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4/14/2015 1:31:08 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from wanna_dance:
I just received the following email:

"Hi,
I have come across your profile,
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If your religion is Jewish as mine, I would like to correspond with you.
I am looking just as you for a best friend and partner and I love the teaching of Abraham Hicks etc..
Regards,
Belle



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4/14/2015 11:15:02 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
jbl527
Leesburg, FL
41, joined Nov. 2014


Interesting? Scary! Lol...I've met some great people on here as well as learned some good lessons. I enjoy dates that actually get off the usual path of dinner and drinks! A hike, beach walk, kayak or boat ride...maybe even Zipline. How is everyone else's path on here going?

4/14/2015 11:32:08 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from jbl527:
Interesting? Scary! Lol...I've met some great people on here as well as learned some good lessons. I enjoy dates that actually get off the usual path of dinner and drinks! A hike, beach walk, kayak or boat ride...maybe even Zipline. How is everyone else's path on here going?


F**kin' minefield.



4/15/2015 12:20:21 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
no_thanx
Over 1,000 Posts (1,325)
Kissimmee, FL
42, joined Aug. 2014


Mine is straight and narrow and perfect just for one.

4/15/2015 5:37:01 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

wanna_dance
Over 2,000 Posts (2,691)
Boca Raton, FL
73, joined Aug. 2008


Quote from jbl527:
How is everyone else's path on here going?


I've been here almost 7 years and I now think of it only as another source of entertainment. I have a few friends here, but originally met them in the forums of another site and you'll sometimes see us "play" here. As far as meeting Ms. Right here.....I think there is just as good a chance here as in line at the grocery store.

4/15/2015 10:13:52 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from wanna_dance:
I've been here almost 7 years and I now think of it only as another source of entertainment. I have a few friends here, but originally met them in the forums of another site and you'll sometimes see us "play" here. As far as meeting Ms. Right here.....I think there is just as good a chance here as in line at the grocery store.


Sums it up...just a way to kill time.



4/15/2015 12:36:02 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


The bottom line is that I won't have anything to offer a woman until I have money...
Shit happens.

4/15/2015 3:50:06 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from vwconvert71:
The bottom line is that I won't have anything to offer a woman until I have money...
Shit happens.


Well get to digging then. That there Gold ain't gonner dig itself up.

4/15/2015 4:00:45 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from jbl527:
Interesting? Scary! Lol...I've met some great people on here as well as learned some good lessons. I enjoy dates that actually get off the usual path of dinner and drinks! A hike, beach walk, kayak or boat ride...maybe even Zipline. How is everyone else's path on here going?


I agree with getting away from dinner and drinks. We live in Florida !! The Sandbar of America !! So much more out there to experience then a meal and some over priced drinks. I can't even fathom the idea of how many women have said they like sunsets but have never seen one from the beach. Really???

4/15/2015 4:37:30 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
noplayer69
Ocala, FL
65, joined Dec. 2014


Hehehe, you guys are so crazy funny.

4/15/2015 4:53:14 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
summer012469
Over 2,000 Posts (2,924)
Grand Island, FL
49, joined Dec. 2011


I use the site to keep up with all the great friends I've made here. Don't see myself actually dating for awhile

4/15/2015 6:09:19 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

grassroots74
Orlando, FL
43, joined Sep. 2011


I have been on this site for 3 years. I have never gone out just for a drink or anything.. I've looked at my pics to see if there's anything stuck in my teeth, or a mad zit,etc..lol

4/15/2015 6:31:44 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

docktork
Over 2,000 Posts (3,184)
Kissimmee, FL
66, joined Jan. 2011


me either ..but had a fun day with my friend and her father 2 great people she says she has a crush on me I say I'm not ready he's a nice man love the guy she's so cute I'm a idiot always was always will be the lady just scares me a bit help me what do I do she's only 49 yrs old ....although that is ok for me the younger the better lol...idk know anymore in this world I need counseling on dating .I just don't know Help ..probably asking the wrong people on here..thats why youre all here ....whatever .already know what I'm gonna do

4/16/2015 2:37:27 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Life finally threw me a bone in this arena. I love schadenfreude.

