2/7/2015 9:41:41 PM |
What are some questions you ask well on a date? |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Do u throw out the weird and off the wall questions?
Or stick to the norm and obvious?
Or any date ask you anything off the wall/weird?
StAy oN ToPIc.
Humor is welcome. Enjoy!
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2/8/2015 6:54:07 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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Nothing I ask seems weird to me, but I know I've come across as weird anyway, at times. Just a matter of what I happen to notice and comment on, as compared to what others do.
I usually stick to the here and now, rather than plan things to say. No doubt that's part of why I'm so lousy at this whole dating thing.
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2/8/2015 9:28:05 AM |
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allseeme2
Manassas, VA
65, joined Feb. 2014
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haha! I myself ask the norm,and then wait an see what his questions are an try to answer them..a few questions to me are personal I think..and shouldn't be ask one the first date.Once I met a man,planned on having dinner,he sat right beside me,not long into our talk,,he grabbed my P---,lol he had my drink on his lap!! I got up and walked out!You don't do that when you first meet! this guy was 7 years older then me,,so I felt safe hahahaha ,my bad
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2/8/2015 12:29:18 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Stick to the basics, before i go in on him
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2/8/2015 1:02:21 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I probably start with the basics and work my way into the weird questions.
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2/8/2015 1:15:22 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
60, joined Aug. 2011
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Nothing I ask seems weird to me, but I know I've come across as weird anyway, at times. Just a matter of what I happen to notice and comment on, as compared to what others do.
I usually stick to the here and now, rather than plan things to say. No doubt that's part of why I'm so lousy at this whole dating thing.
I have the same issues. Since I'm not too interested in the various media baloney, most sporting events mean diddly. If I have to count on that sort of worthless talk to impress someone, I'd rather not bother. Besides, what women I've met lately, can't seem to hold up their end of the conversation.
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2/8/2015 4:30:26 PM |
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allseeme2
Manassas, VA
65, joined Feb. 2014
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I have the same issues. Since I'm not too interested in the various media baloney, most sporting events mean diddly. If I have to count on that sort of worthless talk to impress someone, I'd rather not bother. Besides, what women I've met lately, can't seem to hold up their end of the conversation.
Well myself im a talker,once I warm up to that person,,but to talk about sports nawww not me.there is life after sports that seem more interesting in talking about.
I also don't have aplan on what to ask,just the norm at first.
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2/8/2015 11:24:25 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I do not have tv reception, I do not read the tabloid mags, I do not follow politics or sports and do not keep up on the latest new movies.
I ask simple things about life and hobbies. I do not make it complicated.
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2/12/2015 10:25:59 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Just realized my mistake in my title...ugh
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2/12/2015 3:56:55 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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I always proof read before I post, learned the hard way.
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2/12/2015 9:06:26 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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^^^I usually do, but I guess I didn't. Ok people make fun of me
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2/12/2015 9:52:47 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Never was I making fun of you...just advice.
Are you that sensitive?
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2/13/2015 1:20:43 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Never was I making fun of you...just advice.
Are you that sensitive?
sometimes things hit me differently when my mood is off.
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2/13/2015 7:26:24 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
50, joined Mar. 2008
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Are you into bondage?
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2/14/2015 9:39:32 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I usually ask about their ex's.
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2/15/2015 12:05:14 AM |
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mccirrus
Indianapolis, IN
37, joined Nov. 2010
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I have a tendency of inquiring as to how many times has she cum so far followed by a trivial "wanna get on top" question.
BTW, I was slight worried about going off on a tangent, but I def stayed on topic! Wheew, good job me!
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2/15/2015 12:52:26 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I have a tendency of inquiring as to how many times has she cum so far followed by a trivial "wanna get on top" question.
how is this working out for you.
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2/15/2015 12:56:15 AM |
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mccirrus
Indianapolis, IN
37, joined Nov. 2010
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Obviously it's working quite well for me.
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2/15/2015 9:51:09 AM |
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4uijack
New Port Richey, FL
81, joined Aug. 2013
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sometimes things hit me differently when my mood is off.
Step up the prozac
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2/15/2015 1:23:57 PM |
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mccirrus
Indianapolis, IN
37, joined Nov. 2010
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2/16/2015 1:08:06 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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I usually ask about their ex's.
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2/16/2015 3:38:39 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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i ask everything. I want to know why he broke up or got divorced.
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2/16/2015 3:49:39 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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I don't think you are picky, I think you are nosey.
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2/16/2015 4:05:20 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Are you into bowling?
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2/16/2015 6:09:35 PM |
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dmolark
Chicago, IL
64, joined Jun. 2014
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'do you smoke weed?' and if she don't then i say, 'i don't either, but i have always been curious.' and if she don't pick up the hint, i be cool and say, 'babe, you make me contact-touch high already, honey.'
if none of this works, then my eyes twist to the back of my head and i say, 'what your favorite tv programs?' and since i don't keep up on these, i let her enliven herself by asking her to elaborate plot intricacies.
or i ask her who she like best, jessie jackson or al sharpton? and i would act like i take the other side. she my girl if she take up both.
if she like old school songs, then i start signing, 'papa was a rolling stone,' that's usually a winner.
i ask her had she ever tried purple lipstick. that get's a smile. and then i say lets go to navy pier ferris wheel and see the sky baby.
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2/16/2015 6:33:19 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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At what point do you eat the mushrooms?
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2/16/2015 6:35:44 PM |
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dmolark
Chicago, IL
64, joined Jun. 2014
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when the pizza ready, smurf
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2/17/2015 4:30:52 AM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
54, joined May. 2013
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I like to get a feel for who they are. I enjoy hearing about their family. When they start drilling me about my job I see a red flag that their main concern is money and not love.
