Ok op...but you'll be drinkin your coffee on the porch..along with all your belongings...
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| 2/6/2015 4:00:30 AM |
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kamlila0
Wilmington, NC
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Ok op...but you'll be drinkin your coffee on the porch..along with all your belongings...
This is funny but you wouldn't be sitting on the porch, you would be in the yard with the rest of the dirt.
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| 2/6/2015 4:14:39 AM |
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ltlwing
Williamsburg, OH
51, joined Oct. 2013
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<--- never cheats, will not cheat.
cheating is for cowards who can't confront their mate about problems they are having.
Men and women cheat. That is fact. People need to grow up and take responibility for their own actions.
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| 2/6/2015 5:59:28 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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We?
nope, not all of us cheat.
Speak for yourself, and your justifications.
but its true both genders have cheaters in them, and its likely about equal, and both are just as bad...no excuses.
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| 2/6/2015 6:28:34 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009
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"Shit happens" when you choose for it to happen, dude.
If you continue to go around telling everyone that you were just walking down the street, minding our own business, and you just slipped on a piece of dog poop and landed naked between another woman's (or man's... making no assumptions about you bro) legs, the authorities are going to correctly take you into protective custody.
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| 2/6/2015 12:14:21 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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The only common reason why we cheat is "ppl simply love variety"
But as far as the different reasons.......?????
Men only have one real reason. YOUR NOT MAKING HIM HAPPY AT HOME! By using sex as a weapon, too much drama, running off at the mouth and don't know when STFU! A man will serk sex whereever these elements aren't and issue.
Women cheat for various reasons. Bcuz they're planning exit where they believe the grass in greener. Just for th he thrill of doing it and not getting caught. To have their as nd eat it too. To strike and be vengeful, to hurt and intentionally break hearts. To plot by using the pregnancy to trap a better man than the one she have. And there's a few others.
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| 2/6/2015 2:46:13 PM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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We?
nope, not all of us cheat.
Speak for yourself, and your justifications.
but its true both genders have cheaters in them, and its likely about equal, and both are just as bad...no excuses.
No good excuse to cheat. But the ones who do cheat do use excuses for it.
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| 2/6/2015 3:30:47 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Yep...and I don't like the insinuation he used as "we".....or the excuses.
Sometimes I'll see a thread or comment about being made to spread seeds and whatever as excuses.
That's a bullshit excuse for weakness...or a bad attitude.
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| 2/6/2015 3:41:07 PM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
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Some people think cheating is okay as long as they get what they want, & usually completely blame the other person.
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| 2/6/2015 4:02:26 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
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Some do, some admit it to themselves, that's just how they are...and they know it.
There are many ways it can happen.
you can have a non cheating type, who is usually strong willed....but all the key ingredients came into place, and they did, what they thought, they would never do.
But I would think if that happens with that type of person, they would blame themselves.
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| 2/6/2015 4:35:53 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
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Women, you ever really wonder why a man cheats? Most woman say because we're dogs. Truth is a woman can be compared in the same way. Let's be real or let me say for myself. I wasn't in a relationship before just for the hell of it. I didn't go in saying " oh I'm going to cheat"! Shit happens, guys get tired of the BS the same way that woman get tired of our BS. Two way street. Just relax. Drink a cup of coffee it will all work out. " it's not you hun, it's me"
well duh.
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| 2/6/2015 5:05:02 PM |
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numbersor_only
Austin, TX
55, joined Nov. 2014
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Shit happens
I can see how that excuse would be you last best hope.
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| 2/6/2015 5:06:49 PM |
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mishelllynne89
East Liverpool, OH
26, joined Jan. 2015
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Agree 100%
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| 2/6/2015 5:07:45 PM |
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mishelllynne89
East Liverpool, OH
26, joined Jan. 2015
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<--- never cheats, will not cheat.
cheating is for cowards who can't confront their mate about problems they are having.
Men and women cheat. That is fact. People need to grow up and take responibility for their own actions.
Agree 100%
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| 2/6/2015 5:19:22 PM |
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extortionegos
Hayward, CA
37, joined Apr. 2014
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In checkers I cheated to win. It was the only time tho. Promise 
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| 2/6/2015 6:28:14 PM |
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jayp2677
Midland, TX
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You know this is a forum. Everyone has different opinions. I randomly stated my opinion, which is hilarious never in that statement did I say I cheated. I was making a comparison between men and women on how each can be compared in the same way when it comes to cheating. Only reason I'm explaining is definitely not because I give a dang what some of you think, but so people don't randomly twist my words. At least I can tell some of you would make great paparazzi. 
