| 5/22/2015 11:47:30 PM |
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chandyw
Lewisville, TX
48, joined Mar. 2015
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Lol this should be good...so lets see the difference...girls what's our ideal first meet and greet?
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| 5/22/2015 11:53:20 PM |
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1_2manyfrogs
Pinon Hills, CA
53, joined Apr. 2012
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I'm sticking with "petting zoo".
If you find that there's no 'chemistry' between the two of you, it's a quick meet, feed the cute babies and shake hands goodbye.
edit to say * animal petting zoo (so there's no mis-understanding)
and
First
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| 5/22/2015 11:54:14 PM |
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ginny_james
White City, OR
34, joined Jan. 2015
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1 2 many  silva_13
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| 5/22/2015 11:55:18 PM |
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1_2manyfrogs
Pinon Hills, CA
53, joined Apr. 2012
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Silva 
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| 5/22/2015 11:59:00 PM |
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dan9787_3
Laval, QC
53, joined Jul. 2014
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I'm waiting too.
Will anyone take me up on my platonic date offer? 
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| 5/23/2015 12:00:35 AM |
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bezt
Australian Capital
Australia
96, joined Aug. 2014
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I would prefer an outdoor Café
something like this..
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| 5/23/2015 12:12:33 AM |
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playground1
Santa Monica, CA
55, joined Feb. 2011
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 Petting Zoo
I can only imagine
OT:My ideal first
Meet and Greet would be
simple
An afternoon meet at a
Juice bar or coffee house
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| 5/23/2015 12:15:52 AM |
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chandyw
Lewisville, TX
48, joined Mar. 2015
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I'm sticking with "petting zoo".
If you find that there's no 'chemistry' between the two of you, it's a quick meet, feed the cute babies and shake hands goodbye.
edit to say * animal petting zoo (so there's no mis-understanding)
and
First
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| 5/23/2015 12:24:26 AM |
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playground1
Santa Monica, CA
55, joined Feb. 2011
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Yes!
Hence, the coffee house
Date...When that coffee
Is gone, so am I
...If not sooner
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| 5/23/2015 12:35:47 AM |
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1_2manyfrogs
Pinon Hills, CA
53, joined Apr. 2012
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Yes!
Now, no long first meets and no late night at the bar meets, definitely a no-no.
Half the time, they don't look anything like their 10 year old pic. In fact one time the guy I met was half bald but his profile pics all showed hair and all his teeth.
False advertising. happens all the time, both sexes do it!
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| 5/23/2015 12:58:23 AM |
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kmk805
Santa Maria, CA
36, joined Jun. 2013
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Simple lunch date usually works. At least you get some decent food. Can see how he interacts with public and desicion make. If he is a take charge type guy. Manners and respect level. I try to make her smile and relax.
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| 5/23/2015 1:31:26 AM |
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1_2manyfrogs
Pinon Hills, CA
53, joined Apr. 2012
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Lunch could be committing to much time for some losers.
I look at the first meet as the scratch and sniff test. Either I like him or I don't
We've already texted, and hopefully graduated to talking on the phone. So now it's time to find out if I'm physically attracted to him in person. Doesn't take too long to figure that out. It's a meet, not a date.
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| 5/23/2015 1:34:48 AM |
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sinnerin702
Las Vegas, NV
42, joined Feb. 2010
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First date.... i usually dont think about it until an hour or 2 before we meet.
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| 5/23/2015 1:46:07 AM |
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iam_resurrected
Reno, NV
46, joined Jul. 2014
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Backseat of a Chevy pick-up truck with gun rack included.
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| 5/23/2015 1:54:24 AM |
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kmk805
Santa Maria, CA
36, joined Jun. 2013
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Lunch could be committing to much time for some losers.
I look at the first meet as the scratch and sniff test. Either I like him or I don't
We've already texted, and hopefully graduated to talking on the phone. So now it's time to find out if I'm physically attracted to him in person. Doesn't take too long to figure that out. It's a meet, not a date.
Good lord froggie i would hope you talk to a man verbally before you go out with him.
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| 5/23/2015 2:01:05 AM |
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l380
Alabaster, AL
44, joined Sep. 2014
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Def in a public place for obvious reasons but also, I want to be able to see how he handles being in a crowd where I'm the only person he knows.
Don't want one that's gonna be shrink-wrapped to me the whole time because he can't hold his own.
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| 5/23/2015 2:05:23 AM |
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ExitHumanity
Chesterfield, MO
47, joined Feb. 2015
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Pants down wallet out 
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| 5/23/2015 2:05:46 AM |
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1_2manyfrogs
Pinon Hills, CA
53, joined Apr. 2012
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Good lord froggie i would hope you talk to a man verbally before you go out with him.