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2/17/2015 1:58:52 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I don't think you are picky, I think you are nosey.
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2/17/2015 5:00:05 PM |
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hurryme
Bloomingdale, GA
51, joined Mar. 2011
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Are you waving a finger at me? Me?
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2/18/2015 2:44:12 AM |
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dmolark
Chicago, IL
64, joined Jun. 2014
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yeap
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2/19/2015 5:59:59 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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you gotta know somethings,an i know this ,,thing,, was rude an cruel as hell to me when i started on here very mean along with others,, an what you do will come back to you.
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2/21/2015 1:08:50 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I definitely fo not care how big it is
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2/22/2015 8:52:15 PM |
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arizonasunshine
Wayzata, MN
34, joined Dec. 2008
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The basic question is..who are you? What are your values? What are your interests? Do we share common values? We may have our own interests, shall we observe each other's interests? Can we get along?
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2/23/2015 2:22:00 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Do u smoke, drink or do drugs?
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2/23/2015 7:23:03 AM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
50, joined Apr. 2013
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I just let them ramble then think...could I put up with that for a long time?
I also let them ask questions...but if it turns into an interview I get more picky. Interviews require shaking hands and displaying proper manners. If they don't push in their chair after dinner then I know they are not safety minded...thus fail the interview!
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2/23/2015 8:22:37 PM |
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b2cold
Elk Grove Village, IL
36, joined Mar. 2014
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Do you have a job? What are your plans? Fav food. Things like that.
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2/23/2015 9:24:25 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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if it turns into an interview I get more 'picky'.
Yes someone called me?
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2/25/2015 10:35:23 AM |
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miss_lihle
West Palm Beach, FL
30, joined Jul. 2014
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Basics first. ...
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2/25/2015 10:47:55 AM |
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miss_lihle
West Palm Beach, FL
30, joined Jul. 2014
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How long have you been single
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2/27/2015 2:54:11 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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^^^and or divorced.
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2/27/2015 7:01:19 AM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
50, joined Apr. 2013
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Ask how much he has in his bank account...if you lost interest after meeting.
If he answers then insist on going to see it with ATM results!
Scares them off and gives them a good story!
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2/27/2015 1:18:03 PM |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
63, joined Feb. 2009
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Ask how much he has in his bank account...if you lost interest after meeting.
If he answers then insist on going to see it with ATM results!
Scares them off and gives them a good story!
I keep my money under the mattress, wanna check it out?
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2/27/2015 4:18:30 PM |
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my2sunshine
Pulaski, NY
50, joined Apr. 2013
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I'm still waiting for that plane ticket!
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2/28/2015 2:01:06 PM |
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alenkiy
Port Washington, NY
56, joined Dec. 2014
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yep I did it I don't know why ? they block me :'(
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3/1/2015 10:31:04 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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yep I did it I don't know why ? they block me :'(
it happens.
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3/22/2015 1:16:18 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Do u have any children or want any kids?
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4/22/2015 9:44:02 PM |
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pudiitatt
Barstow, CA
50, joined Aug. 2014
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I have specific questions I ask, yes.
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4/23/2015 1:07:25 AM |
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peachy1954
Sacramento, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010
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Since I rarely date someone who is a stranger I ask about something I know they have been doing and go from there.
Generally if I don't know them or very little I just ask some basics like did they always live where they do now and what influenced them to live where they live now.
Since for most people their job is a big part of their life I try to let them say something about it without making them feel I am doing a financial inquiry. Like did they have an easy or unusual day at work.
I rarely ask about Ex's and usually leave the questions about kids until they bring them up. I am dating them and unless a big part of their life is related to their kids activities or needs then I wait until they seem to want an opinion about what is going on as parents. Generally Ex's are exs for a reason and I really don't want to here the gory details when if you watch how he treats you then you should have a pretty good clue. Since I figure how he talks about and Ex is going to be pretty close to how he is going to talk about me so someone who whines or b*tches gets deleted pretty fast and someone who talks like their partner was their whole life gets disbelieved because obviously they are divorced or widowed and they are still here. I hav e not compelling need to qualify why I am single at this point so why do I need to know anything more than they are in fact single. That is a question experience has taught me to ask very early on and in no uncertain terms.
Since I have learned from experience compatible lifestyles tend to make the best matches that is what I am going to lead with. I may ask about a hobby or favorite food or pets because that often gives clues what they are about.
I keep in mind that communication is one part speaking and two parts listening and generally if you make a person feel comfortable they will tell you the important stuff.
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4/24/2015 5:00:18 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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^^^Man i read all that
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6/18/2015 11:59:32 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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What would be your favorite job?
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7/16/2015 1:35:31 PM |
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jjp184
Somerset, NJ
52, joined Jun. 2013
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Any STD's? if the answer is no, drop the laundry!
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7/18/2015 4:13:36 PM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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All ask a bunch if stuff
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7/18/2015 4:17:23 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010
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Go out w/other losers
much?
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7/20/2015 10:15:55 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Do you like dogs?
This is important even more important than liking kids.
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7/20/2015 9:53:52 PM |
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edartman
Lexington, NC
69, joined Sep. 2011
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Here is some humor...
(I was asked about it, but ON THE PHONE, BEFORE the first date).
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7/22/2015 5:28:20 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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Likes and dislikes
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7/23/2015 1:35:26 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Do you own guns?
How close are you to your family?
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8/18/2015 4:03:05 AM |
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pagal17
Lancaster, PA
51, joined May. 2012
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I ask them what was one of their fondest moments and ask what their best friend is like.
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8/18/2015 4:50:01 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
51, joined Jul. 2013
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What kind of relationship are u looking for?
Are u close with your family?
What u like about me?
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