6/14/2015 8:30:43 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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moment you have had when on a first date?
Why was it so awkward for you?
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6/14/2015 11:03:37 PM |
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orl4bth
Opa Locka, FL
51, joined Mar. 2014
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My most awkward first date was one that I met a Lady on line and went out for drinks.. When We went back to her place she told me that she was a post op . I have to say I was floored as she was very pretty
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6/14/2015 11:06:53 PM |
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keyboardkat
Oklahoma City, OK
41, joined Feb. 2011
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My most awkward first date was one that I met a Lady on line and went out for drinks.. When We went back to her place she told me that she was a post op . I have to say I was floored as she was very pretty
Isn't that better than pre-op?
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6/15/2015 9:52:32 PM |
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chelywastaken
New York, NY
35, joined Dec. 2013
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He has a small penis. Ruined it.
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6/15/2015 11:27:31 PM |
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wpbjlp
Wildomar, CA
46, joined Mar. 2014
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He has a small penis. Ruined it.
"Has" a small penis? Hmm? Sounds more like you loving it actually.
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6/16/2015 2:24:17 AM |
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ltlwing
Winchester, OH
52, joined Oct. 2013
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Awkward was never the problem for me...wasting my time was.
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6/16/2015 6:56:11 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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Unlike professional comedians and politicians doing an apology tour, I don't find it to be all that helpful to recall and recite the embarrassing bad mistakes I've made.
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6/16/2015 8:07:04 AM |
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chelywastaken
New York, NY
35, joined Dec. 2013
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"Has" a small penis? Hmm? Sounds more like you loving it actually.
Haha nope it just happened guess that's why I said has
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6/16/2015 9:43:11 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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Unlike professional comedians and politicians doing an apology tour, I don't find it to be all that helpful to recall and recite the embarrassing bad mistakes I've made.
@Test, It may not necessarily be about something embarrassing.
I think for me the most awkward moments would be when you go out with person/meet and you just don't click. The conversation just does not seem to flow easily.
That is when you realize that the date when not develop into a relationship.
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6/19/2015 12:05:13 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I can say I've seem to have decent first dates, may not turn into a second date, but that's ok. Mostly nice decent guys just not my style or didn't float my boat.
I did have a guy lie about his age, I had a feeling he was lying and confronted him.
he was 54 not 45.
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6/19/2015 6:26:44 AM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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Okay, I have some not-so -painful to recall ones.
Had a first (and last) date where the girl got trashed within a half hour of reaching the dance bar. I don't even remember now what she looked like, I was so embarrassed. I tried to make the best of things and humor her for about an hour, then took her back to her place and saw her to her door. Couldn't think of anything else to do.
Had one where I realized after we were about to become intimate, that my lust had led me to delude myself that we were intellectually compatible, when it was really nothing but lust on my part. I can't remember what I did or said to get away, but I tried to be nice about it. Also very embarrassing. That was early on, when I was still figuring out what real attraction needed to consist of.
With Online stuff, I've come to expect significant differences between expectations and first-meet appearances. It's hard for anyone to post really good AND up to date pics of themselves, unless they are members of the "Incessant Selfie Club of America."
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6/19/2015 2:53:39 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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@Test, I can appreciate you acting like a gentleman in both situations.
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6/21/2015 12:26:43 PM |
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Idleeros
Norcross, GA
28, joined Mar. 2015
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Awkward was never the problem for me...wasting my time was.
yes! i hate my time being wasted also,that really pisses me off.
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6/22/2015 8:06:44 PM |
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happydriver14
Providence, RI
30, joined May. 2014
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Is when I go meet someone and they don't like me or I don't like them...the conversation will be cut short either way and I will not lie and say I will call you later lol funny
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6/22/2015 10:10:01 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
60, joined Aug. 2011
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Better question- name one that wasn't awkward.
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6/23/2015 11:11:32 AM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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Better question- name one that wasn't awkward.
Speak for yourself @Purple. Most of the time I pretty well can talk to folks. Once in a while you don't click, not happen to me to often to the point of being awkward.
What is awkward for me is when you have to carry the conversation. I hate that. Men that just sit there and shake their head every so often. grrr! Give me a man anyday that has some input to the conversation!
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6/23/2015 10:39:35 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
60, joined Aug. 2011
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Speak for yourself @Purple. Most of the time I pretty well can talk to folks. Once in a while you don't click, not happen to me to often to the point of being awkward.
What is awkward for me is when you have to carry the conversation. I hate that. Men that just sit there and shake their head every so often. grrr! Give me a man anyday that has some input to the conversation!
I do. Who else would give you an honest answer like that?
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7/4/2015 1:22:17 PM |
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testsignup
Springfield, VA
62, joined Sep. 2009
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I can appreciate purplerider's point. First meets of any kind, tend to be at least somewhat awkward feeling.
After all, we're trying to act as though we're friends already, because (hopefully) we're attracted, but at the same time we're feeling each other out (not "up" until later, hopefully), and there's no way to do that without awkwardness, at least for honest people.
But I thought from the top, that what the OP really was after, were those cases where we really just wanted to get the hell out of there for whatever reason. The extremely awkward ones, not just the "new meet" awkwardness.
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7/4/2015 1:58:14 PM |
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pike45
Omaha, NE
63, joined Feb. 2009
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What is awkward for me is when you have to carry the conversation. I hate that. Men or women that just sit there and shake their head every so often. grrr! Give me a man anyday that has some input to the conversation!