Of course I've talked with him. The problem is, sometimes the creepy, scary perv lurking inside him doesn't come out until the person to person meet. Pair all that with the possibility that he's a lying bastard that doesn't post up to date pics, well, then lunch is definitely out!
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| 5/23/2015 3:23:29 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
62, joined Apr. 2011
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Well op two pages and so far the only real thing listed was a petting zoo.
See....women are only after sex, of course here they restricted it to just "petting" on the first date...but I consider foreplay still as sex.
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But, I've got either type of petting zoo covered, an old dog, 3 miniature horses, a groundhog lurking about, some deer that visit sometimes and a rabbit or two.
you just have to catch them.
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| 5/23/2015 4:02:31 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
57, joined Feb. 2010
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Lol this should be good...so lets see the difference...girls what's our ideal first meet and greet?
One where I am not there.
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| 5/23/2015 4:06:41 AM |
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Offcell
Seattle, WA
24, joined Feb. 2015
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Simple & traditional.
He says he'd like to take me out.
We go out to dinner or lunch And talk about things and get to know each other... And if we like each other we progress from there.
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| 5/23/2015 7:50:04 AM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
64, joined Feb. 2013
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I'd prefer almost anything other than a sit down meal on a first date.
It sets a precedent that a date is all about eating.
If I've accepted a date with him, it means I've already gotten to know him well enough to do something other than just sit and talk. It's time to get down to the serious business of having some fun!
Some of my favorite first dates have been:
Concerts
Parties
Street Festival
Sporting Events
Fishing
Games (bowling, pool, tennis)
Oops! I forgot dancing. 
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| 5/23/2015 7:54:02 AM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
61, joined Mar. 2014
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coffee works.
a beer if im nervous.
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| 5/23/2015 8:22:01 AM |
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lunaglider
DPO, AA
97, joined Dec. 2013
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Porn shop...
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| 5/23/2015 8:32:34 AM |
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rescueranger245
Windsor, VA
64, joined Apr. 2011
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I prefer something simple like a coffee shop. If everything works out fine, we can expand the date to something more. If not, it's a handshake and a goodbye.
I once met a lady at Panara Bread for coffee. She sat down and the very first words out of her mouth was..." You know, I'm high maintenance and I'm looking for someone to take care of me". I responded, "Let me know how that works out for you." And I left!
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| 5/23/2015 8:34:26 AM |
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txrose64
Pearland, TX
53, joined Jan. 2013
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one where I want a second date?
just make it fun..and where you can have some conversation (which leaves out loud venues and movie and the like)
be creative. 
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| 5/23/2015 9:24:49 AM |
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teeheehee_
Montreal, QC
35, joined Jun. 2014
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...having a lot of money spent on her.
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| 5/23/2015 9:29:53 AM |
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scoobs78
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013
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I prefer something simple like a coffee shop. If everything works out fine, we can expand the date to something more. If not, it's a handshake and a goodbye.
I once met a lady at Panara Bread for coffee. She sat down and the very first words out of her mouth was..." You know, I'm high maintenance and I'm looking for someone to take care of me". I responded, "Let me know how that works out for you." And I left!
might not wanna buy them plane tickets and tell em u got a huge.....bank account lol
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| 5/23/2015 9:31:04 AM |
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scoobs78
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013
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I prefer something simple like a coffee shop. If everything works out fine, we can expand the date to something more. If not, it's a handshake and a goodbye.
I once met a lady at Panara Bread for coffee. She sat down and the very first words out of her mouth was..." You know, I'm high maintenance and I'm looking for someone to take care of me". I responded, "Let me know how that works out for you." And I left!
wow! wheres the manners anymore? lol inconsiderates of the world are taking over
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| 5/23/2015 9:35:17 AM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
54, joined Nov. 2013
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Pants down wallet out
Easiest way to steal the wallet!
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| 5/23/2015 9:37:42 AM |
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pastmybedtime
Huntingdon, TN
41, joined Apr. 2015
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Do I have to sit and watch ALL 3 hours of The Notebook?
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| 5/23/2015 9:38:55 AM |
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inknpink
Castle Rock, CO
32, joined Feb. 2015
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First meet and greet, coffee or something light and casual.
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| 5/23/2015 9:51:55 AM |
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candy0426
Newtown, PA
49, joined Aug. 2014
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Starbucks or a bar.
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| 5/23/2015 10:15:48 AM |
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scoobs78
Kansas City, MO
39, joined Jun. 2013
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u payin this time candy? lol
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| 5/23/2015 10:28:35 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Dec. 2014
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First meet & greet & first date aren't always the same. One could have a first date with someone they haven't met online.