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| 2/6/2015 7:24:32 PM |
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ctr916v2
Roseville, CA
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It is not cheating if we are honest about it.
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| 2/6/2015 7:33:28 PM |
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poet987
Tiffin, OH
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There are no excuses for cheaters. Its low class...especially if there are children...u r cheating them too. If u show love to someone and they refuse affection and wont listen then dump them....cheating is for cowards
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| 2/7/2015 9:53:59 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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I cheated twice and PERFECTLY JUSTIFIED each time. But my experiences taught me that you still lose even if you was justified.
And what you lose isn't worth the justification. Your time, money, patience, dignity, trust and more. Plus if you love that person, all that cheating won't stop you from feeling empty or being hurt when THEY start seeing someone else.
Lesson is.... if you feel a need to cheat its ALWAYS BEST TO JUST LEAVE AND START OVER!
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| 2/7/2015 10:03:15 AM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
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How is cheating at anything ever justified? I'm curious.
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| 2/7/2015 1:52:47 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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How is cheating at anything ever justified? I'm curious.
Well its a long story and an interesting one. Want me to msg you?
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| 2/7/2015 2:00:58 PM |
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Whiszper2me
Carlisle, PA
49, joined Jan. 2015
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You/ me cannot get all your needs met in one man/woman. What's your definition of cheating? Sex, chatting, thinking about him/her while you pleasure yourself. I never planned to cheat it just happened.
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| 2/7/2015 2:01:44 PM |
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PlanJane2
White, GA
30, joined Nov. 2014
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Wh*resssss lol
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| 2/7/2015 2:25:21 PM |
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numbersor_only
Austin, TX
55, joined Nov. 2014
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How is cheating at anything ever justified? I'm curious.
It is justified in all sorts of ways. Justifying cheating is big business. Ask any lawyer.
Rules can be imposed from outside authorities, that you have to deal with, or they can be your own rules, that you value. For dealing with rules set on you, cheating is freedom from tyranny. In romantic situations a lack of character means all rules will be externally based and tyrannical, so cheating is always justified. Loyalty and honesty only matter to people who have principles. They don't cheat. It's like the difference between tall people and short people. Tall people don't need to grab a ladder to get something off the top shelf. Short people need ladders all the time. Cheaters are short people and ladders are justified in their world.
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| 2/7/2015 2:33:21 PM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
49, joined Mar. 2008
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Man was not created to be monogamous.
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| 2/7/2015 2:47:50 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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@ whisz:
We all know what cheating is. Altimatdly its the sex so any and all things leading up to it as well.
You know that dude on your job got eyes for you. So taking his number is cheating. Bcuz by your action you began the process to end up in bed with him.
That guy knows that chic a KFC got the hots for him the way she flirts with him when he goes in there. If he take her number or agree to have an dealing with her outside of a $5 fill up box (not her hot box) is starting the process.
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| 2/7/2015 2:52:13 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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Wh*resssss lol
Not just the ones who cheat but the one who want ATTENTIION TOO. Cheating wh*res, attention wh*res, they all the same. ANNOYING and OBNOXIOUS. Ain't that right Jane? You wh*re!
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| 2/7/2015 2:55:10 PM |
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PlanJane2
White, GA
30, joined Nov. 2014
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I need to ween you off my tittie
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| 2/7/2015 2:55:27 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
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It is justified in all sorts of ways. Justifying cheating is big business. Ask any lawyer.
Rules can be imposed from outside authorities, that you have to deal with, or they can be your own rules, that you value. For dealing with rules set on you, cheating is freedom from tyranny. In romantic situations a lack of character means all rules will be externally based and tyrannical, so cheating is always justified. Loyalty and honesty only matter to people who have principles. They don't cheat. It's like the difference between tall people and short people. Tall people don't need to grab a ladder to get something off the top shelf. Short people need ladders all the time. Cheaters are short people and ladders are justified in their world.
no thanks dr knows... your story couldn't compete with this response
While I don't necessarily agree with all aspects of it, I must say..this response is one of those moments of brilliance that keeps me wandering the threads of DH!
Thank you Sir!