4/16/2015 3:17:39 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from docktork:
me either ..but had a fun day with my friend and her father 2 great people she says she has a crush on me I say I'm not ready he's a nice man love the guy she's so cute I'm a idiot always was always will be the lady just scares me a bit help me what do I do she's only 49 yrs old ....although that is ok for me the younger the better lol...idk know anymore in this world I need counseling on dating .I just don't know Help ..probably asking the wrong people on here..thats why youre all here ....whatever .already know what I'm gonna do


What about her scares you? Have you told her? Honesty is what all women say they want so try it. Although you are right I am still here wondering how online dating works still. Because to be Honest i find i lose their attention when i'm Honest.

4/16/2015 3:27:41 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from ninjazx9r:
What about her scares you? Have you told her? Honesty is what all women say they want so try it. Although you are right I am still here wondering how online dating works still. Because to be Honest i find i lose their attention when i'm Honest.
Online dating only works for attractive people. It's a beauty contest; what really matters is your pic. If a woman doesn't like your main pic, she's not going to bother to read the rest. A while back, I got in "trouble" for putting a fake main pic up. I went from getting perved once a month (at best) to about 20 pervs in one day. Some woman was so incensed that she was mislead to looking at an ogre's profile that she flagged me. But my point was proven.

If a woman tells me she's all about personality over looks, I consider her a liar, either to me or to herself. I can't trust her, because let's say she does think that way...what happens when some "hot" guy with personality comes along and shows interest in her? I'm S.O.L, and she's gone with the wind. A woman tells me that, it's "Adios". No sense wasting the time and/or money.

4/16/2015 3:29:58 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

wanna_dance
Over 2,000 Posts (2,691)
Boca Raton, FL
73, joined Aug. 2008


According to the Urban Dictionary, dating is a socially acceptable form of prostitution where sex is paid for in installments.

4/16/2015 10:38:59 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
jbl527
Leesburg, FL
41, joined Nov. 2014


Never a dull moment around here...lol...this is a lot more entertaining than Facebook. It all comes down to perception anyway. Likes dislikes, wants, desires...willingness to see what happens. And the crazy amount of false/robotic I love you...you pay my rent girls/ aliens and other whatnot. Lol

4/16/2015 11:52:04 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from vwconvert71:
Online dating only works for attractive people. It's a beauty contest; what really matters is your pic. If a woman doesn't like your main pic, she's not going to bother to read the rest. A while back, I got in "trouble" for putting a fake main pic up. I went from getting perved once a month (at best) to about 20 pervs in one day. Some woman was so incensed that she was mislead to looking at an ogre's profile that she flagged me. But my point was proven.

If a woman tells me she's all about personality over looks, I consider her a liar, either to me or to herself. I can't trust her, because let's say she does think that way...what happens when some "hot" guy with personality comes along and shows interest in her? I'm S.O.L, and she's gone with the wind. A woman tells me that, it's "Adios". No sense wasting the time and/or money.


You are so right VW. Most women won't admit it but we know it's what matters most.
Just like when a Harley guy says he waves to crotch rockets. LIAR!!
I ride a Ninja ZX9R and i am a Motorcycle Mechanic so i have rode all types of bikes. I see the difference.
But back to women
Oh nevermind!

4/17/2015 12:30:27 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

wanna_dance
Over 2,000 Posts (2,691)
Boca Raton, FL
73, joined Aug. 2008


My profile on a different site is 711 words long...nearly 4000 characters including spaces. It describes me. It describes who I would like to meet. It describes my ideal relationship.

So today I get an email that says, "Hey, there. " With all that material to write about, the best she could come up with is Hey, there.

4/17/2015 12:43:25 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

albyak
Over 2,000 Posts (3,260)
Ninilchik, AK
68, joined Apr. 2011


Tell her Hey is for horses

Never thought I would be so arrogant, but only message back about one in five who contact me anymore.......that is about all that are over 30 years old Do that many really think they will con me

4/17/2015 1:51:40 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
summer012469
Over 2,000 Posts (2,924)
Grand Island, FL
49, joined Dec. 2011


I used to answer everyone but after getting called nasty names for politely declining, I quit
If the words: hot, sexy, or hit me up are anywhere in the message, I delete

4/17/2015 3:13:05 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from wanna_dance:
My profile on a different site is 711 words long...nearly 4000 characters including spaces. It describes me. It describes who I would like to meet. It describes my ideal relationship.

