| 8/22/2015 12:55:47 PM |
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amandabeme
Phoenix, AZ
46, joined Aug. 2014
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this will be break up #5 and the last. i don't know why i always take this pos back. he'll whoo me with money and respect, then after some time it ends and his miserable self comes out. so ready to be single again!
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| 8/22/2015 12:57:57 PM |
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javajunkiejr
Auburndale, FL
41, joined Jan. 2013
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Sounds like you are at a fork in the road, choose your path and stick to it for once..
Yeah, Im blunt as a baseball bat...Not trying to sound crass...
Good luck.. 
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| 8/22/2015 1:22:21 PM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Ahh, if it is breakup #5, you must both be idiots.
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| 8/22/2015 1:35:12 PM |
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pudiitatt
Barstow, CA
50, joined Aug. 2014
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^ talk
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| 8/22/2015 2:04:41 PM |
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plain_jane_doe
Biloxi, MS
30, joined Dec. 2014
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I went through the same thing with my ex, so I understand. I don't fault you for reconciling so many times, at least it was someone you vowed your life to and not just a bf or bd. Only you know when you've had enough and if the marriage is worth fighting for. Just know there's nothing to fight for if he isn't willing to get into the ring with you.
May God bless your union 
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| 8/22/2015 2:37:34 PM |
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helmholtzwatson
Raleigh, NC
50, joined Jun. 2014
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so ready to be single again!
I'm sure it's frustrating...but don't expect dating/single life to be a cakewalk, either.
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| 8/22/2015 3:00:54 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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Oh, u love that life, cause of the money, and I don't call that respect either so after it's all said and done you're staying
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| 8/22/2015 3:14:25 PM |
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cubcougar
Lucerne, CA
62, joined Oct. 2010
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Ahh, if it is breakup #5, you must both be idiots.
just LOOKS .. like idiots, insane or nuts.
If you hate your Dad you will have divorces, affairs and dead children for a future.
If you hate your Mom you will be an addict.
This will continue until he or she ... fixes their Duck Disease where their Dad was a plus perfect sonofab*tch.
Mom .. she was a b*tch and that got into the Duck Disease.
Obama .. he hates his Dad and Mom.
Clinton .. he hates his Dad and Mom.
Bush the Worst ... duhhhh ... he hates his Dad and Mom big time.
hence the future we get.
Or the future you get ... for being who you are.
Want to change the future .. change your earthsuit where the Duck Disease is.
etc ...
etc ...
[Edited 8/22/2015 3:14:48 PM ]
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| 8/22/2015 3:19:45 PM |
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
47, joined Jan. 2012
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this will be break up #5 and the last. i don't know why i always take this pos back. he'll whoo me with money and respect, then after some time it ends and his miserable self comes out. so ready to be single again!
And he's the bad one? You should be ashamed of yourself. 
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| 8/22/2015 4:42:17 PM |
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amandabeme
Phoenix, AZ
46, joined Aug. 2014
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ha ha i should be ashamed. he's my husband we have kids together. i just tried to make it work. but he's so f**king lazy it's revolting. by single i mean stay home with my dogs, i don't want to date.
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| 8/22/2015 5:00:38 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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Can't be all that lazy, he's getting money from somewhere, and u taking it he gotta be working right?
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| 8/22/2015 5:13:24 PM |
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ayemie
Granite Bay, CA
44, joined Jul. 2010
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this will be break up #5 and the last. i don't know why i always take this pos back. he'll whoo me with money and respect, then after some time it ends and his miserable self comes out. so ready to be single again!
i have a co-worker like this.....I quit listening and giving advice. Constant drama. Who I feel sorry for are her kids. Teaching her son that it's ok to treat his future gf/wife like shit. Teaching her daughter that it's acceptable to be treated like shit.