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| 2/7/2015 2:58:35 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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To add to what numbersor said... the best example of lawful cheating is when I married woman cheats on her husband, have a child by another man and the courts FORCE her husband to take care of that child.
They justified her cheating by saying she was married when she did it. Never mind adultery just punish the husband for being a good man.
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| 2/7/2015 3:01:45 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
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To add to what numbersor said... the best example of lawful cheating is when I married woman cheats on her husband, have a child by another man and the courts FORCE her husband to take care of that child.
They justified her cheating by saying she was married when she did it. Never mind adultery just punish the husband for being a good man.
In no way does that justify cheating...that's just you going off on a tangent rant.
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| 2/7/2015 3:58:18 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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In no way does that justify cheating...that's just you going off on a tangent rant.
Oh no baby! I don't agree with that not at all. Thats like agreeing to my own vasectomy.
Life isn't that bad yet.
I was simply saying thats how THEY nustify it in the court system. My personal experience was nothing like that, nothing.
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| 2/7/2015 4:13:25 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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I need to ween you off my tittie
Spoken like a true wh*re. No one want your nasty, jism covered, crusty a** titty lil girl. 
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| 2/10/2015 6:27:34 PM |
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dream445
Cottonport, LA
36, joined Oct. 2014
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Spoken like a true wh*re. No one want your nasty, jism covered, crusty a** titty lil girl.
This ole b*tch a** punk still feuding with women in the forums,why don't you do us all a favor,ole Clark kent eyeglasses wearing b*tch,why don't you take out some time and stick a tampon in your mouth,because your mouth talk more shit than your a** do!!!!! I can tell your daddy wasn't in your life,and your mom raised you wrong,she should have never let you polish your nails as a lil boy coming up,all that did was made you b*tch material
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| 2/10/2015 6:38:12 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
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This ole b*tch a** punk still feuding with women in the forums,why don't you do us all a favor,ole Clark kent eyeglasses wearing b*tch,why don't you take out some time and stick a tampon in your mouth,because your mouth talk more shit than your a** do!!!!! I can tell your daddy wasn't in your life,and your mom raised you wrong,she should have never let you polish your nails as a lil boy coming up,all that did was made you b*tch material
His mama was busy bringing in all the "boyz from the hood" turnin trix to get her next fix. Guess that's where he learned gang rape as an alternative to securing a good relationship. I guess the only way he can actually have sex is to have his "boyz" hold a woman down. Oh, & then take her money! ($37 split 7 ways) Maybe we should call the punk "2 buck Chuck" cuz that's probably what he got after him & his "boyz" split the money they took from the woman he GANG RAPED!
Doc, the law hasn't paid you a visit yet? Maybe they're just following you around for a bit to catch you committing your NEXT felony. (careful not to drop the soap.....)
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| 2/10/2015 6:58:20 PM |
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dream445
Cottonport, LA
36, joined Oct. 2014
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His mama was busy bringing in all the "boyz from the hood" turnin trix to get her next fix. Guess that's where he learned gang rape as an alternative to securing a good relationship. I guess the only way he can actually have sex is to have his "boyz" hold a woman down. Oh, & then take her money! ($37 split 7 ways) Maybe we should call the punk "2 buck Chuck" cuz that's probably what he got after him & his "boyz" split the money they took from the woman he GANG RAPED!
Doc, the law hasn't paid you a visit yet? Maybe they're just following you around for a bit to catch you committing your NEXT felony. (careful not to drop the soap.....)
cinnamonn dropping the soap wouldn't matter to him anyway,he's already use to getting f**ked,with his b*tch ass
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| 2/10/2015 7:02:17 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
55, joined Jul. 2010
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Because some will put their desires before obligation, they think they get away w/it, they rationalize double dipping by convincing themselves that they deserve it/entitled to it because they can/for retribution or revenge/justified because they've been wronged or the all time favorite, it's in my DNA and that's why I cannot keep in in my pants/keep my pants on.
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| 2/10/2015 7:27:36 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
51, joined Apr. 2014
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Dreams!
How's it going? I see you're keeping up with the good fight!
With all the "rational" reasons given here for cheating, I guess it would have been "justified" for ME to cheat on my ex. Oops. I never did. My bad.
Picky
I'm with you. I don't cheat. I don't give a rats a** what my "partner" does. If I were to cheat I'd only be breaking my own vows. I'm not willing to lower myself to that level.