First meet & greet: It can just be for coffee. It would be a great meet if he looked enough like his photos, not too different. Also if we were both able to talk with each other easily, maybe some laughter too. Both of us ending the meet with us wanting to see each other again.
First date: Well I'd know what he looks like. The date can also be just for coffee & conversation for first date, or breakfast, lunch, dinner, a picnic, a walk at the park, etc. Again, if we have a good connection & able to talk with each other easily & also both want a second date, that would be great.
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| 5/23/2015 11:33:25 AM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
97, joined Sep. 2012
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Concerts
Parties
Street Festival
Sporting Events
Fishing
Games (bowling, pool, tennis)
Oops! I forgot dancing.
A lot of the time, a street festival will combine about three or four of those.
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| 5/23/2015 11:33:57 AM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
97, joined Sep. 2012
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Have ya'll ever meet and greeted someone that you just wasn't attracted to and you were just like ...man....lol
Why would you meet someone you weren't attracted to?
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| 5/23/2015 11:45:30 AM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
63, joined Feb. 2014
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I know for a fact a woman will make up her mind if she will at least sleep with you in the first minute of the coffee date. Then the coffee date is to see if she will change her mind hearing you out. That is why the coffee date needs to be as short as possible.
As she is sitting down, she has already decided. No need for more time if she won't sleep with you ever and why take more time talking her out of it if she decided to sleep with at some future date.
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| 5/23/2015 12:10:12 PM |
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sinceresammy
Dayton, OH
62, joined Mar. 2014
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Ideal place to meet:
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| 5/23/2015 12:37:54 PM |
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ahleah4mriris
Fort Worth, TX
46, joined Jul. 2014
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Backseat of a Chevy pick-up truck with gun rack included.
 
(Not a good idea)
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| 5/23/2015 12:43:13 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
64, joined Feb. 2013
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A lot of the time, a street festival will combine about three or four of those.
Yep, like my favorite, Dallas' best kept secret (shhhhhh!), downtown Ft. Worth. 
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| 5/23/2015 12:45:14 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
97, joined Sep. 2012
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Yep, like my favorite, Dallas' best kept secret (shhhhhh!), downtown Ft. Worth.
That actually floors me. I never figured you for a Fort Worth type.
I went to high school in NE Dallas and lived over there into my mid-20s, and I always preferred Fort Worth. Guess I just didn't fit in well on the Dallas side.
My favorite festival is just around the corner, though: Taste of Dallas. 
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| 5/23/2015 12:48:21 PM |
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nole_89
Loganville, GA
54, joined May. 2010
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I'm sticking with "petting zoo".
If you find that there's no 'chemistry' between the two of you, it's a quick meet, feed the cute babies and shake hands goodbye.
edit to say * animal petting zoo (so there's no mis-understanding)
and
First
Frogs, thanks for the great idea.  Would have never thought of that. This is a good poster. She actually contributes something.
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| 5/23/2015 12:50:15 PM |
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grrlygrrl
Wimberley, TX
38, joined Aug. 2013
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I know for a fact a woman will make up her mind if she will at least sleep with you in the first minute of the coffee date. Then the coffee date is to see if she will change her mind hearing you out. That is why the coffee date needs to be as short as possible.
As she is sitting down, she has already decided. No need for more time if she won't sleep with you ever and why take more time talking her out of it if she decided to sleep with at some future date.
I'm sure those sugar babies and arrangement types need to make quick decisions but you cannot judge all women by their standards.
Really. A man your age should have some wisdom by now.
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| 5/23/2015 12:54:14 PM |
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nole_89
Loganville, GA
54, joined May. 2010
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I'm sure those sugar babies and arrangement types need to make quick decisions but you cannot judge all women by their standards.
Really. A man your age should have some wisdom by now.
Agreed. If there is one thing I've learned is that every woman is not the same. There are only two things I can say are applicable to most women.
1) What they say they want and what they respond to are two different things.
2) "No" does not mean no forever. Just because they aren't interested right now does not mean they won't be 2 weeks, months, etc. from now.
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| 5/23/2015 1:00:37 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Chantilly, VA
46, joined Jan. 2014
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Do I have to sit and watch ALL 3 hours of The Notebook?
Nope.
I usually have sex with the guy first, then get to know him afterward. Why wait for something good?
Make it happen.
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| 5/23/2015 1:02:19 PM |
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sarahgoldsmith
Chantilly, VA
46, joined Jan. 2014
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Ideal place to meet:
Yep. Have sex first then get to know each other afterward.
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| 5/23/2015 1:10:42 PM |
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grrlygrrl
Wimberley, TX
38, joined Aug. 2013
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That actually floors me. I never figured you for a Fort Worth type.