So today I get an email that says, "Hey, there. " With all that material to write about, the best she could come up with is Hey, there.


I have another profile on another site as well and i state clearly what i am looking for. But i have been messaging with one lady for about a week and a half now. She just asked me last night "what am i looking for"?
I am starting to remember why i got off these online dating sites. They put a bitter taste towards finding a good woman by the games most play.

It's not Frigging Rocket Science people. If you like what you see and READ about a person then take the next step and meet. Even if it is just for 10mins. Most people know within 5mins. if there is any spark or chemistry.

And to the women who say they have met to many Weirdo's and you are now cautious about meeting anyone. Quit judging people by their cover or wallet. It's the good looking guy's with money who usually just want sex or use you because you let them. Why ? Because he is So Cute and he takes me out. But why won't he treat me with respect and why does he always walk away when he answers his phone? Because he is using you for what he wants. Duh!!

4/17/2015 4:49:17 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

naughtical_59
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,924)
Winter Haven, FL
58, joined Feb. 2013


Rejection.
Women fear and/or hate rejection as much as men.

This fear kept me from meeting many men.
We would exchange messages, phone calls, current pictures...all that stuff.
However, when it came time for the actual meet I would get scared.
I was afraid of seeing that look in his eyes when he first met me. The look that said I didn't measure up. I was afraid of being tongue tied and coming across as an idiot.
I was afraid of him suddenly remembering he had to be somewhere and leaving and never hearing from him again.
Low self-esteem? Most likely.

If you come across someone you are truly interested in...be patient.
If she/he is not ready to meet, give her/him time.
Hey, I'm not saying not to keep looking. Just be patient.
She/he just might be well worth it in the long run.

You never know what demons some people might be facing.

4/18/2015 12:18:59 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


You gotta see "easterlady", my latest absurd message. Gotta be a scammer; like the woman in the pic would even piss on me if I was on fire.

4/18/2015 12:26:04 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


I think my latest profile was a good attempt at being "positive", but I'm thinking that something about it still screams "LOSER!!!!", other than my face.

Anyone's thoughts?

4/18/2015 12:40:29 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from naughtical_59:
Rejection.
Women fear and/or hate rejection as much as men.

This fear kept me from meeting many men.
We would exchange messages, phone calls, current pictures...all that stuff.
However, when it came time for the actual meet I would get scared.
I was afraid of seeing that look in his eyes when he first met me. The look that said I didn't measure up. I was afraid of being tongue tied and coming across as an idiot.
I was afraid of him suddenly remembering he had to be somewhere and leaving and never hearing from him again.
Low self-esteem? Most likely.

If you come across someone you are truly interested in...be patient.
If she/he is not ready to meet, give her/him time.
Hey, I'm not saying not to keep looking. Just be patient.
She/he just might be well worth it in the long run.

You never know what demons some people might be facing.


I get where you are coming from but we are Adults and if truthful in your profile and messages then there should be no disappoint on either side. The Fear of Rejection should have been eased already by the conversations before hand if all said is true.
As far as Fighting demons.We all have a demon waiting for us to drop guard or have a moment of weakness that he can spring into action. By now in life we should have a grasp on what controls our fear and should know it's all in your own mind.