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| 8/22/2015 5:31:46 PM |
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amandabeme
Phoenix, AZ
46, joined Aug. 2014
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wow never f**king mind. btw the kids are long out of the house. bunch of f**king know it alls. lol
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| 8/22/2015 6:36:38 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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I wonder what his side to the story is.?
and op, why are you here?
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| 8/22/2015 7:37:09 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
48, joined Dec. 2014
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Welll stop allowing the piece of shit to come back...he can't if you don't allow it...so you need to check yourself on that one op and see why you keep letting him.....
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| 8/22/2015 8:27:13 PM |
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ayemie
Granite Bay, CA
44, joined Jul. 2010
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wow never f**king mind. btw the kids are long out of the house. bunch of f**king know it alls. lol
i wasn't talking about you. Was talking about my co-worker. Guess I hit a nerve though?
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| 8/22/2015 8:29:12 PM |
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ayemie
Granite Bay, CA
44, joined Jul. 2010
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Welll stop allowing the piece of shit to come back...he can't if you don't allow it...so you need to check yourself on that one op and see why you keep letting him.....
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| 8/22/2015 9:29:50 PM |
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candy0426
Newtown, PA
47, joined Aug. 2014
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one time is a mistake, after that it's a choice.
I'd say that would be correct for most. I've never given a second chance though. Once I say I'm done, it's over.
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| 8/22/2015 10:58:31 PM |
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markjetson
Albuquerque, NM
60, joined Jan. 2013
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Ashley Madison.....huh.
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| 8/22/2015 11:34:59 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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You're stupid. You was stupid tben and you're stupid now. Much too stupid to be anyones companion.
You played yourself. You thought you were playing him for his money and gifts but got played lime a violin.
Break up number 5 just shows the depth of your stupidity. But bcuz your a female everyones gonna take your side and make him out to be the bad guy.
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| 8/22/2015 11:38:04 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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I didn't take her side
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| 8/22/2015 11:42:45 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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wow never f**king mind. btw the kids are long out of the house. bunch of f**king know it alls. lol
There's that nasty attitude that created this mess in the first place. You got a mouth like a sailor and your a poor exampke to your kids of what a women, wife and mom should be. 
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| 8/22/2015 11:49:10 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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I wonder what his side to the story is.?
and op, why are you here?
I'm SURE he would shed much light on her funky, money hungry, irresponsible, over spending, nagging a** tantrums at home.
These ladies would be so quick to think its ok to blame him on her word alone. Her post speaks for itself.
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| 8/22/2015 11:53:09 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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i wasn't talking about you. Was talking about my co-worker. Guess I hit a nerve though?
Exactly! But it took her to lash out at you in order to see that ugly side.
Her post told the whole story.
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| 8/23/2015 12:21:57 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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I didn't take her side
True and I'm kinda surprised. lol And thanks to candy too.
But there have been enough who did and you'll see others before this thread is done. Watch!
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| 8/23/2015 12:23:05 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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Ashley Madison.....huh.
Yeah I know right?
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| 8/23/2015 12:26:35 AM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
54, joined Jan. 2014
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I have a simple rule for this "I don't do reverse". Once is enough, if it didn't work the first time, it won't work.
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| 8/23/2015 2:05:10 AM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009
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You know how to pick em, OPie!
If he's that bad why do you take him back? You must not have enough common sense to wet the bottom of a baby sized thimble.
And now, with that observation, I am off to bed.
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| 8/23/2015 2:13:19 AM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
41, joined Jan. 2014
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I'm sure it's frustrating...but don't expect dating/single life to be a cakewalk, either.
This
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| 8/23/2015 3:06:39 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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wow never f**king mind. btw the kids are long out of the house. bunch of f**king know it alls. lol
See what I mean, when the op had said this, no one had said anything bad to her.
Again...I wonder, specially considering this....what his side to the story is.
maybe she is a raving lunatic and he could only take so much.
Or this is a troll thread, and the whole thing was made up..
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| 8/23/2015 3:44:46 AM |
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ayemie
Granite Bay, CA
44, joined Jul. 2010
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She'll go back to him...some people need drama in their lives, they thrive on it.