I went to high school in NE Dallas and lived over there into my mid-20s, and I always preferred Fort Worth. Guess I just didn't fit in well on the Dallas side.
My favorite festival is just around the corner, though: Taste of Dallas.
I think outdoor festivals make a great first date. A wine festival is my favorite. The institute of Texan Cultures is having their annual festival coming up 2nd weekend in June.
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| 5/23/2015 1:11:19 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
64, joined Feb. 2013
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That actually floors me. I never figured you for a Fort Worth type.
I went to high school in NE Dallas and lived over there into my mid-20s, and I always preferred Fort Worth. Guess I just didn't fit in well on the Dallas side.
My favorite festival is just around the corner, though: Taste of Dallas.
I love Ft Worth. When anybody is visited Dallas, that's where I like to take them. It's more like Texas than Dallas and seems like there's more to do, just walking the streets and showing them the architecture of the old buildings, oh, and Bass Hall.
Taste of Dallas, yeah. Mesquite just had a Real. Texas. Festival, oh, and Shakespeare in the Park, Summer at the Arboretum.
I think all of those make a great first date. Sort of a 'you get the tickets, and I buy (or bring) the food' thing. 
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| 5/23/2015 1:13:05 PM |
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grrlygrrl
Wimberley, TX
38, joined Aug. 2013
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Joe T Garcias in the stockyards!!
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| 5/23/2015 1:16:10 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
52, joined Jun. 2012
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Lol this should be good...so lets see the difference...girls what's our ideal first meet and greet?
Okay, I am a bit confused..........meet and greet or a date ?
Meet and greet.....something with many exits........
Date, something interesting...........but my interests are not really man interests......
So my ideal is moot in the scheme of things............
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| 5/23/2015 1:20:02 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
97, joined Sep. 2012
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I love Ft Worth. When anybody is visited Dallas, that's where I like to take them. It's more like Texas than Dallas and seems like there's more to do, just walking the streets and showing them the architecture of the old buildings, oh, and Bass Hall.
Taste of Dallas, yeah. Mesquite just had a Real. Texas. Festival, oh, and Shakespeare in the Park, Summer at the Arboretum.
I think all of those make a great first date. Sort of a 'you get the tickets, and I buy (or bring) the food' thing.
Love, LOVE Bass Hall. I really like most of downtown. And West 7th. Lots of patios. Just wish 8.0 was still there ... or at least that the Flying Saucer would have live music. They have a great setting for it.
And YES, grrly! Joe T's is a FW icon!
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| 5/23/2015 1:28:13 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
64, joined Feb. 2013
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The Flying Saucer has a great old bar! I wonder how old it is. I like to sit upstairs, outside and watch the activities on the street below. 
Yep, grrly, the stockyards can be fun, too.
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| 5/23/2015 1:33:53 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
97, joined Sep. 2012
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When was the last time you were over there? The Flying Saucer moved. They tore down that building and several others and completely redid that block. It's a lot nicer ~ there are a bunch of new places now and a big square with fountains, patios, etc. But yeah, I remember sitting up on the roof there a few times.
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| 5/23/2015 1:36:36 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
64, joined Feb. 2013
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It's been 2 years since I've been to the Flying Saucer. We have one in Rockwall that's closer to me.
Sorry to hear that, that was a great old building, did they take the bar with them?
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| 5/23/2015 1:37:13 PM |
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grrlygrrl
Wimberley, TX
38, joined Aug. 2013
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Aw. The flying saucer is gone? I liked going on the roof too. There's one here in San Antonio right by where I live. It's got a similar feeling on the inside but doesn't provide the rooftop experience...
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| 5/23/2015 1:39:50 PM |
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mizzangeleyezo4
Tujunga, CA
40, joined Jan. 2013
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Park, restaurant, beach.,.some place to walk and talk
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| 5/23/2015 1:45:52 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
97, joined Sep. 2012
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They bought 8.0 and shut it down and moved across the street. It's been a while now ... can't remember when. I don't think I've been inside the place since the change, so I don't know about the bar. I always sit outside.
While it's sad sometimes to see old buildings go, they really have done a nice job with that area north of where the building sat. That whole block, actually.
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| 5/23/2015 1:55:52 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
64, joined Feb. 2013
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Curious, Danny, but have you taken first dates there, downtown Ft Worth, I mean? If not, why not?
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| 5/23/2015 1:59:28 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
97, joined Sep. 2012
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Fort Worth is my go-to place for dates. I'm only about 15 minutes away. Trinity Park just west of downtown is good, too. Lots of great bike trails along the banks. Picnic areas. And Panther Island Pavilion has live music all the time.
Grapevine is good, too. Lots of stuff going on up there on weekends.
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