4/18/2015 12:47:38 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


VW I checked easterlady out and due to lack of anything on her profile i would think scammer for sure. As far as your profile i see nothing wrong with it. It has more substance then mine on here yet it sounds as though we run into same BS. Go Figure

4/18/2015 1:27:26 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

usoolioness
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,182)
Dade City, FL
62, joined Jun. 2010


However, to know your Self in this way requires you to really look within. You have to examine your life and see what makes you happy and what does not. You need to look at your life as a spiritual path and where things have worked well for you that is where you were on the right track. The universe will always help you when you are working towards completing your missions here on Earth. When you are working against your mission, the universe will throw up obstacles which tell you that you are on the wrong path. All experiences can be used as learning opportunities. If we learn the lesson that the experience is there to teach then we advance spiritually. The more we advance spiritually the more we know who we really are and of what we are capable. The more we know our real Selves the more we realize how wonderful we all really are. It is difficult not to love yourself when you gain this realization. Not only do you love yourself but you realisze that we are all one and you learn to love everyone else too.

This is how I feel about myself. Dating comes easy for me....

4/18/2015 2:13:30 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

albyak
Over 2,000 Posts (3,260)
Ninilchik, AK
68, joined Apr. 2011


^ ^ ^



4/18/2015 2:36:12 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

naughtical_59
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,924)
Winter Haven, FL
58, joined Feb. 2013


Quote from vwconvert71:
I think my latest profile was a good attempt at being "positive", but I'm thinking that something about it still screams "LOSER!!!!", other than my face.

Anyone's thoughts?


Lou: I think your profile is good. A bit long but an interesting read.
One thing bothers me (that probably wouldn't bother anyone else in the world) and that is that you use a comma and "and" at the same time.
It's one or the other.
Good luck.

4/18/2015 2:39:10 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

eris40
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,107)
Auburndale, FL
43, joined Mar. 2014


Mehhh I have met lots of people on here, some as friends some as more.

I have no expectations this is just free fun and a way to extend your social circle


ohhhh and get laid



[Edited 4/18/2015 2:40:30 PM ]

4/18/2015 3:17:16 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from usoolioness:
However, to know your Self in this way requires you to really look within. You have to examine your life and see what makes you happy and what does not. You need to look at your life as a spiritual path and where things have worked well for you that is where you were on the right track. The universe will always help you when you are working towards completing your missions here on Earth. When you are working against your mission, the universe will throw up obstacles which tell you that you are on the wrong path. All experiences can be used as learning opportunities. If we learn the lesson that the experience is there to teach then we advance spiritually. The more we advance spiritually the more we know who we really are and of what we are capable. The more we know our real Selves the more we realize how wonderful we all really are. It is difficult not to love yourself when you gain this realization. Not only do you love yourself but you realisze that we are all one and you learn to love everyone else too.

This is how I feel about myself. Dating comes easy for me....


So i need to wait for the rest of the women in the world to realize they don't really love themselves spiritually.
Oh Boy, this going to take longer then i thought.

4/18/2015 3:19:22 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

naughtical_59
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,924)
Winter Haven, FL
58, joined Feb. 2013


Hang in there.

4/18/2015 3:26:00 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from eris40:
Mehhh I have met lots of people on here, some as friends some as more.

I have no expectations this is just free fun and a way to extend your social circle


ohhhh and get laid


Thats what i thought coming to online sites was. Extending your Social Circle with people in your area. A means to meet people within your community that you otherwise may never meet. But it has been a chore to even get a (How you do) out of most.
As far as getting laid. Good for you! Atleast someone is not to uptight to meet people for real.

4/18/2015 3:31:25 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from naughtical_59:
Hang in there.


Do your stars align and your universe fall into harmony?

4/18/2015 3:45:28 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


I'm chatting with one on another site. Can't decide whether to play it straight and see what happens, or lure her in so I can grind her heart into the pavement. Thirty years' worth of rejection and generally not being good enough have left me wanting some kind of payback.

4/18/2015 3:55:36 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Actually, I guess it doesn't count unless the woman contacts me first.
And there wouldn't be any satisfaction in rejecting the kind that find me acceptable, because the poor beasts have exhausted all other options, and I'm the last resort.

I'll never get even.

4/18/2015 3:58:23 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from naughtical_59:
Lou: I think your profile is good. A bit long but an interesting read.
One thing bothers me (that probably wouldn't bother anyone else in the world) and that is that you use a comma and "and" at the same time.
It's one or the other.
Good luck.
Marion, my English prof broke my balls the other way on that very point.