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| 8/23/2015 3:47:08 AM |
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cuileann
San Antonio, TX
48, joined Aug. 2015
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I'm sure it's frustrating...but don't expect dating/single life to be a cakewalk, either.
That's true
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| 8/23/2015 5:08:39 AM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
33, joined Jul. 2014
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OP's a dumbass drama queen. 
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| 8/23/2015 6:47:52 AM |
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latinleprekahn
South San Francisco, CA
46, joined Sep. 2014
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wow never f**king mind. btw the kids are long out of the house. bunch of f**king know it alls. lol
You put your business out here for everyone to comment on so don't get an attitude because you don't like what's being said.
Putting an "lol" after calling people "a bunch of f**king know it alls" doesn't soften your words or change their context.
Just because your kids are long out of the house doesn't mean your back and forth drama with this pos hasn't gone unnoticed. I'm sure they have opinions about what their mama is doing with her life.
No matter how old your kids get you'll always be their #1 role model. It's up to you wether you'll be a positive or negative one.
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| 8/23/2015 7:03:22 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Amanda, while you were on split #1,#2,#3 and #4, did you have sex with other guys?
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| 8/23/2015 7:56:15 AM |
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manniblelector
Vancouver, WA
36, joined Apr. 2013
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"Whoo me with money"? You deserve each other.
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| 8/23/2015 9:52:00 AM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
33, joined Jul. 2014
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Amanda, while you were on split #1,#2,#3 and #4, did you have sex with other guys?
Yeah, #5.
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| 8/23/2015 10:04:54 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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I have a simple rule for this "I don't do reverse". Once is enough, if it didn't work the first time, it won't work.
Thats it! Once! And if it didn't work? hasta mañana
But that "I was trying go make it work" excuse was bullshit. You don't make it work by just keep going after his money. By her own admittance thats what she did. How is that making it. Work ALL 5 TIMES?
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| 8/23/2015 10:13:40 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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If he's that bad why do you take him back? You must not have enough common sense to wet the bottom of a baby sized thimble.
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| 8/23/2015 10:23:17 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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See what I mean, when the op had said this, no one had said anything bad to her.
Again...I wonder, specially considering this....what his side to the story is.
maybe she is a raving lunatic and he could only take so much.
If anything it was HE who tried 5 times with her. He's a fool for keep trying with her.
But I'm sure it was HER EGO that told this story in the reverse. How many women would actually admit that they were the fu€ked up one in the relationship and got dumped bcuz of her bad behavior? Only after reading this 1-2 might just to prove me wrong, right?
But how many of you can honestly say you are use to seeing women take responsibility for their fu€k ups, here in the forums? 
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| 8/23/2015 10:25:09 AM |
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pickygirl72
Phelan, CA
45, joined Sep. 2011
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Grows some ball, gain self respect and stop fu cking going back. Grow up!
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| 8/23/2015 10:28:09 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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OP's a dumbass drama queen.
Finally! Can I get an Amen?!?
I saw it from the start. 
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| 8/23/2015 10:41:55 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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You put your business out here for everyone to comment on so don't get an attitude because you don't like what's being said.
Putting an "lol" after calling people "a bunch of f**king know it alls" doesn't soften your words or change their context.
Just because your kids are long out of the house doesn't mean your back and forth drama with this pos hasn't gone unnoticed. I'm sure they have opinions about what their mama is doing with her life.
No matter how old your kids get you'll always be their #1 role model. It's up to you wether you'll be a positive or negative one.
And if she have kinda attitude with ppl in the forum who's opinions SHE came asking for imagine what kinda nasty a** atgitude that she had at home with him? And he's the bad guy in her little story?
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| 8/23/2015 10:45:36 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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Amanda, while you were on split #1,#2,#3 and #4, did you have sex with other guys?
Does she seem like the type that wouldn't? Isn't it obvious she'd do it for the money if nothing else?
