| 3/15/2015 9:06:51 PM |
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romain85x
San Diego, CA
30, joined Nov. 2014
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It isn't a random thing. I use to date the woman before before we broke up. We recently started seeing each other. We've had 4 get togethers. Yesterday I told that I would like thingd to go back to how they were before the break up.
I haven't heard from her since. She's been silent. I figured I should tell what I wanted, and see how she would react.
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| 3/15/2015 9:14:37 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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Evidently she didn't like the way it was before, so she disappeared on u, u just should have start from scratch and not try to get back to the way it was
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| 3/15/2015 9:17:27 PM |
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naturebiy
Bangkok
Thailand
39, joined Jul. 2011
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Just ignore her..
You said what you had to..
She is grown up and fully understands what you are saying.
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| 3/15/2015 9:52:06 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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ANYTHING you can say can and WILL be used against you sooner or later even if it is complimentary.
You told her, you lost. Dump her again, lose her number and email and find someone who can appreciate you. This babe doesn't want you.
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| 3/15/2015 11:03:00 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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Being that honest never got me anywhere. But communication is important if you want the relationship to go anywhere. At least you found out before you spent much time on her.
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| 3/15/2015 11:36:52 PM |
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dixie_dancer
Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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You just scratched her itch
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| 3/15/2015 11:43:10 PM |
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lucky_1million
Pewaukee, WI
48, joined Jun. 2013
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It isn't a random thing. I use to date the woman before before we broke up. We recently started seeing each other. We've had 4 get togethers. Yesterday I told that I would like thingd to go back to how they were before the break up.
I haven't heard from her since. She's been silent. I figured I should tell what I wanted, and see how she would react.
Did you send a text message?
Some of these conversations are better face to face so that you can get better feedback.
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| 3/16/2015 1:57:15 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
44, joined Sep. 2011
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Sometimes people only remember the good times and think the relationship was wonderful.
OP obviously it wasn't.
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| 3/16/2015 2:02:17 AM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
55, joined Sep. 2012
online now!
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Better to find out ASAP that she's NOT thinking what you are.
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| 3/16/2015 2:20:23 AM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
56, joined Mar. 2012
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Well now you know op...good for you
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| 3/16/2015 3:50:49 AM |
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theloser2123
Manassas, VA
23, joined Apr. 2014
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Clearly she wants better d*ck then your p*ssy a** can give
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| 3/16/2015 6:47:48 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
61, joined Sep. 2009
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It isn't a random thing. I use to date the woman before before we broke up. We recently started seeing each other. We've had 4 get togethers. Yesterday I told that I would like thingd to go back to how they were before the break up.
I haven't heard from her since. She's been silent. I figured I should tell what I wanted, and see how she would react.
This begs the question: why exactly did you break up? Why did you try to get back together?
Most of the time, the reason why people DO break up, is because their relationship isn't working for them. Saying that you want things to go back to being "how they were before the breakup," might well be the same thing as saying "lets behave the same way we did when we discovered we didn't belong together."
For example, if one person was dominating, selfish, manipulative, or otherwise callous about the other, and this led to the breakup....and then both decided to try again, in hopes that lessons had been learned...and then that selfish person proved that they hadn't learned a damn thing after all by saying "I want everything to be the way it was before," that would be a very good reason for the other one to hit the door running.
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| 3/16/2015 6:50:35 AM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
46, joined Sep. 2014
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Op....
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| 3/16/2015 7:27:24 AM |
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lovetodoit
Buffalo, MO
59, joined Sep. 2011
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It isn't a random thing. I use to date the woman before before we broke up. We recently started seeing each other. We've had 4 get togethers. Yesterday I told that I would like thingd to go back to how they were before the break up.
I haven't heard from her since. She's been silent. I figured I should tell what I wanted, and see how she would react.
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you did get a reaction , probably not the one you wanted. If you hadn't told her it would bug you more not knowing now what you do is ease along
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| 3/16/2015 8:29:14 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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It depends on the girl and the situation.
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| 3/16/2015 8:31:23 AM |
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Champaree
Australian Capital
Australia
84, joined Jan. 2015
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Give her time, she is thinking about it. Can't rush these things.