This
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7/5/2015 7:56:54 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
52, joined Mar. 2014
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I can appreciate purplerider's point. First meets of any kind, tend to be at least somewhat awkward feeling.
After all, we're trying to act as though we're friends already, because (hopefully) we're attracted, but at the same time we're feeling each other out (not "up" until later, hopefully), and there's no way to do that without awkwardness, at least for honest people.
But I thought from the top, that what the OP really was after, were those cases where we really just wanted to get the hell out of there for whatever reason. The extremely awkward ones, not just the "new meet" awkwardness.
Yes I was @Test.
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7/9/2015 9:21:48 AM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
60, joined Aug. 2011
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Speak for yourself @Purple. Most of the time I pretty well can talk to folks. Once in a while you don't click, not happen to me to often to the point of being awkward.
What is awkward for me is when you have to carry the conversation. I hate that. Men that just sit there and shake their head every so often. grrr! Give me a man anyday that has some input to the conversation!
Been there, done that, don't wanna go there again. The tough part, when you're on a one sided conversation, is breaking it off. You know that you'll have to be the one to end the mess. I don't know about you, But I hate cutting it off. Rather makes me feel like the bad guy, but I know it's for the best.
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9/24/2015 1:36:55 AM |
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dudefreed
Portland, OR
43, joined Sep. 2012
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pretty strange indeed
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9/24/2015 10:56:50 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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certain smells during certain times with a couple of woman some long ago. right on the edge...made my cat start clawin at the door,but..all good none the less ..not from me either.
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9/25/2015 6:49:44 AM |
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spotforusername
Fernandina Beach, FL
50, joined Jan. 2013
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The only time I have had first meets that were really awkward was when he had clearly been misleading on his profile. He is far older than stated, heavier, shorter (and I am 5'2" so height isn't a big deal but lying is), not actually single, etc. I have shown up to meets before and not been able to recognize the man. That is never a good sign.
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9/26/2015 8:09:20 AM |
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marriedncheatin
Twin Falls, ID
49, joined Jul. 2012
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moment you have had when on a first date?
Why was it so awkward for you?
"Wrong hole"...ooops it happens baby
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9/28/2015 12:41:25 AM |
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dudefreed
Portland, OR
43, joined Sep. 2012
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farting
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9/28/2015 12:56:19 AM |
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lahayabusa
Shin NaraySadelkow
Germany
38, joined Sep. 2015
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Lol.
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9/28/2015 9:38:05 AM |
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monstersparks
Houston, TX
31, joined Sep. 2015
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When she told me we don't need to go on a date. I just want to f**k you.
I wuz like f**k....
Then this other time this chick hit me up and said you got that grown man look I just want you to f**k me....
Whoa!!!!
Lol
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9/30/2015 3:48:03 AM |
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pickygirl72
Barrow, AK
45, joined Sep. 2011
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I am never nervous on a first date.
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10/1/2015 10:33:47 AM |
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spotforusername
Fernandina Beach, FL
50, joined Jan. 2013
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I am never nervous on a first date.
Same here. I think it is because I don't really have an expectation of a "love match" or whatever. Now... if we decide to have a second date - meaning that we both actually like one another - I may get a bit nervous for that one. Nothing over the top though. Just more thought goes into preparation.
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10/2/2015 9:36:02 AM |
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dudefreed
Portland, OR
43, joined Sep. 2012
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never nervous cuz hes not a wow factor and ur complacent . if he was a challenge and stimulating, might be a different story
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1/19/2016 11:41:04 PM |
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jjp184
Somerset, NJ
52, joined Jun. 2013
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It's always awkward when the chicks husband comes home
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1/21/2016 10:46:55 AM |
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blurussian
Tarawa Terrace, NC
27, joined Dec. 2015
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I smile a lot if my date is very attractive and tend to stare at his eyes.
Doing this^ makes my dates feel awkward in a good way.
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1/22/2016 1:24:46 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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hard to figure,awkard..in a good way.o well.
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1/22/2016 9:12:00 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Which date?
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2/10/2016 9:13:26 AM |
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sadlsticsienna
AñatuyaNew South Wales
Australia
23, joined Jan. 2016
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My first date ever, the guy said he was hard and I had NO idea
what he meant lol.
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2/10/2016 4:34:58 PM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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to have em tell me no thanx on the doggy style,an i have to be careful not to hurt them,an i did wanna slap her,but we just carefuly stuck to regular as she hollered with pleasure an delite..
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2/11/2016 1:01:15 AM |
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blurussian
Tarawa Terrace, NC
27, joined Dec. 2015
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Sometimes I have a huge fear of kissing a fellow for the first time. Especially, if I'm really digging him and he turns out to be a really shitty kisser-- then, I feel really awkward.
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2/11/2016 1:24:46 AM |
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flyfish77
Conyers, GA
51, joined Jul. 2014
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are you afraid of they might look at you,do you think your a good kisser,an o why..go see the wizard for..courage maybe.
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2/23/2016 7:21:07 AM |
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marriedncheatin
Twin Falls, ID
49, joined Jul. 2012
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I can say I've seem to have decent first dates, may not turn into a second date, but that's ok. Mostly nice decent guys just not my style or didn't float my boat.
I did have a guy lie about his age, I had a feeling he was lying and confronted him.
he was 54 not 45 .
He was dyslexic that's all
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2/23/2016 9:12:27 AM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
67, joined May. 2010
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Most awkward.
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