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| 8/23/2015 11:11:22 AM |
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thehonestangel
San Antonio, TX
46, joined Feb. 2014
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Are you trying to convince us or yourself? Most people who make a big announcement about leaving someone aren't really leaving they just need a platform to display their pain, it's ok. But only you know the truth. Best of luck to you, you need it.
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| 8/23/2015 11:25:00 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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Its probably just a troll thread....
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| 8/23/2015 1:58:39 PM |
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packersbabe920
Green Bay, WI
50, joined Jul. 2013
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True and I'm kinda surprised. lol And thanks to candy too.
But there have been enough who did and you'll see others before this thread is done. Watch!
u known me long enough, that when u wrong you're wrong
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| 8/23/2015 2:07:34 PM |
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lynyrd80
Wood River, NE
54, joined Jan. 2014
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AMEN
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| 8/23/2015 4:09:16 PM |
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motorcycleman4u
West Jordan, UT
47, joined Jul. 2013
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Pick a new man.
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| 8/23/2015 10:36:38 PM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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Pick a new man.
He needs to get a new HER! Did you actually read her pist? If so, you found nothing strange about it?
Break up #5? her being money hungry? using him? You honestly saw NOTHING disturbing about her behavior?
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| 8/24/2015 7:14:35 AM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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I still thinks its a troll thread.
all made up, because she or he knows the women will side with her, then men not....and start a battle between them.
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| 8/24/2015 9:33:12 AM |
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daneene
Allen Park, MI
51, joined Jan. 2014
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Oh, u love that life, cause of the money, and I don't call that respect either so after it's all said and done you're staying
^^^yup.
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| 8/24/2015 6:15:59 PM |
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l380
Alabaster, AL
43, joined Sep. 2014
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People do only what we let them do to us, op.
1 time, shame on him........
5 times, shame on you.
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| 8/25/2015 3:21:31 AM |
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dr_i_got_answer
Gwynn Oak, MD
49, joined Jun. 2014
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People do only what we let them do to us, op.
1 time, shame on him........
5 times, shame on you.
1380!!! Whats up baby!!!
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| 8/25/2015 6:59:29 AM |
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idliketotalk
Punxsutawney, PA
53, joined Oct. 2013
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Has anyone learned if the OP is hot or not?
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| 9/1/2015 5:10:39 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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this will be break up #5 and the last. i don't know why i always take this pos back. he'll whoo me with money and respect, then after some time it ends and his miserable self comes out. so ready to be single again!
Breakup number #5!!!? What ever happened to the 3 strike rule?
Oh, I know, you must have applied the "Basketball" approach. He had to get his 5 fouls, so he would foul out?
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| 9/1/2015 6:56:49 PM |
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redscorpio15
Katy, TX
39, joined Nov. 2009
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good luck with whatever happens imo money isn't worth it wondering if your a back up plan if he's involved with other women and comes back when it doesnt work out
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| 9/1/2015 8:25:04 PM |
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bumblebee7
Fort Payne, AL
60, joined Apr. 2011
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""""this will be break up #5 and the last. i don't know why i always take this pos back. he'll whoo me with money and respect, then after some time it ends and his miserable self comes out. so ready to be single again!"""
^^^^^translation of thread: this will be break up number 5 and the last. I don't know why I take the pos back, he's woo with me with money, because I stay at home and don't want to work, then after the money runs out...what good is he? I'm ready to bail and find a guy who makes more money.
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| 9/1/2015 9:16:20 PM |
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enigmaathand
Leavittsburg, OH
35, joined Mar. 2013
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Uh oh. Shots fired.... Lol.
Damn, Bumblebee, are you a psychologist?
Your observations are spot on, and you could make a ton of money, as a shrink.
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| 9/1/2015 10:27:37 PM |
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Codya1988
Mankato, MN
27, joined Aug. 2015
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follow your heart i say. do what you think is the right choice for you amd only you.
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