Grow a pair. End it. Move on.
btw, I'll take any "mangina" over any of these insecure, self involved, low life, male wanna-be's any day. And on a side note, most of the wealthy men I know (from work or my personal life) are "manginas" & damn proud of it. They get the money AND the women! "
"Manginas" don't have to GANG RAPE a woman to get their rocks off.
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| 2/10/2015 8:10:10 PM |
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archer513
Cincinnati, OH
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haze. Keepin up the good fight I see.lol
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| 2/10/2015 8:42:07 PM |
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cinnamonnhaze
Minneapolis, MN
51, joined Apr. 2014
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Archer!
Love the new pic! Must be your highschool grad pic, huh? (wink!)
The "good fight"? Youbetcha! I'm not gonna let swine give you good guys a bad name!
I think it's funny that the dum fuks don't even realize how stupid they sound. I mean, you can't even make this sh*t up!
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| 2/11/2015 8:42:52 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
59, joined Apr. 2011
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You know this is a forum. Everyone has different opinions. I randomly stated my opinion, which is hilarious never in that statement did I say I cheated. I was making a comparison between men and women on how each can be compared in the same way when it comes to cheating. Only reason I'm explaining is definitely not because I give a dang what some of you think, but so people don't randomly twist my words. At least I can tell some of you would make great paparazzi.
Instead of blaming us....why not learn from this and learn to compose a thread exactly how you mean.
Many answer the title more than the question.....and you stated...Why do we cheat? there you go....you didn't say...why do some cheat?.
and then you express only one particular reason why some cheat, when there are several, and you leaned the post in the direction of women, more than men, and mentioned getting bored with them.
Well...with all that, you got the answers that would be expected...
when you concoct a format for a thread....read it several times and try to do it as a reader who doesn't know what your intentions were.
Then adjust the thread to get across your point as you had it in your mind, so that others who can't read your mind, understand your point.
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| 2/11/2015 9:22:13 AM |
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iceheart86
Florence, OR
28, joined Jan. 2015
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F**k her right in the p*ssy!
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| 2/11/2015 9:27:29 AM |
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wnts2byrs
Conway, AR
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Men & women cheat for the same reasons. I don't believe there is one reason that is gender specific.
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| 2/11/2015 11:02:40 PM |
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jayp2677
Midland, TX
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Instead of blaming us....why not learn from this and learn to compose a thread exactly how you mean.
Many answer the title more than the question.....and you stated...Why do we cheat? there you go....you didn't say...why do some cheat?.
and then you express only one particular reason why some cheat, when there are several, and you leaned the post in the direction of women, more than men, and mentioned getting bored with them.
Well...with all that, you got the answers that would be expected...
when you concoct a format for a thread....read it several times and try to do it as a reader who doesn't know what your intentions were.
Then adjust the thread to get across your point as you had it in your mind, so that others who can't read your mind, understand your point.
Well taken
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ymia_dikhed
Gresham, OR
41, joined Dec. 2011
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Women, you ever really wonder why a man cheats? Most woman say because we're dogs. Truth is a woman can be compared in the same way. Let's be real or let me say for myself. I wasn't in a relationship before just for the hell of it. I didn't go in saying " oh I'm going to cheat"! Shit happens, guys get tired of the BS the same way that woman get tired of our BS. Two way street. Just relax. Drink a cup of coffee it will all work out. " it's not you hun, it's me"
If your Woman was to cheat on you then I wonder if you would really, honestly enjoy that coffee while you were "just relaxing"?
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| 2/11/2015 11:46:34 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
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I don't see anything wrong with how OP asked his question. Truth is if you never cheated then you've been cheated on. He didn't make his question specific to any group or circle bcuz he wanted EVERYONES opinion on it.
No one should have to go to journalism college to post a simple question in a forum. The intelligent thing to do if you don't understand the questkon or how its being presented is TO ASK. Then you wouldn't have to give crazy, off the wall answers bcuz you assumed instead of asking.
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| 2/12/2015 12:20:09 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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@ dreamer:
You asked me to send you my address so you can come do all this damage but all you did was run your mouth. Trying to pass yourself off to be some tough guy, PLEASE!
Gave you that address 3 times. Care to tell everyone why you didn't show? I don't think you will. You'll just run off at your mouth some more.
If you were a fraction of the man you think you are you woulda been here. Clown!
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
35, joined Mar. 2014
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People cheat because they are weak willed. Class dismissed.
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