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| 3/16/2015 8:51:25 AM |
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sweetmama117
Bronx, NY
55, joined Aug. 2013
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OP
If there was a break up then things weren't going well.
And you just told her the day before give her chance to
think if that's what she wants and what needs to change
to make it work this time around. No it wasn't foolish
the only way to find out where you stand is by communicating.
Good luck 
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| 3/16/2015 9:54:57 AM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012
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It isn't a random thing. I use to date the woman before before we broke up. We recently started seeing each other. We've had 4 get togethers. Yesterday I told that I would like thingd to go back to how they were before the break up.
I haven't heard from her since. She's been silent. I figured I should tell what I wanted, and see how she would react.
You dated her before you broke up? Isn't that the usual order of things in the dating world? 
Just dump her. Why go back with an EX anyway? Why can't people learn you don't do that. She thought she could just hang with you until she found something better eventually and didn't intend on being with you in a real relationship. Get with the program dude.
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| 3/16/2015 11:48:25 AM |
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allseeme2
Manassas, VA
64, joined Feb. 2014
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You made the big mistake in saying.go back to where it was before the breakup! Well if it wasn't working then,why should it work now? She doesn't want what use to be,she didn't like it then,so I would forget about her an move on,unless your to scared to look,or to lazy to do so!?
Good Luck to you OP
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| 3/16/2015 12:28:31 PM |
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bigdinv
Houston, TX
34, joined Sep. 2011
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Telling a girl that you would like to wear her skin is a bad idea.
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| 3/16/2015 12:33:19 PM |
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greeleybro
Longmont, CO
47, joined Oct. 2013
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Never tell them how you feel.
They don't need anymore ammunition than they.already have to make u miserable...
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| 3/16/2015 8:11:05 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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Foolish. Why give her ammo to use against you?
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| 3/17/2015 3:59:11 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
55, joined Feb. 2010
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It isn't a random thing. I use to date the woman before before we broke up. We recently started seeing each other. We've had 4 get togethers. Yesterday I told that I would like thingd to go back to how they were before the break up.
I haven't heard from her since. She's been silent. I figured I should tell what I wanted, and see how she would react.
Well her silence says it all. Just move on.
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| 3/17/2015 5:45:32 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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I just pee in her butt. Why bring feelings into it?
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| 3/18/2015 1:01:28 PM |
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wildfir
Albany, IN
43, joined Sep. 2013
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There is a time and place to tell a woman how u feel about her. I'm single and don't have this problem thank god. But if u broke up there was a clear reason why. U want things to back to like they where before u 2 broke up. Well its clear to me from reading what u said she could care less about u. She has moved on and so should u OP. She clearly wants nothing to do with u and is silent. So take the hint and move on.
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| 3/18/2015 2:50:49 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010
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You just scratched her itch
You want to go back to the past ... she has left it and wants the future.
You don't understand.
Better that she not talk to you ... to hard for you to get it.
Problem is with your Duck Disease and being stuck in the Toddler Tantrum mentality.
Solution ... fix it.
sumbuddie wear blind sea
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| 3/21/2015 4:23:08 AM |
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mattreeves
Winfield, KS
28, joined Jan. 2013
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Depends but I have found it to be foolish and a waste of time
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| 3/21/2015 6:37:35 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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Evidently she didn't like the way it was before, so she disappeared on u, u just should have start from scratch and not try to get back to the way it was
This is really the only post you need to read. lol Thats packersbabe's quote and my retort.
She's right. If you didn't know before NOW YOU KNOW why you DON'T GO BACKWARDS! If it was gonna work it woulda worked the 1st time.
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| 3/21/2015 7:35:31 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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See telling your S/O how you feel WHEN IN A RELATIONSHIP bcuz thats communication which is very imprtant.
Telling them after its over is like rushing someone to the hospital AFTER you just left their funeral services. lol It doesn't help anything, it hyst make shit worst.
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| 3/21/2015 7:41:09 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
48, joined Jun. 2014
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The only time its even WORTH telling an ex how you felt or fell is if they fu€ked up or broke up with you and you're doing 10 times better finacially AND with someone ELSE you wouldn't leave to save your life. You're happy, you treat your new S/O like gold and they compliment you.
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