4/18/2015 4:17:12 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

eris40
Over 4,000 Posts! (6,107)
Auburndale, FL
43, joined Mar. 2014


Ninja you are friends with wicked right?


yeah people need to figure their hatin out first lol
then they might have some fun

4/18/2015 4:48:47 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


People who are considered acceptable will never understand it.

4/18/2015 5:49:14 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from vwconvert71:
I'm chatting with one on another site. Can't decide whether to play it straight and see what happens, or lure her in so I can grind her heart into the pavement. Thirty years' worth of rejection and generally not being good enough have left me wanting some kind of payback.

Too late; she beat me to the punch. I'm "sweet", which is woman-code for "pathetic".

4/18/2015 6:22:50 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

usoolioness
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (21,182)
Dade City, FL
62, joined Jun. 2010


No this is not a date Site it's a land fill...

4/18/2015 6:29:53 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from usoolioness:
No this is not a date Site it's a land fill...

Only to some...
It's a buyer's market, and women are the buyers.

4/18/2015 8:10:24 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

albyak
Over 2,000 Posts (3,260)
Ninilchik, AK
68, joined Apr. 2011


Tell them I am cheap

4/18/2015 8:11:32 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

naughtical_59
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,924)
Winter Haven, FL
58, joined Feb. 2013




I have a dollar???

4/18/2015 8:14:32 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

albyak
Over 2,000 Posts (3,260)
Ninilchik, AK
68, joined Apr. 2011


$SOLD$......

4/18/2015 8:15:28 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

naughtical_59
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,924)
Winter Haven, FL
58, joined Feb. 2013


I hope you can make change.



4/18/2015 8:16:43 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from ninjazx9r:
Well get to digging then. That there Gold ain't gonner dig itself up.

First three stops:
Plastic surgery, Harley dealership, and Dodge truck.

Gawd knows being myself isn't worth a broke d*ck which, coincidentally, I wish was my problem.

4/18/2015 8:28:54 PM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

naughtical_59
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,924)
Winter Haven, FL
58, joined Feb. 2013


You would be surprised how little appearance matter to MOST women.
At my age I would much rather have honesty, kindness, attentiveness, affection, someone who LISTENS, compassion, thoughtfulness...
Anyone who possesses those traits looks good to me.

Yes...I realize I may come across as shallow because I prefer taller men. That is a preference. I catch hell for that. Damn, I'm almost 5'11. I don't think that is unreasonable of me. Just like some prefer a certain race or a certain weight and so forth. We all have preferences...never means the right person can't change that.
My preferences are not carved in stone.

4/19/2015 12:12:34 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from naughtical_59:
You would be surprised how little appearance matter to MOST women.
At my age I would much rather have honesty, kindness, attentiveness, affection, someone who LISTENS, compassion, thoughtfulness...
Anyone who possesses those traits looks good to me.

Yes...I realize I may come across as shallow because I prefer taller men. That is a preference. I catch hell for that. Damn, I'm almost 5'11. I don't think that is unreasonable of me. Just like some prefer a certain race or a certain weight and so forth. We all have preferences...never means the right person can't change that.
My preferences are not carved in stone.


Please don't insult our intelligence, about "most" women. There's a reason some of us are still sitting on the shelf.

4/19/2015 12:37:36 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

sc0uting4u
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (85,351)
Sarasota, FL
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Quote from vwconvert71:
Please don't insult our intelligence, about "most" women. There's a reason some of us are still sitting on the shelf.


She expressed her opinion, just as you did. Your belief isn't fact. Why are you posting as if it is?

I think the reason you are single has more to do with your blatant hostility and negativity than your looks.

4/19/2015 2:07:21 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
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I doubt that. POF doesn't have forums, and I'm an undesirable on there as well.

4/19/2015 2:23:20 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
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Largo, FL
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Quote from eris40:
Ninja you are friends with wicked right?


yeah people need to figure their hatin out first lol
then they might have some fun


Yep, actually have met a couple times and he is good people.

Funny how some can make an effort to meet even if it is just to meet a new friend.

4/19/2015 2:27:03 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

ninjazx9r
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,326)
Largo, FL
48, joined Apr. 2010


Quote from naughtical_59:
You would be surprised how little appearance matter to MOST women.
At my age I would much rather have honesty, kindness, attentiveness, affection, someone who LISTENS, compassion, thoughtfulness...
Anyone who possesses those traits looks good to me.

Yes...I realize I may come across as shallow because I prefer taller men. That is a preference. I catch hell for that. Damn, I'm almost 5'11. I don't think that is unreasonable of me. Just like some prefer a certain race or a certain weight and so forth. We all have preferences...never means the right person can't change that.
My preferences are not carved in stone.


I prefer someone who is 4' tall, flat head, big ears and no teeth. But try to find one like that. LMAO

4/19/2015 5:15:13 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
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Ocala, FL
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In a perfect world, people would be more like animals. Animals don't judge by appearance, but they know almost instantly if someone is an a**hole. Dogs and cats love me; women recoil from me.

I have a hard time believing anyone who says they don't care about looks. I believe most women know from a main pic if they'll even bother to read a message or check out a profile. And it must be my face, because I've changed everything else about myself in the last four-plus years, and I'm still a piece of shit who could only get an attractive woman to have anything to do with me through guilt and pity.

I'm guilty, too. I got tired of coming up with nice-but-bullshit reasons, nay- excuses, for not being interested, because I just don't find those open sores from diabetes sexy.

Does it suck? Yeah. Is it fair? Probably not. But it's the way it is. Let's not try to bullshit each other.



4/19/2015 5:31:59 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
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Ocala, FL
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Quote from sc0uting4u:
She expressed her opinion, just as you did. Your belief isn't fact. Why are you posting as if it is?

I think the reason you are single has more to do with your blatant hostility and negativity than your looks.


Here's another one who thinks I should enjoy and revel in being considered a turd based on my pic. This is not unique to online nonsense; this is everday interaction with women. The waitress with the contempt in her eyes; the relatively attractive cashier who suddenly has something better to do when I'm next, sending Madea out to ring me up and returning to the register once my transaction has begun (No, snotty b*tch, don't wait for me to leave the store! Make it obvious.) The barmaid who ignores the empty glass for a good ten minutes, even while she's standing two feet away and looks at it twice. (Ooohhh, hot guy just walked in. Gotta go drool over him.) Don't tell me my looks have nothing to do with it. This has been going on for thirty years. I'm no dunce; I know what I see.

4/19/2015 7:11:50 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

sc0uting4u
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (85,351)
Sarasota, FL
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Quote from vwconvert71:
Here's another one who thinks I should enjoy and revel in being considered a turd based on my pic.


When did I ever say that? Never. You don't know what I think. Your opinion is perception, not reality.

The only thing I find ugly about you is your attitude. You are seriously negative, hostile, and most of all arrogant, because you post as if we should all agree with you.

Get over yourself.

4/19/2015 7:22:00 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  

wanna_dance
Over 2,000 Posts (2,691)
Boca Raton, FL
73, joined Aug. 2008


"If you keep having the same problem over and over again with different people, it's time to look at the ONLY person that was there EVERY time." ~ Dr. Michael Ryce (author of "Why Is This Happening To Me Again?")

4/19/2015 7:41:33 AM This is a Date site isn't it ? | Page 2  
vwconvert71
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (10,620)
Ocala, FL
46, joined Oct. 2014


Quote from sc0uting4u:
When did I ever say that? Never. You don't know what I think. Your opinion is perception, not reality.

The only thing I find ugly about you is your attitude. You are seriously negative, hostile, and most of all arrogant, because you post as if we should all agree with you.

Get over yourself.

Get over myself?!
I've used "I believe"and "I think" repeatedly in this thread. It is an opinion thread; I voiced mine. I suppose you see rejection as a good thing?
What attitude should I have?

Hey ladies! Who wants to turn me down next?

How should I not be hostile to a group that's been hostile to me from day one? (Women, that is. Not Florida Chat; you people have been patient and forgiving above and beyond.)

Please tell me the steps that I must take to enjoy being considered a piece of shit, and I will take prompt action.